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"I'm always happy to meet bi ladies ![]() If only I was a year younger 🤣 | |||
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"As a lot of us have admitted to being useless at flirting with each other maybe we could post here and hopefully a social or maybe more could come of it ![]() ![]() First two people replying are men! 🤔😂 Anyway, yes please. I'm terrible at flirting with women. 😆 | |||
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"As a lot of us have admitted to being useless at flirting with each other maybe we could post here and hopefully a social or maybe more could come of it ![]() ![]() The men turned up at the very mention of the notion of lesbian ![]() | |||
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"Sounds like a good idea, i'm up for it 👍" Of course you are 😂 | |||
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"I'm all.good with the socials, knowing people are into me is the issue 🙈 " Yours is the first picture I fabbed on this site - you sent a picture of you in a bra in front of your bookcases ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm all.good with the socials, knowing people are into me is the issue 🙈 " Yes exactly this! I just can’t read it with women | |||
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"Nora, I could never ware yellow ghe way you do." Why not! Of course you can ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, bring it on babes ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha. I’ve not long had an op. We can slowly hobble along together 🤣 | |||
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"I really like this idea Nora, really I do. I won't put a but. 🩷" There’s always a but though. I think it will be but we’ll all just comment on here and nobody will message anyone 🤣 | |||
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"Glad I decided to come on here more regularly 48 hours ago 👅😈" I did have a little peruse through your pics when you commented on another thread earlier ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍" It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! " Same here 🫣 | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! " It really is. Unless she actually comes in for a kiss or touches me when I'm dancing I have no clue sometimes. 🤷 | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! It really is. Unless she actually comes in for a kiss or touches me when I'm dancing I have no clue sometimes. 🤷" I agree. And if she’s like you me and most of us she probably won’t and this is why we get nowhere 🤣🤣 | |||
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"I really like this idea Nora, really I do. I won't put a but. 🩷 There’s always a but though. I think it will be but we’ll all just comment on here and nobody will message anyone 🤣" Yep. It's far easier meeting women at socials etc and realising there's something there. On here I can't tell if the flirting is for me, them or penis owners reading it. ![]() | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! " Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally. I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more. For the sake of her sanity, please message ![]() | |||
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"I really like this idea Nora, really I do. I won't put a but. 🩷 There’s always a but though. I think it will be but we’ll all just comment on here and nobody will message anyone 🤣 Yep. It's far easier meeting women at socials etc and realising there's something there. On here I can't tell if the flirting is for me, them or penis owners reading it. ![]() Oh yeah. You can tell by the questions when it’s a man 🤣 | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally. I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more. For the sake of her sanity, please message ![]() Haha. Awww I hope you’re not including yourself in that Adam! | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! It really is. Unless she actually comes in for a kiss or touches me when I'm dancing I have no clue sometimes. 🤷 I agree. And if she’s like you me and most of us she probably won’t and this is why we get nowhere 🤣🤣" 🤣🤣🤣 so very true. I've been really lucky to arrange things via here for club meets so we both know alls good. But I've missed so many opportunities in the past. 😪 | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! It really is. Unless she actually comes in for a kiss or touches me when I'm dancing I have no clue sometimes. 🤷 I agree. And if she’s like you me and most of us she probably won’t and this is why we get nowhere 🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣 so very true. I've been really lucky to arrange things via here for club meets so we both know alls good. But I've missed so many opportunities in the past. 😪" I don’t really like clubs that much so it’s even harder 😢 | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally. I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more. For the sake of her sanity, please message ![]() Not true. There are some beautiful men down that way. Truly glorious. Frustratingly so. ❤️ | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally. I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more. For the sake of her sanity, please message ![]() I live quite near VA even though I’ve never been I should sit outside at chucking out time and have a look 🤣 | |||
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"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would ![]() ![]() Me? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() See. I rubbish even when I try . 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I was just thinking that about myself 🤣🤣. Does she mean me?? Nah she must mean she would have socials in general 🤣🤣 | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally. I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more. For the sake of her sanity, please message ![]() If you wanted to go to VA Nora, our mutual friend and I would happily accompany you | |||
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"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() FFS, is this what they mean when they say lesbian love is done slower? ![]() | |||
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"I'm useless at flirting with other women. I don't even know when I'm being flirted with sometimes. Much prefer the blunt approach. So in a long winded kind of way I suppose I'm trying to say I'm well IN. 🤣😍 It’s so different than with men isn’t it? I honestly never have a clue! Hey, men are enigmatic! Occasionally. I’m only here to say that the blokes where Nora lives are as dissatisfying as it’s possible to be. You lot had better get your act together or she’ll be forced to look at male mediocrity some more. For the sake of her sanity, please message ![]() I know. Bit too close to home for me though. I have kids in their twenties and would literally die if some of their mates were there 🤣. The one I went to was Blackpool and I was still paranoid! Haha | |||
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"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hahaha. And now I’m thinking should I message or not 🤣🤣. See! Useless. I’m not like this with men! | |||
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"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes you should. Christ, I’m a bi-woman’s wingman now ![]() | |||
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"Well I'll put it out there now Nora. I would ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Damn I tried but my site supporter thing must have run out cos I’ve not been on here much 🤣 | |||
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"I am pretty straight to the point lol oh and for the sanity of Nora I have messaged her ![]() Lol. Now that's the way. Make it easy for us simpletons 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Fellow useless flirter and signal misser here! Come say hi if we tickle your fancy, this site is soul destroying at times. I'm always happy to chat x Mrs x" You would be one of those women I would look at at a club & just not bother. Way out my league. 🥰 | |||
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"Fellow useless flirter and signal misser here! Come say hi if we tickle your fancy, this site is soul destroying at times. I'm always happy to chat x Mrs x You would be one of those women I would look at at a club & just not bother. Way out my league. 🥰" Oh do behave madam! There are no leagues with us x very, very down to earth over here x Come say hi x Mrs x | |||
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"I am loving this thread OP ❤️ But I know it has been tried numerous times before on forums and it seems to be all talk and no action when it comes to actually organising a social ![]() Oh I know, I’ve tried to organise them before too. This is more one to one socials. Too much of a ball ache trying to organise a group one x | |||
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"I am loving this thread OP ❤️ But I know it has been tried numerous times before on forums and it seems to be all talk and no action when it comes to actually organising a social ![]() Ah, sorry that's my fault 🤓 One to one socials I am definitely up for ![]() | |||
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"No you didn't. Hi 👋👋" Hey you x whatcha doin? Mrs x | |||
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"Thank you Nora, might have one potential social organised already 😃" Yay go you! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Count me in. Would be great to meet genuine bi ladies, but those who meet solo without their man, are very few and far between. Ruby" Yep this has always been one of the main issues Ruby. Even if the lady is part of a couple I’m not interested in anyone else’s man at all. In any way whatsoever. Even for the initial social. | |||
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"Everyone's miles away that I fancy. 😪😪" Always the way! 😩 | |||
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"I know it can be different in the flesh so to speak, but I'm going off pics from here. ![]() ![]() Same that’s why I always have a social first. I’d probably travel an hour or so and if people are willing to meet half way it’s not too bad. I’m within 40 mins of 6 different counties and it’s still a nightmare 🤣🤣 | |||
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"Have travelled an hour before. Guess what. ? No show. Either that or they spied me and did a runner. 😅 Real confidence killer. " No way! I’d be fuming. Thats so bad 😕 | |||
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"Really don't know the answer to be honest. 🤷" Same but thought may as well keep the thread alive to chat or maybe message/see who’s local to each other etc x | |||
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"& thank so much for that Nora. I actually thought I was making progress over the weekend, but that's fell flat. 🤣🤣🤣 Oh well. On we go. Xx" Same! I was chatting to a lady for a while but she seems to have disappeared 🤣🤷♀️ | |||
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"Oh she's still here, but we're not ideally matched. 😪😪 Lives 5 mins away aswell. 😭😭😭" Oh no!!!! | |||
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"Oh I love this thread ![]() Welcome! Hopefully some local people will pop up ![]() | |||
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"& thank so much for that Nora. I actually thought I was making progress over the weekend, but that's fell flat. 🤣🤣🤣 Oh well. On we go. Xx Same! I was chatting to a lady for a while but she seems to have disappeared 🤣🤷♀️" Very familiar story with a lot of ladies here in our experience.. 🤷 Unfortunately we treat any with trepidation, never sure I'd they're fake till meeting now 🙄 | |||
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"That's very true. To be honest tho, I think it's more my fault as my profile is quite niche. " That was aimed at DeyeY x | |||
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"As a lot of us have admitted to being useless at flirting with each other maybe we could post here and hopefully a social or maybe more could come of it ![]() ![]() ![]() I came across a psychology paper a while back that suggested that men are turned on by lesbianism, in part, because it represents a 'rejection of the penis'. Total bollocks (or lack thereof) or what? ![]() | |||
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"Anyone East-coast…location is killer here! Have to travel at least an hour to find civilisation 😬" Wow, you really must be on the coast. Shame 🥵 | |||
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"This is a thread for bi/gay ladies? Why are men replying that they're "up for it" etc? Anyway, hi. I'm female. I'm bi and happy to chat with any bi/gay ladies* *not men." Because - men 🙄😂 | |||
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"This is a thread for bi/gay ladies? Why are men replying that they're "up for it" etc? Anyway, hi. I'm female. I'm bi and happy to chat with any bi/gay ladies* *not men." There’s always a few men that comment on these threads | |||
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"I really like this idea Nora, really I do. I won't put a but. 🩷 There’s always a but though. I think it will be but we’ll all just comment on here and nobody will message anyone 🤣" "But" - the killer word in any conversation. I would - but, I like you - but... | |||
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