FabSwingers.com forum: How looks at winks

By *ustcall OP Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

I always take the time to say thank you to anyone who sends me a wink male or female. What’s your opinion?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Never used to look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I do as it is good manners, even if you ain't interested in that person

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By *ustcall OP Man
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Never used to look at them"

What if the person is shy?

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By *vaRose43Woman
4 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I never look at mine sorry

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"Never used to look at them

What if the person is shy?"
It used to say on my profile not to wink

If someone was to shy to message me they weren't my kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"Never used to look at them

What if the person is shy?"

It's a good point, I'm quite shy in certain aspects and really open up when I start chatting. The wink for me is a great ice breaker but I also get the ladies on here would be inundated with many wankings per day

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

*winkings even.... 🤣🤣

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By *eyond PurityCouple
4 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We wink back or message if interested.

Ignore if we aren’t.

As we’ve stated in our profile that we delete messages that are vulgar, bland have cock pics or action shots as profile pics, we’ve found people with those types of profile pics wink us now instead, hence why we ignore.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
4 weeks ago

Leeds

This is why I don't fab/wink guys even from forum games, I don't want the chat, if I did I'd have messaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"We wink back or message if interested.

Ignore if we aren’t.

That's fair enough especially as they read your profile and still had the need to wink when they could just leave it be

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
4 weeks ago

east lothian

We don’t look at winks we actually say in our profile that sending a wink is a good was of letting us know that you haven’t read our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I think that's a tad OTT

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By *oeBeansMan
4 weeks ago

Derby

I do, and I even state on my profile to wink if they're interested because then it at least let's me know that I can message and likely get a reply back.

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By *iker_thorMan
4 weeks ago

just off Orford Lane, Warrington

"I do, and I even state on my profile to wink if they're interested because then it at least let's me know that I can message and likely get a reply back."

This.

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By *oorman 2025Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

"I never look at mine sorry "
thanks for the winks hun was gonna message u but it won't allow me x

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By *oorman 2025Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

Always check mine and if not interested I send a message either way so they know where they stand

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By *ocketman81Man
4 weeks ago

Ennis

I generally will reply to those I receive, but I'm a guy and don't get too many. I'd imagine couples and single women would need to hire an assistant to reply to all the winks they recieve.

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By *r SensualMan
4 weeks ago

London

I send them as a gentle hint to let the profile know I’m interested unless they state they don’t want them. If they wink back, then I’ll message.

What annoys me is those who wink me first, I wink back then send a follow up message which is ignored or sometimes combined with an unsolicited friend request… like why even wink in the first place if you’re going to do that?! 🙄 🤦🏾‍♂️

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By *iker JackMan
4 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I have more of a nervous twitch than a wink

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

I rarely look at mine. I never send them. I find them superfluous.

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 weeks ago

I never look...find it a bit pointless really.

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By *rSircumsizedMan
4 weeks ago

Risca

Winking away 😏

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By *ecky and justCouple
4 weeks ago

Godalming

Always check ours.

We’ve had some great meets and made brilliant friends from winks.

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By *etsmingleWoman
4 weeks ago

Hitchin

I do check mine as someone may have come across me but i haven't come across them. As nice as it would be to reply to all that do wink to be polite when you have a lot of winks its impossible, it takes the fun out of it for me and id need to hire a fabmin assistant lol

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"I do check mine as someone may have come across me but i haven't come across them. As nice as it would be to reply to all that do wink to be polite when you have a lot of winks its impossible, it takes the fun out of it for me and id need to hire a fabmin assistant lol "

I understand that as well

A fabmin assistant.,.thats a great concept except mine would be extremely bored!! Lol

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

I always look but depending if they have photos or some information on there profile if I reply or not.

It's the same with one word messages. If they want to chat then chat not just say "HI"

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By *igblackchocolateMan
4 weeks ago

London & Essex

Yup I do

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By *ewron2024Couple
4 weeks ago

west mids

Love a wink we do

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By *andTWoman
4 weeks ago

Altrincham

I get that many it's difficult to keep on top of them 😳 if I have some time to look I do but most go unnoticed sadly

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By *antassack889Man
4 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I do wink sometimes instead of messaging as most people get the same message so chance my luck with a wink lol

Very rare to get a wink 😂

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
4 weeks ago

Next Door

I rarely wink or look at my winks.

Perhaps if I did i would get more luck

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
4 weeks ago

Bradford

"I always take the time to say thank you to anyone who sends me a wink male or female. What’s your opinion?"

So do I pal, it’s simply just an English pleasantry

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
4 weeks ago

Bradford

I’m sorry but I’m calling bullshit!!! All these people who are saying that they don’t look at them!!! Pfffft okay maybe 25% of them are telling the truth, as us mere mortals get a massive dopamine rush from things like winks, likes and comments

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By *ast Lothian couple 888Couple
4 weeks ago

east lothian

"I’m sorry but I’m calling bullshit!!! All these people who are saying that they don’t look at them!!! Pfffft okay maybe 25% of them are telling the truth, as us mere mortals get a massive dopamine rush from things like winks, likes and comments "
you’ll find that couples and probably single females find them pointless because we get so many of them there just as meaningless as a single word message check the last couple of sentences on our profile

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