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By *ustcall OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I always take the time to say thank you to anyone who sends me a wink male or female. What’s your opinion?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

Never used to look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do as it is good manners, even if you ain't interested in that person

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By *ustcall OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Never used to look at them"

What if the person is shy?

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By *vaRoseWoman
over a year ago

Ankh-Morpork

I never look at mine sorry

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA


"Never used to look at them

What if the person is shy?"
It used to say on my profile not to wink

If someone was to shy to message me they weren't my kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never used to look at them

What if the person is shy?"

It's a good point, I'm quite shy in certain aspects and really open up when I start chatting. The wink for me is a great ice breaker but I also get the ladies on here would be inundated with many wankings per day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*winkings even.... 🤣🤣

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

We wink back or message if interested.

Ignore if we aren’t.

As we’ve stated in our profile that we delete messages that are vulgar, bland have cock pics or action shots as profile pics, we’ve found people with those types of profile pics wink us now instead, hence why we ignore.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't fab/wink guys even from forum games, I don't want the chat, if I did I'd have messaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wink back or message if interested.

Ignore if we aren’t.

As we’ve stated in our profile that we delete messages that are vulgar, bland have cock pics or action shots as profile pics, we’ve found people with those types of profile pics wink us now instead, hence why we ignore.

K

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That's fair enough especially as they read your profile and still had the need to wink when they could just leave it be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t look at winks we actually say in our profile that sending a wink is a good was of letting us know that you haven’t read our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's a tad OTT

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I do, and I even state on my profile to wink if they're interested because then it at least let's me know that I can message and likely get a reply back.

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By *iker_thorMan
over a year ago

Atherton


"I do, and I even state on my profile to wink if they're interested because then it at least let's me know that I can message and likely get a reply back."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at mine sorry "
thanks for the winks hun was gonna message u but it won't allow me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always check mine and if not interested I send a message either way so they know where they stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally will reply to those I receive, but I'm a guy and don't get too many. I'd imagine couples and single women would need to hire an assistant to reply to all the winks they recieve.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

I send them as a gentle hint to let the profile know I’m interested unless they state they don’t want them. If they wink back, then I’ll message.

What annoys me is those who wink me first, I wink back then send a follow up message which is ignored or sometimes combined with an unsolicited friend request… like why even wink in the first place if you’re going to do that?! 🙄 🤦🏾‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more of a nervous twitch than a wink

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I rarely look at mine. I never send them. I find them superfluous.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I never look...find it a bit pointless really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winking away 😏

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Always check ours.

We’ve had some great meets and made brilliant friends from winks.

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By *etsmingleWoman
over a year ago

Hitchin

I do check mine as someone may have come across me but i haven't come across them. As nice as it would be to reply to all that do wink to be polite when you have a lot of winks its impossible, it takes the fun out of it for me and id need to hire a fabmin assistant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do check mine as someone may have come across me but i haven't come across them. As nice as it would be to reply to all that do wink to be polite when you have a lot of winks its impossible, it takes the fun out of it for me and id need to hire a fabmin assistant lol "

I understand that as well

A fabmin assistant.,.thats a great concept except mine would be extremely bored!! Lol

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

I always look but depending if they have photos or some information on there profile if I reply or not.

It's the same with one word messages. If they want to chat then chat not just say "HI"

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By *igblackchocolateMan
over a year ago

London,Essex &Birms

Yup I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a wink we do

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I get that many it's difficult to keep on top of them 😳 if I have some time to look I do but most go unnoticed sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wink sometimes instead of messaging as most people get the same message so chance my luck with a wink lol

Very rare to get a wink 😂

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I rarely wink or look at my winks.

Perhaps if I did i would get more luck

🤷‍♀️

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I always take the time to say thank you to anyone who sends me a wink male or female. What’s your opinion?"

So do I pal, it’s simply just an English pleasantry

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I’m sorry but I’m calling bullshit!!! All these people who are saying that they don’t look at them!!! Pfffft okay maybe 25% of them are telling the truth, as us mere mortals get a massive dopamine rush from things like winks, likes and comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sorry but I’m calling bullshit!!! All these people who are saying that they don’t look at them!!! Pfffft okay maybe 25% of them are telling the truth, as us mere mortals get a massive dopamine rush from things like winks, likes and comments "
you’ll find that couples and probably single females find them pointless because we get so many of them there just as meaningless as a single word message check the last couple of sentences on our profile

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