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Getting over a breakup w/ Fab & Porn

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
18 weeks ago

London

Hey all, I know it's not healthy in the long term, but I must say, porn has helped me to recover from a nasty public break-up. Has anyone else dealt with this? I can't picture myself going back into a relationship at all now, I'm having way too much fun.

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By *ynamite500Man
18 weeks ago

Angus


"Hey all, I know it's not healthy in the long term, but I must say, porn has helped me to recover from a nasty public break-up. Has anyone else dealt with this? I can't picture myself going back into a relationship at all now, I'm having way too much fun."

Sigma Rules!👍

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago


"Hey all, I know it's not healthy in the long term, but I must say, porn has helped me to recover from a nasty public break-up. Has anyone else dealt with this? I can't picture myself going back into a relationship at all now, I'm having way too much fun."

So porn is more fun than ever having a relationship again?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
18 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I haven't done it.

If you don't want a relationship that's your choice. I think overuse of porn is a bad thing and too much casual sex can leave you feeling a bit jaded and empty. As with everything there's a limit.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm not going to pretend I've never had a happy slut phase post a rough breakup, or that it didn't help me feel better at the time.

But it's definitely not particularly healthy as a coping mechanism. And I'd advise making sure you keep reality and what you actually want from life in mind 💜

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By *ea monkeyMan
18 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'm not going to pretend I've never had a happy slut phase post a rough breakup, or that it didn't help me feel better at the time.

But it's definitely not particularly healthy as a coping mechanism. And I'd advise making sure you keep reality and what you actually want from life in mind 💜"

When is the happy slut phase supposed to end? Asking for a friend

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By *xfordjohnMan
18 weeks ago

Oxford

I do think porn and Fab-style sex generally can help in the short term. I've certainly found that in the last eighteen months since my wife passed away but it doesn't replace the intimacy of a relationship and that's what I really miss every day.

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
18 weeks ago

London

Thank you so much, you're totally right.

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
18 weeks ago

London

Thank you so much. You're totally right here. I guess I'm just going through things.

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
18 weeks ago

London

Right now, it really feels that way.

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
18 weeks ago

London

I'm sorry to hear my friend & you're totally right here.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I'm not going to pretend I've never had a happy slut phase post a rough breakup, or that it didn't help me feel better at the time.

But it's definitely not particularly healthy as a coping mechanism. And I'd advise making sure you keep reality and what you actually want from life in mind 💜

When is the happy slut phase supposed to end? Asking for a friend "

I mean. Some of us are just happy sluts to the outside world forever. But it's the difference between pure hedonism and actually forming real bonds and you know that 💜

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By *ucka39Man
18 weeks ago

Newcastle

Finding interesting things to do and even finding a hobby which is enjoyed is the icing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
18 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Thank you so much, you're totally right."

Tap on the 'reply+quote ' button under the post you're replying to and we'll be able to see who you're answering.

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By *iscoDoug OP   Man
18 weeks ago

London


"Thank you so much, you're totally right.

Tap on the 'reply+quote ' button under the post you're replying to and we'll be able to see who you're answering. "

Woops thank you, I will from now 9n 👍😄

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By *rymedownunderMan
18 weeks ago

London/Australia

It can help in the short term but you need more to get the most out of life longer term. Speaking from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I came back on after a break up and it didn't help at all, just reminded me of how alone I truly am.

Now I've got through that phase a little bit and starting to embrace fab again, looking for friends I can keep a lifetime, maybe a fwb who knows....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I find this sad to read

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By *ady_LindaTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

This is the most positive thread I've read here in a while

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By *estructionDollyWoman
18 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Not everybody wants/needs monogamy

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By *jh59Man
18 weeks ago

Stoke Golding

It’s helped me but still reminded how lonely I am

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