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Are Both Sex’s really as horny as each other

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By *uxqway OP   Man
18 weeks ago

liverpool

I mean I come on here looking for women and I think it’s the same for most guys it’s mostly guys in your inbox wanting NSA I’m starting to feel like not everyone has the same level of desires as the next but Men are definitely a whole different level of freak than a Woman

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By *a LunaWoman
18 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I think they can be, just men are more aggressive in going after what they want.

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By *elloWoman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"I mean I come on here looking for women and I think it’s the same for most guys it’s mostly guys in your inbox wanting NSA I’m starting to feel like not everyone has the same level of desires as the next but Men are definitely a whole different level of freak than a Woman "

Imo

Women on here have desire but when faced with so much choice it can give some shoppers fatigue, in a shop you feel the need for something naughty so go to the crisps aisle, urgh the choices is too much, you just don't know which to pick, so you go and get a chocolate bar instead.

Here there are so many nice potential partners but which do you choose , aarrggghhh fuck it I'll get a dildo.

Also judging by the messages I get the majority of men message when they're horny and want to meet NOW. Women like to get prepared, or at least wash the wotsit dust off their cheeks.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
18 weeks ago

Ipswich

As said but women can be overly aggressive at times wish more were assertive

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

What are you basing this on OP?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
18 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I think there's also a biological imperative that's far higher in men - if I understand it correctly there are health/medical implications if men don't ejaculate reasonably regularly, but no such adverse impacts for women if they don't have sex/orgasm.

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By *EAT..85Woman
18 weeks ago

Nottingham

No. I'm sure there are existing studies detailing how often men and women think about sex.

More men will happily have disconnected random sex than women. And for longer periods of their life than women that do too.

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By *dam1971Man
18 weeks ago

Bedford


"No. I'm sure there are existing studies detailing how often men and women think about sex. "

I hope they’re not done by Sydney university or their results will be badly skewed

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I go through hypersexual phases. I can outpace the majority of men I know.

But, if there's no-one that interests and excites me available, I'll go play with toys or my own fingers rather than deal with some random horny bloke that comes attached to a penis.

Maybe the difference is between how willing genders tend to be to utilise someone as an object without any real care for them. Or what we consider the line is for an acceptable lowering of standards to deal with a particularly pesky horn.

It's not that we're not horny.

It's that what we class ass better than nothing has to be actually better than the peace and sensations we can get with objects we already own 💜

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By *eyond PurityCouple
18 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I think the difference is ladies are more likely to be sexual with an actual partner or with gents who they have met. They don’t tend to throw their horniness around with randoms.

Some men come on here, engage their little brain and scatter gun their horniness towards random women who they’ve not spoken to before and then wonder why they don’t get far. Then rinse and repeat.

K

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds

Probably. But the majority ( if not all ) of women know how to control it, and the majority of men have the will power of a crackhead with £500 cash and rent that needs paying.

The mr

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By *agic.MMan
18 weeks ago

Orpington

Oh foh sure...a man is designed to spread its seed (they been telling us)...food and sex are the only driving factors in our miserable existence...we're nothing more than apes devided of critical thinking, morality or emotions...and we be FUCKING...A LOT 🙄

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By *aybeLadyWoman
18 weeks ago

West Dublin

I dont agree with that. I think men think with their dicks, whereas women dont.

Its gets tedious on here sifting through the time wasters, attached guys etc so I've taken a step back. May seem like I'm not keen, I am. Just exhausting sometimes on here

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By *aybeLadyWoman
18 weeks ago

West Dublin

Women dont think with their vag, I meant to add in.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Men want sex.

Women want sex with men they are attracted to.

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By *eliWoman
18 weeks ago

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Yes, I think so but that might be because my libido is a tad too high; the approach/how it's handled is quite often different.

I don't want to generalise so trying to avoid doing so.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts


"Yes, I think so but that might be because my libido is a tad too high; the approach/how it's handled is quite often different.

I don't want to generalise so trying to avoid doing so. "
you're a randy 🐄

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Chichester

Yes but men are simple minded and blunt with it vs the more nuanced approach from women mostly

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
18 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

"Every man wants to find a nymphomaniac, until he finds one". Then he learns who are the hornier sex...

This thread has been quite holistic as to who wants to 'get' sex the most, but from the POV of you've already got it and you're locked away with someone; I don't think it's even a contest is it? Women win hands down (or have I just been lucky?!)

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

All sexes can be

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