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By *aron Van Winkle OP   Man
17 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

How do women get with other women, because you are rubbish at flirting. Here’s my research and reasoning :

Men will find they put most of the effort chatting up a girl who look hot. And she’ll expect him to (I know I’m generalising … but I’m right. ) and your pick up lines suck too, probably, as we don’t know because you don’t flirt.

So I just expect 2 women awkwardly waiting for the other to say something flirty to the other and nothing happening.

They know they like each other, but inside they are all

‘why has she not asked me yet?

‘Doesn’t she like me?’

‘I’m not asking 1st?’

Etc,

You get my point.

^fun post. It’s not supposed to be serious. (For anyone who thinks otherwise.)

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
17 weeks ago

La La Land

It's true OP, women are great at flirting online but generally they are awful at flirting in person! I think it's the lack of confidence and worry they will get rejected

I get asked all the time by women "how do I approach another woman to let them know I fancy them?"

Just say what you want to say without being too crude on the opening line i.e. don't talk with your pulsating fanny and say FAF?

Complement them on what they're wearing, they smell divine, their lips look very kissable and see how they react.

If they respond with a cheeky smile, stroke their hair, touch your arm or face, game on!

Women will be very quick to say if they are not interested

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

oh come now, women are bad at flirting. Many are masterful art the and have had me blushing and fawning like a rabbit caught in the headlights.

Women are bad at flirting, I have heard it all now.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

You just kind of hope the other party is willing to take the lead. Following the thread with interest in the hope that someone has the answer 🤞🤞🤞

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By *ora the explorerWoman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

It’s true. I’m useless with women 😞

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Very true, I'm shit at flirting with women, I always think they are just being friendly, I need a neon flashing sign saying I fancy you.

Mrs

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
17 weeks ago

Voldsøy

I can't flirt full stop. A bit of forum flirts/banter, sure. Actual flirting irl and testing the waters is scary af though! I need them to be super clear they're flirting with intent, and not just being friendly. I'm here for pointers because hanging back for her to make the move rarely works with the ladies 🙈

Flashing neon signs that read, "I FANCY YOU" should come with the subscription 🤭

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

I’m terrible at this and all the women I’ve met seem to go away confused about my interest in them but I am determined to get better at this. I definitely want to find a regular woman FWB.

I figure strike up a conversation? Smile? Touch their arm as I’m talking? I’m shit at flirting generally, obviously.

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By *avie65Man
17 weeks ago

In the west.

Facial expressions, coy looks and looking away and blushing when either you or the other person says something works wonders.

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By *aron Van Winkle OP   Man
17 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

I knew it!!!

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By *EAT..85Woman
17 weeks ago

Nottingham

I'm good at flirting in person.

Not so much on-line though.

I've met all bar one of my lady dalliances in day to day life

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"I'm good at flirting in person.

Not so much on-line though.

I've met all bar one of my lady dalliances in day to day life "
same here majority are friends and family

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

I’m not very good with picking up the signs unless they are blatantly obvious with them … and when she is also thinking the same, that’s where we fail. Then I wonder whether we have gone too far into friend mode 😂 I’m rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Boring 🙄

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