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By *midnight- OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

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If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be ... and why do you not like it?

Now that you've written it down, do you think you'll take action to implement a change?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
4 weeks ago

North West

I want to be able bodied again.

I think the reason why is obvious.

I can't do anything about it.

Sorry for lowering the mood

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Bigger tits 💜

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Just 'one' thing ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"I want to be able bodied again.

I think the reason why is obvious.

I can't do anything about it.

Sorry for lowering the mood "

If it was within my power, you'd have it.

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By *midnight- OP   Woman
4 weeks ago

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"Just 'one' thing ?"

I mean feel free to do your entire list if you'd like Granny... we'll assume it's in priority order and focus on no. 1

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Nothing, I have no desire to be something I’m not. I’ve accepted who I am and I’m happy with that.

The mr

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By *iviTV/TS
4 weeks ago

London


"Bigger tits 💜"

Honestly, same 🤭

I've thought about it tbh, but the expense combined with how stressful it is to transition openly at the moment puts me off.

I'll just continue to be androgynous over here. 😀

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I would like to change the fact I have mental health problems but seeing as they can't be cured just managed I just have to deal with it

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By *avie65Man
4 weeks ago

In the west.

I wish I could stop forget about time and stop it controlling my life. I’m so used to having to do certain things at a set time, which comes from employment working environments. Oh and feeling guilty if I get up after 8:30am.

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chard

My belly weight, because I used to be thin and it affects my self esteem. I am changing that but progress is slow! Oh for a magic wand! Then I could grant all the wishes here!🧚‍♀️

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"Nothing, I have no desire to be something I’m not. I’ve accepted who I am and I’m happy with that.

The mr "

Accept and grow c'mon .... if you are still you in 20 years time you'll be feeling pretty stunted .... admit it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle


"Just 'one' thing ?

I mean feel free to do your entire list if you'd like Granny... we'll assume it's in priority order and focus on no. 1"

1. I'd change being perfect in every way cos .... well , it's fucking hard to be humble ya know.....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
4 weeks ago

Leeds


"Nothing, I have no desire to be something I’m not. I’ve accepted who I am and I’m happy with that.

The mr

Accept and grow c'mon .... if you are still you in 20 years time you'll be feeling pretty stunted .... admit it"

Accept what ?

I’ve been this way all my life, to be honest I’m a lot more chilled out than I used to be, I’ll be this way in 100 years. Can’t fix fucked 😂

The mr

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By *agerlingMan
4 weeks ago

Leeds

Wish I had more muscle. I am working on that though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Toss up between my height and my face.

Unfortunately, I can't actually change either.

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By *ature male OldhamMan
4 weeks ago

Royton nr Oldham

I've grown and become the person I always aspired to be so No I wouldn't change anything... never been happier...👍

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
4 weeks ago

North West


"I want to be able bodied again.

I think the reason why is obvious.

I can't do anything about it.

Sorry for lowering the mood

If it was within my power, you'd have it."

Thanks, Granny. You're a good egg

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By *osh blokeMan
4 weeks ago

hereford


"Bigger tits 💜"

They look more than fine.

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By *hrills and adventureMan
4 weeks ago

Winchester

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By *ittleJohn5Man
4 weeks ago

Wickham Market

Bigger cock

As this would improve my confidence

And therefore everything else

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By *ikemagic69Man
4 weeks ago

Chorley

They look all good from where I am sitting.. xx

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By *hrills and adventureMan
4 weeks ago

Winchester

There are plenty of things that I don't like about myself. But if I changed them I would no longer be the person I am, and who's to say the changed me would be a better person.

I've accepted who I am and do the best I can. If I could overcome my mental health problems, that would be wonderful, but seeing they have been ever present throughout my life, I'm not sure that'll ever happen.

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By *aizyWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands

I'd like bigger boobs. Never going to happen because I hate operations.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Absolutely nothing. I know who I am, I know my strengths and flaws, I accept my flaws and feel gratitude for my strengths. Keeping these in balance gives me peace, confidence and self assurance. And I know what I look like, some people find me very attractive, some people won't even give me a second look. I invest my time in those who show their appreciation for what I look like and I honestly don't give a rats ass if people don't find me attractive. I'll take the brief case of cash over changing anything about myself.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Bigger tits 💜

They look more than fine. "

They are fine. I don't mind my tits. I just would prefer them slightly bigger.

Just not so much so that I can be bothered with the hassle and cost of surgery.

Most of the things I want to change and can I actively work on or have genuine intent to down the line. The things I want to change but cannot I disregard because there's no point dwelling on the negative when there's nothing to resolve.

Slightly bigger tits was about the only one that doesn't fit in either side and so answers the question 💜

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

my past.

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By *he londonerMan
4 weeks ago

london,Suffolk-Norfolk

I would be more confident, just enough to go to a social of a club

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By *iviTV/TS
4 weeks ago

London


"my past.

"

This combined with your username goes hard 😂 (but also, that's rough bud)

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By *eoBloomsMan
4 weeks ago

Springfield

I assume you mean achievable goals OP ? Currently that would be lose a little weight and read more books, both possible this year I hope.

I'm naturally slim so feel any excess weight and it makes me uncomfortable. I've always been a great reader and don't feel at my best if I'm not reading regularly.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
4 weeks ago

Holibobs

My sciatica

I can't afford any post op recovery time, so I'll keep on plodding on, albeit a little wonky

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
4 weeks ago

Honeysuckle lane


"I assume you mean achievable goals OP ? Currently that would be lose a little weight and read more books, both possible this year I hope.

I'm naturally slim so feel any excess weight and it makes me uncomfortable. I've always been a great reader and don't feel at my best if I'm not reading regularly."

only you know how you feel about your weight but you look fine to me

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By *ittleJohn5Man
4 weeks ago

Wickham Market


"My sciatica

I can't afford any post op recovery time, so I'll keep on plodding on, albeit a little wonky "

Suffering with this too at the moment

So feel you pain

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By *ceKweenWoman
4 weeks ago

Bolton

IF I could wave a magic wand and restore my eyesight (I’m partially sighted) I would. I soooo miss the freedom and spontaneity full vision gives you. Doesn't stop me though, I just have to plan ahead 😉

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By *emorefridaCouple
4 weeks ago

La la land

I'd like to be more confident. Working on it, but it's slow progress

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By *avexxMan
4 weeks ago

cheshire

to regain the sight back in my left eye would be nice,,, oh and a wee bit taller

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By *orphia2003Woman
4 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Wonky brain fix would be nice.

Nice legs, (inherited dad's bad veins)

Not be in physical pain all the time.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
4 weeks ago

Ipswich


"If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be ... and why do you not like it?

Now that you've written it down, do you think you'll take action to implement a change? "

Not unless I have time machine and go back twenty five years

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By *ildTimes.Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester/London

I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
4 weeks ago

North West


"I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪"

I think a minimum of 3" would be required to be up to standard, tbh

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Bedford


"If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be ... and why do you not like it?

Now that you've written it down, do you think you'll take action to implement a change? "

Bigger tits.

Just bought some..

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By *aizyWoman
4 weeks ago

west midlands


"I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪

I think a minimum of 3" would be required to be up to standard, tbh "

Lets round it out to a nice 4"

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

I'd like to not overthink as much. I think that links a lot to being more confident and outgoing rather than worrying about the things that could go wrong as a result and even if they did, being better at handling that and letting it not get to me.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
4 weeks ago

Wirral

I'd like to be less volatile. It would be great to be calmer in work, less prone to quitting at the drop of a hat when I get frustrated.

I am seeing a counsellor about it, but I think she's encouraging me to quit, so it's not quite going as planned!

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By *vaRose43Woman
4 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

If I could I’d have lost some weight and be toned without any risk of sagging skin…. But I’m not so precious about it

Other than that a fully functioning pancreas would be lovely thanks

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By *anilla_SundaeCouple
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I'd like to not rethink everything

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I'd remove that pesky sensory processing disorder. It gets in the way a bit.

Alas, it's a permanent fixture, but I can do a few things to lesson the impact.

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By *ete hMan
4 weeks ago

Penzance

Wouldn't mind a better bum, mines pretty much just a crease at the bottom of my back 😅😭

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 weeks ago

Wales

I'd like to lose 3 stone. Personality wise I'm actually pretty comfortable with being a prick

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By *ools and the brainCouple
4 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

My stupid broken brain

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By *cLovin2Man
4 weeks ago

Reading


"Bigger tits 💜"

Madame, I am an official boob checker for the government, please supply your address so I may come round and officially certify your boobs. 🧐

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By *dam1971Man
4 weeks ago

Bedford

My brain obviously has issues sometimes, but I’d probably most like to lose some weight.

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By *cLovin2Man
4 weeks ago

Reading

Honestly I can't think of anything to change, I like myself

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By *ildTimes.Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪

I think a minimum of 3" would be required to be up to standard, tbh "

No that's the weird ,too tall zone I think 🥪

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By *ildTimes.Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"I'd like to lose 3 stone. Personality wise I'm actually pretty comfortable with being a prick "

Just 3? 🥪

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By *ildTimes.Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪

I think a minimum of 3" would be required to be up to standard, tbh

Lets round it out to a nice 4" "

That's total freak zone, aka gangly , no thanks 🥪

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
4 weeks ago

North West/Sometimes South West


"I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪"

Every inch counts 😂

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 weeks ago

Wales


"I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪"

I'm so glad someone has actually told you that, finally

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By *ildTimes.Man
4 weeks ago

Colchester/London


"I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪

Every inch counts 😂"

Better get me some tom cruise lifters then to compete with those 6"2 men , so near yet so far ..🥪

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
4 weeks ago

North West


"I'd be inclined to say "nothing" but it's recently been drawn to my attention that at 6"1 tall I'm 'sub-optimal' 😂 so maybe an extra inch in height, 🥪

I think a minimum of 3" would be required to be up to standard, tbh

No that's the weird ,too tall zone I think 🥪"

I disagree. 6ft 4ins is *chef's kiss*

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