FabSwingers.com forum: Are women more into muscle or dad bods

By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

Right people what do u prefer dad bods or a bit of muscle

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If I liked someone I wasn't bothered

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"If I liked someone I wasn't bothered"
that's a good answer tbh hun

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

What you going to do if everyone says muscle and you have a dad bod?

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"What you going to do if everyone says muscle and you have a dad bod? "
then I know I'm truly wasting my time on here and would leave for good

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

I got both

Hold breath - muscles

Release breath - dad bod

I appeal to sooooooooooo many

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By *hagTonightMan
17 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I have a 6pack bod

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"What you going to do if everyone says muscle and you have a dad bod? then I know I'm truly wasting my time on here and would leave for good "
I really don't think these threads are good for self esteem. But there are plenty of women that are attracted to dad bods

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"I have a 6pack bod

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I have a barrel lmao

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"What you going to do if everyone says muscle and you have a dad bod? then I know I'm truly wasting my time on here and would leave for good I really don't think these threads are good for self esteem. But there are plenty of women that are attracted to dad bods"
I hope so

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By *luebell888Woman
17 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Depends on the dad bod. A few extra pounds here and there are OK but a man messaged me who claimed to have a dad bod was clearly obese.

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Oi. Don't forget us fat arse sexy dudes.

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Depends on the dad bod. A few extra pounds here and there are OK but a man messaged me who claimed to have a dad bod was clearly obese."

Got to admire his aspirations tho

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"Depends on the dad bod. A few extra pounds here and there are OK but a man messaged me who claimed to have a dad bod was clearly obese."
yh there's a difference in dad bod and obese if I was huge I'd of gave up by now I think or just done something about it

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Oi. Don't forget us fat arse sexy dudes.

We haven't, just not you 🤣🤣

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"Oi. Don't forget us fat arse sexy dudes.

We haven't, just not you 🤣🤣"

That's OK. You're not my type.

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"Oi. Don't forget us fat arse sexy dudes.

We haven't, just not you 🤣🤣

That's OK. You're not my type.

Damn my dad bod 🤣🤣

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I think just by having clear body photos on your profile someone can see if there attracted to your body type or not

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"I think just by having clear body photos on your profile someone can see if there attracted to your body type or not"

And I thought it was my personality they're attracted too.

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"I think just by having clear body photos on your profile someone can see if there attracted to your body type or not"

I'm fine till they see face and go "holy fuck"

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I like at least one of each 💜

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"I think just by having clear body photos on your profile someone can see if there attracted to your body type or not

I'm fine till they see face and go "holy fuck""
we can't all be for everyone

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"I like at least one of each 💜"
shame you not closer lol.

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"I think just by having clear body photos on your profile someone can see if there attracted to your body type or not

I'm fine till they see face and go "holy fuck"we can't all be for everyone"

Or anyone..... apparently 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"I have a 6pack bod

If yours is six then I’m an eight or ten lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"I think just by having clear body photos on your profile someone can see if there attracted to your body type or not

I'm fine till they see face and go "holy fuck"we can't all be for everyone

Or anyone..... apparently 🤣🤣"
I'm sure that's not true

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"I think just by having clear body photos on your profile someone can see if there attracted to your body type or not

I'm fine till they see face and go "holy fuck"we can't all be for everyone

Or anyone..... apparently 🤣🤣I'm sure that's not true"

I cannot confirm or deny if it may or may not be

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By *alcolm XtraMan
17 weeks ago

Northfleet

What about us grandad bods!

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By *aked Ch3fMan
17 weeks ago

south east

I don’t even know what my body is classed as lol I’m not overly muscular and not really chubby so don’t really know what women think of my body and what they class it as

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By *andadbodMan
17 weeks ago

Liverpool

Visually there’s no right or wrong answer, ive found since being on the swinging scene that your personality is what people are most attracted to, most women don’t even care about what you’re packing down below, Ive always found it strange why most men on this site want to know whether dick size or body shape is the most important.

Just don’t come across as an arrogant knob if you’re blessed with the body of a greek god and hung like a horse. 👍🏻

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Some do some don’t, I’m a right fat cunt, I’ve done alright with the birds.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I'm not into guys that refer to themselves as having a 'dad bod'

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By *riar BelisseWoman
17 weeks ago

Holibobs

Both. It all depends what his face is attached to

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"Both. It all depends what his face is attached to

What she said ^^

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By *aven3Man
17 weeks ago

Stoford

"What about us grandad bods!"

Met some hot granddad's 🔥

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By *aven3Man
17 weeks ago

Stoford

"I don’t even know what my body is classed as lol I’m not overly muscular and not really chubby so don’t really know what women think of my body and what they class it as "

Well,you look in pretty good shape.🧐

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
17 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Both. At the same time would be lovely.

It depends on the person. If I like a person, I like them. 🤷‍♀️

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By *oveandfastWoman
17 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

I like bigger men full stop. Whether they are bigger because they are stacked or because they have a dad bod or whatever, it makes no difference to me.

Cxx

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"I like bigger men full stop. Whether they are bigger because they are stacked or because they have a dad bod or whatever, it makes no difference to me.

Cxx"
I'm on my way lol just had a nosey at your profile wow xx

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By *allnHandsome12Man
17 weeks ago

Teesside

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By *riel13Woman
17 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm into faces not body types so I like both

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"I'm into faces not body types so I like both

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loving your ink work

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
17 weeks ago

Next Door

Both and all that are in-between.

Face and personality needs to be factored in also

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By *aughty workman88Man
17 weeks ago

Colchester

I have been both definitely on fab good shape helps , most of the guys on here have amazing body's but real life off fab personality is key

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By *nnandElleCouple
17 weeks ago

Brackley

"I have a 6pack bod

Are you still on over 100 months of no sex though Shag?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
17 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

muscle well toned 👌🏻

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By *peak and SpellCouple
17 weeks ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

I like well toned (see hubby in our pics), but personality comes a lot into it too.

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By *agic.MMan
17 weeks ago

Orpington

I've noticed a number of women commenting on these "dad bod vs fit/muscular " threads where they state they prefer dad bods or that dad bods are better, yet they have messaged me directly complementing my body...so whatever they say on these threads I'd take with a pinch of salt...unless I actually have a dad bod and I'm just oblivious to it 🤔

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By *hagTonightMan
17 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
17 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

"I have a 6pack bod

Are you still on over 100 months of no sex though Shag? "
Hi _nnandelle, yes. I am still on over 100 months of it too

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By *viatrixWoman
17 weeks ago

Redhill

I really don’t find dad bods a turn on or attractive. I just don’t. I’ve tried to step out of that and push my boundaries, but … nope.

Very slim, chiseled and toned for me please. Not necessarily overly muscular.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I'm into people, nice ones that can make you laugh, the body comes after that & the face.

I've never been put off someone I've liked because they have a few extra lbs.

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By *aturefit62Man
17 weeks ago

derby

I think there has to be an initial moderate attraction to a face or body whatever type it is. But then it is the personality attraction development that either makes the body become even more physically attractive or conversely less interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

If you read 'in here', you'll get a mixed response and a higher proportion who are happy with whatever bod is attached.

Out there in profile land, you will see far more mentions of 'fit', 'gym fit', 'looks after themselves' than you will 'I love to ride a chunky monkey'

Up your forum game and you could be a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I'm muscular, toned and well defined. But I don't have bulk. More often than not from what I've experienced, when they say muscle, gym fit, they mean muscle with size.

I cannot tell you how many people I've seen body shame slender guys like myself and it seems perfectly acceptable in society in my experience.

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

I loke both equally though I don't like when the muscles are too big x

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"I loke both equally though I don't like when the muscles are too big x"
good to know

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By *_hot_hornyCouple
17 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

Athletic/Muscular builds look nice, but Dad bods feel better!

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By *oorman 2025 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

"Athletic/Muscular builds look nice, but Dad bods feel better!

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I feel a lot better now haha knowing this

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By *ad NannaWoman
17 weeks ago

East London

No.

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By *vaRoseWoman
17 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Both… I like both

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By *opedomMan
17 weeks ago

Hayle

I think we all like different things, thankfully.

I've a working dad bod, as in I'm no ripped protein drinking weight lifter but I'm stronger than most due to my job.

I think the self admiration in some dedicated gym bros is why some prefer dad bods. Deep down I'm sure we'd all prefer a toned body but I'll settle for being happy with the body I have. That's often the key to people finding the freedom to feel sexy.

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