FabSwingers.com forum: Do you get enough

By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Sex?

Simple question really.

Would you like more? Are you happy with your lot? Are you happy having none at all?

Just doing a bit of research again for Sydney

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm more than happy having nome at all

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Once a year.

Is it enough? Sometimes the effort for that one night is quite frankly not even worth it.

Do I want more? Do you know how hard it is finding a guy that's attractive and that isn't a total dick? Bloody impossible.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'm more than happy having nome at all"

Is that forever or do you think you may want to again? x

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Once a year.

Is it enough? Sometimes the effort for that one night is quite frankly not even worth it.

Do I want more? Do you know how hard it is finding a guy that's attractive and that isn't a total dick? Bloody impossible.

Haha. She’s back!

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By *viatrixWoman
17 weeks ago

Redhill

I don’t, no. But for now it suits me fine. The trauma in my body made my libido drop completely.

But now it is waking up slowly.

So hopefully I’ll get some sex to match it haha

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

My only regular partner spends half the year abroad so it's either feast or famine for me. I guess more would be welcome but I find it pretty easy to tune the need out.

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By *ackson 501Man
17 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Not had any for ages xx

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By *estructionDollyWoman
17 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Absolutely not, being single has some disadvantages 🥲

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Not enough sex by any stretch but then the last couple of years have been pretty crap for me so I haven't really wanted it .. this has got to be my year surely 🤣🤣

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"My only regular partner spends half the year abroad so it's either feast or famine for me. I guess more would be welcome but I find it pretty easy to tune the need out."

See you in a phonebooth soon yeah ?? 🤣🤣🤣

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
17 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"I'm more than happy having nome at all

Is that forever or do you think you may want to again? x "
Definetly for ever I have absolutely no sexual urges whatsoever but I have a lifetime of memories to look back on

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By *bitofaslutWoman
17 weeks ago

Cannock

Not even close!

But given that my dating pool is basically a raindrop in the Sahara at midday in June I'm getting as much as I can reasonably expect

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

"Not enough sex by any stretch but then the last couple of years have been pretty crap for me so I haven't really wanted it .. this has got to be my year surely 🤣🤣"

I'll be waiting in that phonebox

🤣

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By *ic0Man
17 weeks ago

Ware

I get loads and always need way more!

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By *oeBeansMan
17 weeks ago

Derby

Absolutely not

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

"My only regular partner spends half the year abroad so it's either feast or famine for me. I guess more would be welcome but I find it pretty easy to tune the need out.

See you in a phonebooth soon yeah ?? 🤣🤣🤣"

OMFG, Snap 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Just doing a bit of research again for Sydney

I haven’t had enough today. If that counts.

"Do I want more? Do you know how hard it is finding a guy that's attractive and that isn't a total dick? Bloody impossible."

I’m free tonight. Get on a train or something and come see me.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I'm more than happy having nome at all

Is that forever or do you think you may want to again? x Definetly for ever I have absolutely no sexual urges whatsoever but I have a lifetime of memories to look back on"

❤️

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By *inxy777Woman
17 weeks ago

essex

If I was lucky enough to get more of course, but I’ll just carry on the way I am for now. x

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By *xfordjohnMan
17 weeks ago

Oxford

My simple answer is no, I don't. Having lost both my lovely wife and, more recently, the couple I saw regularly for threesomes, the odd meeting with a bi guy isn't really enough, even though a couple of them are becoming friends and more regular. But I'm always hopeful that things will improve.

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By *oughmanMan
17 weeks ago

Sunderland

No, nowhere near. You would have to consider none as enough to even qualify.

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By *EAT..85Woman
17 weeks ago

Nottingham

I do. I dial it up and down as I need.

Needing a little less currently 🤷‍♀️

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

"Absolutely not"

Fuck me Joe, what chance have the rest of us got then 😭😭😭

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Do I want more? Do you know how hard it is finding a guy that's attractive and that isn't a total dick? Bloody impossible.

I’m free tonight. Get on a train or something and come see me."

If you're partial to a bit of blood and me being a tad hormonal then sure - on my way!

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"My only regular partner spends half the year abroad so it's either feast or famine for me. I guess more would be welcome but I find it pretty easy to tune the need out.

See you in a phonebooth soon yeah ?? 🤣🤣🤣

OMFG, Snap 🤣🤣🤣"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I do. I dial it up and down as I need.

Needing a little less currently 🤷‍♀️"

Show off! 🤣

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"My simple answer is no, I don't. Having lost both my lovely wife and, more recently, the couple I saw regularly for threesomes, the odd meeting with a bi guy isn't really enough, even though a couple of them are becoming friends and more regular. But I'm always hopeful that things will improve."

I'm so sorry for your loss, sending hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Quality is better than quantity, I'd feel dirty if I was just going out fucking anyone for the quantity.

I like a lot of sex, but only with the right people. I'm happy to take my time and wait for the right person, or people over a given time period.

I exercise self control with my hand, some lube and tissues 😂

Maybe things might change for me in the near future as I find myself talking to people outside of fab which may lead me to deleting my account once again 😅 we shall se

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By *avexxMan
17 weeks ago

cheshire

i dont do to bad for an oldie

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Peaks and troughs, but currently very happy.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
17 weeks ago

Reading

God no. I'd like to be having so much sex right now. Unfortunately I am having a run of bad luck with partners. Which is annoying.

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By *anderingArtistMan
17 weeks ago

an abstract world

No but I substitute it with playing golf so there's always something I'm terrible at and last 3 minutes in

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By *nnandElleCouple
17 weeks ago

Brackley

Elle would probably have it every day if I were up for it - anyone want to help a fella out??!

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
17 weeks ago

Norwich

If I was in a relationship I would like more but I'm single and see someone probably on average once a week or slightly less regularly that that.

I have gone months possibly years without it in the past before Fab and been okay.

I think the more you have it the more you want it and if you don't have it you can be content without it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
17 weeks ago

Leeds

I am now that I've changed how I do things so all good here

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By *ude LawMan
17 weeks ago

Harrogate

Well, to be honest, Nora - I don't think that's any of your business.

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Well, to be honest, Nora - I don't think that's any of your business."

🤣. I’m not asking for specific details

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By *cLovin2Man
17 weeks ago

London

I get by, occasionally here and there successfully.

I can't complain, tbh it makes up for my youth where I was practically a Catholic priest, no not the dodgy kind.

Sex has to be with someone you can savour rather than just a roll in the hay. It takes time to build relationships that one can savour. Quality beats a late night grope next to the neighbours skip

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
17 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

No. Wait, yes.

Maybe, it depends who’s asking.

Are you offering to make it more than I get?

Yes, if guys or my mates are asking as I don’t want to lose face.

No, hoping for a sympathy shag. - Dm me

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By *cLovin2Man
17 weeks ago

London

"Well, to be honest, Nora - I don't think that's any of your business.

🤣. I’m not asking for specific details "

I am!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Chichester

"Sex?

Simple question really.

Would you like more? Are you happy with your lot? Are you happy having none at all?

Just doing a bit of research again for Sydney

Not at moment but then I don’t apply myself on other dating sites that are easier than fab for meeting women

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I get by, occasionally here and there successfully.

I can't complain, tbh it makes up for my youth where I was practically a Catholic priest, no not the dodgy kind.

Sex has to be with someone you can savour rather than just a roll in the hay. It takes time to build relationships that one can savour. Quality beats a late night grope next to the neighbours skip

Yeah this is my problem. I have to really really like someone and I don’t like many people 🤣. I actually annoy myself with it.

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By *luebell888Woman
17 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Once or twice a month suits me, I don't have time for more as my personal life is busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Not particularly but I have far too many other things to sort out/stress about in my day to day so I don't fret over it really.

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By *orkshirelad999999Man
17 weeks ago

washington

Not enough. Trying to get a reply on fab is hard enough when women's inboxes are flooded with arseholes. Ruin it for us good ones. Although I do do ok on a night out so can't complain really

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

"If I was in a relationship I would like more but I'm single and see someone probably on average once a week or slightly less regularly that that.

I have gone months possibly years without it in the past before Fab and been okay.

I think the more you have it the more you want it and if you don't have it you can be content without it.

Very true the more you have it the more you want it,these days I'm not getting it regular

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By *EAT..85Woman
17 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Well, to be honest, Nora - I don't think that's any of your business."

That's a no

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Well, to be honest, Nora - I don't think that's any of your business.

That's a no

🤣

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"If you're partial to a bit of blood and me being a tad hormonal then sure - on my way! "

So you’re saying I’ll need to change the sheets tomorrow? Okay. Deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Yes, I'd love more, but that's because I have a FWB who lives far away. If I wasn't interested in anyone the desire for sex/intimacy would bugger off and I'd simply be content with crochet and Death in Paradise of an evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

No🙄

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

Watermouth

"Sex?

Simple question really.

Would you like more? Are you happy with your lot? Are you happy having none at all?

Just doing a bit of research again for Sydney

Pop over Nora, never say no to a bit more.

That was an offer?

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By *anctionedSecretsCouple
17 weeks ago

S. Northants

How much is enough? Even when exhausted, we always want more.

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By *aturefit62Man
17 weeks ago

derby

"I do. I dial it up and down as I need.

Needing a little less currently 🤷‍♀️"

I agree, well for me anyhow, depending on other stuff going on called life

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sex?

Simple question really.

Would you like more? Are you happy with your lot? Are you happy having none at all?

Just doing a bit of research again for Sydney

Pop over Nora, never say no to a bit more.

That was an offer?"

I think that would involve the M5. I’ll be there in 2 days 🤣

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By *eyond PurityCouple
17 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I’ve had more sex in the last few years than I’ve probably ever had!

That being said, illness and family life have taken a toll the last 6 months so our sex life has reduced a lot, which is fine.

We are slowly coming out of the hibernation but it’s also been nice to enjoy each other without sex too.

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By *nnandElleCouple
17 weeks ago

Brackley

"How much is enough? Even when exhausted, we always want more. "

We'll be over in 5 minutes!

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By *eliWoman
17 weeks ago

Geez young Nora, haven't you done enough already?

My lot.

I'm going to skip the first few questions and say that in the past couple of weeks I've realised/learnt that I only have a few years left...

a) before my labia disappear.

b) of being a wet dream of a midlife crisis for my favourite privileged demographic.

I should be doing more.

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By *aizyWoman
17 weeks ago

west midlands

I have no complaints thanks for asking Nora.

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By *idnight47Man
17 weeks ago

Sheffield

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Geez young Nora, haven't you done enough already?

My lot.

I'm going to skip the first few questions and say that in the past couple of weeks I've realised/learnt that I only have a few years left...

a) before my labia disappear.

b) of being a wet dream of a midlife crisis for my favourite privileged demographic.

I should be doing more."

Oh god yeah I forgot about the labia thing. Best get on it!

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By *idnight47Man
17 weeks ago

Sheffield

"I get by, occasionally here and there successfully.

I can't complain, tbh it makes up for my youth where I was practically a Catholic priest, no not the dodgy kind.

Sex has to be with someone you can savour rather than just a roll in the hay. It takes time to build relationships that one can savour. Quality beats a late night grope next to the neighbours skip

What he said 👆🏻 but currently in a very barren spell. 8 months and counting

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

Could I do with more … hell yes. The more I get though, the more I want. Toys fill the void (😂) between the down times.

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By *artorialMan
17 weeks ago

weymouth

Err some would be nice, I'll discuss amounts after

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Could I do with more … hell yes. The more I get though, the more I want. Toys fill the void (😂) between the down times. "

We could play toys together? 😜🤣

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By *ustcallMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow

There seems to be loads of it about, but it just passes me by

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
17 weeks ago

Up North

Definitely not enough at the moment …. On the flip side, I’m getting loads of knitting done 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

No. It's drier than the Sahara over here. Life be lifin'.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
17 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Not enough no, my fwb works off shore so can't get to him as much as I'd like

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I mean if any of u lady's wana come round and watch some porn on my new 65inc flat screen mirror 👀😬

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By *illy IdolMan
17 weeks ago

Midlands

Yes, I'd like more, but I'm happy with what I get.

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Bristol

What type of sex though?

Hetro PIV sex? Yeah...

Being fucked by men with big cocks? Not nearly enough...

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By *armite 500Man
17 weeks ago

Darlington

Definitely want more and more and more

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

"Could I do with more … hell yes. The more I get though, the more I want. Toys fill the void (😂) between the down times.

We could play toys together? 😜🤣"

I’ll bring mine, you bring yours and we can play lucky dip!

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

Atm - I'm getting far too much.

My left hand is insatiable

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

"I mean if any of u lady's wana come round and watch some porn on my new 65inc flat screen mirror 👀😬"

Now if you’d said 80in I might have been interested 😜

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I ment to say 80 dam auto correct 👀

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
17 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

"No. It's drier than the Sahara over here. Life be lifin'.

I could make it wet for you.

Nobody said this yet? As a man that flirts, I’m disappointed.

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"No. It's drier than the Sahara over here. Life be lifin'.

I've been compared to a camel before.

Just saying 😌

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By *anctionedSecretsCouple
17 weeks ago

S. Northants

"Could I do with more … hell yes. The more I get though, the more I want. Toys fill the void (😂) between the down times. "

Toys can only do so much, and only postpone needing more of the real thing in our experience.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
17 weeks ago

Holibobs

I am quite content with my peen frequency Nora

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Bit like buses nothing for a while then 2 or 3 all come at once xxx 😘

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I am quite content with my peen frequency Nora

In all the years I’ve known you you have always seemed to have it just right!

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By *igboobstCouple
17 weeks ago

barrow

Mr works nights so not quite as much as we'd like but we do make the most of it when he's off 😉😋

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By *vaRoseWoman
17 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

No, but I make the most of the time I get

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
17 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"No. It's drier than the Sahara over here. Life be lifin'.

I've been compared to a camel before.

Just saying 😌 "

Is that cause you got the hump? 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

It’s been 2 years since I had sex so I would say no I don’t get enough

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By *uri00620Woman
17 weeks ago

Croydon

I have some. I'd like less.

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By *ypersoonMan
17 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

"No, but I make the most of the time I get "

Same here, did have a lucky patch bout a month ago going to a party at Club Alchemy & a few days later (on a off-chance) losing my dogging virginity

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By *oiluvfunMan
17 weeks ago

Penrith

I have 4 lady friends currently, so rarely go a week without sex. I’m very much happy with my lot, although I do love meeting new people obvs……

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I very rarely get sex. I still believe I'm loved though. It sucks that physical touch is my love language and my wife doesn't seem bothered.

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By *ife NinjaMan
17 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I'm getting none. No, I'm not happy with that 😬🤓

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By *a LunaWoman
17 weeks ago

o o OO o o

No. None. But then I can’t be arsed with the faff in getting some.

I’d like it to just be magically convenient and on tap. But no chance of that.

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By *hunky GentMan
17 weeks ago

Nottingham and Stamford

"No. It's drier than the Sahara over here. Life be lifin'.

I've been compared to a camel before.

Just saying 😌

Is that cause you got the hump? 🤣🤣"

😆 🤣 😂

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By *egDaySkipperMan
17 weeks ago

Liverpool

Not enough!

As a single person I would ideally like once a week

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
17 weeks ago

Angus

I'd always love more

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Nowhere near enough

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By *weetiepie99Woman
17 weeks ago

cardiff

I think I could get more if I wanted more, but I am OK with now and again. I feel 'satiated' as had some recently which was really good. That's ok.....for now

Sometimes a cup of tea and a good book is enough for bedtime

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Always need more

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By *ucka39Man
17 weeks ago

Newcastle

Id be happier with a decent amount of sleep tbh and not winning on either

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Maybe controversial but I’m happy with none at the moment as I’ve just found my “confidence” again and started liking myself again

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By *ellinever70Woman
17 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I very rarely get sex. I still believe I'm loved though. It sucks that physical touch is my love language and my wife doesn't seem bothered. "

Did you not know this before you were married?

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

"Maybe controversial but I’m happy with none at the moment as I’ve just found my “confidence” again and started liking myself again "

Love that Jack

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By *ad NannaWoman
17 weeks ago

East London

I'd like the energy, strength and better health to have more.

Every other day would be nice.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I had a bit last year. It was mostly enjoyable, but the whole prepatation process does leave you eventually feeling like you couldn't be arsed. I haven't bothered this year, even withdrawing from Fab. I'm slowly building up to considering it again - especially as a couple that have been chatting me up for a looong time are adamant they want a meet soon. Will it happen? Dunno - I still couldn't be arsed, but things might change. 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

We have a pretty good sex life no complaints (mr)

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By *he Silver FuxMan
17 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I’m generally satisfied

If I’m not then a wank usually takes the edge off

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By *indergirlWoman
17 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

Short answer no...life is an arse right now

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
17 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes, so tell him, he can bang a tick next to my name.

The mr

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
17 weeks ago

Hull

At the moment most definitely not, but have not done anything to try and change that… so toys it is for now, but not the same or satisfying as the real thing x

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By *enelope2UWoman
17 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

No... Unfortunately sex is still one off thrills here I prefer consistency and connection and actually to enjoy the person I'm fucking.

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By *swingrawMan
17 weeks ago

London

Pretty sure the amount of time people have these days impact the count

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By *an8iMan
17 weeks ago

Bilston

No but I go through phases and at the moment I'm not that interested in sex it's more for the social side

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I do pretty well, but getting into glam mode takes a lot of time and trouble, so I don't get out as often as I'd like

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By *r TriomanMan
17 weeks ago

Malmesbury

Once or twice a year; yes, I'd love more, not a lot more, just more would be great; let's face it, if my annual amount by some miracle was to rise to 4, that would be a 100% increase.

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By *atthewandjane.1984Couple
17 weeks ago

northampton

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By *hataliceinwanderlustWoman
17 weeks ago

Cambs

Nope, and it’s not particularly good quality either.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Not nearly enough. James regularly still travels back to Dubai for work and I'm left alone

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By *dam1971Man
17 weeks ago

Bedford

No, and more intimacy in general would be good too.

I’m evidently a needy fucker

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By *lirtingentMan
17 weeks ago

Stroud

I think that i am a born again Virgin

It's quality over quantity for me, and as I have haven't connected with a match recently, I haven't been meeting. This isn't the first time I have had a purple patch, so what I do know, is when I do meet with someone again, it will be amazing, for both of us

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By *riar BelisseWoman
17 weeks ago

Holibobs

"I am quite content with my peen frequency Nora

In all the years I’ve known you you have always seemed to have it just right!

I was blessed early on with 2 gorgeous fwb's and we are on 6 years of our journey together x

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

You can't miss what your not getting. Nuff said

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By *ools and the brainCouple
17 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Not as much as we'd like but the appropriate amount given our age.

We are not at it like bunnies as we used to be until about 45.

Slowed down a bit in recent years.

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By *ikeValentinaCouple
17 weeks ago

London

I get lots but want more, need more!

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By *ugbydadMan
17 weeks ago

anywhere

Usually feast or famine. I’m in the famine stage at present..

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By *tsJustKateWoman
17 weeks ago

London

Do I get enough? Probably not. Am I bothered? Not really.

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By *ea monkeyMan
17 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m fairly lucky in that most of my needs are being met. I’m not getting sex daily but I rarely spend a night alone that I don’t want. I have partners and friends that I get to see and spend time with.

Enough is a strong term but I’m enjoying my sexuality

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

For a ‘sex site’ there seems to be an awful lot of people not having much sex.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
17 weeks ago

Altrincham

"Sex?

Simple question really.

Would you like more? Are you happy with your lot? Are you happy having none at all?

Just doing a bit of research again for Sydney

Not complaining 😉

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By *cLovin2Man
17 weeks ago

London

"I get by, occasionally here and there successfully.

I can't complain, tbh it makes up for my youth where I was practically a Catholic priest, no not the dodgy kind.

Sex has to be with someone you can savour rather than just a roll in the hay. It takes time to build relationships that one can savour. Quality beats a late night grope next to the neighbours skip

Yeah this is my problem. I have to really really like someone and I don’t like many people 🤣. I actually annoy myself with it. "

Good things come to those who wait...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
17 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Yes 💜

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By *midnight-Woman
17 weeks ago

...

I've learnt the hard way that having fwb who live more than an hour away is pds as it doesn't lend itself for frequency.

I'm having a conscious effort to find a local connection

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By *cLovin2Man
17 weeks ago

London

"Could I do with more … hell yes. The more I get though, the more I want. Toys fill the void (😂) between the down times. "

A female friend mentioned to her girl friend to use a toy in place of a man. She replied "I need to feel a muscle in there"

True story.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
17 weeks ago

Voldsøy

I get plenty, but I'd also go for more, ngl. 🫣

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By *nigmaDreamWoman
17 weeks ago

West Midlands

Yes thankfully. Most days. If I didn’t have a job I’d want more but it keeps me distracted

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By *iaisonseekerMan
17 weeks ago

Liverpool

Definitely not enough and when I do get it, I feel the deficit even more.

Guess I should either get into a relationship or give up sex

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
17 weeks ago

North West

Yes. Although I'd like more sapphic sex.

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By *cLovin2Man
17 weeks ago

London

We sound like a pathetic lot, on a swinging site and 90% moaning they're not getting any

You can't make this shit up...

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By *emofaJamesMan
17 weeks ago

London, Notting Hill.

That analogy about busses all coming at once.. yes enough but sporadically. Happy to remain patient in longer spells.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
17 weeks ago

Cannock

"We sound like a pathetic lot, on a swinging site and 90% moaning they're not getting any

You can't make this shit up..."

It's reassuring to be honest, I just assumed everyone but me was getting it every other day!

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By *tr8MrEMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"We sound like a pathetic lot, on a swinging site and 90% moaning they're not getting any

You can't make this shit up...

It's reassuring to be honest, I just assumed everyone but me was getting it every other day!"

We are 🤣🤣

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By *rdere OpusCouple
17 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Feast or famine for us as we see each other at weekends. More balance would be nice.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
17 weeks ago

Colchester

Vanilla ? Nope, all good there. / 1 x week

Non-Vanilla. Definitely more. 1 x every 3-6 months is not enough.

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By *adonkadonkWoman
17 weeks ago

not enough at all and I'm really unhappy with it. But saying that - I also won't compromise on my fussiness. So what's a girl to do?

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By *lossomTreeWoman
17 weeks ago

Ipswich

Nowhere near enough and I hate it.

Not interested in sex without attraction/connection/interest though so unfortunately that means I go long (way too long) periods of time without any.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I’d like more. And I’d like it to be good & varied; slow, fast, sensual grinding, mad animal humping. It’s all good.

But yeah, not without the lightning bolt of attraction first.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
17 weeks ago

Cannock

"We sound like a pathetic lot, on a swinging site and 90% moaning they're not getting any

You can't make this shit up...

It's reassuring to be honest, I just assumed everyone but me was getting it every other day!

We are 🤣🤣"

you've got less veri's than I have. 🤣

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By *rdere OpusCouple
17 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"Sex?

Simple question really.

Would you like more? Are you happy with your lot? Are you happy having none at all?

Just doing a bit of research again for Sydney

Do you bestie? Waging I'll know the answer 😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

No is the answer for me, would I like more... Yes of course but I ain't going to be swinging that thing for the sake of a lay....

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Bedfuck

Not much happening as I'm caring for my mother full time atm.

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By *ros13Man
17 weeks ago

Leven fife

Defo more for me please ex always at me for dry humping her in sleep. snake hips she called me. so more more more

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By *enaiWoman
17 weeks ago

worcester

Never.

The more I have the more I need

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By *ags73Man
17 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

The long droughts were bad for my soul by life events have that effect

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
17 weeks ago

West London

Definitely not, nowhere near enough

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By *att71Man
17 weeks ago

RWB

Can one really quantify enough.....ok then no I am not and need a void filling lol

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
17 weeks ago

Merseyside

Happy with my lot but would always like more haha

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Simple answer is no would definitely like more

But quality is the key and connection that brings that better quality sex

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By *aughty by nature 76Man
17 weeks ago

Walsall

💯 not happy…….its coming up to a year since I’ve had sex x

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By *ellhungvweMan
17 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Do I get enough? Yes

Would I like more? Who wouldn’t?

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By *rivervaderMan
17 weeks ago

bolton

Can’t remember the last time so no idont get enough always open to offers

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I can’t get enough, that’s why I’m here searching for that person with same mindset and same energy

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By *ommy trucker1Man
17 weeks ago

anywhere near you

I can't complain at the moment

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By *i-subhubby.Man
17 weeks ago

Down by the river.

As i am entering my 16th year without sex with the mrs due to her illness, i could do with a little bit more of anything.

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
17 weeks ago

La La Land

Sex? No

Would you like more? Yes

Are you happy with your lot? Yes and No

Are you happy having none at all? NEVER!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
17 weeks ago

North West

Enough sex? Currently no but that is because I've been so busy lately. Would I like more sex? Of course who wouldn't?

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By *ora the explorer OP Woman
17 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Sex?

Simple question really.

Would you like more? Are you happy with your lot? Are you happy having none at all?

Just doing a bit of research again for Sydney

Do you bestie? Waging I'll know the answer 😂😂

You know me too well 🤣

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By *ynamicnatureMan
17 weeks ago

Doncaster

Am I getting enough? Considering my heavy work load at the moment I reckon I'm doing ok to be fair.

My outlook is looking promising though,😁

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By *ansoffateMan
17 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

yes x 4

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By *hagTonightMan
17 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

No. I would like to have more of it too

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By *cLovin2Man
17 weeks ago

London

"Sex? No

Would you like more? Yes

Are you happy with your lot? Yes and No

Are you happy having none at all? NEVER! "

I thought you were at it like a rabbit... Man there must be a sex drought going on or something...

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

No hence here

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By *NormalMan01Man
17 weeks ago

Harrogate

Nowhere near. But it’s not the be all and end all.

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By *eading beddingMan
17 weeks ago

Berks

Simple answers...

Would you like more? Yes (Some would be more)

Are you happy with your lot? No

Are you happy having none at all? No

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By *olarbear73Man
17 weeks ago

Glasgow

Not at the moment Nora, and yes I’d like more, of course I would. I am beginning to think that being over 50 in here is detrimental for guys like me.

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By *eoBloomsMan
17 weeks ago

Springfield

Good sex everyone 🍆

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