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"𝙋➕𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙩𝙮." Exactly positivity only negativity is easily ignored enjoy your Sunday sir | |||
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"We’ve met some really nice ones xx 😄" We’ve only met one guy and he was very respectful great guy but we’ve had lots of nice messages only one that wasn’t very nice | |||
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"There seems to be a lot of single guy bashing on here and it’s not fair the majority of guys that have contacted us have been very respectful. Yeah we get a lot of single word or copy and pasted messages but there easy to ignore delete and block works very well. So how about some positive comments for the decent guys on fab (mr)" I'm clearly a wanker though | |||
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"The guys who contribute on the forums are the decent guys I find others that message me that don’t "They are lovely boobs | |||
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"The guys who contribute on the forums are the decent guys I find others that message me that don’t They are lovely boobs" thank you | |||
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"Copy and pasted messages are the same ones who moan they can’t get meets 😅 Finding a decent single male for a F/couple can be just as hard I feel as there’s so many time wasters to search through. The few decent ones keep the belief alive! 😂" There’s more than just a few good guys on here from the messages we’ve had | |||
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"Yea, they're alright "Golf clap 👏 | |||
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"I’m not like all the other men. . . I’m worse." “I’m not like a regular single guy, I’m a cool single guy?” | |||
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"I’m not like all the other men. . . I’m worse." Same tbf😜  | |||
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"There's some lovely guys on here. You've just got to sort the wheat from the chaff. Never had a bad meet. The forum guys arnt to bad either" The sorting is a pain but that's the nature of the beast I suppose. When you get it right though it works really well  | |||
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"The majority are good ones and respectful but sadly the minority spoil it for them on here and they all get a bad rep " It is a shame but it definitely is the minority if people just ignored it and used delete and block it would be much better . When we first joined we wouldn’t even consider meeting a single guy because of stuff we seen written in the forums it’s an unfair image that the majority of them don’t deserve | |||
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"In fairness a lot of them bash themselves. " They do but mainly when someone has written a negative post about them I think they do it to get the women or couples attention | |||
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"Good morning OP An excellent Sunday morning thought. Fabbed a few photos by way of thanks. " Good morning and thank you very much 🙏 | |||
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"I appreciate the hots ones that are willing to fuck me. Good guys. " nice to see you back | |||
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"Let's disperse a misconception: a few (deliciously delightful) people higher up have inferred that the minority ruin it for the others. They don't. I carve my own meandering path on fab and my success (good or not-so-good) is based upon •my• actions and not the transgressions of others. A bad actor on here has no affect on my journey on Fab, and it shouldn't for any other man." You’re very active in the forums and do come across extremely well but I do think there’s an unfair opinion on single men based on people bashing them when we could just ignore the minority of clowns on here delete and block and in the very worst cases report would be a better approach | |||
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"A lot? Not really. Sometimes behaviour gets called out. Would help if guys would call out poor behaviour from the women too. Overall single guys on here are alright, and can share my park bench and have a cheese and pickle sandwich (cut in triangles). " There is a lot and from what I’ve seen on here if a guy says anything negative about a woman it’s him that comes off worse . | |||
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"A lot? Not really. Sometimes behaviour gets called out. Would help if guys would call out poor behaviour from the women too. Overall single guys on here are alright, and can share my park bench and have a cheese and pickle sandwich (cut in triangles). There is a lot and from what I’ve seen on here if a guy says anything negative about a woman it’s him that comes off worse . " Comes off worse how? | |||
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"The guys who contribute on the forums are the decent guys I find others that message me that don’t "I'm indecent.👋 | |||
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"A lot? Not really. Sometimes behaviour gets called out. Would help if guys would call out poor behaviour from the women too. Overall single guys on here are alright, and can share my park bench and have a cheese and pickle sandwich (cut in triangles). There is a lot and from what I’ve seen on here if a guy says anything negative about a woman it’s him that comes off worse . Comes off worse how? " He’ll get ganged up on from other women | |||
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"A lot? Not really. Sometimes behaviour gets called out. Would help if guys would call out poor behaviour from the women too. Overall single guys on here are alright, and can share my park bench and have a cheese and pickle sandwich (cut in triangles). There is a lot and from what I’ve seen on here if a guy says anything negative about a woman it’s him that comes off worse . Comes off worse how? " In the distant past I've called out a few women for comments that men wouldn't be allowed to get away with. I've had lots of negative comments aimed at me from men, women and couples about being bitter and twisted and asking why I don't call out men for saying similar things, which I have done many times. I've even had a few private messages from other women telling me I would be blackballed for doing so. | |||
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"A lot? Not really. Sometimes behaviour gets called out. Would help if guys would call out poor behaviour from the women too. Overall single guys on here are alright, and can share my park bench and have a cheese and pickle sandwich (cut in triangles). There is a lot and from what I’ve seen on here if a guy says anything negative about a woman it’s him that comes off worse . Comes off worse how? In the distant past I've called out a few women for comments that men wouldn't be allowed to get away with. I've had lots of negative comments aimed at me from men, women and couples about being bitter and twisted and asking why I don't call out men for saying similar things, which I have done many times. I've even had a few private messages from other women telling me I would be blackballed for doing so. " Interesting. The concept someone might be ‘blackballed’ on a website is not something I thought would happen. | |||
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"When I was with my last fb, we had a join account and I saw first hand some of the messages sent directly to her and I feel my grandson could have written far better messages to a woman, Most was one liners accompanied with a cock photo, Women want to get to know you through your message, One liners are so crude as well, Single men of a younger age need to up their gain and work on their messages. " Those messages are easy to deal with tho and it actually helps to sort out the good from the bad | |||
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"The idiots don't make it worse for the decent guys, that's just an excuse for lack of success. The decent guys stand out a mile" The decent guys do stand out a mile because the majority of them are decent but people don’t talk about that they only mention negative stuff which has created a false impression that the majority of single men are idiots . And it does put people off when we first joined we wouldn’t consider meeting any single guys purely because of comments on the forum | |||
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"I have a lot of time for them. 😍 And the solo guys (hothusband etc) 🔥" Perfect happy fabbing | |||
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"Apart from one isolated incident, I've never had a negative interaction. Yeah, messages get ignored, but that's no sweat. The only 'disadvantage', is my interactions have got less as I've got older🤓" We try to reply to all our messages but it is difficult and some do get lost. We delete one word messages instantly to try and prevent good messages getting lost we also only turn on messages from single men at the weekend because it’s to difficult to keep up if we have them on full time . | |||
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"Apart from one isolated incident, I've never had a negative interaction. Yeah, messages get ignored, but that's no sweat. The only 'disadvantage', is my interactions have got less as I've got older🤓 We try to reply to all our messages but it is difficult and some do get lost. We delete one word messages instantly to try and prevent good messages getting lost we also only turn on messages from single men at the weekend because it’s to difficult to keep up if we have them on full time ." I don't send many messages these days either 🤓 | |||
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"It's great to see that many people don't have a bad expectation of single guys. As one it is a little disconcerting as all you see and hear about is how bad single guys are on here. I don't tend to message as I'm always ignored. I read the profile and try to make it seem like I have read it but I don't know. " Some couples and females make life difficult for themselves managing messages is difficult but there’s things you can do to make it easier like using filters only allowing messages at the weekend and leave filters on for a few days after uploading new photos | |||
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"It's great to see that many people don't have a bad expectation of single guys. As one it is a little disconcerting as all you see and hear about is how bad single guys are on here. I don't tend to message as I'm always ignored. I read the profile and try to make it seem like I have read it but I don't know. Some couples and females make life difficult for themselves managing messages is difficult but there’s things you can do to make it easier like using filters only allowing messages at the weekend and leave filters on for a few days after uploading new photos " It’s good you’ve found a system that works for you. It wouldn’t work for us or I suspect others as we want people to contact us, just wish we could choose what types of messages we can’t receive but since you can’t filter ‘no dick pics’ ‘no wanking videos or tributes’ then we’ll continue doing as we do. We have asked for people not to send them on our profile but people still send them 🤷🏻♂️ K | |||
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"It's great to see that many people don't have a bad expectation of single guys. As one it is a little disconcerting as all you see and hear about is how bad single guys are on here. I don't tend to message as I'm always ignored. I read the profile and try to make it seem like I have read it but I don't know. Some couples and females make life difficult for themselves managing messages is difficult but there’s things you can do to make it easier like using filters only allowing messages at the weekend and leave filters on for a few days after uploading new photos It’s good you’ve found a system that works for you. It wouldn’t work for us or I suspect others as we want people to contact us, just wish we could choose what types of messages we can’t receive but since you can’t filter ‘no dick pics’ ‘no wanking videos or tributes’ then we’ll continue doing as we do. and this is exactly why we are all grouped with same opinion as a lot males cant conduct there selves We have asked for people not to send them on our profile but people still send them 🤷🏻♂️ K" | |||
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"It's great to see that many people don't have a bad expectation of single guys. As one it is a little disconcerting as all you see and hear about is how bad single guys are on here. I don't tend to message as I'm always ignored. I read the profile and try to make it seem like I have read it but I don't know. Some couples and females make life difficult for themselves managing messages is difficult but there’s things you can do to make it easier like using filters only allowing messages at the weekend and leave filters on for a few days after uploading new photos It’s good you’ve found a system that works for you. It wouldn’t work for us or I suspect others as we want people to contact us, just wish we could choose what types of messages we can’t receive but since you can’t filter ‘no dick pics’ ‘no wanking videos or tributes’ then we’ll continue doing as we do. We have asked for people not to send them on our profile but people still send them 🤷🏻♂️ K" We get plenty contact from people you can’t control what people send we replied to lots of messages today respectfully and got nothing but respect back I think couples and single females need to put more effort in to attract attention from decent people | |||
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"It's great to see that many people don't have a bad expectation of single guys. As one it is a little disconcerting as all you see and hear about is how bad single guys are on here. I don't tend to message as I'm always ignored. I read the profile and try to make it seem like I have read it but I don't know. Some couples and females make life difficult for themselves managing messages is difficult but there’s things you can do to make it easier like using filters only allowing messages at the weekend and leave filters on for a few days after uploading new photos It’s good you’ve found a system that works for you. It wouldn’t work for us or I suspect others as we want people to contact us, just wish we could choose what types of messages we can’t receive but since you can’t filter ‘no dick pics’ ‘no wanking videos or tributes’ then we’ll continue doing as we do. We have asked for people not to send them on our profile but people still send them 🤷🏻♂️ K We get plenty contact from people you can’t control what people send we replied to lots of messages today respectfully and got nothing but respect back I think couples and single females need to put more effort in to attract attention from decent people " tbh i think and assume the amount of trash and just caveman style rubbish couples females ts etc gets its them having the patience to sive through crap to to see if someone that could be of interest is among it. | |||
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"It's great to see that many people don't have a bad expectation of single guys. As one it is a little disconcerting as all you see and hear about is how bad single guys are on here. I don't tend to message as I'm always ignored. I read the profile and try to make it seem like I have read it but I don't know. Some couples and females make life difficult for themselves managing messages is difficult but there’s things you can do to make it easier like using filters only allowing messages at the weekend and leave filters on for a few days after uploading new photos It’s good you’ve found a system that works for you. It wouldn’t work for us or I suspect others as we want people to contact us, just wish we could choose what types of messages we can’t receive but since you can’t filter ‘no dick pics’ ‘no wanking videos or tributes’ then we’ll continue doing as we do. We have asked for people not to send them on our profile but people still send them 🤷🏻♂️ K We get plenty contact from people you can’t control what people send we replied to lots of messages today respectfully and got nothing but respect back I think couples and single females need to put more effort in to attract attention from decent people tbh i think and assume the amount of trash and just caveman style rubbish couples females ts etc gets its them having the patience to sive through crap to to see if someone that could be of interest is among it." we get very little crap mate we’ve had one message from a guy that come across as a prick since we joined | |||
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"I've spoken with some, and met a couple of lovely single gents. 🤷🏻♀️ I'm sure there are many more out there too!!" The majority come across as fine to us very respectful | |||
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"It's great to see that many people don't have a bad expectation of single guys. As one it is a little disconcerting as all you see and hear about is how bad single guys are on here. I don't tend to message as I'm always ignored. I read the profile and try to make it seem like I have read it but I don't know. Some couples and females make life difficult for themselves managing messages is difficult but there’s things you can do to make it easier like using filters only allowing messages at the weekend and leave filters on for a few days after uploading new photos It’s good you’ve found a system that works for you. It wouldn’t work for us or I suspect others as we want people to contact us, just wish we could choose what types of messages we can’t receive but since you can’t filter ‘no dick pics’ ‘no wanking videos or tributes’ then we’ll continue doing as we do. We have asked for people not to send them on our profile but people still send them 🤷🏻♂️ K We get plenty contact from people you can’t control what people send we replied to lots of messages today respectfully and got nothing but respect back I think couples and single females need to put more effort in to attract attention from decent people " Thanks for your guidance
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"It's great to see that many people don't have a bad expectation of single guys. As one it is a little disconcerting as all you see and hear about is how bad single guys are on here. I don't tend to message as I'm always ignored. I read the profile and try to make it seem like I have read it but I don't know. Some couples and females make life difficult for themselves managing messages is difficult but there’s things you can do to make it easier like using filters only allowing messages at the weekend and leave filters on for a few days after uploading new photos It’s good you’ve found a system that works for you. It wouldn’t work for us or I suspect others as we want people to contact us, just wish we could choose what types of messages we can’t receive but since you can’t filter ‘no dick pics’ ‘no wanking videos or tributes’ then we’ll continue doing as we do. We have asked for people not to send them on our profile but people still send them 🤷🏻♂️ K We get plenty contact from people you can’t control what people send we replied to lots of messages today respectfully and got nothing but respect back I think couples and single females need to put more effort in to attract attention from decent people Thanks for your guidance
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