FabSwingers.com forum: Anybody want to chat about this site?

By *ryme123 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

Hey everyone. I’m a recently single (9months) and joined this site to find like minded people who don’t want commitment.

I feel though in real life I’ve had encounters.. this site is heavily weighted in females and find it’s damaging to my mental health.

I know it’s optional but would like to know other people’s experiences and how long it takes to get a connection

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By *cottish guy 555Man
17 weeks ago

London

Don't rely on just messaging people. Go to a club or organised social.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
17 weeks ago

in Lancashire

Can't give you anything about how the site works for ourselves as we are a couple but will sincerely say that if it's affecting your mental health then perhaps take a break, hide your profile and focus on you for a while..

Wish you well..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central

"Don't rely on just messaging people. Go to a club or organised social.

And don't use the site, when you find it's having harmful effects on your health.

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Honestly, it's as random as it gets.

Don't take it too seriously and you may even have a bit of fun with it.

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By *ynamite500Man
17 weeks ago

Angus

Thick skin helps, no expectations avoids any disappointment. Anything does happen, bonus.

Going to socials is a good idea😁

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By *ryme123 OP Man
17 weeks ago

manchester

Very good advice people. Thank you so much 😘

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By *nigmaDreamWoman
17 weeks ago

West Midlands

This place is not worth it if it’s negatively affecting your mental health. Focus on yourself and when you feel ready try some socials! There’s always one going on somewhere.

Price wise is much better than clubs for single males too, get yourself out here, meet likeminded people and hopefully make a friend or two x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

If this site is damaging your mental health you shouldn't stay

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By *icecouple561Couple
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17 weeks ago

East Sussex

I'll reflect what others have said. This isn't mandatory so if it's harmful to you in any way it's not for you.

An alternative is to change your expectations

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By *eroLondonMan
17 weeks ago

Mayfair

"....this site is heavily weighted in females and find it’s damaging to my mental health."

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Others will opine that this site is heavily weighted in •males• but I admire your optimism. 🩶

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

"....this site is heavily weighted in females ¿

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Others will opine that this site is heavily weighted in •males• but I admire your optimism. 🩶"

Maybe all the females on this site weigh heavy ?

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
17 weeks ago

belfast

"Hey everyone. I’m a recently single (9months) and joined this site to find like minded people who don’t want commitment.

I feel though in real life I’ve had encounters.. this site is heavily weighted in females and find it’s damaging to my mental health.

I know it’s optional but would like to know other people’s experiences and how long it takes to get a connection "

If it's damaging your mental health then leave. It's not that hard.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I would question if this is the right place to be if its affecting your mental health

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
17 weeks ago

Swansea

I recommend taking this site with a pinch of salt. If you think about the advice we would give to someone going to a club for the first time e.g., go with no expectations and if something happens then enjoy. I recommend that mindset for this site too.

Before you even consider leaving the site, think about changing your expectations of it first.

Best wishes

Mrs

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