FabSwingers.com forum: Ewww usernames

By *ello OP Woman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Do you ever get good messages from nice profiles but the username is so ewww you don't even give them a chance?

Maybe you look at the username find it off putting so don't even open the message or look at their profile.

People who have picked graphic, rude, obscene etc profile names do you ever consider that it is your username which is hindering your chances on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

If the username makes me go 🤢 I don't even bother reading the message. That's probably very bad of me, but there we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I domt get msges so no 🙄

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Sorry that's my name. Lobe you pictures wow

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By *hyguy187Man
18 weeks ago

Maybe near to you!

Usually it's just a one word message and the crude profile name really puts me off so I don't reply!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

Profile names can and do put me off.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Yup i get the same too especially when they claim to ve something and then the first message includes said thing too

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By *ora the explorerWoman
18 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes definitely

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By *ello OP Woman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Yup i get the same too especially when they claim to ve something and then the first message includes said thing too "

Yes, it does suggest a lack of any substance from them as a person doesn't it. A 1 trick pony

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By *oughmanMan
18 weeks ago

Sunderland

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By *rdere OpusCouple
18 weeks ago

Brum - ish

I’m not sure I’ve ever had a good message from a profile with a name I find really off putting. The message quality usually on a par with the really stomach churning names.

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By *oughmanMan
18 weeks ago

Sunderland

I don't get messages so it's kind of a moot point. But I don't observe the user name too much. I'm more interested in what's in their profile and what they are saying. Then I may take note of the name.

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By *ello OP Woman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri

For people saying they don't get messages, would a person's username put you off messaging a person even though their profile is good

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
18 weeks ago

South Wales

Up to a point yes. If it’s a really good profile then maybe it can be overlooked but as a rule a username that makes me go eewwww will be ignored xx

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"For people saying they don't get messages, would a person's username put you off messaging a person even though their profile is good"

Na along as they had a great ass 😬

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By *anderingArtistMan
18 weeks ago

an abstract world

"I’m not sure I’ve ever had a good message from a profile with a name I find really off putting. The message quality usually on a par with the really stomach churning names. "

This is the same for me. I'll always look at the profile to not judge a book by the cover but, unfortunately, the cover usually tells the full story.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
18 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I would say this is predominantly a male thing. Not sure I've seen too many off putting female usernames let alone being messaged by any.

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By *enshun4Man
18 weeks ago

Nearby

Yes usernames will always make me say No Thanks

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By *ello OP Woman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"I would say this is predominantly a male thing. Not sure I've seen too many off putting female usernames let alone being messaged by any."

There does seem to be less single female profiles with dodgy usernames but there are definitely a fair share of couples profiles with very interesting name choices

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes there's lots I don't even bother opening, poundyou300 just isn't for me.

Mrs

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By *phrodisiac2000Man
18 weeks ago

saddleworth NW

Mines totally horrible I’ve tried to change it but I can’t remember my pw

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Bradford and Stockport

I tend to avoid contact with people using names like "arsebuster1000" and "SpunkHose999". They're either false advertising, or if not, I think I'd like to keep my arse intact and my bedroom unhosed...

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By *hegreatcornholioMan
18 weeks ago

Redditch

Honest opinion on mine anyone? Writers block set in when I tried to decide a username!

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

If they have a lewd, graphic username or a similar status or one moaning about the site, members or lack of meets etc then I will just delete the message without reading it.

Same result if I look on their profile and it is nothing but wall to wall dick pics and a single line of text (or the ridiculous 'will fill in later' and they have been here a year).

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By *rdere OpusCouple
18 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"I would say this is predominantly a male thing. Not sure I've seen too many off putting female usernames let alone being messaged by any."

Exactly this when I was a single pringle! 😂

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By *ello OP Woman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Mines totally horrible I’ve tried to change it but I can’t remember my pw "

It's not vulgar so wouldn't call it totally horrible

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By *ello OP Woman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Honest opinion on mine anyone? Writers block set in when I tried to decide a username! "

Yours is just a play on words nothing obscene or disgusting

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By *lackmamba2004Man
18 weeks ago

Dublin

Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂

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By *ello OP Woman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂"

Is 'Hello', rude or offensive?

I'll have to Google and see if it has an additional meaning I'm not aware of

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
18 weeks ago

London

Yeah anything with 'Alpha' or 'King' or something lame like that is always a no.

Very rarely get messages from people like that anymore though. Just checking my inbox and it's mostly some form of a normal name

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By *lackmamba2004Man
18 weeks ago

Dublin

"Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂

Is 'Hello', rude or offensive?

I'll have to Google and see if it has an additional meaning I'm not aware of

Its not. Just a tiny bit bland, no?😭

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By *herrybakewellCouple
18 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Usernames and profile pics are how we get a first impression of someone's personality.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
18 weeks ago

North West

Yes it absolutely puts me off … anything with daddy in it for example or something like TheCervixCrippler, no thanks, I’ll pass

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Yup. More often with men since women can be a bit more creative with their usernames but I have seen at least a couple women with a name makes me 🤨 uhm...

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By *ommy trucker1Man
18 weeks ago

anywhere near you

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. If I want to get to know someone I'd ask thire real name when good and ready .

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By *ello OP Woman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂

Is 'Hello', rude or offensive?

I'll have to Google and see if it has an additional meaning I'm not aware of

Its not. Just a tiny bit bland, no?😭"

Don't remember asking but thank you for letting me know, I'll be sure to change it to something more to your liking because obviously I really really care about your opinion

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By *lackmamba2004Man
18 weeks ago

Dublin

"Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂

Is 'Hello', rude or offensive?

I'll have to Google and see if it has an additional meaning I'm not aware of

Its not. Just a tiny bit bland, no?😭

Don't remember asking but thank you for letting me know, I'll be sure to change it to something more to your liking because obviously I really really care about your opinion

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Lmao, you made this thread about usernames, don’t be salty if yours gets judged. No one can tell me “Hello” is not a bland username💀

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Maybe B.T. as a username puts people off?

*looks for any excuse other than ugly mug, shit profile, small cock, age etc

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
18 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

Speaking of username. Op, I don’t even need to open yours to read the one word greeting in the DM you probably sent….

Anyway, user names shm’user names. I’ve read much worse than a badly thought out Pun name (like mine normally are) when I become apparent that they don’t think it through is when they put there name on a guest list in the meets forums. It’s normaly a dead giveaway what kinks they are into.

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By *avie65Man
18 weeks ago

In the west.

"Surely you can do better than “Hello” though😂

Is 'Hello', rude or offensive?

I'll have to Google and see if it has an additional meaning I'm not aware of

Did only like the first part of a Softcell song OP.

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By *cLovin2Man
18 weeks ago

London

"Yes there's lots I don't even bother opening, poundyou300 just isn't for me.

Mrs "

You'd rather wait for the sequel poundyou350?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I always found the messages matched the crap username.

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By *viatrixWoman
18 weeks ago

Redhill

Anything with “nawty” 🤢🤢🤢🤢

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I got a message the other day out of the blue stating that my username needed changing as it could be aligned with the miscreant gregg Wallace and his behaviour, my reply was I am named after the popular sausage roll place on every corner but now I’m thinking do I need a name change

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
18 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"I got a message the other day out of the blue stating that my username needed changing as it could be aligned with the miscreant gregg Wallace and his behaviour, my reply was I am named after the popular sausage roll place on every corner but now I’m thinking do I need a name change "
I wouldn’t say gregg Wallace but Greg’s the bakers comes to my mind up to you if you change your username though

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By *aizyWoman
18 weeks ago

west midlands

"If the username makes me go 🤢 I don't even bother reading the message. That's probably very bad of me, but there we are. "

It's not bad of you Nell, I'm the same.

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By *aizyWoman
18 weeks ago

west midlands

I wouldn’t say gregg Wallace but Greg’s the bakers comes to my mind up to you if you change your username though

Tbh I just assumed your name was Gregg 🤷‍♀️

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By *ude LawMan
18 weeks ago

Harrogate

Eeewwwsername is still up for grabs if anyone wants it.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

To be fair some of the usernames are funny. I've not seen any that make me feel icky but I've seen a few profile pictures that make me go jesustittyfuckingchrist you cannot be serious

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
18 weeks ago

Norwich

Yes it definitely would but it hasn't actually happened to me I don't think.

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By *eoBloomsMan
18 weeks ago

Springfield

"I got a message the other day out of the blue stating that my username needed changing as it could be aligned with the miscreant gregg Wallace and his behaviour, my reply was I am named after the popular sausage roll place on every corner but now I’m thinking do I need a name change I wouldn’t say gregg Wallace but Greg’s the bakers comes to my mind up to you if you change your username though

Yours is one of my favourite user names.

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By *orfolkinwayWoman
18 weeks ago

North Norfolk

Bad usernames are totally off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

It’s not something I had really thought about until reading this thread

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By *tr8MrEMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Well this thread tells me everything I need to know....thank you empty inbox

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By *naswingdressWoman
18 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've given self congratulatory names a chance and it's always been a mistake.

Grotesque ones, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Mine is sh#t no wonder I'm not getting anywhere 😂

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