FabSwingers.com forum: How Far?

By *yeeye OP Man
8 weeks ago

It's probably fair to describe my location as remote. There isn't much to the North, South or East and to the West is the Irish Sea.

How far would you travel or exoect others to travel to meet?

What good and bad experiences have you had with those a litte further away than you'd like?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
8 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

One of FWB lived 3 hours away. We spent weekends together, at theirs and at ours.

For the right people we would travel but we wouldn’t meet someone far away without having already met them. If we met in a club or an organised social and got on then we’d travel as far as necessary then.

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By *eoBloomsMan
8 weeks ago

Springfield

I've travelled long distances for social meets but wouldn't do it for sex as I like to see people fairly regularly, and unfortunately don't have the time for frequent travelling.

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By *parkle1974Woman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

Never had a bad experiance yet.... Used to travel from Leeds to Glasgow on a regular basis but he was a FWB so loved the drive knowing what was waiting for me when I got there x

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By *avie65Man
8 weeks ago

In the west.

"Never had a bad experiance yet.... Used to travel from Leeds to Glasgow on a regular basis but he was a FWB so loved the drive knowing what was waiting for me when I got there x"

A pint of Tennents and a fish supper from the Blue Lagoon?

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By *vaRoseWoman
8 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I regularly travel a couple of hours to see someone

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By *parkle1974Woman
8 weeks ago

Leeds

"Never had a bad experiance yet.... Used to travel from Leeds to Glasgow on a regular basis but he was a FWB so loved the drive knowing what was waiting for me when I got there x

A pint of Tennents and a fish supper from the Blue Lagoon?

Something like that...you can take the girl out of Scotland but never take Scotland out the girl

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By *ucka39Man
8 weeks ago

Newcastle

I've travelled as far as Edinburgh which didn't take long and was a regular basis weekend fun. All in all it's always been roughly 2 hours or just over

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

"One of FWB lived 3 hours away. We spent weekends together, at theirs and at ours.

Same as this really. As I don't drive it makes it trickier and I probably wouldn't travel maybe more than an hour for an initial meet up so Leeds/Liverpool would be the maximum I would travel and it would probably have to be daytime so I can get a train back.

But I meet people all the time at clubs who live allover the country and if we know the chemistry and connection is there and we want to see eachother again I will travel 3/4 hours and spend a weekend together if funds/schedules allow. I've done a bus, three trains one way and then a 40 minute drive at the other end, plus the same back two days later before. It just wouldn't be an every week thing 😅

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By *bitofaslutWoman
8 weeks ago

Cannock

I can't drive and have a rule of not spending more on the train than on the hotel which keeps me pretty much limited to a roughly 50 mile radius but ONLY if the meet is 100% guaranteed. I like visiting new places but if I'm going there to get fucked I kinda would actually like to get fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I've travelled to Devon from North Yorkshire in the past to spend time with someone. Obviously, I wouldn't do that frequently. Currently I travel just over 2 hours a couple of times a month.

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
8 weeks ago

A Dirty Hole

I’d travel to Scotland and then wales, and then Ireland and back to England hopefully picking up some women on the way.

If they are worth it, I’d get at least 2 buses.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Happy to travel a couple of hours for genuine folk

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By *rightonfranceMan
8 weeks ago

brighton - chalais france

you should try living where I do in south west france and try and find meets.. nearest woman to me right now is 286 miles away..

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"I can't drive and have a rule of not spending more on the train than on the hotel which keeps me pretty much limited to a roughly 50 mile radius but ONLY if the meet is 100% guaranteed. I like visiting new places but if I'm going there to get fucked I kinda would actually like to get fucked."

Those rail prices now a days is what's fucking you.

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

I don't have any expectation on how far I expect the other to travel. That's their choice. I'd feel a tad uncomfortable if it was quite some distance and it was solely for the purpose of seeing me and we'd not met before.

How far I travel depends on how invested I am. My biggest hurdle is time, financially I'm cool but time wise? I'm poor. I don't really do the club thing, I quite like socials as an informal, less pressured way of meeting someone.

I've generally always had positive experiences when I've travelled a little bit - I wouldn't be travelling if I didn't think we'd get along.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
8 weeks ago

Cannock

Those rail prices now a days is what's fucking you. "

Y'know!

£150 to Cambridge, more to skeggy. If I wanted to go to VA for example, I'm looking at 160-180 before accomodation.

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By *a LunaWoman
8 weeks ago

Wherever the wind takes me

I can’t travel far due to home life commitments and also the financial costs.

I’d not expect anyone to travel far to meet me, as I can’t commit to more than a few hours with them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
8 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I don't drive so never used to travel to far or travel much anyway

I'd travel for parties, clubs and socials.

I always found after the initial social guys where happy to come to me as I could accommodate which was a bonus

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By *olo180Man
8 weeks ago

West London

"It's probably fair to describe my location as remote. There isn't much to the North, South or East and to the West is the Irish Sea.

How far would you travel or exoect others to travel to meet?

What good and bad experiences have you had with those a litte further away than you'd like?"

Would only travel an hour (but only after plenty of chats to make sure genuine)

I travel with work occasionally so sometimes meet people far from home but obviously in the area I’m staying.

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By *ustcallMan
8 weeks ago

Glasgow

If you have made a connection with the person, you have chemistry I would travel anywhere 🚂

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By *orbidden eastMan
8 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Depending how long we’ve been talking and we got a great connection. I would say about an hour, not a problem.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I'm not a fan of people travelling long distances to meet me. Unless they're in the area for something else and I'm a detour, I am okay with that. Feels like too much pressure. It'd be different if we'd met already.

I've travelled to the north (does Manchester count as the north?) for sex and didn't end up with any sex so my patience for travelling to meet others is quite low as well.

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By *tr8MrEMan
8 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"It's probably fair to describe my location as remote. There isn't much to the North, South or East and to the West is the Irish Sea.

How far would you travel or exoect others to travel to meet?

What good and bad experiences have you had with those a litte further away than you'd like?"

I think it's all down to the connection and the commitment to each other that's key...I'd like to think we'd all have the sense not to travel for hours for a fuck

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By *ellinever70Woman
8 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I don't mind a little distance if I have the down time for some adventure

But ordinarily, distance isn't achievable or desirable for me

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By *yeeye OP Man
7 weeks ago

Thanks everyone, that has given me some food for thought.

It seems that maybe heading to a club or social events would be best. Make a few connections that I might like to travel to.

With that said, the nearest club is Blackpool so still over two hours!

Anyone want to chip in and start a club in Cumbria?

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By *iSoloCouple
7 weeks ago

Tamworth

We used to travel the whole of the U.K. and arrange meets in the hotel of an evening

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
7 weeks ago

furnace

"We used to travel the whole of the U.K. and arrange meets in the hotel of an evening

And why not and who doesn’t like. Naughty weekend away

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Chichester

For a social / casual meet usually about an hour ish drive radius

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
7 weeks ago

furnace

Most places in uk is an hours flight

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By *hiversMan
7 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

A couple of hours or so... depending on the person

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
7 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

"Most places in uk is an hours flight "

It’s an hours drive to get to an airport

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
7 weeks ago

furnace

More for me but it’s an adventure and get a weekend away if it doesn’t work

Out

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
7 weeks ago

Next Door

I would travel a few hours to meet someone. I would have had calls/messaging before that so not quite going in blind.

As for someone travelling to me, I wouldn't expect anyone to travel but it's nice when they do.

If a regular thing was developing then I would like both willing to travel to make it work.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
7 weeks ago

furnace

"I would travel a few hours to meet someone. I would have had calls/messaging before that so not quite going in blind.

As for someone travelling to me, I wouldn't expect anyone to travel but it's nice when they do.

If a regular thing was developing then I would like both willing to travel to make it work.

Of course it’s what we all want I’m lucky I have one couple with this arrangement

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

I live in London and I've travelled as far 'north' as Manchester and back (overnight). I don't mind travelling these distances.

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By *ripfillMan
7 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Absolutely will do, and i have travelled for the right person (s) in the right circumstances,

Which have all led to positive pleasurable outcomes.

Certainly wonderful fab memories have been made.

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By *ueenbee689Woman
7 weeks ago

Somewhere under your bed

I travelled 2 hours to climb Snowdon for a fab social! 2 years later we live together 🥰 Sometimes it’s good to get out of your comfort zone. We are now a couple on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

For someone I've never met before - a hour max, for someone I know I'm into maybe further.

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
7 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

For someone I’ve chatted to for a bit and feel it’s worth the meet… 3hrs or so… 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *exxyyDy11Man
7 weeks ago

North West

"For someone I’ve chatted to for a bit and feel it’s worth the meet… 3hrs or so… 🤷🏻‍♀️"

Yeah I'm the same. Got to be someone I've had chats with for ages and generally look forward to meeting. Plus I drive so distance is no issue

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
7 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't like to travel that far, but then I've got a few million people within 30 minutes travel time, so can afford to not want to go any distance

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By *outhern77Man
7 weeks ago

Birmingham

Well, I'm going 75miles (one way) for a Social in a couple of weeks time but have driven about 250 before (one way) for a fun meet

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By *issmorganWoman
7 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I personally wouldn't travel too far, especially for a first meet.

In the past, when single, I've been to Leicester and Liverpool for meets. However I knew the people & we'd met before.

I get totally baffled when people 250 miles away start messaging me, because it's not realistic at all.

I wouldn't go to them & I wouldn't want someone to travel so far to me. I feel like they'd be expecting more than just a social for if they came a fair way.

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

I shall henceforth bookmark 🔖 all the maidens on this thread who have asserted their willingness to travel (to London)...for future dalliances. 🩶

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
7 weeks ago

North West mainly. Sometimes London/SouthWest

I have always been firm on the no further than 30 mins drive or so away from me but recently went further afield. I suppose it you hit it off with someone and they are worth it, you make the effort.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
7 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

When back to meeting, probably about 15 minutes walk or 1.5 mile radius. Not taking into account Naismith's Rule.

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By *r SensualMan
7 weeks ago

London

The majority of my connections through here are with those out of my city/town as I tend to travel further afield to go to clubs. My partner is in Northamptonshire and my FWB is based in Cardiff way and seeing them both regularly has very little issues. Neither myself or either of them drive too.

If we were to meet in a public setting like a club first and hit it off, then I’d have no issue travelling to meet someone.

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