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"How about blocking and not giving it a second thought. " ...this | |||
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"How about blocking and not giving it a second thought. " But there's no fun in that, this is a rare occurrence for me! | |||
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"How about blocking and not giving it a second thought. But there's no fun in that, this is a rare occurrence for me!" seriously, you can make this site easy or hard. Rather than press a block button that takes a mini second you would sooner bring it to the forum. Certainly doesn't paint you in a very good light | |||
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"I've always said the worst messagers on here are couples, they're far more entitled than singles on here" In recent years I've found them far more flaky and likely to disappear than women are. However, I imagine they are better than a lot of guys here. | |||
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"How about blocking and not giving it a second thought. But there's no fun in that, this is a rare occurrence for me!seriously, you can make this site easy or hard. Rather than press a block button that takes a mini second you would sooner bring it to the forum. Certainly doesn't paint you in a very good light" Was just looking for opinions, I don't think that's unreasonable on a discussion forum. You can see me in whatever light you wish though  | |||
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"It's not something I've really faced, certainly not daily. I'd just ignore it. Have a wank. " Way ahead of you Meli  | |||
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"Did you get a dick pic? 🤭🤓" No but that would have made it even funnier  | |||
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"I've always said the worst messagers on here are couples, they're far more entitled than singles on here" Ironically, I'd have to agree. We've been put off other couples' profiles altogether (for now). Also, I've only ever spoken to the female half twice. | |||
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"Today I got a message from a couple asking if I'd like to play with the wife. They weren't my type so I exercised my right to not respond. Lo and behold, a couple of hours later they message again, basically saying "good chat" and a sarcastic eyeroll emoji. It annoyed me, and now I can't decide what would be best - continue to ignore, or reply with somethng equally sarcastic? Anyway ladies, I empathise with you. I've been here years and only had this once or twice, but from what I've gathered, it's more of a daily occurrence for a lot of you. How do you prefer to deal with this scenario?" so you’ve been here years only had this twice but you think it needed a post about it 😂🤦♂️ | |||
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"It's not something I've really faced, certainly not daily. I'd just ignore it. Have a wank. Way ahead of you Meli "Upload photographic/video evidence please. Thank you. (There you go, bit more of a woman's experience for you) | |||
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"Phil ! You really are not chill.. tsk. 1. You say their 'eye roll' annoyed you and that's fine but it is YOU that feels annoyed and that is just EGO .. your ego is bruised. 2. You say you want to reply with something equally as sarcastic - then you are giving your control away and becoming THEM. Unless sarky is your usual mode of reply. 3. You say to block and ignore would be no fun = You are seeking to be vengeful, sarky and appease your bruised ego. Is an emoji from an socially inept dick worth your time and trouble ? You choose who you want to be in this scenario .... PhilChill or Puppet of a Dickhead " Interesting how the mere mention of this topic has triggered some indepth analysis! I have no ego here, and I'm not sure how someone moaning that I didn't reply to them would damage it regardless. I think it's actually some of the responders here who need to chill a bit ... It's not my fault you aren't getting messages to ignore
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"Phil ! You really are not chill.. tsk. 1. You say their 'eye roll' annoyed you and that's fine but it is YOU that feels annoyed and that is just EGO .. your ego is bruised. 2. You say you want to reply with something equally as sarcastic - then you are giving your control away and becoming THEM. Unless sarky is your usual mode of reply. 3. You say to block and ignore would be no fun = You are seeking to be vengeful, sarky and appease your bruised ego. Is an emoji from an socially inept dick worth your time and trouble ? You choose who you want to be in this scenario .... PhilChill or Puppet of a Dickhead Interesting how the mere mention of this topic has triggered some indepth analysis! I have no ego here, and I'm not sure how someone moaning that I didn't reply to them would damage it regardless. I think it's actually some of the responders here who need to chill a bit ... It's not my fault you aren't getting messages to ignore
"We’ve had loads of nice polite messages today not one bad message and only a couple of one word messages if we did get anything bad we’d just ignore it and move on | |||
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"Phil ! You really are not chill.. tsk. 1. You say their 'eye roll' annoyed you and that's fine but it is YOU that feels annoyed and that is just EGO .. your ego is bruised. 2. You say you want to reply with something equally as sarcastic - then you are giving your control away and becoming THEM. Unless sarky is your usual mode of reply. 3. You say to block and ignore would be no fun = You are seeking to be vengeful, sarky and appease your bruised ego. Is an emoji from an socially inept dick worth your time and trouble ? You choose who you want to be in this scenario .... PhilChill or Puppet of a Dickhead Interesting how the mere mention of this topic has triggered some indepth analysis! I have no ego here, and I'm not sure how someone moaning that I didn't reply to them would damage it regardless. I think it's actually some of the responders here who need to chill a bit ... It's not my fault you aren't getting messages to ignore
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"Phil ! You really are not chill.. tsk. 1. You say their 'eye roll' annoyed you and that's fine but it is YOU that feels annoyed and that is just EGO .. your ego is bruised. 2. You say you want to reply with something equally as sarcastic - then you are giving your control away and becoming THEM. Unless sarky is your usual mode of reply. 3. You say to block and ignore would be no fun = You are seeking to be vengeful, sarky and appease your bruised ego. Is an emoji from an socially inept dick worth your time and trouble ? You choose who you want to be in this scenario .... PhilChill or Puppet of a Dickhead Interesting how the mere mention of this topic has triggered some indepth analysis! I have no ego here, and I'm not sure how someone moaning that I didn't reply to them would damage it regardless. I think it's actually some of the responders here who need to chill a bit ... It's not my fault you aren't getting messages to ignore
"what this thread shows is you have definetly chosen the wrong username | |||
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"Phil ! You really are not chill.. tsk. 1. You say their 'eye roll' annoyed you and that's fine but it is YOU that feels annoyed and that is just EGO .. your ego is bruised. 2. You say you want to reply with something equally as sarcastic - then you are giving your control away and becoming THEM. Unless sarky is your usual mode of reply. 3. You say to block and ignore would be no fun = You are seeking to be vengeful, sarky and appease your bruised ego. Is an emoji from an socially inept dick worth your time and trouble ? You choose who you want to be in this scenario .... PhilChill or Puppet of a Dickhead Interesting how the mere mention of this topic has triggered some indepth analysis! I have no ego here, and I'm not sure how someone moaning that I didn't reply to them would damage it regardless. I think it's actually some of the responders here who need to chill a bit ... It's not my fault you aren't getting messages to ignore
We’ve had loads of nice polite messages today not one bad message and only a couple of one word messages if we did get anything bad we’d just ignore it and move on "Have to agree. I don't get impolite messages as a rule or a rude response when I decline. | |||
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"It's not something I've really faced, certainly not daily. I'd just ignore it. Have a wank. Way ahead of you Meli
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"Today I got a message from a couple asking if I'd like to play with the wife. They weren't my type so I exercised my right to not respond. Lo and behold, a couple of hours later they message again, basically saying "good chat" and a sarcastic eyeroll emoji. It annoyed me, and now I can't decide what would be best - continue to ignore, or reply with somethng equally sarcastic? Anyway ladies, I empathise with you. I've been here years and only had this once or twice, but from what I've gathered, it's more of a daily occurrence for a lot of you. How do you prefer to deal with this scenario?" I had the same thing a couple of weeks ago, on holiday with the Mrs and a couple messaged 3 or 4 times, deleted them and ignored it Then they sent the “why no reply” and started claiming I was rude and ignorant 😂🙈 Just block and delete it, it’ll annoy them more | |||
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"The difference in responses between a man starting this thread and a woman is fucking comical " I'd say exactly the same to any woman that can't simply use the block button | |||
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"Oh, continue to ignore. If that’s how they do business, now you know it’s annoying them, continue down that road! " I think this is the best way! It also seems like it's the male half of the couple doing the messaging, which doesn't surprise me as men are the worst | |||
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"Today I got a message from a couple asking if I'd like to play with the wife. They weren't my type so I exercised my right to not respond. Lo and behold, a couple of hours later they message again, basically saying "good chat" and a sarcastic eyeroll emoji. It annoyed me, and now I can't decide what would be best - continue to ignore, or reply with somethng equally sarcastic? Anyway ladies, I empathise with you. I've been here years and only had this once or twice, but from what I've gathered, it's more of a daily occurrence for a lot of you. How do you prefer to deal with this scenario?" Block and delete, simple 🤷🏼♂️ | |||
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"Today I got a message from a couple asking if I'd like to play with the wife. They weren't my type so I exercised my right to not respond. Lo and behold, a couple of hours later they message again, basically saying "good chat" and a sarcastic eyeroll emoji. It annoyed me, and now I can't decide what would be best - continue to ignore, or reply with somethng equally sarcastic? Anyway ladies, I empathise with you. I've been here years and only had this once or twice, but from what I've gathered, it's more of a daily occurrence for a lot of you. How do you prefer to deal with this scenario?" I was in exactly the same situation. I replied,politely explaining that I didn't find them even remotely attractive. They blocked me and then publicly accused me of being a time waster. I saw it when logged in using our couples profile. Reported them and nothing was done by the admin. Just block them , save yourself the hassle. | |||
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"Today I got a message from a couple asking if I'd like to play with the wife. They weren't my type so I exercised my right to not respond. Lo and behold, a couple of hours later they message again, basically saying "good chat" and a sarcastic eyeroll emoji. It annoyed me, and now I can't decide what would be best - continue to ignore, or reply with somethng equally sarcastic? Anyway ladies, I empathise with you. I've been here years and only had this once or twice, but from what I've gathered, it's more of a daily occurrence for a lot of you. How do you prefer to deal with this scenario?" Block, delete, carry on with my life. | |||
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