FabSwingers.com forum: Would you have sex with your friend?

By *hagTonight OP Man
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I saw a fun question and it was if one could fuck their friend. I would say that there are many things

taking into consideration when thinking of doing it like, the risks, but what about the benefits, lets talk about them for a bit.

The biggest benefit is that you already know each other and it could translate into the bedroom and you understand each other better and also another good benefit of it is that you already know each other so you dont have to look for someone else to have sex with.

That got me thinking, would you have sex with your friend and if they asked you, would you say yes? Have you done it, did it end well and are you still doing it?

I havent done it yet, but yes, if they asked me I would do it too

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
4 weeks ago

furnace

I’ve been fucking a friend for over 10 years

And it’s been wonderful

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By *it4uMan
4 weeks ago

Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France

Only a female friend.

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By *azzler2Man
4 weeks ago

halifax

I fuck mates wife in the past and mates gf so I have no problem if I got the chance to fuck any guys wife or gf

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

No. For me friends and those I have sex with are very different and I'd like to keep it that way.

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By *oveandfastWoman
4 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

I have done in the past and it ruined everything, so now I’ll just stick to d*unken snogging on a night out 😂

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
4 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Depends - Officially my policy is to NOT fuck friends. And I have a lot of female friends.

But none of them are particularly attractive

If they were, I would’ve made a move on them on sight

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By *unover40Couple
4 weeks ago

yeovil

We generally keep the two things separate, however a good friend of mine has sex with my wife

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

I have a lot of blurry boundaries between most of my friends and sex. So I'd say yes.

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By *ewtfaceMan
4 weeks ago

Bracknell

I've got a friend I'd love to get my mucky paws on ~ but she seems happily married and non-swingy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

I did it in the past but I absolutely wouldn't do it now, as friends are like gold dust and it's not worth impacts that are negative

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By *ellinever70Woman
4 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I have male aquaintances rather than friends

I wouldn't have sex with any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Nope!

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By *andSxxCouple
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

With friends yes. But not with colleagues.

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By *oneyBee200Woman
4 weeks ago

Kent

No! Friends are just that.

Now fwb is a different story. That starts off as sex and the friendship grows

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By *illy IdolMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

"I fuck mates wife in the past and mates gf so I have no problem if I got the chance to fuck any guys wife or gf"

We all need a friend like you🫠🫶

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By *oorman 2025Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

I've fucked a few friends of mine in the past but we spoke about it before anything happened and agreed it would stop if feelings got involved

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't, I don't find any of them sexually attractive

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
4 weeks ago

Next Door

I have my friends who I wouldn't cross that line with and then I have fwb who I will fuck.

It's a fune line and would cross it

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

Can't say I haven't thought about it. And given the opportunity I probably would. But I wouldn't initiate it.

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By *an in kiltMan
4 weeks ago

South Essex

Fantasy, yes. Reality, no!

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By *ansoffateMan
4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It's a very interesting question for me this one, as it's the opposite scenario I find peculiar and always have. Why would I be more inclined to fuck someone who is a stranger or I barely know?

I desire my sexual partners to be friends. So yes I have. Honestly, I think the fear it may change things or ruin a relationship is a bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy. It's more to do with a person's beliefs about sex and if it has some relational meaning. e.g. an indicator of commitment.

The great thing about friends is, even if you don't already know these things about each other beliefs and values - you have the platform from which to discuss them openly.

I think the 'risk' is you have sex with someone you barely know develop the feelies for each other and then you subsequently find out you don't like each other.

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

I'm generally only attracted to someone when there's a level of friendship there so yes? In a way.

Friendships are far more important to me than fucking though. I wouldn't want to mess up a friendship for a few minutes of fun. Done it before, regret it.

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By *oorman 2025Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

"I'm generally only attracted to someone when there's a level of friendship there so yes? In a way.

Friendships are far more important to me than fucking though. I wouldn't want to mess up a friendship for a few minutes of fun. Done it before, regret it."
I agree with you there as in if it was a really close friend I'd rather keep them as a friend

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By *arry McKockiner69Man
4 weeks ago

Devon

You need to have friends for that

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
4 weeks ago

Someplace

No. I did once with a friend and they kept on expecting it and eventually developed feelings. Wouldn't do it again

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By *eccaandJamesCouple
4 weeks ago

Henley & Manchester

I've had several with a (girl) friend.

It's great as we trust each other

So it makes the sense more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Did it before and still get on well and been doing it with my bestie for a few years now and its the best decision we ever made as we're not exclusive and know our boundaries

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By *ongAndThick123Man
4 weeks ago

Leeds

99% of my friends NO. Definitely not. Most of my friend I’ve never thought of in that way, and never would.

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By *ivilised matureMan
4 weeks ago

Barnes mostly

Would depend on the friend and what our relationship was like but I would

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Depends on the friend.

Do we have similar views on relationships and exclusivity and sex?

If so and there's a mutual attraction, fuck it why not? If they're not going to be able to deal with the way I treat sex, lets just keep it platonic 💜

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By *hagTonight OP Man
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I’ve been fucking a friend for over 10 years

And it’s been wonderful "
That is good

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By *ansoffateMan
4 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Depends on the friend.

Do we have similar views on relationships and exclusivity and sex?

If so and there's a mutual attraction, fuck it why not? If they're not going to be able to deal with the way I treat sex, lets just keep it platonic 💜"

^This^

I think sometimes a black or white approach to sexual attraction falls really short of reality.

I've had friends in my life where the attraction surfaces strongly but for short periods. Usually because the range of our sexuality only overlaps at a few points.

Another friend, there's a broad sexual compatibility and intimacy, but we have starkly different views on exclusivity. She's only interested sexually when I am not nesting with a partner.

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By *midnight-Woman
4 weeks ago

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Unlikely as everything eventually changes overtime and I'd hate to lose a friend because we'd fucked and then got bored or resentful

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By *hagTonight OP Man
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"We generally keep the two things separate, however a good friend of mine has sex with my wife"
Hi funover, that is good to keep the two things separate too

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By *ruitysparkleWoman
4 weeks ago

Alnwick

I have a friend of over 20 years and about 6 years ago I was at hers and we got d*unk together. We ended up in bed, naked then we started kissing then before I knew it I was going down on her and she was loving it. She then suddenly said omg shhhhh you might wake the kids I dont want them to see us like this.

Bad heads in the morning and we never talked about it again lol

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By *aked Ch3fMan
4 weeks ago

brighton

Definitely would

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By *exymarvelMan
4 weeks ago

cardiff

As long as there was clear rules like no string etc beforehand

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By *ea monkeyMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Depends on the friend.

Do we have similar views on relationships and exclusivity and sex?

If so and there's a mutual attraction, fuck it why not? If they're not going to be able to deal with the way I treat sex, lets just keep it platonic 💜"

This is pretty much my approach.

I enjoy having a fluid relationship with people, nothing is off the table and sexual attraction can develop or wane. If they’re on the same page then it only makes the friendship better

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
4 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Depends on the friend.

Do we have similar views on relationships and exclusivity and sex?

If so and there's a mutual attraction, fuck it why not? If they're not going to be able to deal with the way I treat sex, lets just keep it platonic 💜

This is pretty much my approach.

I enjoy having a fluid relationship with people, nothing is off the table and sexual attraction can develop or wane. If they’re on the same page then it only makes the friendship better"

This is how we discovered fab and got back into the scene, through friends. The sexual attraction burned hot then fizzled over time, but the friendship wasn’t affected, if anything it was strengthened as we now have a deeper understanding of each other. It very much depends on the friend and clear communication.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Do it regularly

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 weeks ago

A friend with benefits...absolutely.

A friend in general....no x

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
4 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

No. Surely they then become FWB.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
4 weeks ago

Cannock

My best friend is my ex. We could and it would be insane, we dated for 27 years, we know exactly how to satisfy each other in seconds.

It would be very very weird and awkward though, we haven't had any sexual attraction for 18 months and we're better friends for it.

Paige, my friend from the vape shop who's called me an inspiration? Definitely!

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By *avie65Man
4 weeks ago

In the west.

I did. She was a friend from work, she had left the place though. We got together just at the start of Lockdown and got very intense very quickly then because of other factors it ended very quickly and not very nicely for either of us. Never again, friends should only be friends.

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By *igfellaWYorksMan
4 weeks ago

Castleford

I have in the past,would depend on the type of friendship going forward! Friends I’ve met through this lifestyle absolutely, someone that I’ve known most of my life and grown up with, never again! I have one really good friend,we were always there for each other and got on like a house on fire.

One night we were both a little merry,as we often used to go out drinking together etc and we ended up in bed! The sex was phenomenal, it happened a few more times, but then she met someone, it didn’t last long but she ended up with child, I don’t know whether it was becoming a mum that changed her, the realisation that we’d gone further than we ever thought we would or a combination of the two, but our friendship never really stayed the same.

We still speak nearly twenty years on but not like we used to.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
4 weeks ago

Coventry

Depends on friend to be fair. And I'm assuming we're talking vanilla freinds, not fab freinds. I/we have had encounters with freinds. I'm probably not preaching to the converted on here. Because I know for me sex can just be a normal and healthy expression of love and care, as well as fun and also meaningful. Fun and even meaningful sex is not just the preserver of romantic relationships. It's just something special thats nice to share with the right people. It just has to feel right and you need that trust/knowledge they can handle it in a mature adult rationalisation. Hence why it's only somewhere you do with the right freinds and you know your friends, you'll know if it's right.

Many years when I was single I stayed over at my best school freinds house. It was a one bed flat so naturally slept in her bed with her. She knew I slept naked, she sleeps naked and so she said just be naked. She is a lesbian, but we were always very close and we got carried away with each other. It was fun and it was just lovely to share. But a complete one off. We tried it, enjoyed it, it was of the moment. Ultimately penis' aren't her cup of tea. The sharing of that intimacy was beautiful but alas in the end we couldn't fully transgress biology and core sexuallity. What was really nice was it didn't change our friendship or made things weird. We woke up in bed the next day just as things have always been. To be fair I know her well and we've always been open about each others sex lives. She was the only freind who knew I was a swinger and went to clubs and she herself moved in kink circles. So I didn't see it as a threat to our friendship, if I did I wouldn't have gone there. The friendship is far more important than the sex. I only want sex with freinds when it's an extension of that friendship.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

With a vanilla friend no. When I was younger I slept with a work friend (we had stopped working together at that time) and it kinda ruined the friendship and now I'd avoid it. Was a shame as we had been close for a number of years. But friends made within the lifestyle, sure! I have lots of friends I've met swinging that I've had sex with.

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By *eccaandJamesCouple
4 weeks ago

Henley & Manchester

"A friend with benefits...absolutely.

A friend in general....no x"

Can we be friends ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 weeks ago

"A friend with benefits...absolutely.

A friend in general....no x

Can we be friends ?

Bx"

What kind of friend?

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By *eanRMan
4 weeks ago

ballymun

Yes I would

Yes I’ve done it

Not currently as they live too far away

There’s 2 presently that if they asked I most definitely would

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By *anilla_SundaeCouple
4 weeks ago

Aberdeen

No, friends are friends. I wouldn't cross that boundary and potentially ruin the friendship.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"No. For me friends and those I have sex with are very different and I'd like to keep it that way. "
Hi coyote, yes, it is good to keep it seperate that way too

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

No. They're a friend for a reason. If I wanted to sleep with a woman she's not "just a friend", either she's a friend with benefits, fuck buddy, or my partner. If the distinction is simply "friend", then she's not someone I try to fuck, even if she's objectively attractive. And if she showed interest in me then I would need to lay down boundaries and make sure it was no longer "just a friendship". And if I found a relationship with someone else, I will have to cut contact with that person.

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By *ea monkeyMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"No. They're a friend for a reason. If I wanted to sleep with a woman she's not "just a friend", either she's a friend with benefits, fuck buddy, or my partner. If the distinction is simply "friend", then she's not someone I try to fuck, even if she's objectively attractive. And if she showed interest in me then I would need to lay down boundaries and make sure it was no longer "just a friendship". And if I found a relationship with someone else, I will have to cut contact with that person."

You cut contact with people you’ve had sex with when you’re in a relationship?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
4 weeks ago

Holibobs

"No! Friends are just that.

Now fwb is a different story. That starts off as sex and the friendship grows

This

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By *orbidden eastMan
4 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

"I've fucked a few friends of mine in the past but we spoke about it before anything happened and agreed it would stop if feelings got involved "

This and both have to have that understanding and and it could be quite fun 😁

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By *iviTV/TS
4 weeks ago

London

I have a number of kinky minded friends who aren't currently fwb, I'd definitely consider fucking them if it went in that direction (especially at a party or something), but it's best to be sure your on the same page to avoid messiness...

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By *hagTonight OP Man
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"Depends on friend to be fair. And I'm assuming we're talking vanilla freinds, not fab freinds. I/we have had encounters with freinds. I'm probably not preaching to the converted on here. Because I know for me sex can just be a normal and healthy expression of love and care, as well as fun and also meaningful. Fun and even meaningful sex is not just the preserver of romantic relationships. It's just something special thats nice to share with the right people. It just has to feel right and you need that trust/knowledge they can handle it in a mature adult rationalisation. Hence why it's only somewhere you do with the right freinds and you know your friends, you'll know if it's right.

Mr"
Hi misfits, yes, you are right there, it also depends on the friend, yes, we are talking more about vanilla friends, yes the friendship is far more important than the sex too

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By *osh blokeMan
4 weeks ago

hereford

No, never...never again. It's not worth it if they're a true friend.....

... I'll explain....

My best friend from the age of 3 was Cheryl or chez as I called her. We went to playschool together where we met and were inseparable. Despite going to different schools and unis we always talked and we're always close. Even though as we both grew up she developed into a absolute stunneri never saw her that way because she was chez to me. Us and our partners became part of a wider friend circle and we'd often socialise together had a child etc and grew up. Chef and my sons mummy became close also, you could say best friends. My ex was there for chez when her and Her bf broke up (we both were, but women tend to go to women for comfort). Likewise when my partner and I went through a rough patch chez was there for us. I'd had to move out of my home and inspire of my efforts it seemed there was no going back. I was devastated and heartbroken. One afternoon, chez called me and asked if I was OK and if I fancied a drink on her lunch break (her shift meant lunch was 19.30) which i accepted. We had a drink and another and then copious more as I poured my heart out. We ended up back at chef's parents house where she had returned after her own break up 6 months or so previous. We always slept together from kids to uni students and nothing ever happened because I was me and she was Chez. (Hope that makes sense...if you know, you know).

However this time it did. Nothing was planned, it just happened. Remember waking up with chef's arm around my waist and hugging my chest. Of course I was hard, I'm a bloke. I rolled over and kissed her. Honestly it felt right at the time and one thing lead to another. It wasn't shit sex either, it was intense probably helped by the fact her parents were in the next room so we had to keep the noise down making it even more so sensual.

In the morning I didn't feel regret but I did feel weird. We both thought it wasn't the right thing to have done buti felt and suspect chez did also I was glad we did.

I was walking back to mine that morning past my house that I'd moved out from. It was queer timing but my phone rang and it was my partner literally asking if I wanted to go round and sort things out. Of course I did, it was family.

We talked for a while and got everything off our chests that had caused us issues and both agreed that we would give it another try.

I had to tell her though. We had just had an honest conversation and I didn't want anything holding us back. Yep, she went mad (understandable). We did stay together eventually for a number of years but I never spoke to chez again the same way I had before. The entire friendship had been ruined.

So don't do it guys!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

You cut contact with people you’ve had sex with when you’re in a relationship? "

Yes, because why am I going to maintain contact with a person I've been inside while I'm in relationship? Even if the person I have a relationship isn't insecure it's still out of respect of that person that I don't maintain any form of contact with anyone I've been sexually involved with. I would communicate that boundary with anyone I'm sexually involved with so they're aware of what to expect when I get into a relationship. They're more than happy to respect that boundary and more than happy to reconnect should I find myself single again (though preferably I'd rather that relationship last forever)

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By *samyhotwifeWoman
4 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes I definitely would

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
4 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If someone is already a friend I would have all ready friendzoned them and not see them in a sexual way

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By *urvelover87Man
4 weeks ago

London

Not with very close friends, those I've known since childhood, as I see them more like sisters than potential partners. But the friends I made later on in adult life? Definitely. Love the fwb dynamic.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I have a lot of blurry boundaries between most of my friends and sex. So I'd say yes."
Hi feltcute, that is good you have blurry boundaries about it too

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By *isskxxyvWoman
4 weeks ago

Manchester

I have, we were d*unk, it included strawberries, I still love her dearly

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

"I have a lot of blurry boundaries between most of my friends and sex. So I'd say yes.Hi feltcute, that is good you have blurry boundaries about it too

Is it??? Does that mean all my friends are actually FWBs?? Are all my relationships based around our sexual desire for each other? How much of it is sex and how much of it is friendship?

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By *uffneck80Man
4 weeks ago

Eastbourne

I have done, and it completely fxcked everything up in the end. It’s just a mixture that doesn’t blend well

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
4 weeks ago

kent

In the past, no. I’ve had the chance with two different friends and with both I backed away. Neither are friends with me now. Maybe if we had of fucked we’d still be talking, who knows. I probably would now. Older, more mature, less likely for it to be weird afterwards.

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By *entleman JayMan
4 weeks ago

Wakefield

I met my best friend here on Fab. We friend zoned each other from the start. I’d never cross the line with her as I know it would go horribly wrong very quickly. We’ve done some great things together and been on holidays and weekends away.

Why would i throw all that away for sex?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Absolutely not - male or female (not that I really have any day to day friends in real life)!

My friendships just don't function anything close to that kind of relationship, and to even attempt it would damage the dynamic irreparably.

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By *lynJMan
4 weeks ago

Morden

I had sex with someone who became a friend. Does that count?

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By *otguy555Man
4 weeks ago

Bristol

I had sex with my best friend who is a woman. We want to school together and we were d*unk about 10 years ago and we had sex .we are still best friends and nothing has changed

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By *hagTonight OP Man
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonight OP Man
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I have a lot of blurry boundaries between most of my friends and sex. So I'd say yes.Hi feltcute, that is good you have blurry boundaries about it too

Is it??? Does that mean all my friends are actually FWBs?? Are all my relationships based around our sexual desire for each other? How much of it is sex and how much of it is friendship?"
Yes, it depends how you see it. I would say that yes, they are that to a certain degree. I would say that with the sex and friendship is a mix of it too

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By *rdenites2Couple
4 weeks ago

Leicestershire

If you were to, would they still be classed as a friend?

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By *kguy4444Man
4 weeks ago

Wales

Generally we stay away from friends but I have two acquaintances who used to be good mates when we played rugby together and another mate from school days, who L went with before we met. A turn on for me but can be awkward, especially when you bump into all three at a wedding!

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
4 weeks ago

north

Some friends. Yes. Some friends. No. Depends on the type of friendship. I have done it a few times and sometimes it has ruined it. Sometimes it’s made the friendship better.

Sometime I’ve become friends with people I’ve fucked and the friendship has gotten stronger.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

It doesn't surprise me the number of people who have the mentality to see any potential opportunity to sleep with someone they find attractive enough regardless if they're friends. Same kind of mentality that would exploit a friend breaking up with their partner and in swoops the friend to console them and try to work an angle to sleep with them.

That's some predatory behaviour...

Certainly seems like a number of people paid the price for lacking self control and failing to respect friendship dynamics. I can bet the feelings are not mutual for a lot of these friends they would sleep with.

Smh 😑

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
4 weeks ago

London

No, we've got a couple friend who have been trying for years. Got very, very close a few times but it's almost better to have the tension without doing it lol

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By *umlover30sWoman
4 weeks ago

Burgess Hill

I have had sex with friends in the past - it just happens like that sometimes!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Sometimes the people I have sex with end up turning into friends. Does that count?

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By *ackformore100Man
4 weeks ago

Tin town

I said yes to one and it didn't end well and I said no to one and it didn't end well. There's a lesson in there.

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By *aftarse59Man
4 weeks ago

workington

"Depends - Officially my policy is to NOT fuck friends. And I have a lot of female friends.

But none of them are particularly attractive

If they were, I would’ve made a move on them on sight"

Bloody hell what a charmer!

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By *ggdrasil66Man
4 weeks ago

Saltdean

Existing friends, especially those I’ve known for a long time? No! Because if you cross that line, then when things inevitably do go wrong, you haven’t just lost a lover, you have also lost a friend. It’s just not worth taking the risk…

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By *RSTCouple
4 weeks ago

S. Northants

"I saw a fun question and it was if one could fuck their friend. I would say that there are many things

taking into consideration when thinking of doing it like, the risks, but what about the benefits, lets talk about them for a bit.

That got me thinking, would you have sex with your friend and if they asked you, would you say yes? Have you done it, did it end well and are you still doing it?

I havent done it yet, but yes, if they asked me I would do it too

Had lots of sex with my best friend... Shame she now has a partner who isn't into the lifestyle.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

I wish these fuck-me-friends would just show up already

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I wish these fuck-me-friends would just show up already

Sorry, busy working today. 🫥

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By *wingingphil69Man
4 weeks ago

castleford

Yes with a few of my friends both male and female 😁😁

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

"I wish these fuck-me-friends would just show up already

Sorry, busy working today. 🫥"

So disappointing.

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By *ergus1622Man
4 weeks ago

Dundee

I would like that if it's a fab friend but not a normal Friend.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"So disappointing."

I hear that a lot.

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By *riel13Woman
4 weeks ago

Northampton

I have friends I have sex with

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By *un guy300Man
4 weeks ago

Swansea

Why not

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By *lubchuckerMan
4 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Depends which friend

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By *bione_1Man
4 weeks ago

Broxbourne

Friend with benefits ?

Could be bit awkward but depends on the friend .

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By *ovefist84Man
4 weeks ago

Oswestry

Probably yes

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By *layfull pairingCouple
4 weeks ago

Bristol

Certainly.... been there and done it... and still friends...

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By *tsJustKateWoman
4 weeks ago

London

Yes, when hubby was sexually active, we had sex with our best friends several times. It was fun and exciting and went on for a couple of years. It never caused any problems. We are still best mates to this day.

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By *inceIlkestonMan
4 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"I saw a fun question and it was if one could fuck their friend. I would say that there are many things

taking into consideration when thinking of doing it like, the risks, but what about the benefits, lets talk about them for a bit.

That got me thinking, would you have sex with your friend and if they asked you, would you say yes? Have you done it, did it end well and are you still doing it?

I havent done it yet, but yes, if they asked me I would do it too

Yes I would

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By *ootyhunter69Man
4 weeks ago

bushey

Yes I would quite a few of them, fantasised a lot sometimes during a wank

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By *ussraneCouple
4 weeks ago

Romford

"No! Friends are just that.

Now fwb is a different story. That starts off as sex and the friendship grows

Absolutely true

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By *LiamMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

I have female friends who I've been intimate with. So yes

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

All friends start off as strangers.

I met someone the first time 50 years ago and we are now FWB. Nothing wrong in two mates having fun.

We played sports and showered together. Went on holiday and shared a room. So why not have sex.

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By *ynamite500Man
4 weeks ago

Angus

I do all the time.. my best friend is my right hand! Always happy to oblige, Never complains or gets a headache!🤣

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By *uri00620Woman
4 weeks ago

Croydon

"I saw a fun question and it was if one could fuck their friend. I would say that there are many things

taking into consideration when thinking of doing it like, the risks, but what about the benefits, lets talk about them for a bit.

That got me thinking, would you have sex with your friend and if they asked you, would you say yes? Have you done it, did it end well and are you still doing it?

I havent done it yet, but yes, if they asked me I would do it too

My closest friend used to host parties in her house when she lived abroad. At that time I hadn't seen her for 3/4 years. She asked if I wanted to be involved when i visited. Far too weird for me, she's a good as family. In that case, definitely not. Other friends who are not so close, maybe.

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By *aggy dollsCouple
4 weeks ago

bradford

I've been fucking my friend of 20 odd years on and off, we both have and itch to scratch as it were. And now luna and I enjoy her company together from time to time. As with most things in life as long as everyone involved is an adult about it and comunicate properly then there's no issue

Mr H

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By *edSirenWoman
4 weeks ago

magic mountain

Nope. A friend is a friend. If I was fucking them, they’d be a FWB.

But in general I’ve a few ex’s who have become mates. Couldn’t imagine ever fucking them now. Something just triggers in my brain. Just don’t see them as sexual anymore. So even those friends that started off as something more I wouldn’t fuck 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *igboobstCouple
4 weeks ago

barrow

Yes

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By *igblackchocolateMan
4 weeks ago

London & Essex

Depends on the friend and how much of friends we are and if I wanna risk messing thing up

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By *elboy1978Man
4 weeks ago

Jarrow

Yes

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

One of my str8 mates has a very big cock and told me Evan some women wouldn't let him fuck them. I said that if he ever went a month without sex he could use me. A month later I was lowering myself onto him that was over ten years ago and every month we have sex Evan tho I know he has sex with woman still.

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By *ldNewbie64Man
4 weeks ago

Bury

I don't have any friends so it's a moot point.

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By *oeSurreyMan
4 weeks ago

Woking

I’ve been fortunate to have had intimate fun with both male and female friends, no drama, just simple fun.

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By *xfordjohnMan
4 weeks ago

Oxford

I can certainly think of friends I'd love to have sex with!

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By *K AndyMan
4 weeks ago

Skipton

I certainly would have sex with my friends, and work colleagues

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