FabSwingers.com forum: Picture-less profiles

By *ennessee Whiskey OP Man
17 weeks ago

London

Thoughts on this... Worth entertaining or just pass them by…?!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

My profile starts off with "do not message me if you have a silhouette profile" yet this is what half of my messages come from. I just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Pass them by

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

"Pass them by"

Fo sho

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
17 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

I message profiles with no pics 🤷🏽‍♂️ Hey, they could be really hot. And you wanna get in there before a crowd starts forming

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By *ennessee Whiskey OP Man
17 weeks ago

London

I dunno, gives the hiding behind the curtains theme to me… 🦎

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"I dunno, gives the hiding behind the curtains theme to me… 🦎"

The great and wonderful wizard of Oz?

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By *ennessee Whiskey OP Man
17 weeks ago

London

"I dunno, gives the hiding behind the curtains theme to me… 🦎

The great and wonderful wizard of Oz?"

More phantom of the opera … 🎭

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Ignore them

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Ignore them, I assume there's a reason for no pics, or they are just lazy.

Why would you want to sexy chat with someone you have no idea what they look like?

Mrs

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
17 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"Thoughts on this... Worth entertaining or just pass them by…?! "

I think they’re hot.

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By *stwoCouple
17 weeks ago

anywhere

We don't believe a lot of the pics are real anyway.

We think you get more from conversation than a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"We don't believe a lot of the pics are real anyway.

We think you get more from conversation than a pic."

You’d get zero conversation from us 😂

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
17 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"We don't believe a lot of the pics are real anyway.

We think you get more from conversation than a pic."

People only show you what they want to show you on here, and that includes photos and text. Profiles on here should always be taken with a pinch of salt until you believe otherwise.

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By * of a kindCouple
17 weeks ago

Hereford/Abergavenny

That’s true, we have met others off here and there pics was nothing like them….

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By *ennessee Whiskey OP Man
17 weeks ago

London

"We don't believe a lot of the pics are real anyway.

We think you get more from conversation than a pic.

You’d get zero conversation from us 😂"

🥊🥊

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By *ennessee Whiskey OP Man
17 weeks ago

London

I just compare it to any regular dating site. Swipe what way on a blank profile… (skip)

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
17 weeks ago

manchester

[Removed by poster at 28/03/25 07:53:44]

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
17 weeks ago

manchester

Fab really missed out with the silhouette pic. It could have gad some fun. Using standard toiled door graphics you could have: male. Female. Male/male. Female/female,

Even edit the graphics a little for TV/Ts

Oh and as for the question, we often pass

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
17 weeks ago

Midlothian

I pass by. I like to get at least a wee hint of a person from their pics; a photo can tell you more than just what someone looks like. Blank profiles also suggest a lack of effort, to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"Pass them by"
you haven’t got any on your profile so does that mean people have to pass you by?

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By *umagain58Man
17 weeks ago

London

I don’t have any pictures now and still have fun meets. I know some don’t like but am lucky others don’t mind. I used to have pictures when joined but found several people using them. One treated a women he met badly so removed. I often get criticism in forums don’t have but lots of others don’t mind. Each to own

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By *issmorganWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I ignore shadows & state that on my bio.

I always think right or wrong, that they have something to hide. Either way, they don't interest me,they can see me, but I have no idea about them.

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By *vaRoseWoman
17 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Just ignore them

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By *omeones GrumpMan
17 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

But I look so good like this!

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By *viatrixWoman
17 weeks ago

Redhill

I am bored now so sometimes I play with them.

Like an orca plays with its food.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Given the number of profiles with clear visuals, why bother actively engaging with those with none?

The site gives plenty of tools to enable folk to give themselves the best chance of getting noticed including photo/video uploads. It also enables you to block incoming mail from those with none.

Why make things harder than they need to be? 🤷‍♂️

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By *anctionedSecretsCouple
17 weeks ago

S. Northants

Our favourites are the pictureless profiles that demand a photo before they will even speak to you.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
17 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"Thoughts on this... Worth entertaining or just pass them by…?! "

Pass

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hard pass. The only reason they're messaging is because you've got pics uploaded so it seems unfair to indulge them

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
17 weeks ago

Niche

Pass.

Not sure what outcome anyone would realistically expect.

If I took down my profile pic it'd be because I wanted peace and quiet.

Quite literally the fab version of

"Keep moving folks. Nothing to see here!"

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
17 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

If their profile has something funny/catching, I’d consider it, but generally no.

When I first started I wasn’t really here for the right reasons (a friend asked me to sign up) so I didn’t add a pic and the amount of messages from males calling me sexy and how much they wanna f*ck me was mental… you have zero idea what I look like, what my body looks like, if I have any kind of personality… it showed me early that women on here are literally a hole for a guy to stick his dick in for a lot of men

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By *ife NinjaMan
17 weeks ago

Dunfermline

It's a no from me 🤓

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

When I was meeting I'd just pass them by. Plenty of people that do have pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

As a female on fab pictures are not needed to get meets. Sure they help up the traffic I guess, but sometimes I like less traffic.

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By *orphia2003Woman
17 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I'll chat with them, but won't meet without first seeing a face pic.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

My profile is how it is to purposely detract people from messaging me

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"As a female on fab pictures are not needed to get meets. Sure they help up the traffic I guess, but sometimes I like less traffic. "

A woman with a pulse will get a meet but only from the bottom of the barrel

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
17 weeks ago

kent

Some years ago we received a message from a pictureless account, claiming to be a single lady. It was a lovely message, and so we replied… turns out, it was indeed a single lady, who was fearsomely smart, nerdy and beautiful, and we spent about a year together before she abruptly vanished as mysteriously as she appeared, leaving us rather confused and somewhat bereft, if only for a while. You just never know who might be hiding behind the silhouette.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"Some years ago we received a message from a pictureless account, claiming to be a single lady. It was a lovely message, and so we replied… turns out, it was indeed a single lady, who was fearsomely smart, nerdy and beautiful, and we spent about a year together before she abruptly vanished as mysteriously as she appeared, leaving us rather confused and somewhat bereft, if only for a while. You just never know who might be hiding behind the silhouette. "

I dare say some amazing people could be hiding behind a silhouette but there’s also amazing people not hiding behind a silhouette

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