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By *uzySue69 OP TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Welwyn Garden City

Why do people do it?

I’ve been chatting with an admirer for weeks.

He messaged me this morning to confirm I was still ok to meet, which I was.

We agreed a time and that was 9pm this morning.

Due to arrive at 11:30am and then nothing!!

Why do that?

So annoying!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
17 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Probably the confusion arriving from 9pm in the morning.

Go there again at 2100hrs

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By *herrybakewellCouple
17 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Probably the confusion arriving from 9pm in the morning.

Go there again at 2100hrs"

This!!! Lol

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By *oughmanMan
17 weeks ago

Sunderland

Who the hell knows what what goes through other people's minds. I've had happen to me too. They didn't turn up, no word and then they block me. We're not the first and we sure as hell won't be the last.

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I have a theory on this.

People are dickheads.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
17 weeks ago

from mars

That’s why I’m on my own time ⏱

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No idea why people do what they do sometimes. I flirted with a guy last year, who actively pursued me send wanted to know when I could meet, offered his place, checked in with me if he saw me online, without being creepy. Eventually I had some time, attached a meet, dressed and everything, and messaged him to get the address as I was ready to leave. Nothing. He wasn't online, and didn't log in again for nearly a week. At which point he simply ghosted me.

I eventually told him what I thought and blocked him.

I was checking my block list earlier today, and noticed that his status is complaining "doesn't anyone ever meet here". 🙄

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By *ewtfaceMan
17 weeks ago

Bracknell

I think people simply chicken out. What seems a good idea in fantasy, becomes a bad idea when faced with the reality.

But just ghosting is poor manners; least that needs to be done is to say "sorry, change of plan"

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Yeah it super annoying we had a meet arranged on the 31st of February at 9am at night and he never showed up 😊

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By *armite 500Man
17 weeks ago

Darlington

I get this quite a lot wtf is wrong with people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Unfortunately it happens even had it where I can see clearly from the whos near function that they are outside the hotel or even in it and then they go off line and silence for next 6 or so hours

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