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Got invited to a 4-man 1 woman gangbang

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London

Very early on in my Fab journey, was invited to a gangbang. It was very close to me, easily accessible but something seems really off to me about it. It seemed....too easy. It was in a iBis hotel & I had the woman's number but she will only communicate via text on the day & to messege her when I'm outside for the room number.

I asked her 3 questions;

• Is this legal?

• What will happen?

• Will it cost anything?

She sent "lol nothing illegal" only. That wasn't enough for me, I was worried I was walking into a trap where I might be hurt or something worse so I passed & respectively declined via text.

I didn't hear back & I think I dodged a bullet. Has anyone dealt with a similar situation?

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By *eroLondonMan
17 weeks ago

Mayfair

I would have offered an immediate "no thank you" at the mere mention of an Ibis™ Hotel. 🩶

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Always trust your gut instinct and red flags

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London


"I would have offered an immediate "no thank you" at the mere mention of an Ibis™ Hotel. 🩶"

I'm brand spanking new to this, is Ibis a warning sign / red flag?

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London


"Always trust your gut instinct and red flags"

Thank you. I instead went to meet my family for a surprise hearty lunch instead & I felt vindicated that I made the right decision as I was tucking into my triple cheese burger.

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

If something doesn't feel right then trust your gut....I'd have declined on those terms.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
17 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"I would have offered an immediate "no thank you" at the mere mention of an Ibis™ Hotel. 🩶"
you snob 😂😂😂

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By *aissez-faireMan
17 weeks ago

Right behind you…. Boo

Lots of schoolboy errors in this scenario.

Obviously, you should have arrived 2 days earlier and surveilled who was coming and going. Also watching for suspicious characters loitering in cars or vans. Then run all faces through recognition software just in case the Russians or North Koreans were involved. Both nations love a honey trap. Finally, you should have scoped the hotel (the word “hotel” is doing a lot of heavy lifting in this part of the post) for all possible ways for a swift exit.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Block Block Block.

Last thing you need is, in a few days time to see three new veri's on her profile, all along the lines of "what delectable filth, almost the perfect gang-bang, if only the fourth fella showed up..."

That'd be like playing the same lottery numbers only to realise you didn't buy a ticket the week yours came up!! 🤣🤣

Jokes aside; gut says you did the right thing.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I would have offered an immediate "no thank you" at the mere mention of an Ibis™ Hotel. 🩶

I'm brand spanking new to this, is Ibis a warning sign / red flag?"

Nah. Dear Nëro is just far too refined for such a low rent establishment 💜

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
17 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Has anyone dealt with a similar situation?"

There was this one time when I was touring with Hearsay...

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London


"Has anyone dealt with a similar situation?

There was this one time when I was touring with Hearsay..."

I believe it!!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

OP I’m curious what red flags triggered your spider sense?

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London


"OP I’m curious what red flags triggered your spider sense? "

The pic 'she' sent me seemed very....I'm not sure, too unrealistic?

It also seemed too easy too - and the location was too close

I also was scared it was some type of humiliation prank & I'd be caught red handed with the £60 'participation fee'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"OP I’m curious what red flags triggered your spider sense?

The pic 'she' sent me seemed very....I'm not sure, too unrealistic?

It also seemed too easy too - and the location was too close

I also was scared it was some type of humiliation prank & I'd be caught red handed with the £60 'participation fee' "
You did well,lots of guys are taken in by this kind of stuff

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London


"OP I’m curious what red flags triggered your spider sense?

The pic 'she' sent me seemed very....I'm not sure, too unrealistic?

Thank you! I guess this is where fear helped me.

It also seemed too easy too - and the location was too close

I also was scared it was some type of humiliation prank & I'd be caught red handed with the £60 'participation fee' You did well,lots of guys are taken in by this kind of stuff"

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
17 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Any financial contribution request would be a breach of the site rules.

It's a swinging site. Not a sex for hire site. Clubs and organised events are obviously different.

Personally if someone wouldn't communicate with me I'd have been quick to hit the block button. It always baffles me that some assume men will turn up at a random location, to meet someone they don't know from Adam or Eve, with no prior contact bar a message or two on the Internet, whilst they'd no doubt never suggest it in a million years to a woman.

Maybe it's just me, but that's a huge nope in my book. 🤷‍♂️

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By *eroLondonMan
17 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I would have offered an immediate "no thank you" at the mere mention of an Ibis™ Hotel. 🩶

I'm brand spanking new to this, is Ibis a warning sign / red flag?

·

Nah. Dear Nëro is just far too refined for such a low rent establishment 💜"

•

Prêy, my favourite gøth-frøck, I would bonk you in a midrange B&B with all the trimmings. 😘

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London


"Any financial contribution request would be a breach of the site rules.

It's a swinging site. Not a sex for hire site. Clubs and organised events are obviously different.

Personally if someone wouldn't communicate with me I'd have been quick to hit the block button. It always baffles me that some assume men will turn up at a random location, to meet someone they don't know from Adam or Eve, with no prior contact bar a message or two on the Internet, whilst they'd no doubt never suggest it in a million years to a woman.

Maybe it's just me, but that's a huge nope in my book. 🤷‍♂️"

Amen to that. It all seemed very fishy.

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By *S74Man
17 weeks ago

Bury

I’ve come to realise over many years that my spider sense when tingling has always been right. Uncannily so, and I don’t just mean with fabs or apps etc.

for example, New Years eve was raining and dull here, i was in my living room and for absolutely no discernible reason went to the front door ( my apartment is on the second floor and the door goes past the bedrooms into the living room) so couldn’t have heard anything and opened the door to see…. Nothing but rain.

I looked down to the left to see someone stealing my neighbours bike with bolt croppers.

He was caught but it was the fact I suddenly knew to go and look.

So OP I think you were right to avoid- your description of the meet seems sketchy

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
17 weeks ago

London


"I’ve come to realise over many years that my spider sense when tingling has always been right. Uncannily so, and I don’t just mean with fabs or apps etc.

for example, New Years eve was raining and dull here, i was in my living room and for absolutely no discernible reason went to the front door ( my apartment is on the second floor and the door goes past the bedrooms into the living room) so couldn’t have heard anything and opened the door to see…. Nothing but rain.

I looked down to the left to see someone stealing my neighbours bike with bolt croppers.

He was caught but it was the fact I suddenly knew to go and look.

So OP I think you were right to avoid- your description of the meet seems sketchy

"

Thank you!!

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By *entleman JayMan
17 weeks ago

Wakefield


"I would have offered an immediate "no thank you" at the mere mention of an Ibis™ Hotel. 🩶"

I think my first meet was at an ibis in Leeds. Met a couple in a bar and they suggested we walk over the road to get a room. Good meet too. 😀

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central

It's typically better to have a real life, realtime conversation with someone, so that you can guage the response to your questions etc. With text, they can think around things, potentially not even answering what you have asked. And you don't necessarily know who it is that's engaging. You've got a higher potential to spot liars, if you have them answering live.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Did she have a Fab profile ?

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