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How is someone privileged?

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By *aron Van Winkle OP   Man
18 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

How do you describe someone is privileged (sometimes it looks like arrogance to me).

What are the obvious signs when you look around Fab? Does it attract you? Would you avoid someone who is like that?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm not attracted to arrogant people. I avoid at all costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

They have sex in a Barbour jacket.

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By *obilebottomMan
18 weeks ago

All over

There are a few arrogant people around, that's for sure. Arrogance is not attractive but they wouldn't know as it often comes with total lack of self awareness as well as confused with confidence. And by the way applies to both sexes. Luckily can easily be spotted whether from their profile, forum participation or message exchanges. On the other hand there are plenty who aren't like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

How are we defining privileged?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I don't think being privileged equates to being arrogant though, some very humble privileged people. Some people are just arrogant regardless

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By *ora the explorerWoman
18 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

They have mozzarella dippers and an apple pie with their Big Mac meal

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By *aron Van Winkle OP   Man
18 weeks ago

In fair Verona.


"How are we defining privileged?"

I don’t know. 🤷‍♂️

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
18 weeks ago

Norwich

If they are blessed with a great,fun personality and are warm and engaging.

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By *eliWoman
18 weeks ago

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What do you think privileged is OP? The privileged you spot on Fab etc.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
18 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Whether someone is privileged is highly subjective is it not?

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By *emofaJamesMan
18 weeks ago

London, Notting Hill.

It is certainly subjective, but my guage tends to be annual consumption of Percy Pigs, not a cheap packet anymore.

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By *ornycougaWoman
18 weeks ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

I think of, and describe myself as, extremely privileged. I'm comfortably off but by no means rich or posh... However I am exceptionally fortunate in having amazing friends and family, good health and spend my days doing the things I love. That to me is true privilege

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By *emofaJamesMan
18 weeks ago

London, Notting Hill.


"I think of, and describe myself as, extremely privileged. I'm comfortably off but by no means rich or posh... However I am exceptionally fortunate in having amazing friends and family, good health and spend my days doing the things I love. That to me is true privilege "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I always thought referring to myself as privileged was a sense of gratitude and not arrogance!

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By *midnight-Woman
18 weeks ago

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"How do you describe someone is privileged (sometimes it looks like arrogance to me).

What are the obvious signs when you look around Fab? Does it attract you? Would you avoid someone who is like that? "

So are you wanting to know how to spot someone who is privileged or how to deal with arrogant people?

The two are not mutually exclusive

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By *xfordjohnMan
18 weeks ago

Oxford


"I think of, and describe myself as, extremely privileged. I'm comfortably off but by no means rich or posh... However I am exceptionally fortunate in having amazing friends and family, good health and spend my days doing the things I love. That to me is true privilege "

I can identify with that too.

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By *batMan
18 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I’d say pretty much all white, male, Europeans with access to the internet are privileged. Doesn’t mean we’re arrogant.

If you think about how non white people have been subjected to overt and covert racism over the years, you’re privileged not to experience that.

If you think about the overt and covert sexism aimed at women all over the world, men are generally privileged not to experience that.

If you’re European, living in Europe, you have access to stuff that people in other parts of the world don’t. Food, transport, generally mild weather, stable(ish!) governments, medical cover, well, ….. the list goes on.

So you and me both are quite privileged compared to billions of other people, purely by virtue of where and when we were born.

Gbat

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By *icecouple561Couple
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18 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I’d say pretty much all white, male, Europeans with access to the internet are privileged. Doesn’t mean we’re arrogant.

If you think about how non white people have been subjected to overt and covert racism over the years, you’re privileged not to experience that.

If you think about the overt and covert sexism aimed at women all over the world, men are generally privileged not to experience that.

If you’re European, living in Europe, you have access to stuff that people in other parts of the world don’t. Food, transport, generally mild weather, stable(ish!) governments, medical cover, well, ….. the list goes on.

So you and me both are quite privileged compared to billions of other people, purely by virtue of where and when we were born.

Gbat "

Agreed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
18 weeks ago

East Sussex

Privilege and arrogance aren't the same thing at all to my mind.

Arrogance is a personality trait that exists all on its own.

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By *allnHandsome12Man
18 weeks ago

Teesside


"I always thought referring to myself as privileged was a sense of gratitude and not arrogance!"

I’m exactly the same, I’m aware of and extremely grateful of the privileges I have and continue to have, my life could be so much worse and I’m fortunate for not having to experience the struggles many have. Me being aware of my privilege keeps me humble, not arrogant.

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