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By *eoBlooms OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Springfield

From getting what you want in life ?

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

My face.

Plastic surgery.

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By *olo180Man
17 weeks ago

Greater London


"From getting what you want in life ?

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️"

1) A twisted ex

2) A hitman

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

My illness stop me getting what I want in life

How would I remove those obstacles? I'd get rid of my illnesses lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
17 weeks ago

Belfast

Lack of money.

Winning the lottery.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

17 weeks ago

East Sussex

Nothing.

A few tweaks that are outside my control would make a bit of a difference but overall I have what I want.

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By *inxy777Woman
17 weeks ago

essex

Money x

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I want to have sex with a fictional cartoon bunny from an advert in the 80s

So reality?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
17 weeks ago

Holibobs

Adulting responsibilities...

Sell it all and get a touring campervan...

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Money x "

Root of all evil but makes the world go round and unfortunately we can’t do without it

Understand exactly where your coming from

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By *reddie DerbysMan
17 weeks ago

matlock

A wife and my body

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By *avie65Man
17 weeks ago

In the west.

For me it is procrastination.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

No money.

- winning the lottery.

- magically waking up without autism and being capable of working full-time without burning out

- a wealthy person wanting to marry me

- discovering that Rembrandt's Christ in the Storm on the Sea of Galilee is actually in my attic

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I’m stopping me

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"No money.

- winning the lottery.

- magically waking up without autism and being capable of working full-time without burning out

- a wealthy person wanting to marry me

- discovering that Rembrandt's Christ in the Storm on the Sea of Galilee is actually in my attic

"

At least you have plausible solutions. I'm screwed.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

Money on the whole.

Maybe rob a bank - anyone up for driving the get away car?

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"From getting what you want in life ?

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️"

We have a pretty decent life tho I wouldn’t decline a big lottery win 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Lack of money and childcare.

Both factors will be rectified this year (September).

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By *eoBlooms OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Springfield


"Money on the whole.

Maybe rob a bank - anyone up for driving the get away car? "

I would but with my road rage we'd definitely get caught 😭🤣

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By *eoBlooms OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Springfield


"Lack of money and childcare.

Both factors will be rectified this year (September). "

Selling your kids is a little drastic Bella but needs must 🫣😂

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

My ex frustrating me every step of the way

My brain

I've got not solutions

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By *eoBlooms OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Springfield


"I want to have sex with a fictional cartoon bunny from an advert in the 80s

So reality?"

I'm sure a few ladies would love that role play Hans 🤞🐰

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By *aizyWoman
17 weeks ago

west midlands


"I want to have sex with a fictional cartoon bunny from an advert in the 80s

So reality?"

The Duracell Bunny??

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By *a LunaWoman
17 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Me. I am my own worst enemy.

I like a quiet life, but I also like adventure.

I like to have money, but I also like to spend it.

I dislike routine but it is necessary in my house and some days the hum drum of routine can really get on your pip.

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By *urry BlokeMan
17 weeks ago


"From getting what you want in life ?

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️"

Not being savvy enough with money & pensions when I was younger

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"I want to have sex with a fictional cartoon bunny from an advert in the 80s

So reality?

The Duracell Bunny?? "

Now they were fully charged!

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By *urry BlokeMan
17 weeks ago


"From getting what you want in life ?

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️

Not being savvy enough with money & pensions when I was younger "

Oh and being riddled with anxiety

That's a relatively new thing to me, but it's certainly making up for lost time

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By *ony MannMan
17 weeks ago

South Newton

Life

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"I want to have sex with a fictional cartoon bunny from an advert in the 80s

So reality?

I'm sure a few ladies would love that role play Hans 🤞🐰"

I guess there's chocolate involved, so who knows maybe it is plausible: one day my greatest fantasy will be fulfilled. I could die content then I think.

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By *ad NannaWoman
17 weeks ago

East London

A combination of my choices and family obligations.

My family obligations and my health.

I'm quite happy though. There are people in the world with much less than me, and worse lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Money

If I had money I could get a hair transplant, a whole new ripped physique and a 12 inch cock that will bring the girls to the yard!! 🤣🤣

Oh sorry that's what people expect....

Joking aside the answer is still money then I can help people I care about...

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Absolutely nothing. It's a journey and I'm on the correct path. While I don't have the means to attain some of the exotic things I want in life at this moment in time, I know it's not my time right now to acquire them.

The only thing that will get in my way or stop me from getting those things is myself and my own free will.

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By *eoBlooms OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Springfield


"Absolutely nothing. It's a journey and I'm on the correct path. While I don't have the means to attain some of the exotic things I want in life at this moment in time, I know it's not my time right now to acquire them.

The only thing that will get in my way or stop me from getting those things is myself and my own free will."

Very positive and zen response.👍

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By *eoBlooms OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Springfield


"A combination of my choices and family obligations.

My family obligations and my health.

I'm quite happy though. There are people in the world with much less than me, and worse lives."

Acceptance is a necessary step to happiness.🙂

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"From getting what you want in life ?

"

A lack of finances.


"

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️"

A higher paying job. But I like the one I have, and in my field, I don't have the kind of experience that would get me that higher paying job. Whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Absolutely nothing. It's a journey and I'm on the correct path. While I don't have the means to attain some of the exotic things I want in life at this moment in time, I know it's not my time right now to acquire them.

The only thing that will get in my way or stop me from getting those things is myself and my own free will.

Very positive and zen response.👍"

That's how one should be, having gratitude for ones current circumstances, a home, food in the cupboards, money to spend and save, good health, and an open mind to learn.

I feel at peace after years of mental health issues, trauma, depression, self esteem issues. The negative emotions all washed away after the spiritual work I've done. Life has a whole new meaning, a hunger for experiences and new opportunities. After turning 33, I finally found peace and happiness 😌

The things I want in life are coming to me through a slow burn, but gradual and eventually they increase exponentially, and they come to me in the most unexpected ways, some have already happened, others yet to arrive.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
17 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Retirement

Far too young 😂

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By *estructionDollyWoman
17 weeks ago

Manchester

Lack of confidence, lack of motivation, lack of money and time, lack of opportunity

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By *ittleJohn5Man
17 weeks ago

Wickham Market


"Money x "

Only fans

You make a package

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By *ittleJohn5Man
17 weeks ago

Wickham Market


"Lack of confidence, lack of motivation, lack of money and time, lack of opportunity "

I can relate to all of that

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Lack of money and childcare.

Both factors will be rectified this year (September).

Selling your kids is a little drastic Bella but needs must 🫣😂"

It's got to be done 🤷‍♀️

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By *wertyjk01Man
17 weeks ago

NW London/Kent/Midlands

They haven't figured time travel yet, or haven't told us about it.

Oh and a bunch of money would probably help

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By *idssissyTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

The desire to and not knowing what will give me the desire to

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By *avexxMan
17 weeks ago

cheshire

a few more pennies so i could travel more

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By *hat.coupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Kent

Easy answer. ADHD and a new brain would be nice xx

Mrs x

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By *eoBlooms OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Springfield


"Lack of confidence, lack of motivation, lack of money and time, lack of opportunity "

They sound connected. I wonder if the confidence one would help unlock the others ? 🤷‍♂️

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By *ay-jayupMan
17 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

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By *ay-jayupMan
17 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

Travel and see more of the world.

Giving myself some me time

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
17 weeks ago

North West


"From getting what you want in life ?

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️"

1) My body

2) A miracle. Or serious advancement in medical science. Or both.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Lack of confidence, lack of motivation, lack of money and time, lack of opportunity "

The way I understand things, by saying and repeating these things in your daily life, creates the lack of whatever it is you want more of. Over time it becomes more of a reality.

Shifting your mindset from cup half empty to cup half full, changes that reality you experience.

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By *eoBlooms OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Springfield


"From getting what you want in life ?

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️

1) My body

2) A miracle. Or serious advancement in medical science. Or both. "

❤️

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By *anderingArtistMan
17 weeks ago

an abstract world

My brain.

Not sure if it's going to work, as I've only recently started, but I'm doing dailt affirmations to take a fresh mindset into my new job.

If I can nail that then I should be onto a winner 🤞🏽

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By *estructionDollyWoman
17 weeks ago

Manchester


"Lack of confidence, lack of motivation, lack of money and time, lack of opportunity

The way I understand things, by saying and repeating these things in your daily life, creates the lack of whatever it is you want more of. Over time it becomes more of a reality.

Shifting your mindset from cup half empty to cup half full, changes that reality you experience."

Not sure I can just create money in my bank account using positive affirmations

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Lack of confidence, lack of motivation, lack of money and time, lack of opportunity

The way I understand things, by saying and repeating these things in your daily life, creates the lack of whatever it is you want more of. Over time it becomes more of a reality.

Shifting your mindset from cup half empty to cup half full, changes that reality you experience."

You mean I could just repeat I want to lose weight every day instead of dragging my fat arse out running!?! Game changer.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

My personality mainly.

And possibly overall lack of talent. But I’m blaming it all on the system.

Damn the system.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
17 weeks ago

Voldsøy

My neurodivergent brain.

Being neurotypical.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Lack of confidence, lack of motivation, lack of money and time, lack of opportunity

The way I understand things, by saying and repeating these things in your daily life, creates the lack of whatever it is you want more of. Over time it becomes more of a reality.

Shifting your mindset from cup half empty to cup half full, changes that reality you experience.

Not sure I can just create money in my bank account using positive affirmations "

No but you can create future opportunities to come to you that help you gain more and avoid unexpected disasters through stability. Opportunities can come through many ways, maybe you'll manifest a rich sugar daddy into your life 😂

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By *bitofaslutWoman
17 weeks ago

Cannock


"From getting what you want in life ?"

Waiting lists


"And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️"

Informed consent.

I'm the states you can walk into a Planned Parenthood clinic, tell them you're trans and want to start hormone treatment and get your pills the same week one you confirm you understand and accept the risk.

Here, I'm on the shortest waiting list for one of the nine gender clinics nationwide. That's 2.5 years. Some clinics have lists decades long.

I could buy them in the grey market. Estrogen and progesterone aren't illegal after all, but I have medical conditions that require such treatment to be monitored and the NHS won't touch DIYers with a bargepole.

So I'm stuck with an unaltered masc body I don't want and tits from Amazon until I get to the top of the list.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
17 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

Want and need are 2 different things.

I have what I need.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"From getting what you want in life ?

Waiting lists

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️

Informed consent.

I'm the states you can walk into a Planned Parenthood clinic, tell them you're trans and want to start hormone treatment and get your pills the same week one you confirm you understand and accept the risk.

Here, I'm on the shortest waiting list for one of the nine gender clinics nationwide. That's 2.5 years. Some clinics have lists decades long.

I could buy them in the grey market. Estrogen and progesterone aren't illegal after all, but I have medical conditions that require such treatment to be monitored and the NHS won't touch DIYers with a bargepole.

So I'm stuck with an unaltered masc body I don't want and tits from Amazon until I get to the top of the list."

🙁🤗🤗🤗

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
17 weeks ago

kent

I’ve spent 25 years trying to break through a wall. What would help? A bigger hammer (and maybe more talent).

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By *rHotNottsMan
17 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Pretty content with things. A little more energy occasionally would help.

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By *orphia2003Woman
17 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

My wonky brain and inability to pass driving test

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By *sWyldWoman
17 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Lack of self control mainly

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By *edSirenWoman
17 weeks ago

magic mountain

Time

And time

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
17 weeks ago

kent


"Time

And time"

👆and this too x

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

- little/no ability to convince others.

- hypnøtism. 😵‍💫

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
17 weeks ago

saddleworth NW


"From getting what you want in life ?

And what would help you remove that obstacle ?

🤷‍♂️"

Family. Members

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By *eorgesdad69Man
17 weeks ago

Long Eaton

Homophobia 🤪 As I would like to come out as Gay❤️

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London


"Homophobia 🤪 As I would like to come out as Gay❤️"

It’ll always be around. May as well come out.

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By *adbod2godbodMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester

I used to say time.

But now I don't know what I want

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By *ergus1622Man
17 weeks ago

Dundee

Decent paying job, lack of childcare care.

Win the lottery would help or better job

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By *ony MannMan
17 weeks ago

South Newton


"Life"

And money

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
17 weeks ago

belfast

Myself. Too lazy if I'm honest.

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By *ceKweenWoman
17 weeks ago

Bolton

Too cautious

But

No regrets

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By *artorialMan
17 weeks ago

weymouth

Face/body/age/apathy/insecurity

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
17 weeks ago

Ipswich

Winning £202 million

The winning numbers

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By *urvelover87Man
17 weeks ago

London

Face, height, lack of muscular mass and inches of dick. All fixable with money, which I don't have.

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