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By *oorman 2025 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

What's peoples preference

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By *arry McKockiner69Man
2 weeks ago

Devon

I prefer bare but safety dictates

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By *kivi Bi MaleMan
2 weeks ago

North Shields

Bare, but you've got to get to know them and build trust. Then when your both comfortable with each other, bare all the way. That goes for 3 sums, but not groups.

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By *reetimeXXXCouple
2 weeks ago

Peterlee

Bare everytime

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By *oorman 2025 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

manchester


"Bare, but you've got to get to know them and build trust. Then when your both comfortable with each other, bare all the way. That goes for 3 sums, but not groups."
totally agree first time is always safe for me til I get to know them

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

L

Would always prefer bare but you can never be too careful in this day and age so always use protection x

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By *eparated_galWoman
2 weeks ago

Salford

I do prefer bare

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By *oorman 2025 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

manchester


"I do prefer bare "
when we meeting haha

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By *ggdrasil66Man
2 weeks ago

Saltdean

I prefer bareback, but no offence intended, would not want to risk it with anyone I met on a swingers website. I’m sure you are all very nice people, and I know you are horny and sexy, but I don’t know where you’ve been!!

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I prefer bare but would be safe initially with someone new

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By *host63Man
2 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Is there any such thing as safe sex

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

L


"Is there any such thing as safe sex"

Yes....abstinence

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I always practiced safe sex, no negotiation

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

What's life without a little risk eh?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I never bareback.

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By *issrachieWoman
2 weeks ago

Hartlepool

BB please hehe xx

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By *oorman 2025 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

manchester


"What's life without a little risk eh?"
a lil bit boring if risk not involved

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By *ikeValentinaCouple
2 weeks ago

London

Bareback of course, but safety is always the priority!

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"What's life without a little risk eh?"

Longer? 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"What's life without a little risk eh?

Longer? 🤣"

But not necessarily better

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By *enniedanCouple
2 weeks ago

March

Bare

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By *oorman 2025 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

manchester


"Bare "
it is a better feeling ain't it

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By *ibberyMan
2 weeks ago

All over

Bare always my preference but if I get a bad feeling I wrap up. I trust my gut and can never be too careful but cannot beat bareback 😈

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By *nnandElleCouple
2 weeks ago

Brackley

Bare is much better - regular testing, inoculations, prep and doxypep needed to minimise risk.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"What's life without a little risk eh?

Longer? 🤣

But not necessarily better"

quantity is its own quality

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

stockport

In an exclusive relationship then bareback definitely

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By *weetest perfectionMan
2 weeks ago

staffs

Much prefer bareback

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By *octor ProdMan
2 weeks ago

Constantly Travelling With Work

Love bareback, but I always play safe

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

Safe sex, if met a few times and we both get tested then can do bareback.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

Safe as you can be.

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By *ocketman81Man
2 weeks ago

Ennis

Obviously bare is amazing but safety trumps

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By *idingawayCouple
1 week ago

Central

bare always feels better. When there's trust there

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By *eenALongTime.....Man
1 week ago

Bristol


"bare always feels better. When there's trust there "

I trust her

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By *igblackchocolateMan
1 week ago

London & Essex

If I have a girlfriend for awhile with trust bare but other than that Protection better safe than sorry

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By *onnachakeaneMan
1 week ago

Dundrum

Arranging first wife share in a Cuck scenario.. our joint kink is bare back / breeding… just need to find the right guy.

But we plan to request recent STI result for first meet.

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By *eaches and Cream 88Couple
1 week ago

Halesowen

Bare

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By *pringbok95Couple
1 week ago

Limavady

Ideal world Bare but it's safety for us

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By *hartlonHMan
1 week ago

Blackheath

Gotta be bare

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By *dfabMan
1 week ago

Dunboyne

Pill doesn't suit wife so always sheathed unfortunately

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By *nallover112Man
1 week ago

wolves

Bareback just the tip watching it go in and out then slide it in deep when she least expects it

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By *orny salesmanMan
1 week ago

Preston

Bare feels so much better but safe with meets unless we really know each other's history

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By *haneleviMan
1 week ago

Kidderminster

Bare is best. Happy with either though !

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By *rubleCouple
1 week ago

Wokingham


"What's life without a little risk eh?

Longer? 🤣

But not necessarily better"

Not necessarily longer either. Philosophy you don’t know when you’re going to go

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By *im le2Man
1 week ago

AYLESTONE

In my day we didn't have the access to condoms like we do now so I was trained to take it BB it's the best feeling ever. But now it's only a couple of really good mates I would let them go BB because we always get tested together so know if we are clean.

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By *host63Man
1 week ago

Bedfont Feltham

I think the only safe swz is if you are regularly tested

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By *azmar62Couple
1 week ago

Hinckley

Both. We judge each meet on its own merits.

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By *jh59Man
1 week ago

Stoke Golding

Bareback

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By *oughmanMan
1 week ago

Sunderland

Is like to try bare, but play safe.

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By *ripfillMan
1 week ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Safe …! every time - never bareback unless that person becomes an FWB.

Once trust is established then great … take full advantage of non condom use - that’s the benefit of having a Vasectomy surely ! ?

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By *idewayscontrolMan
1 week ago

Exeter

Bareback when requested otherwise safe.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
1 week ago

Reading

Only safe sex for me unless we are monogamous and that’s unlikely

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By *ilva69Man
1 week ago

stockport

Bareback for me

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By *eparated_galWoman
1 week ago

Salford

Bare is my preference

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By *igblackchocolateMan
1 week ago

London & Essex

Bareback feels better but better to be safe and sorry gotta wear a helmet 🪖 when going to war

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By *orknmindy21Couple
1 week ago

Newtownards

We love bareback with our bull his cum round my cock when I reclaim the mrs absolutely horny as fuck

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By *ypersoonMan
1 week ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

Safe but will go bare when the trust is there

Excuse my rhyming but that was too punny...

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By *ritguytoMan
1 week ago

Flitwick

Bareback for me, personal choice, but the only way I play. Love the feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I do not play Russian Roulette.

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By *riel13Woman
1 week ago

Northampton

Safe

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By *idingawayCouple
5 days ago

Central

bare with trusted friends

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By *igblackchocolateMan
5 days ago

London & Essex

Better safe than sorry 🤓🤓

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By *azrich87Man
5 days ago

kings lynn

I go bare with certain meets

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By *ynamite500Man
5 days ago

Angus


"I do not play Russian Roulette.

"

Spins the barrel...

"Mau!"... "Di di mau!".... Smiles and says.." one shot"😢

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By *ommyone99Couple
5 days ago

liverpool

bareback enjoy it

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By *urves and HeelsWoman
5 days ago

Dumbarton

Bare with regulars

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By *ommyone99Couple
5 days ago

liverpool

bareback enjoy it

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By *odgerMooreMan
5 days ago

Up Your Frock!

1st time always safe.. if it became a regular thing with trust then id consider bare

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By *arialoueWoman
5 days ago

bradford

Safe sex when with a stranger or not regular person

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By *antsGerfMan
5 days ago

Basingstoke

Much prefer bare

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By *opfun500Man
5 days ago

dublin ireland

Safety first but bareback is the best

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By *eparated_galWoman
5 days ago

Salford

Bare always feels better

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By *asked_ebonyTV/TS
5 days ago

London & Brum

Bareback if it's a trusted regular otherwise safe sex.

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By *ung nine inchMan
5 days ago

leeds

First meet always condom

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By *hadow KingsCouple (MM)
5 days ago

Salford

If she's fit with low milage, sure

Fucked a law uni masters student in her dorm last week. Fresh off the boat from Nigeria. Good pussy

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By *idingawayCouple
4 days ago

Central

bare feels so much better for me. and there's something for my cuck too

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By *pthillMan
4 days ago

st shithole

Safe,, anyone that bare backs randoms is a fucking idiot

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By *own to earth danMan
4 days ago

Maidstone

I have had the snip and I have always preferred bareback I am also sti checked regularly.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
4 days ago

Colchester

Safe, always. No transmission of fluids and that includes kissing strangers. I did kiss a non-stranger once but we had both exchanged test reports and were both clear.

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By *ert999400Man
4 days ago

Glasgow/Edinburgh/Cardiff


"Bare, but you've got to get to know them and build trust. Then when your both comfortable with each other, bare all the way. That goes for 3 sums, but not groups."

Any o e that suggests bareback needs testing both in the head and between the legs. It's a hook up site, be safe folk double bag to avoid being sad.

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 days ago

L

These threads are always useful...

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By *ACOLCouple
4 days ago

Limerick


"These threads are always useful..."

Not sure if we are on the same page, but I remember once someone told me to use this type of post to flag profiles that don't have the same values as ourselfs, and I couldn't agree more. 😅

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 days ago

L


"These threads are always useful...

Not sure if we are on the same page, but I remember once someone told me to use this type of post to flag profiles that don't have the same values as ourselfs, and I couldn't agree more. 😅"

That's what I meant

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By *anny34500Man
4 days ago

Luton

Love bare fucking

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
4 days ago

Worcestershire

Bare back is kept for between us

Everyone else is safe fun

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By *ustinMan
4 days ago

near chester

Always bare

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
4 days ago

Bedford

Once everything is washed cleansed, steralised and lubed bareback is most pleasurable, condoms handy when requested though.

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By *elboy1978Man
4 days ago

Jarrow

Both

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By *icemember7Man
4 days ago

Worcester

I must of had almost a hundred meets off here and other sites, and can never remember even once being asked to put on a condom.

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By *oml and mwgcCouple
4 days ago

Birstall

Always safe sex when swinging.

Bare with my husband.

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By *avie65Man
4 days ago

In the west.


"I must of had almost a hundred meets off here and other sites, and can never remember even once being asked to put on a condom."

But will you have many more!

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By *jh59Man
4 days ago

Stoke Golding

Always bareback

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
4 days ago

Gloucester

Bare is preferable,

Can’t beat that feeling especially when they finish in you.

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By *hirleyMan
4 days ago

somewhere

Bareback, always.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
4 days ago

Hull

Well my Cock says bareback but my brain says safe .considering my brain is in my cock its bareback !!!!

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By *layfullsamMan
4 days ago

Solihull

Sadly preference and reality are two different things

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
4 days ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We play bare

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By *orbidden eastMan
4 days ago

london dodging electric scooters

Of course bareback would be great, but you have to be safe right

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By *orny PTMan
4 days ago

Peterborough


"What's life without a little risk eh?"
continuous

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 days ago

little house on the praire

I used to love threads like this when i was meeting. You could quickly see who you would and wouldn't be compatible with. Good to see people being honest

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
4 days ago

longeaton,ng10

Bare back always.

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By *pringbok95Couple
4 days ago

Limavady


"bare feels so much better for me. and there's something for my cuck too "

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By *andTWoman
4 days ago

Altrincham

Me and FB were tested before going BB because hubby likes to clean up afterwards

😈

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By *ruceyyMan
4 days ago

London

Bare is obviously better sensation wise.

But if they're a stranger and you have no idea if you can trust 'they are clean' - wrap up, more foreplay, boom

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By *rowneyedgirlWoman
4 days ago

Central belt

Bare is better, but that's just with hubby. Safe sex only for any meets x

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 days ago

Bristol

We all love and prefer it bare, let’s be honest, but playing safe is always prudent

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By *urvelover87Man
4 days ago

London

Bare just feels better...however I am very paranoid about STI so I only play bare with trusted (and regularly tested) ladies.

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By *antsOffMan
3 days ago

Reading

Safe sex always or nothing.

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By *att71Man
3 days ago

Bristol

Bare or safe is good but that is not my choice it is the hoice of the meet

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By *elshlad85Man
3 days ago

Wrexham

Bare definitely

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By *uga40Man
3 days ago

Hemel Hempstead

Bareback

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By *ynamicnatureMan
3 days ago

Doncaster

Unless with a long term partner, safe sex all the way

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By *jekimMan
3 days ago

Wigan

Bare but only if I know she's clean

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