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By (user no longer on site) OP   
17 weeks ago

Does this site actually make you in some ways oblivious to sex and nudity

Back in the day (yes I’m old) to see some form of nudity or read erotica you needed a trip to the newsagent or wherever to get a magazine

Now you can have ready access to nudity and sexual photos or videos does that in many ways down play the need for more.

Some, not all, will just want the release of an orgasm, without the contact or the process of meeting etc and some will say it is near on impossible to get a meet. So with the ready made sex content on the internet is that enough for you most of the time, or, do you feel that because it is around you all the time that actually the fun of it or the excitement is slightly removed

Personally I miss seeing someone naked for the first time in actual person

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By *eliWoman
17 weeks ago

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Sex? No. Not at all. The excitement is still there, I wouldn't be fucking if the fun was removed.

I still see people naked for the first time in actual person, still get a delightful frisson when someone I'm attracted to messages me. Readily available pornography isn't a substitution for sex.

I am a bit less... surprised about what I see/read on here.

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By *avid 50Man
17 weeks ago

kendal

Totally agree with you the excitement of the first kiss, the thrill of touching her body, and the pleasure of seeing her naked and holding her close beats anything the Internet has to offer

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By *ngrylookingpenis123Woman
17 weeks ago

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Oblivious to nudity, a bit yes.

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By *ags73Man
17 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Can log on, check for messages, read forum and lock out again without necessarily looking at pics

It’s a choice to look, in my opinion.

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By *dam1971Man
17 weeks ago

Bedford

Pictures are very nice of course, but someone who not only wants to be naked but wants it with me is still a delight.

That never gets old.

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By *ellhungvweMan
17 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I don’t think it makes me oblivious to sex and nudity but it certainly has normalised things that would have blown my mind before I joined fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

This site makes me more conscious of it. I don't think I ever worried about what I looked like naked pre fab days or if I was good at sex.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah I’m immune these days, a bloke could walk passed me with his cock out and I’d just calmly tell him “ flys undone mate “ and go about my day.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

There's nakid pics on here 👀

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

Probably the opposite for me ! I don't really look at many pictures on here, just a few friends and favourites, and not that much porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Probably the opposite for me ! I don't really look at many pictures on here, just a few friends and favourites, and not that much porn. "

You really are the funniest forum user.

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield


"Probably the opposite for me ! I don't really look at many pictures on here, just a few friends and favourites, and not that much porn.

You really are the funniest forum user. "

While you were away that was officially confirmed.🏆🤦‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Probably the opposite for me ! I don't really look at many pictures on here, just a few friends and favourites, and not that much porn.

You really are the funniest forum user.

While you were away that was officially confirmed.🏆🤦‍♂️"

Bless

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
17 weeks ago

kent

The answer is both yes and no. We have all been desensitised, you simply cannot exist in the western world without being so, never mind being in a place like Fab. Does that dilute the excitement of meeting people in the really real world? For me, no. Because I’m interested in the actual person far more than how they choose to disrobe online. Most of the visual content on here I give only a brief and cursory glance, how someone looks is less important to me than what they say x

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
17 weeks ago

kent


"This site makes me more conscious of it. I don't think I ever worried about what I looked like naked pre fab days or if I was good at sex. "

Oh hello you 😘 I still don’t worry. I don’t see the point. Nobody is going to fuck me based on what I look like anyway - it’s the mind they come for (if the come at all) x

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By *r SensualMan
17 weeks ago

London

Nope I wouldn’t say it does anymore as much as it used to. Love me some visual stimulation but nothing, and I mean nothing trumps physical interaction and intimacy with another person

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

My earliest memory in the world is a post set stripper telling me how awful men can be.

I don't think I've ever really worried about nudity being a thing. It's only of note if someone is uncomfortable really.

I'm only actively interested in someone's body if I'm actively interested in them as a whole. Otherwise it's just general nudity with the same sort of value as communal showers or getting changed at the swimming pool 💜

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By *eyond PurityCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I think it makes you more desensitised to it all.

However that being said, I’ve always been drawn to a pic that radiates sexiness and gets my mind working rather than a graphic or overly sexual pic.

Likewise in real life, someone who radiates sexiness will always appeal to me more.

K

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By *illy IdolMan
17 weeks ago

Midlands


"I think it makes you more desensitised to it all.

However that being said, I’ve always been drawn to a pic that radiates sexiness and gets my mind working rather than a graphic or overly sexual pic.

Likewise in real life, someone who radiates sexiness will always appeal to me more.

K"

You're welcome x

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By *estructionDollyWoman
17 weeks ago

Manchester

I think I've become desensitised to the oddballs on here and nothing shocks me now, in a way it might have before.

I do think I have lost my filter a bit though as I am quite an open book when it comes to talking about things like sex and kink etc. On Saturday I was in a busy city centre bar around 3pm with 7 other swingers before a group social, and myself and a couple were having quite a frank and open discussion about our experiences with kink and swinging forgetting there were other people sat all around us until one of the others pointed out with a laugh that the table of three middle aged men behind us were listening intently to our conversation and looking over I forget that not everyone is as open about this stuff as I'm so used to socialising with people in the lifestyle these days 🫣

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By *illy IdolMan
17 weeks ago

Midlands

I've become desensitised to a lot of stuff on here and in this lifestyle. When I've taken a break previously and come back, it took a bit of getting used to seeing so much penis pics again. Now I'm penis blind.

At a club event I went to, there was a guy with a paddle bending a girl over a table and spanking her arse, as everyone else were drinking their drinks. Nobody batted an eyelid as they continued chatting away.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I've become desensitised to a lot of stuff on here and in this lifestyle. When I've taken a break previously and come back, it took a bit of getting used to seeing so much penis pics again. Now I'm penis blind.

At a club event I went to, there was a guy with a paddle bending a girl over a table and spanking her arse, as everyone else were drinking their drinks. Nobody batted an eyelid as they continued chatting away."

Ha ha, we were in VA having sex on the chaisse lounge in a room where they had a buffet. People kept coming in, eating vol-u-vents, looking over but carrying on chatting and stuffing their faces.

It was brilliantly surreal…vol-au-vents at a sex club

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I've always been oblivious. I've never really been attracted to what someone's body looks like, I've never been attracted to magazine pictures or photos. One sexy underwear shot looks the same as any other. All penises roll into one.

Did have a funny experience once though, two women where in the 69 position as I came out the toilets and all I could think was ffs I nearly fell over you

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By *oughmanMan
17 weeks ago

Sunderland

I think life drawing classes had a hand in decensoring me a little to nudity first. But then I wouldn't be here if it was completely gone.

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By *illy IdolMan
17 weeks ago

Midlands


"I've become desensitised to a lot of stuff on here and in this lifestyle. When I've taken a break previously and come back, it took a bit of getting used to seeing so much penis pics again. Now I'm penis blind.

At a club event I went to, there was a guy with a paddle bending a girl over a table and spanking her arse, as everyone else were drinking their drinks. Nobody batted an eyelid as they continued chatting away.

Ha ha, we were in VA having sex on the chaisse lounge in a room where they had a buffet. People kept coming in, eating vol-u-vents, looking over but carrying on chatting and stuffing their faces.

It was brilliantly surreal…vol-au-vents at a sex club "

was it a nice buffet? How casual some people are never fails to amuse me

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