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verifications do you tell the truth

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By *exy bum x OP   Woman
over a year ago

Doncaster

when leaving verifications do you tell the whole truth or not? just some seem to be to good to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually find something good to say about the person or experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say something nice, or nothing at all. Always honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say something nice, or nothing at all. Always honest."

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"Say something nice, or nothing at all. Always honest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a bad meet etc I wouldn't leave a verification at all

I think I'm honest in my veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it isnt honest then its pointless IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't leave a verification if it's rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always tell the truth or I don't leave feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and hope the creators of mine have too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always honest. I wouldn't leave one if there was so etching bad to say, don't say it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would folk not be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's human nature to want to say nice things about people. I do think some people get a little carried away sometimes; but that's quite nice when it's in your favour. I've stopped leaving them unless someone asks me to, and told people I meet not to bother unless they really feel they need to!

If a meet was bad I wouldn't leave one.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I did once leave a veri which I felt later was rather too positive considering the experience. I felt obliged to do so. Then thought that what I had written would mislead others so I blocked him to get rid of it. It was the only time I did give a veri which was not as honest as it could be - if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no of course not.i am honest about what i say but dont mention their bad bits, or not so good bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell the truth but I don't go into details. My meets are private, I don't feel the need to leave a listing of every position/ toy etc that we used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always tell the truth but don't like graphic ones hence I don't leave ones like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tell the truth but I don't go into details. My meets are private, I don't feel the need to leave a listing of every position/ toy etc that we used. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always tell the truth but don't like graphic ones hence I don't leave ones like that "

Exactly the same here. Some details are personal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always honest in my verifications, if I didn't like someone I just wouldn't verify they, if they was nice but just not for me I will give a basic 'met this guy for a drink' type verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as there is nothing wildly inaccurate I dont care..if i turn up based on a verification that says shes fucking hot as fuck and best pussy ever and on arrival its big bad steve the bodybuilder..I'll know I lacked decent judgment in getting my meet!(or meat)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive verifications are great to read especially for the person they are being left for. I do find some of them though are a bit over the top when going into the exact details of what did or didn't happen. Surely some things should be left for another person to experience themselves. As one persons fantastic experience might not be the same for the next persons.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

My Dyson is fucked btw, anyone wanna give me a bj

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall


"If I had a bad meet etc I wouldn't leave a verification at all

I think I'm honest in my veris "

I agree with this...if a bad meet in any way shape or form don't leave a very...simples

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

again we seem to be getting into the role of judging a verification based on someones proformance, which is dangerous territory.... and something that I absolutely disagree with...

verification for me is suppose to be that they were who they said they were, and they turned up when they were expected to... that the profile is genuine in that effect.... nothing more

if you were not compatible in anything beyond that... that is not their fault anymore than it is yours......

but heck... if that is the way that people will see it.. and to be honest it is no one elses business as to what happens on meets... then maybe people will start hiding them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my Veri's they are open and honest. And I write the same way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always honest ... you can't lie - well I guess some people can

If I didn't like them enough to have sex with them yet I found them nice enough to chat with I would make sure I put what kind of person they are

If that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All they do for us really is identify if a person is Likely to turn upon as a couple a genuine we don't really pay to notice of what is in the verification it self. It always nice when you receive nice ones back from the meets you enjoy tho it would be rather gutting if you went for a meet thought it went well then come home to a poor verification. Not had one yet tho .

All tho it would be rather pointless if the review was poor people are not Likely to display it so they are always going to be positive anyway which makes them nearly as pointless as those stupid club reviews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We has one recently and it didn't go well and no swinging was involved either! We didn't leave a veri. I've since read all their other veris and can our exerience can read between the lines and it appears to be a common theme. I guess when I become more experienced with this ill be able to spot that before the meet lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Im always honest ... you can't lie - well I guess some people can

If I didn't like them enough to have sex with them yet I found them nice enough to chat with I would make sure I put what kind of person they are

If that makes sense "

Im same...

Will verify that have met them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following a few meets I haven't left a verification usually based on the person/persons profile not being consistent with the person in the flesh. Hence no play either..

Where I do leave a verification I'm honest.. Simples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some that I've read recently and have wondered why the user even has it on display!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not too keen on overly graphic ones. I just want to know that the person is as they are described, turn up and are nice!

Don't really want a full run down of the sexual antics that took place on the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Ive read some that really make my stomach turn

I like the ones that say ' she rode me like a cowgirl on a rodeo bull '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I left a verification was so long ago it started with 'The lady called upon my residence promptly at 8 o'clock, arriving by horse drawn cab.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh Ive read some that really make my stomach turn

I like the ones that say ' she rode me like a cowgirl on a rodeo bull '

"

Who has had a veri like that then? YEEEEEHAAAAAA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES ALWAYS !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh Ive read some that really make my stomach turn

I like the ones that say ' she rode me like a cowgirl on a rodeo bull '

Who has had a veri like that then? YEEEEEHAAAAAA"

No one yet !!!! Im still waiting waiting waiting ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you need to pop on your stetson and get on your horse, pilgrim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh Ive read some that really make my stomach turn

I like the ones that say ' she rode me like a cowgirl on a rodeo bull '

Who has had a veri like that then? YEEEEEHAAAAAA"

I think its a guy called 'Woody' left by a lady called 'Jessie'.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you need to pop on your stetson and get on your horse, pilgrim."

Im gonna oh Im gonna

Tick tock tick tock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh Ive read some that really make my stomach turn

I like the ones that say ' she rode me like a cowgirl on a rodeo bull '

Who has had a veri like that then? YEEEEEHAAAAAA

I think its a guy called 'Woody' left by a lady called 'Jessie'.....

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Thats the couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left an amazing veri once. It had everything in it- what I wore, what he wore, where he bought his shoes, what the weather was like, what I had for my lunch, how lovely the guy was, what we did, what I did when I got home.... But the knob left the site and my veri was gone.... Forever.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when leaving verifications do you tell the whole truth or not? just some seem to be to good to be true "

I always leave an honest verification and will only compliment on what I feel was good for example... I wouldn't say that they had amazing oral skills if they didn't, I would just choose not to mention the oral altogether, I hope the people who did mine were honest 2 lmao xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone had a really bad veri, would they display it. ?

I dont think so.

so hence...we get the nice ones on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known a couple of ladies who admitted giving a guy a good verification, but in the same breath admitted that it wasn't a particularly good experience and they wouldn't meet him again!

Not too helpful, imho!

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