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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

As a lot of us have admitted to being useless at flirting with each other maybe we could post here and hopefully a social or maybe more could come of it

May work, may not but no harm in trying

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By *lubchuckerMan
3 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Sounds like a good idea, i'm up for it 👍

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By *otorbike1976Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Me tooooo

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By *weetCruellaWoman
3 weeks ago

somewhere sweet and sour

I'm always happy to meet bi ladies

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm always happy to meet bi ladies "

If only I was a year younger 🤣

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
3 weeks ago

North West


"As a lot of us have admitted to being useless at flirting with each other maybe we could post here and hopefully a social or maybe more could come of it

May work, may not but no harm in trying "

First two people replying are men! 🤔😂

Anyway, yes please. I'm terrible at flirting with women. 😆

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
3 weeks ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Hi I'm in please

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By *viatrixWoman
3 weeks ago

Redhill

Yeah, bring it on babes

Nah, seriously, would love a social now that I can walk… slowly

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By *cLovin2Man
3 weeks ago

Reading


"As a lot of us have admitted to being useless at flirting with each other maybe we could post here and hopefully a social or maybe more could come of it

May work, may not but no harm in trying

First two people replying are men! 🤔😂

Anyway, yes please. I'm terrible at flirting with women. 😆"

The men turned up at the very mention of the notion of lesbian

Yes we're in a primitive breed, we always have to hope we're in with a chance.

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Watermouth

Nora, I could never ware yellow ghe way you do.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm all.good with the socials, knowing people are into me is the issue 🙈

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

Lovely idea!

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds


"Sounds like a good idea, i'm up for it 👍"

Of course you are 😂

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading


"I'm all.good with the socials, knowing people are into me is the issue 🙈

"

Yours is the first picture I fabbed on this site - you sent a picture of you in a bra in front of your bookcases

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By *verydaycoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

chelmsford

Yes please love a good flirt x (female half)

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm all.good with the socials, knowing people are into me is the issue 🙈

"

Yes exactly this! I just can’t read it with women

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nora, I could never ware yellow ghe way you do."

Why not! Of course you can

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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I really like this idea Nora, really I do.

I won't put a but. 🩷

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yeah, bring it on babes

Nah, seriously, would love a social now that I can walk… slowly "

Haha. I’ve not long had an op. We can slowly hobble along together 🤣

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wales

Brilliant idea Nora 🩷

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I really like this idea Nora, really I do.

I won't put a but. 🩷"

There’s always a but though. I think it will be but we’ll all just comment on here and nobody will message anyone 🤣

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By *heltered- girlWoman
3 weeks ago

Darlington

Glad I decided to come on here more regularly 48 hours ago 👅😈

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Glad I decided to come on here more regularly 48 hours ago 👅😈"

I did have a little peruse through your pics when you commented on another thread earlier

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍"

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
3 weeks ago

Around the Midlands


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! "

Same here 🫣

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! "

It really is. Unless she actually comes in for a kiss or touches me when I'm dancing I have no clue sometimes. 🤷

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

It really is. Unless she actually comes in for a kiss or touches me when I'm dancing I have no clue sometimes. 🤷"

I agree. And if she’s like you me and most of us she probably won’t and this is why we get nowhere 🤣🤣

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
3 weeks ago

N. Wales

This is the best post I've seen on here 🫶

Count me in! I'm clueless...

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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"I really like this idea Nora, really I do.

I won't put a but. 🩷

There’s always a but though. I think it will be but we’ll all just comment on here and nobody will message anyone 🤣"

Yep. It's far easier meeting women at socials etc and realising there's something there. On here I can't tell if the flirting is for me, them or penis owners reading it.

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By *dam1971Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! "

Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally.

I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more.

For the sake of her sanity, please message

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I really like this idea Nora, really I do.

I won't put a but. 🩷

There’s always a but though. I think it will be but we’ll all just comment on here and nobody will message anyone 🤣

Yep. It's far easier meeting women at socials etc and realising there's something there. On here I can't tell if the flirting is for me, them or penis owners reading it. "

Oh yeah. You can tell by the questions when it’s a man 🤣

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally.

I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more.

For the sake of her sanity, please message "

Haha. Awww I hope you’re not including yourself in that Adam!

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

It really is. Unless she actually comes in for a kiss or touches me when I'm dancing I have no clue sometimes. 🤷

I agree. And if she’s like you me and most of us she probably won’t and this is why we get nowhere 🤣🤣"

🤣🤣🤣 so very true. I've been really lucky to arrange things via here for club meets so we both know alls good. But I've missed so many opportunities in the past. 😪

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

It really is. Unless she actually comes in for a kiss or touches me when I'm dancing I have no clue sometimes. 🤷

I agree. And if she’s like you me and most of us she probably won’t and this is why we get nowhere 🤣🤣

🤣🤣🤣 so very true. I've been really lucky to arrange things via here for club meets so we both know alls good. But I've missed so many opportunities in the past. 😪"

I don’t really like clubs that much so it’s even harder 😢

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By *eliWoman
3 weeks ago

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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally.

I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more.

For the sake of her sanity, please message "

Not true. There are some beautiful men down that way. Truly glorious. Frustratingly so. ❤️

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally.

I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more.

For the sake of her sanity, please message

Not true. There are some beautiful men down that way. Truly glorious. Frustratingly so. ❤️"

I live quite near VA even though I’ve never been I should sit outside at chucking out time and have a look 🤣

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By *avie65Man
3 weeks ago

In the west.

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By *fffunCouple
3 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

In

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would

See . To the point 🤣🤣

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

& _fffun. Xx

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would

See . To the point 🤣🤣"

Me? . Or in general.

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield


"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would

See . To the point 🤣🤣

Me? . Or in general.

"

See. I rubbish even when I try . 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

One thing I am very aware of also is I’m out of lot of people’s age ranges so I’m so careful to check that. My age range is only really for men though and a few other ladies have said too. That they would meet older ladies but not men.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would

See . To the point 🤣🤣

Me? . Or in general.

See. I rubbish even when I try . 🤣🤣🤣"

I was just thinking that about myself 🤣🤣. Does she mean me?? Nah she must mean she would have socials in general 🤣🤣

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By *he MinionMan
3 weeks ago

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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally.

I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more.

For the sake of her sanity, please message

Not true. There are some beautiful men down that way. Truly glorious. Frustratingly so. ❤️

I live quite near VA even though I’ve never been I should sit outside at chucking out time and have a look 🤣"

If you wanted to go to VA Nora, our mutual friend and I would happily accompany you

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By *ockchickCouple
3 weeks ago

Stoke

Im in

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By *dam1971Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford


"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would

See . To the point 🤣🤣

Me? . Or in general.

See. I rubbish even when I try . 🤣🤣🤣

I was just thinking that about myself 🤣🤣. Does she mean me?? Nah she must mean she would have socials in general 🤣🤣"

FFS, is this what they mean when they say lesbian love is done slower?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN.

🤣😍

It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue!

Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally.

I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more.

For the sake of her sanity, please message

Not true. There are some beautiful men down that way. Truly glorious. Frustratingly so. ❤️

I live quite near VA even though I’ve never been I should sit outside at chucking out time and have a look 🤣

If you wanted to go to VA Nora, our mutual friend and I would happily accompany you"

I know. Bit too close to home for me though. I have kids in their twenties and would literally die if some of their mates were there 🤣. The one I went to was Blackpool and I was still paranoid! Haha

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would

See . To the point 🤣🤣

Me? . Or in general.

See. I rubbish even when I try . 🤣🤣🤣

I was just thinking that about myself 🤣🤣. Does she mean me?? Nah she must mean she would have socials in general 🤣🤣

FFS, is this what they mean when they say lesbian love is done slower? "

Hahaha. And now I’m thinking should I message or not 🤣🤣. See! Useless. I’m not like this with men!

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

OK. I'll try again. If I was at a social and you were there Nora, I'd make a b line for you in the vain hope you would find me slightly fanciable. There. Done. 🤣

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By *dam1971Man
3 weeks ago

Bedford


"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would

See . To the point 🤣🤣

Me? . Or in general.

See. I rubbish even when I try . 🤣🤣🤣

I was just thinking that about myself 🤣🤣. Does she mean me?? Nah she must mean she would have socials in general 🤣🤣

FFS, is this what they mean when they say lesbian love is done slower?

Hahaha. And now I’m thinking should I message or not 🤣🤣. See! Useless. I’m not like this with men!"

Yes you should.

Christ, I’m a bi-woman’s wingman now

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would

See . To the point 🤣🤣

Me? . Or in general.

See. I rubbish even when I try . 🤣🤣🤣

I was just thinking that about myself 🤣🤣. Does she mean me?? Nah she must mean she would have socials in general 🤣🤣

FFS, is this what they mean when they say lesbian love is done slower?

Hahaha. And now I’m thinking should I message or not 🤣🤣. See! Useless. I’m not like this with men!

Yes you should.

Christ, I’m a bi-woman’s wingman now "

Damn I tried but my site supporter thing must have run out cos I’ve not been on here much 🤣

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By *bitofaslutWoman
3 weeks ago

Cannock

Go on then, let me astound you with obliviousness

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By *weetCruellaWoman
3 weeks ago

somewhere sweet and sour

I am pretty straight to the point lol oh and for the sanity of Nora I have messaged her

But then I always have been into just asking straight out xx Cruella does love the ladies lol

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Dartford

Fellow useless flirter and signal misser here! Come say hi if we tickle your fancy, this site is soul destroying at times. I'm always happy to chat x

Mrs x

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield


"I am pretty straight to the point lol oh and for the sanity of Nora I have messaged her

But then I always have been into just asking straight out xx Cruella does love the ladies lol"

Lol. Now that's the way. Make it easy for us simpletons 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield


"Fellow useless flirter and signal misser here! Come say hi if we tickle your fancy, this site is soul destroying at times. I'm always happy to chat x

Mrs x"

You would be one of those women I would look at at a club & just not bother. Way out my league. 🥰

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Dartford


"Fellow useless flirter and signal misser here! Come say hi if we tickle your fancy, this site is soul destroying at times. I'm always happy to chat x

Mrs x

You would be one of those women I would look at at a club & just not bother. Way out my league. 🥰"

Oh do behave madam! There are no leagues with us x very, very down to earth over here x

Come say hi x

Mrs x

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Dartford

Wow! I really killed this thread!!

Mrs x

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

No you didn't. Hi 👋👋

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
3 weeks ago

La La Land

In

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By *orphia2003Woman
3 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yeah, I'm in.

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
3 weeks ago

La La Land

I am loving this thread OP ❤️

But I know it has been tried numerous times before on forums and it seems to be all talk and no action when it comes to actually organising a social

Half the issue is location

I remember years ago, SB and I tried to get a north and a south ladies only social organised and it just never happened 😭

I will gladly help out where I can to make this happen though 🫶🏻

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I am loving this thread OP ❤️

But I know it has been tried numerous times before on forums and it seems to be all talk and no action when it comes to actually organising a social

Half the issue is location

I remember years ago, SB and I tried to get a north and a south ladies only social organised and it just never happened 😭

I will gladly help out where I can to make this happen though 🫶🏻"

Oh I know, I’ve tried to organise them before too. This is more one to one socials. Too much of a ball ache trying to organise a group one x

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
3 weeks ago

La La Land


"I am loving this thread OP ❤️

But I know it has been tried numerous times before on forums and it seems to be all talk and no action when it comes to actually organising a social

Half the issue is location

I remember years ago, SB and I tried to get a north and a south ladies only social organised and it just never happened 😭

I will gladly help out where I can to make this happen though 🫶🏻

Oh I know, I’ve tried to organise them before too. This is more one to one socials. Too much of a ball ache trying to organise a group one x"

Ah, sorry that's my fault 🤓

One to one socials I am definitely up for

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By *hat.coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Dartford


"No you didn't. Hi 👋👋"

Hey you x whatcha doin?

Mrs x

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
3 weeks ago

La La Land

Thank you Nora, might have one potential social organised already 😃

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Thank you Nora, might have one potential social organised already 😃"

Yay go you!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
3 weeks ago

Durham

Count me in. Would be great to meet genuine bi ladies, but those who meet solo without their man, are very few and far between.

Ruby

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By *aked Ch3fMan
3 weeks ago

brighton

Zero 0️⃣ lol

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Count me in. Would be great to meet genuine bi ladies, but those who meet solo without their man, are very few and far between.

Ruby"

Yep this has always been one of the main issues Ruby. Even if the lady is part of a couple I’m not interested in anyone else’s man at all. In any way whatsoever. Even for the initial social.

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By *shazza9Woman
3 weeks ago

Wrexham

Yes I'm certainly in but flirting with women only not men.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
3 weeks ago

Next Door

I'm in,

I'm crap at flirting or knowing someone flirting with me.

🤷‍♀️

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Everyone's miles away that I fancy. 😪😪

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Everyone's miles away that I fancy. 😪😪"

Always the way! 😩

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

I know it can be different in the flesh so to speak, but I'm going off pics from here.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"I know it can be different in the flesh so to speak, but I'm going off pics from here. "

Same that’s why I always have a social first.

I’d probably travel an hour or so and if people are willing to meet half way it’s not too bad. I’m within 40 mins of 6 different counties and it’s still a nightmare 🤣🤣

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Have travelled an hour before. Guess what. ? No show. Either that or they spied me and did a runner. 😅

Real confidence killer.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Have travelled an hour before. Guess what. ? No show. Either that or they spied me and did a runner. 😅

Real confidence killer. "

No way! I’d be fuming. Thats so bad 😕

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

Mansfield

Yep. Not the best. That's the main reason I only meet at clubs now.

But then that brings up the flirting again . 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Bump

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By *eyeYCouple
2 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

I'm shocking at flirting with either sex!

I leave it to D, he's far better than I at connecting.. 🤷🤣

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Really don't know the answer to be honest. 🤷

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Really don't know the answer to be honest. 🤷"

Same but thought may as well keep the thread alive to chat or maybe message/see who’s local to each other etc x

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

& thank so much for that Nora. I actually thought I was making progress over the weekend, but that's fell flat. 🤣🤣🤣

Oh well. On we go. Xx

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"& thank so much for that Nora. I actually thought I was making progress over the weekend, but that's fell flat. 🤣🤣🤣

Oh well. On we go. Xx"

Same! I was chatting to a lady for a while but she seems to have disappeared 🤣🤷‍♀️

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By *emidemiWoman
2 weeks ago

basingstoke

Oh I love this thread

I’m absolutely useless at flirting with women! So I guess I’m saying I’m in x

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Oh she's still here, but we're not ideally matched. 😪😪

Lives 5 mins away aswell. 😭😭😭

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oh she's still here, but we're not ideally matched. 😪😪

Lives 5 mins away aswell. 😭😭😭"

Oh no!!!!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Oh I love this thread

I’m absolutely useless at flirting with women! So I guess I’m saying I’m in x"

Welcome! Hopefully some local people will pop up

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By *eyeYCouple
2 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"& thank so much for that Nora. I actually thought I was making progress over the weekend, but that's fell flat. 🤣🤣🤣

Oh well. On we go. Xx

Same! I was chatting to a lady for a while but she seems to have disappeared 🤣🤷‍♀️"

Very familiar story with a lot of ladies here in our experience.. 🤷 Unfortunately we treat any with trepidation, never sure I'd they're fake till meeting now 🙄

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By *ubian QueenWoman
2 weeks ago

Wirral

I can't even flirt with men, never mind women lol - help! 🫣🙈😂😂

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

That's very true. To be honest tho, I think it's more my fault as my profile is quite niche.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

I think I've already said I'm in but then bottled actually making contact with anyone. I'm feeling brave so back in

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By *heswingglersCouple
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

This is such a good idea

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield


"That's very true. To be honest tho, I think it's more my fault as my profile is quite niche. "

That was aimed at DeyeY x

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
2 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Jumping on this one

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Everyone’s so far away 😞

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By *annyDanielleMan
2 weeks ago

Street, Somerset


"As a lot of us have admitted to being useless at flirting with each other maybe we could post here and hopefully a social or maybe more could come of it

May work, may not but no harm in trying

First two people replying are men! 🤔😂

Anyway, yes please. I'm terrible at flirting with women. 😆

The men turned up at the very mention of the notion of lesbian

Yes we're in a primitive breed, we always have to hope we're in with a chance."

I came across a psychology paper a while back that suggested that men are turned on by lesbianism, in part, because it represents a 'rejection of the penis'. Total bollocks (or lack thereof) or what?

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

.........

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By *ittleMissMinionWoman
2 weeks ago

La La Land


"Jumping on this one "

You can jump on me anytime you like!

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By *umlover30sWoman
2 weeks ago

Burgess Hill

enters the chat

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

💋🥵

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
2 weeks ago

Wiltshire


"Jumping on this one

You can jump on me anytime you like! "

Oh, hello

That sounds like an offer I can’t refuse

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

I'd love to chat.

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By *fffunCouple
2 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

I can't read the signals plus new to this side of flirting.. trying with women... Tbf never really flirted as got with hubby when I was 18 so dnt really flirt just go shy n blush and go really clumsy. That's with men... With women don't know where to start...but I know I like thier beauty and more sensual nature x never been to socials, nerve wreaking...

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

OK. Scrap the flirting. I'll just come in for a kiss. 🤷

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Anyone East-coast…location is killer here! Have to travel at least an hour to find civilisation 😬

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield


"Anyone East-coast…location is killer here! Have to travel at least an hour to find civilisation 😬"

Wow, you really must be on the coast. Shame 🥵

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By *uriousminds2008Couple
2 weeks ago

London

We are on the look out for a lovely bi lady

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Aren't we all 🤷

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"We are on the look out for a lovely bi lady "

Join the queue 😂

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By *onnie 90Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

This is a thread for bi/gay ladies? Why are men replying that they're "up for it" etc?

Anyway, hi. I'm female. I'm bi and happy to chat with any bi/gay ladies*

*not men.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"This is a thread for bi/gay ladies? Why are men replying that they're "up for it" etc?

Anyway, hi. I'm female. I'm bi and happy to chat with any bi/gay ladies*

*not men."

Because - men 🙄😂

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"This is a thread for bi/gay ladies? Why are men replying that they're "up for it" etc?

Anyway, hi. I'm female. I'm bi and happy to chat with any bi/gay ladies*

*not men."

There’s always a few men that comment on these threads

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By *onnie 90Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds


"I really like this idea Nora, really I do.

I won't put a but. 🩷

There’s always a but though. I think it will be but we’ll all just comment on here and nobody will message anyone 🤣"

"But" - the killer word in any conversation. I would - but, I like you - but...

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By *fffunCouple
2 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Morning ladies. 💋💋

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By *fffunCouple
2 weeks ago

Somewhere just outside London

After noon

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 weeks ago

Mansfield

Evening. 💋💋

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Hello sexy ladies

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By *ustus5555Woman
6 days ago

Mansfield

A little bump. 💋💋

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By *emidemiWoman
4 days ago

basingstoke

Evening ladies

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By *heswingglersCouple
4 days ago

Birmingham

Hey

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By *arnelianWoman
4 days ago

Ely/Cambridge - between the two

I'm fine flirting with men, but need more practice with the ladies.

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