FabSwingers.com forum: When will you...

By *tsJustKate OP Woman
17 weeks ago

London

Give up the 'Swinging' life-style?

I decided in January that this will be my last year of meeting anyone and settle into my sexless old age. It's been nearly 40 years since I enjoyed my first extra-marital cock and it's been absolutely fantastic.

So has anyone else made a similar decision?

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By *entfootloverMan
17 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

"Give up the 'Swinging' life-style?

So has anyone else made a similar decision?"

That's a good run!

Curious as to why you want to end it when it's gone so well for you?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Yes, I gave up about four years ago and just stay for the forums

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By *tsJustKate OP Woman
17 weeks ago

London

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By *tsJustKate OP Woman
17 weeks ago

London

"Yes, I gave up about four years ago and just stay for the forums"

That's probably what I will do to.

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By *tsJustKate OP Woman
17 weeks ago

London

"Give up the 'Swinging' life-style?

So has anyone else made a similar decision?

That's a good run!

Curious as to why you want to end it when it's gone so well for you?"

It's been great, but I feel I'm just a bit tired if it.

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By *ose_53Woman
17 weeks ago

harrow

I first dipped my toe into this lifestyle 25 years ago ….. gaps in those 25 years….. but always returning and playing and as a single female, occasionally going to parties / clubs with a fuck buddy.

Hard to give up completely!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
17 weeks ago

North Angus

Never really been in the lifestyle, just here for the high quality banter

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"Give up the 'Swinging' life-style?

So has anyone else made a similar decision?

That's a good run!

Curious as to why you want to end it when it's gone so well for you?

It's been great, but I feel I'm just a bit tired if it."
That was me, I'd been swinging all my adult life, done some weird, wild and wonderful things then just woke up one morning and didn't want to do it anymore. But my god have I got some memories

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By *hat.coupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Kent

Absolutely never! As long as anyone will have us we will continue x I'm going into old age disgracefully and have no shame whatsoever!

Mrs x

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

I'll carry on as long as ladies wear blue underwear 💙

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By *tsJustKate OP Woman
17 weeks ago

London

"Give up the 'Swinging' life-style?

So has anyone else made a similar decision?

That's a good run!

Curious as to why you want to end it when it's gone so well for you?

It's been great, but I feel I'm just a bit tired if it.That was me, I'd been swinging all my adult life, done some weird, wild and wonderful things then just woke up one morning and didn't want to do it anymore. But my god have I got some memories"

Yes, me to, and the photos!

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By *tsJustKate OP Woman
17 weeks ago

London

"Absolutely never! As long as anyone will have us we will continue x I'm going into old age disgracefully and have no shame whatsoever!

Mrs x"

I have no shame about it at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"just here for the high quality banter "

They have that here? 🤔

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By *oeBeansMan
17 weeks ago

Derby

I've always thought that if I ever met someone away from Fab who I wanted to spend my life with, I could very easily leave this behind... So I'll probably be here when all the new forumites in 50 years go "Oh JoeBeans is dead, what shame. He was always part of the furniture"

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I'm not a swinger by any means.

If someone said to me I would never have sex again I'd probably be ok with it. My life isn't really made to enjoy or have sex that often anyway so I'll just stay whilst I continue getting some amusement from here.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
17 weeks ago

Manchester

When it stops being appealing to me and I become bored, or I meet someone who makes me feel like I don't my want to do it anymore. At the moment I am very much enjoying it. I am sure that may change.

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

When it no longer feels right for me.

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

12th August 2025

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By *hat.coupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Kent

"Absolutely never! As long as anyone will have us we will continue x I'm going into old age disgracefully and have no shame whatsoever!

Mrs x

I have no shame about it at all!"

Not suggesting you do x

Mrs x

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By *rdere OpusCouple
17 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"When it no longer feels right for me."

This really. When I stop enjoying it.

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By *xfordjohnMan
17 weeks ago

Oxford

I intend to carry on for as long I can. I've been swinging for about the same length of time (40 years) but with some long gaps over that time. Really, I still haven't got over the excitement of those early sessions and just want to do it all over again as often as possible.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
17 weeks ago

Bristol

Shall keep at it until I’m so old and infirm that I need a mobility scooter or wheelchair...

note to self... check out which clubs are wheelchair friendly

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By *lofeldMan
17 weeks ago

Redhill

I'm a very lazy swinger, but I don't see me giving up, unless I meet someone who makes me want to give up at least.

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By *elly and daveCouple
17 weeks ago

gateshead

If we can sneak out of the old people's home,we'll still be doing it..lol

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By *eneralKenobiMan
17 weeks ago

North Angus

"just here for the high quality banter

They have that here? 🤔"

Only when the cool kids like us are around

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By *a LunaWoman
17 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I think I already have. I’ve not met anyone since before lockdown and I’m not particularly bothered if I meet anyone again.

The thought of having to get out there and meet folk just to get some sex makes me run dry.

I’m more after a bit of romance, but I don’t want to put the effort into that either right now.

I see lonely old spinster being eaten by cats in my future!

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

"I think I already have. I’ve not met anyone since before lockdown and I’m not particularly bothered if I meet anyone again.

The thought of having to get out there and meet folk just to get some sex makes me run dry.

I’m more after a bit of romance, but I don’t want to put the effort into that either right now.

I see lonely old spinster being eaten by cats in my future!

That makes me a bit 😓 Luna. You always come over as such a good person on here, and you have cracking boobs. Far too young to retire.

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By *ickedtiesWoman
17 weeks ago

limerick

Soon I think but will probably dip in and out of it in the future

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By *oml and mwgcCouple
17 weeks ago

Birstall

I think i may have given it up already without realising.

I havn't had a play meet for approx 2 years and havn't been to a club (i only meet in clubs) for approx 2 years.

I really can't make the effort now and chronic ill health doesn't help.

I don't miss it though.

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
17 weeks ago

Reading

"12th August 2025"

That is extremely specific!

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

"12th August 2025

That is extremely specific!"

I like to plan ahead 🤣🤣

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