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"Nope I don't believe in keeping secrets and not beneficial to a relationship." | |||
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"Nope I don't believe in keeping secrets and not beneficial to a relationship." Got you there Timjackson | |||
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"dont u think its exciting cheeting a little" Because you do you're looking for allies?!! | |||
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"Yes I hv my own secrets n I love them " Do they involve cheating though which the OP is getting at? | |||
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"ur probly wright but i have to cheet is that bad" You don't have to cheat, no one makes you | |||
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"I love it when guys message me asking to meet alone and 'he' won't find out about it. The stupidity of messaging a couple account really makes me laugh. My OH has responded on a few occasions to the 'do you meet alone' question and readily agreed to meet them. It's only when they ask what filthy things are gonna happen, and my OH informs them exactly where he's gonna take them, that we find we are blocked. " Yeah done that before! | |||
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"ur probly wright but i have to cheet is that bad" No one "has to" do anything: a gun isn't being held against your head! You choose to, which is entirely your choice, but please, why the need to seek allies in support of your duplicity?!! | |||
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"ur probly wright but i have to cheet is that bad No one "has to" do anything: a gun isn't being held against your head! You choose to, which is entirely your choice, but please, why the need to seek allies in support of your duplicity?!! " | |||
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"ur all making me feel really bad my wife cheets so y can i" How do you know your wife cheats? So what is good for the goose is good for the gander? I would rather be single than in a relationship based on lies and deceit. | |||
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"Based on my own observations, women who cheat just get on with it, whereas men who cheat moan about it and try to justify themselves. " | |||
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"Based on my own observations, women who cheat just get on with it, whereas men who cheat moan about it and try to justify themselves. " Indeed: annoyingly! | |||
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"wow im getting a battering about this may be i should lie and say im single" No problem being honest and saying you are married but you seem to seek approval of your extra martial affairs. Why not just separate and do what you want? | |||
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"ur all making me feel really bad my wife cheets so y can i" That would suggest that there is something seriously wrong/lacking in your relationship - maybe you should focus on fixing it or going your separate ways - two wrongs don't make a right and if you weren't together neither of you would have to cheat! | |||
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"wow im getting a battering about this may be i should lie and say im single" As if women can't tell: please! | |||
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"wow im getting a battering about this may be i should lie and say im single" what did you expect? A pat on the back and a 'way to go' rally of support! | |||
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"as them if they tell their loved ones the true price of shoes & bags" Hard to keep that a secret when he paying for them | |||
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"as them if they tell their loved ones the true price of shoes & bags" White lies are different from great big whoppers and cheating imo | |||
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"as them if they tell their loved ones the true price of shoes & bags Hard to keep that a secret when he paying for them " | |||
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"as them if they tell their loved ones the true price of shoes & bags Hard to keep that a secret when he paying for them " That as well | |||
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"as them if they tell their loved ones the true price of shoes & bags White lies are different from great big whoppers and cheating imo " | |||
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"wow im getting a battering about this may be i should lie and say im single" Erm, a bit late for that mate! | |||
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"as them if they tell their loved ones the true price of shoes & bags" White lies are different from great big whoppers and cheating imo | |||
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"are they new? no had them for ages " And who believes that? Does my bum look big in this? No of course not darling! | |||
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"are they new? no had them for ages " | |||
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"View indeed is an honoury woman. " I am okay with that | |||
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"If they want to play away from home it's their business not ours " Except he is asking for opinion | |||
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"i do feel bad cheating but i love women" Have you thought of talking to your wife? | |||
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"Or try to justify his actions. " You can't justify what your doing, your a cheat plain and simple | |||
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"yes she wont devorse me cos of kids and buisiness ess so im stuck ste says if i leave she will make me pennyless" So she should | |||
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"yes she wont devorse me cos of kids and buisiness ess so im stuck ste says if i leave she will make me pennyless" Maybe it is time then to move on, cut your losses and be happy! She can't stop you seeing the kids! | |||
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"ur all making me feel really bad my wife cheets so y can i That would suggest that there is something seriously wrong/lacking in your relationship - maybe you should focus on fixing it or going your separate ways - two wrongs don't make a right and if you weren't together neither of you would have to cheat! " exactly what I was going to say. R | |||
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"Research shows women are far better at keeping affairs/secrets than men. So I'm guessing publishing them on a forum is a no go." | |||
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"i just wud love good sex for now " It's would not wud Grrrrrrrrrrrrr | |||
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"i just wud love good sex for now It's would not wud Grrrrrrrrrrrrr " It's cheat not cheet | |||
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"I have no objection to married men/women cheating on here... But to ask an open forum for people to tell their cheating little secrets and ask if they get excited about cheating... "She is doing it so why cant I"?... Please!!! WTF did the OP expect??" Exactly! Not my business if they cheat, I don't meet them, and I'd never start a thread demonising cheats, but why they feel the need to whine about their lot and seek justification is beyond me. | |||
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"yes she wont devorse me cos of kids and buisiness ess so im stuck ste says if i leave she will make me pennyless" I am in this situation , both me and ex live in same house to bring kids up . BUT we both agreed that we could play with others and so we are not cheating . We have got to stage where he looks after children while I go out and vice versa . It's complicated but can be done with massive talking . We can't afford to live separately with 5 kids and sell house etc . Talk to your wife , suggest open marriage so that she is free to play as well , with or without you . It takes so much stress away when you are being " unfaithful" and both can have fun and live in same house to bring children up . Sounds daunting , agreements don't happen overnight and I always tell him I won't leave one domestic disaster for another Also if you can agree that neither will leave family home until kids are grown then in my situation it is win win ... But you need to talk to your wife and be open with her about your needs x Jan x | |||
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"i bet most nawty women on here have loads of secret moment that there partner doesnt know about xx" We have a couples profile that we both use. He knows I have my own profile but he doesn't know the name of it. Sometimes I tell him who I've met... Sometimes I don't..... | |||
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