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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago

The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Central

You'd need to start with messaging. The majority of them are likely to be dead ends, as most people are not mutually compatible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"You'd need to start with messaging. The majority of them are likely to be dead ends, as most people are not mutually compatible. "

Just throught I'd try this out before I delete fab hahaha again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Didn’t the government cut benefits today 🤣

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw

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By *obilebottomMan
17 weeks ago

All over


"Didn’t the government cut benefits today 🤣"

They did, for the most volnurable in society rather than the privilifed ones. A disgrace but as this is not the politics forum or right place for it will leave it there

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Didn’t the government cut benefits today 🤣

They did, for the most volnurable in society rather than the privilifed ones. A disgrace but as this is not the politics forum or right place for it will leave it there "

Apologies my post was for comedy value. Poor choice

I’ll take my leave

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle "

You've only been on 3 weeks lol,patience is a virtue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw"

Probably hahahaha nowt new

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle

You've only been on 3 weeks lol,patience is a virtue "

Hahahaha fab got boring

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By *acktopervMan
17 weeks ago

Stourport-On-Severn


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle

You've only been on 3 weeks lol,patience is a virtue

Hahahaha fab got boring "

So, you expected them all to come flocking as soon as you posted your profile ?

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By *midnight-Woman
17 weeks ago

...


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw"

And most likely remembered him from the first time ! I recall he was incredibly derogative to women who weren't virgins last time he was here

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle

You've only been on 3 weeks lol,patience is a virtue

Hahahaha fab got boring "

Boring people get bored

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw

And most likely remembered him from the first time ! I recall he was incredibly derogative to women who weren't virgins last time he was here"

I said about women with loads of meets anit my type lol

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle

You've only been on 3 weeks lol,patience is a virtue

Hahahaha fab got boring "

See ya then... You get out what ya put in ( not like that you filthy sod )

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
17 weeks ago

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If the site isn't working for you, Try clubs or organised socials, You could also go on cam in the chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"If the site isn't working for you, Try clubs or organised socials, You could also go on cam in the chat rooms "

I want a friend with benefits to do clubs with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle

You've only been on 3 weeks lol,patience is a virtue

Hahahaha fab got boring

See ya then... You get out what ya put in ( not like that you filthy sod )"

They only soo meny times I can say "I'm all good thank you!! How are you" hahahaha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

You could of spent the time your bored writing out a profile. Not sure who you think you would attract with no profile

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle

You've only been on 3 weeks lol,patience is a virtue

Hahahaha fab got boring

See ya then... You get out what ya put in ( not like that you filthy sod )

They only soo meny times I can say "I'm all good thank you!! How are you" hahahaha"

Asking questions about the other person is generally a good start lol

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By *nnocenceExpiredWoman
17 weeks ago

Birstall

🤷‍♀️ Just looked at the message you've previously sent me and doesn't really give me the impression that's what you're after?

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
17 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle "

I thought you make friends first meet then see if they want to meet up again & then decide if you both want to be friends with benefits 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle I thought you make friends first meet then see if they want to meet up again & then decide if you both want to be friends with benefits 🤷🏻‍♀️"

I'm thinking meet a few times and see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"🤷‍♀️ Just looked at the message you've previously sent me and doesn't really give me the impression that's what you're after?"

I was after no strings!!! But fancy a fwb so I can delete fab lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"You could of spent the time your bored writing out a profile. Not sure who you think you would attract with no profile"

I'd rather talk to someone and find out what their into rather than read a profile!!

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"You'd need to start with messaging. The majority of them are likely to be dead ends, as most people are not mutually compatible. "

Isn't that the truth.

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By *oeBeansMan
17 weeks ago

Derby

It definitely feels like there's no light at the end of the tunnel finding one. I've got on with a lot of people on the forums but more people from Derby or Notts need to use them!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds


"

I want a friend with benefits to do clubs with "

Six days ago your forum post said if you met anyone from this site you would get the clap.

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By *oiluvfunMan
17 weeks ago

Penrith


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw

And most likely remembered him from the first time ! I recall he was incredibly derogative to women who weren't virgins last time he was here

I said about women with loads of meets anit my type lol"

And yet you're looking for a woman to go to clubs with? You'll do well to find a clubs-scene woman with only one verification......

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By *rdere OpusCouple
17 weeks ago

Brum - ish


"It definitely feels like there's no light at the end of the tunnel finding one. I've got on with a lot of people on the forums but more people from Derby or Notts need to use them! "

You need to go global Joe, sod distance, it’s only a flight after all 😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"

I want a friend with benefits to do clubs with

Six days ago your forum post said if you met anyone from this site you would get the clap. "

Some women do scare me on fab lol

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By *nnocenceExpiredWoman
17 weeks ago

Birstall


"🤷‍♀️ Just looked at the message you've previously sent me and doesn't really give me the impression that's what you're after?

I was after no strings!!! But fancy a fwb so I can delete fab lol"

Don't really understand this reply but ok then! 😬

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"🤷‍♀️ Just looked at the message you've previously sent me and doesn't really give me the impression that's what you're after?

I was after no strings!!! But fancy a fwb so I can delete fab lol

Don't really understand this reply but ok then! 😬"

I wanna deal with one women not multiple

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"It definitely feels like there's no light at the end of the tunnel finding one. I've got on with a lot of people on the forums but more people from Derby or Notts need to use them! "

Yeah, sorry about that JB 🤣

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By *entleman JayMan
17 weeks ago

Wakefield

I’ve found three lovely FWB on here over the years.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
17 weeks ago

Leeds


"

I wanna deal with one women not multiple "

I don't think this site is for you if you are looking for monogamy

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By *he Silver FuxMan
17 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Friends with benefits!!!!

Sex!!!!

Hahahahaha!!!

Interrobang ⁉️

Multiple exclamation marks make you look mental.

Relax buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"

I wanna deal with one women not multiple

I don't think this site is for you if you are looking for monogamy "

That's a type of wood isn't it? 🤭

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"

I wanna deal with one women not multiple

I don't think this site is for you if you are looking for monogamy "

It's soul destroying lol

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By *he Silver FuxMan
17 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"

I wanna deal with one women not multiple

I don't think this site is for you if you are looking for monogamy

That's a type of wood isn't it? 🤭"

Mahogmanay - thought that was an underwhelming performance on NYE with Jools Holland

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Watermouth

Here is the way to find a FWB!

Meet them fuck them, go back and see them again. At some point they may become a friend.

Friends happen, they are not planned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Here is the way to find a FWB!

Meet them fuck them, go back and see them again. At some point they may become a friend.

Friends happen, they are not planned."

I guess that's where iv been messing up iv been trying to talk first lol

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By *nnocenceExpiredWoman
17 weeks ago

Birstall


"🤷‍♀️ Just looked at the message you've previously sent me and doesn't really give me the impression that's what you're after?

I was after no strings!!! But fancy a fwb so I can delete fab lol

Don't really understand this reply but ok then! 😬

I wanna deal with one women not multiple "

That's what I mean, your message to me said you wanted to fuck, not bothered about getting to know me? Soooo not really giving the 'i want a fwb' vibe there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"🤷‍♀️ Just looked at the message you've previously sent me and doesn't really give me the impression that's what you're after?

I was after no strings!!! But fancy a fwb so I can delete fab lol

Don't really understand this reply but ok then! 😬

I wanna deal with one women not multiple

That's what I mean, your message to me said you wanted to fuck, not bothered about getting to know me? Soooo not really giving the 'i want a fwb' vibe there?"

Wicked

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By *nlorMan
17 weeks ago

Gosport

They all ask for FWB on here, but it’s bollox to some degree.. they want FWB with certain types. Most women on here ignore the guys who genuinely want the situation they do..

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I to want a fwb or even just a f with added extras (check out my profile... subtle sell!!)

But you have to put in the leg work, send messages get to know someone over time.

Most importantly, be nice to people and people are nice back. That's my motto doesn't always work but I live by it.

The ladies on here have a plethora of men to choose from so they can afford to be very picky, whilst frustrating to genuine folk, I totally understand.

Another approach, maybe just look at making friends as a start point.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
17 weeks ago

Doncaster

Hi OP,

If you're not getting anywhere trying to connect with someone online, you could do worse than getting yourself to a social mate.

There are typically 100's of people that attend each one and pretty much everyone that attends couldn't be more welcoming or friendly if they tried.

It's a great way to build up a network of friends and no brainer in my opinion.

Good luck dude,😊

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw

And most likely remembered him from the first time !"

Yep..

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
17 weeks ago

Altrincham


"They all ask for FWB on here, but it’s bollox to some degree.. they want FWB with certain types. Most women on here ignore the guys who genuinely want the situation they do.. "

That's not true, a FWB situation is great but you have to be friends with that person and that kind of connection takes time. You have to be prepared to put the effort in.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
17 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle I thought you make friends first meet then see if they want to meet up again & then decide if you both want to be friends with benefits 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm thinking meet a few times and see how it goes "

hope you find someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle I thought you make friends first meet then see if they want to meet up again & then decide if you both want to be friends with benefits 🤷🏻‍♀️

I'm thinking meet a few times and see how it goes hope you find someone "

Think found someone

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By *exxyyDy11Man
17 weeks ago

North West


"They all ask for FWB on here, but it’s bollox to some degree.. they want FWB with certain types. Most women on here ignore the guys who genuinely want the situation they do..

That's not true, a FWB situation is great but you have to be friends with that person and that kind of connection takes time. You have to be prepared to put the effort in. "

This... I think heading straight into FWB scenarios without meeting first and getting to know one another is a recipe for disaster.

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By *olinOfBathMan
17 weeks ago

Corsham

Stop... feeding... the... troll...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"They all ask for FWB on here, but it’s bollox to some degree.. they want FWB with certain types. Most women on here ignore the guys who genuinely want the situation they do..

That's not true, a FWB situation is great but you have to be friends with that person and that kind of connection takes time. You have to be prepared to put the effort in.

This... I think heading straight into FWB scenarios without meeting first and getting to know one another is a recipe for disaster."

Deffos a few meets first see how things go no need to rush

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By *midnight-Woman
17 weeks ago

...


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw

And most likely remembered him from the first time ! I recall he was incredibly derogative to women who weren't virgins last time he was here

I said about women with loads of meets anit my type lol

And yet you're looking for a woman to go to clubs with? You'll do well to find a clubs-scene woman with only one verification...... "

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By *ady LickWoman
17 weeks ago

Northampton Somewhere

Sounds good to me, I think a lot of people want the same kind of arrangement. You've just to find the people that appeal...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Sounds good to me, I think a lot of people want the same kind of arrangement. You've just to find the people that appeal..."

Iv seen and messaged a women that was my first meet meny years ago lol I'm gunna put it on her and see what happens hahahaha

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
17 weeks ago

Norwich


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw

And most likely remembered him from the first time ! I recall he was incredibly derogative to women who weren't virgins last time he was here

I said about women with loads of meets anit my type lol

And yet you're looking for a woman to go to clubs with? You'll do well to find a clubs-scene woman with only one verification...... "

He looks down upon women who has quite a few verifications when all some are trying to do is find an fwb too.

We all have to kiss a few frogs!

If he's that judgemental he's unlikely to find anyone as he seems arrogant and that's not what most ladies are looking for on an fwb.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw

And most likely remembered him from the first time ! I recall he was incredibly derogative to women who weren't virgins last time he was here

I said about women with loads of meets anit my type lol

And yet you're looking for a woman to go to clubs with? You'll do well to find a clubs-scene woman with only one verification......

He looks down upon women who has quite a few verifications when all some are trying to do is find an fwb too.

We all have to kiss a few frogs!

If he's that judgemental he's unlikely to find anyone as he seems arrogant and that's not what most ladies are looking for on an fwb."

Very well said.

I am looking for a fwb or even just friends and as you say you have to kiss a few frogs to find that person.

Verifications to me show someone is actually meeting people and can give a good little insight on what the person is like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Maybe they've green arrowed you and didn't like what they saw

And most likely remembered him from the first time ! I recall he was incredibly derogative to women who weren't virgins last time he was here

I said about women with loads of meets anit my type lol

And yet you're looking for a woman to go to clubs with? You'll do well to find a clubs-scene woman with only one verification......

He looks down upon women who has quite a few verifications when all some are trying to do is find an fwb too.

We all have to kiss a few frogs!

If he's that judgemental he's unlikely to find anyone as he seems arrogant and that's not what most ladies are looking for on an fwb."

Soo cause I'm not keen on a women having over so meny meets I'm judgment and arrogant???

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Sounds good to me, I think a lot of people want the same kind of arrangement. You've just to find the people that appeal...

Iv seen and messaged a women that was my first meet meny years ago lol I'm gunna put it on her and see what happens hahahaha"

well take it slowly and treat her well and try not to fuck it up

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By *partharmonyCouple
17 weeks ago

Ruislip


"The dead end messaging is soul destroying lol

Requesting if a lovely lady would want to be friends with benefits and see where it goes!!!

Not just sex!!! Summer walks and adventures!! I'm lonely hahahahaha

West Yorkshire area but I drive and live alone !!

Be gentle "

What are your messages like? If they are even 10% as bad as most of the ones we get, you can expect them to be dead ends.

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Where does your wife live OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Where does your wife live OP?"

She divorced me hahaha I do talk alot of shit on here the replys make me laught

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By *iss DevilWoman
17 weeks ago

Bedford

OP, you change your mind very quickly! Not that long ago you didn't want any meets of here as you believed most, if not all, women on here had STIs... Unless the FWB is for anything but sex?

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds


"Where does your wife live OP?

She divorced me hahaha I do talk alot of shit on here the replys make me laught"

In 6 days...wow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago


"Where does your wife live OP?

She divorced me hahaha I do talk alot of shit on here the replys make me laught

In 6 days...wow "

That's what happens when you get court running around with her knickers on your head pretending to be batman lol

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Watermouth


"Where does your wife live OP?

She divorced me hahaha I do talk alot of shit on here the replys make me laught

In 6 days...wow

That's what happens when you get court running around with her knickers on your head pretending to be batman lol"

Give her some ears and tell her she is Catwoman

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