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By *rad91 OP   Man
19 weeks ago

Warrington

Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

ㅤㅤ

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By *avexxMan
19 weeks ago

cheshire

its against the law to send a dick picture

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By *tr8MrEMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

I can see this going well

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By *exyScientistsCouple
19 weeks ago

Castlebar

I'm sure some people like it? 🤔

You can send what you like...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

19 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

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By *parkle1974Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd rather just see the face....at the end of the day, a dick is a dick

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

19 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

Yes its a platform to find sex. But every guys has a dick. Women in general are far more interested in faces, bodies and personalities.

If your main focus is on what's between your legs rather than what's between your ears, then your giving yourself an uphill battle. 🤷‍♂️

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By *riel13Woman
19 weeks ago

Northampton

I don't want to see pics of dicks that belong to men I don't fancy... I only need to see your face to establish that... The more I like someone the more I want to see

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
19 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

If the recipient hasn't asked for it what you've done is called cyber flashing which is illegal

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
19 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Don't believe everything you read in a bio OP, it's a double bluff to ensure maximum inbox-peen receipt.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
19 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"
would you expose yourself to someone in the first 5 minutes of meeting them in public? Face pic yes dick pic body pic wait until your asked for one

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By *EAT..85Woman
19 weeks ago

Nottingham

If I wanted to see your penis, I'd ask. Its an instant delete from me if it's in an opening message. Everyone has their own preference, but I suspect that's the greater majority of people's opinion.

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By *elloWoman
19 weeks ago

alpha centauri

They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"ㅤㅤ"

😂😂😂

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By *aizyWoman
19 weeks ago

west midlands


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos "

🍆🥸👍

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By *bitofaslutWoman
19 weeks ago

Cannock

It's like Xmas and bday presents. Do you really always want to know everything you're getting?

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos "

Supersonic sam has the best dick pick on fab 😂 (mr)

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By *edSirenWoman
19 weeks ago

magic mountain

I wouldn’t say I was put off by it.

I just rate the chase, the anticipation, and foreplay higher than actual sex… sooo I’m going to be more impressed with someone who can give great banter and flirt time first than someone who just relies on a dick pic

I would also say in general; and certainly not all; guys are shit at taking a decent dick pic. It’s not really a selling point for a lot of you 🙈

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
19 weeks ago

Ilford


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it? would you expose yourself to someone in the first 5 minutes of meeting them in public? Face pic yes dick pic body pic wait until your asked for one "

It would be funny (albeit not okay), if I saw a man walk up to a woman in a regular night club or pub whipped his cock out shouting "fancy a bit of that love!"

I still don't get how many guys can't see that as the unsolicited dick pic in real life.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
19 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Im attracted to someone's face, not their dick.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
19 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it? would you expose yourself to someone in the first 5 minutes of meeting them in public? Face pic yes dick pic body pic wait until your asked for one

It would be funny (albeit not okay), if I saw a man walk up to a woman in a regular night club or pub whipped his cock out shouting "fancy a bit of that love!"

I still don't get how many guys can't see that as the unsolicited dick pic in real life."

I know right

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
19 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos "

future photo challenge right there! 😜

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By *ife NinjaMan
19 weeks ago

Dunfermline

To be honest, they're not exactly great to look at, are they? 🤓

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By *avie65Man
19 weeks ago

In the west.


"To be honest, they're not exactly great to look at, are they? 🤓"

You took the words out of my mouth.

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By *FF23Man
19 weeks ago

London


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos

Supersonic sam has the best dick pick on fab 😂 (mr)"

Made me curious. Just had a look. 🤣🤣🤣🤣👌🏼. Strong work. 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"I'd rather just see the face....at the end of the day, a dick is a dick"

Oh so not true. Some are rather pretty, some are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it? would you expose yourself to someone in the first 5 minutes of meeting them in public? Face pic yes dick pic body pic wait until your asked for one

It would be funny (albeit not okay), if I saw a man walk up to a woman in a regular night club or pub whipped his cock out shouting "fancy a bit of that love!"

I still don't get how many guys can't see that as the unsolicited dick pic in real life."

If said woman in the night club had her boobs out and arse cheeks spread shouting fab to fuck it, would it be ok then?

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By *ittyNCremeCouple
19 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

Because we are not interested in receiving unsolicited dick pics sex site of not

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By *punk n gushCouple
19 weeks ago

deal


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?

Yes its a platform to find sex. But every guys has a dick. Women in general are far more interested in faces, bodies and personalities.

If your main focus is on what's between your legs rather than what's between your ears, then your giving yourself an uphill battle. 🤷‍♂️"

Excatly this

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Never in my entire life have I been attracted to a man because of what his dick looks like

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By *arialoueWoman
19 weeks ago

Doncaster

Coz pick pics don't intereste me and it's against the law if not requested

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
19 weeks ago

Norwich

I'd be happy to never see a dick pic. A face pic is all I'd like to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

A lot of men think a woman exposing her pussy in a text message is instant "come fuck me", therefore they assume the same works the other way around. It doesn't. And the fact this strategy has probably worked 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000001% of all the dick pics sent, at some point men need to wake up and start being more classy with how they pursue women. Until that happens, no man will get instant success from sending a dick pic without being asked for one, especially when it comes to a first message.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
19 weeks ago

Voldsøy

It's not the aesthetic of a dick that I go for. It's the person it's attached to. I've never seen a penis on screen before having it inside me before this site either. So yeah, I like face pics. I'd rather the (personal) dick pics for further into the chat.

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By *a LunaWoman
19 weeks ago

o o OO o o

I like a dick pic. Not necessarily in a message, but I like to see it before we meet.

I like to know what I may or may not be getting.

🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *rAndMrsRightCouple
19 weeks ago

newtownabbey


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it? would you expose yourself to someone in the first 5 minutes of meeting them in public? Face pic yes dick pic body pic wait until your asked for one

It would be funny (albeit not okay), if I saw a man walk up to a woman in a regular night club or pub whipped his cock out shouting "fancy a bit of that love!"

I still don't get how many guys can't see that as the unsolicited dick pic in real life.

If said woman in the night club had her boobs out and arse cheeks spread shouting fab to fuck it, would it be ok then?"

You may have missed the point.

Do you know many women and do you yourself attach photos of your arse cheeks spread out begging men, who have clearly stated in their profiles that they do not wish to receive this kind of photos to fuck it?

Do you understand the concept of consent?

People can do what they wish with their profiles and photos that they choose to display.

What everyone here is talking about is when someone repeatedly expresses in their profile that they do not wish to see anyones genitals attached to private messages, men somehow miss the memo and still attach them with the lame "it's a seeeeeex site" excuse.

It's absolutely no different than flashing someone at the park or a public bar.

missus

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By *avexxMan
19 weeks ago

cheshire

so guys it looks like its time to put your willies away

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it? would you expose yourself to someone in the first 5 minutes of meeting them in public? Face pic yes dick pic body pic wait until your asked for one

It would be funny (albeit not okay), if I saw a man walk up to a woman in a regular night club or pub whipped his cock out shouting "fancy a bit of that love!"

I still don't get how many guys can't see that as the unsolicited dick pic in real life.

If said woman in the night club had her boobs out and arse cheeks spread shouting fab to fuck it, would it be ok then?

You may have missed the point.

Do you know many women and do you yourself attach photos of your arse cheeks spread out begging men, who have clearly stated in their profiles that they do not wish to receive this kind of photos to fuck it?

Do you understand the concept of consent?

People can do what they wish with their profiles and photos that they choose to display.

What everyone here is talking about is when someone repeatedly expresses in their profile that they do not wish to see anyones genitals attached to private messages, men somehow miss the memo and still attach them with the lame "it's a seeeeeex site" excuse.

It's absolutely no different than flashing someone at the park or a public bar.

missus "

I'm pretty sure I understand it a lot better than most people thanks.

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By *tr8MrEMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"so guys it looks like its time to put your willies away "

I'm going to chip mine off and dedicate to medical science

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By *ilbzMan
19 weeks ago

Swindon Wiltshire

Mine looks like a penis….only smaller 😂🤪

So its best left hidden away

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By *rbane007Man
19 weeks ago

Lutterworth

And there lays the exact problem, the mentality of certain people who have this preconceived notion that the world of swing is salubrious and all about the sex.

Having been in the swing community for circa fifteen years, I'd like to think that it is FAR more than just a quick "Hi, let's fuck" it's about building lasting friendships that extend well beyond the bedroom.

I've made amazing and lasting friendships over that period, and because of that the physical has only improved on every single level as you get to know people more, trust them, and become more open and intimate.

Sadly the owners of FAB are only in it for the subscription money, sad what it's become really.

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By *ucka39Man
19 weeks ago

Newcastle

I already have one and don't need another 🤣

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
19 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Sometimes less is more

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
19 weeks ago

Altrincham


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

Because I don't want to see your knob before I decide if you are one

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

19 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"

Sadly the owners of FAB are only in it for the subscription money, sad what it's become really."

I'm pretty sure the site owners aren't responsible for how grown adults who join the site choose to behave. 🤔

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By *rbane007Man
19 weeks ago

Lutterworth

Before it was publicly traded and sold, they policed it really well and didn't allow half the behaviour that is on here now. It was a true place for swingers to connect.

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By *rad91 OP   Man
19 weeks ago

Warrington


"its against the law to send a dick picture "
it's not on here.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
19 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here."

Yes it is, if it is unsolicited

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By *B..Woman
19 weeks ago

Wiltshire

A face pic would get my attention more than a dick pic

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By *ildTimes.Man
19 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

They bloody love it, it's all lies!!! 🥪

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By *heffstarMan
19 weeks ago

Sheffield

tbh i would never just send one as think is ignorant and would make me look at dick..dont get me wrong love it if asked etc but to just send like the person is bound to want it is naive and give person an opinion of you that isnt true

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By *he Old School RockersCouple
19 weeks ago

Gloucester

If I want to see your dick after I’ve seen your face I’ll ask. Always face first.

Kink (Mrs)

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
19 weeks ago

Swansea

I don't find close up shots of any genitalia particularly arousing. It's different as part of a video, and very different if it is someone you know and fancy but there's a reason we don't all walk around displaying out nether regions.

Obviously, not everyone shares this opinion but hey, the world would be boring if we did. I'm constantly amazed at the obsession some men appear to have for their knobs - it really does come across as though they believe just the sight of it will have women flocking to them. The OP's apparent difficulty understanding why this approach is not liked by many seems to illustrate this well

P (male half of couple)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Before it was publicly traded and sold, they policed it really well and didn't allow half the behaviour that is on here now. It was a true place for swingers to connect."
can't be that bad as your still here

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By *elloWoman
19 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

So you're aware that sending a dick pic is off putting, so why has a picture of your dick appeared in my inbox

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?

So you're aware that sending a dick pic is off putting, so why has a picture of your dick appeared in my inbox "

omg you are joking

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West


"To be honest, they're not exactly great to look at, are they? 🤓

You took the words out of my mouth. "

At least it's only words in your mouth

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here."

It is. Read the law.

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By *unny girl7Woman
19 weeks ago

stoke on trent/cheshire border


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

We know what a cock looks like plus you wouldnt approach a stranger in the street and immediately get your cock out would you? (Hopefully not anyway!)

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Chichester


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here.

It is. Read the law."

Good luck anyone getting it into court though from a site like this. Certainly would like to see that tested lol

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By *elloWoman
19 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?

So you're aware that sending a dick pic is off putting, so why has a picture of your dick appeared in my inbox omg you are joking"

Wish I was.

And if sending dick pics wasn't off putting then sending a dick pic with an angry looking vein definitely is

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?

So you're aware that sending a dick pic is off putting, so why has a picture of your dick appeared in my inbox omg you are joking

Wish I was.

And if sending dick pics wasn't off putting then sending a dick pic with an angry looking vein definitely is "

I'd love to know how some people mind works

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Chichester

Should see some of the cunt pics I sent as well Usually from couples

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some semi helpful answers in not many words:

- I don't want them

- consent is important

- when unsolicited, it's now illegal in England and Wales

- sex isn't just about penis

- many people want to evaluate a person, not their role as a dildo

- it's a swinging site

- different people want different things, and (if legal and consensual), whatever they want should be respected

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By *avie65Man
19 weeks ago

In the west.


"To be honest, they're not exactly great to look at, are they? 🤓

You took the words out of my mouth.

At least it's only words in your mouth "

My lips are sealed.

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By *dam1971Man
19 weeks ago

Bedford


"I like a dick pic. Not necessarily in a message, but I like to see it before we meet.

I like to know what I may or may not be getting.

🤷🏻‍♀️"

I fear for your poor inbox

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

19 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Before it was publicly traded and sold, they policed it really well and didn't allow half the behaviour that is on here now. It was a true place for swingers to connect."

Odd. I've been here since 2008 (the site only started in 2006) and I've never seen any difference.

And curious as to what you mean by 'publicly traded'? I know that phrase appears in plenty of pointless profile disclaimers, but.....🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

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By *ucka39Man
19 weeks ago

Newcastle


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here.

It is. Read the law.

Good luck anyone getting it into court though from a site like this. Certainly would like to see that tested lol "

If it's not requested regardless of any site it's still the law check the act

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By *ebauchayMan
19 weeks ago

swindon south


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here.

It is. Read the law.

Good luck anyone getting it into court though from a site like this. Certainly would like to see that tested lol

If it's not requested regardless of any site it's still the law check the act "

Yup.

Absolutely 💯

Plus.. sending a dick pic as an opening gambit really ain’t going to impress most of the people on here who’ve seen and experienced more cock than an industrial scale chicken farm.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West


"Should see some of the cunt pics I sent as well Usually from couples "

Don't want those either

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By *ucka39Man
19 weeks ago

Newcastle


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here.

It is. Read the law.

Good luck anyone getting it into court though from a site like this. Certainly would like to see that tested lol

If it's not requested regardless of any site it's still the law check the act

Yup.

Absolutely 💯

Plus.. sending a dick pic as an opening gambit really ain’t going to impress most of the people on here who’ve seen and experienced more cock than an industrial scale chicken farm. "

Act 2003, sections 66(a) and 66(b), which were introduced by the Online Safety Act 2023.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

It isn't

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here.

It is. Read the law.

Good luck anyone getting it into court though from a site like this. Certainly would like to see that tested lol "

That may be true.

I don't particularly want to be criminally violated whether or not it'd hold up in court. Which is what it now is in England and Wales. It's a crime.

There are plenty of crimes that are difficult to prove in court and I'm sure most of us don't think it's ok to do them, even if, say, one in one thousand result in conviction or less.

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By *ucka39Man
19 weeks ago

Newcastle


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here.

It is. Read the law.

Good luck anyone getting it into court though from a site like this. Certainly would like to see that tested lol

That may be true.

I don't particularly want to be criminally violated whether or not it'd hold up in court. Which is what it now is in England and Wales. It's a crime.

There are plenty of crimes that are difficult to prove in court and I'm sure most of us don't think it's ok to do them, even if, say, one in one thousand result in conviction or less. "

It would still come under the sexual offences act even with it going to court and their own pic in the paper and on the reg and unable to use this site and many more due to that as all have terms and conditions for use

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By *ebauchayMan
19 weeks ago

swindon south

Think it’s a useful tool (no pun intended) to unwanted/unsolicited dick picks. Not just a block but reply which begins;

“I note you have sent me an image of your penis. This is unsolicited and in contravention of Act 2003, sections 66(a) and 66(b), which were introduced by the Online Safety Act 2023.“

And yes, the police will pursue and act on it. I know of a man in his mid 50s who had a very public visit from the police and subsequent caution. On record.

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here.

It is. Read the law.

Good luck anyone getting it into court though from a site like this. Certainly would like to see that tested lol

That may be true.

I don't particularly want to be criminally violated whether or not it'd hold up in court. Which is what it now is in England and Wales. It's a crime.

There are plenty of crimes that are difficult to prove in court and I'm sure most of us don't think it's ok to do them, even if, say, one in one thousand result in conviction or less.

It would still come under the sexual offences act even with it going to court and their own pic in the paper and on the reg and unable to use this site and many more due to that as all have terms and conditions for use"

I have no idea how it would proceed in reality. Crimes not being followed through with is a thing.

That doesn't mean it's ok to ignore the law, particularly with strangers.

Consent is good

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
19 weeks ago

wonderland.

To answer the OP.. because I've seen thousands in my life time and I don't find it an important part of deciding if I want to get naughty with someone..

Plus it is now illegal. I'd love to see them not allowed as profile photos too if im honest

Cali

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wonder if these threads ever cause people to reflect and change their behaviour.

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By *heffstarMan
19 weeks ago

Sheffield


"I wonder if these threads ever cause people to reflect and change their behaviour."
you would hope

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West


"I wonder if these threads ever cause people to reflect and change their behaviour. you would hope"

One can lose hope.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire

wonder why op hasn't been back to this thread

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By *ady LickWoman
19 weeks ago

Northampton Somewhere

Face first perlease!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wonder if these threads ever cause people to reflect and change their behaviour. you would hope

One can lose hope."

Quite

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By *sm265Woman
19 weeks ago

Shangri-la


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?

Yes its a platform to find sex. But every guys has a dick. Women in general are far more interested in faces, bodies and personalities.

If your main focus is on what's between your legs rather than what's between your ears, then your giving yourself an uphill battle. 🤷‍♂️"

This.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
19 weeks ago

Herts


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

I do have an aesthetically pleasing penis in fainess

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

OP, if you penchant is for a "dick pick" (sic) then allow me to signpost you to here:

https://m.fabguys.com

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By *ittlemiss1985Woman
19 weeks ago

Lansing


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos "

I actually knew someone who'd draw stuff on the dick pics she got and send them back to the guy

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By *sm265Woman
19 weeks ago

Shangri-la


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos

I actually knew someone who'd draw stuff on the dick pics she got and send them back to the guy "

An inspired idea! I have a friend who replies with a rating out of 10

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos

I actually knew someone who'd draw stuff on the dick pics she got and send them back to the guy "

I love this idea.

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By *hirleyMan
19 weeks ago

London

I don't remember ever sending a photo of my dick on fab, it's pointless

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By *ucka39Man
19 weeks ago

Newcastle


"its against the law to send a dick picture it's not on here.

It is. Read the law.

Good luck anyone getting it into court though from a site like this. Certainly would like to see that tested lol

That may be true.

I don't particularly want to be criminally violated whether or not it'd hold up in court. Which is what it now is in England and Wales. It's a crime.

There are plenty of crimes that are difficult to prove in court and I'm sure most of us don't think it's ok to do them, even if, say, one in one thousand result in conviction or less.

It would still come under the sexual offences act even with it going to court and their own pic in the paper and on the reg and unable to use this site and many more due to that as all have terms and conditions for use

I have no idea how it would proceed in reality. Crimes not being followed through with is a thing.

That doesn't mean it's ok to ignore the law, particularly with strangers.

Consent is good "

In reality a person can not only get it mentioned via their own local MP then in the house of commons but push the case to the high court if matter not taken seriously by authority or local court

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
19 weeks ago

North West

Because dicks are ugly unless you fancy the person attached to them

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By *ikesEmBigMan
19 weeks ago

Herts

I've done the googly eyes. It doesn't increase the minge count

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By *elloWoman
19 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"I've done the googly eyes. It doesn't increase the minge count"

Did you forget the moustache

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By *eoBloomsMan
19 weeks ago

Springfield


"I don't remember ever sending a photo of my dick on fab, it's pointless "

I'd actually like to see a dick with no point.

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By *iker64worceMan
19 weeks ago

redditch

I actualy love being asked to show my penis if asked just find it horny

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts


"I've done the googly eyes. It doesn't increase the minge count

Did you forget the moustache"

I now blame you completely for how my life turns out from now on. You chose this

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By *icolerobbieCouple
18 weeks ago

walsall


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

It isn’t off putting for me. I wouldn’t arrange a meet without one.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
18 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Dick pics just get deleted - we’ve never met anyone who has sent us a cock pic as a first message.

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By *ot_memoriesMan
18 weeks ago

Herefordshire

It’s the profiles that say “no dick pics” and their profiles happily display a vagina or…them sucking on one!

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By *heVikingJarlMan
18 weeks ago

behind you

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By *iker64worceMan
18 weeks ago

redditch

Bit hypocritical if you display dick or fanny photo,i am generaly happy to flash it if asked

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By *entleman JayMan
18 weeks ago

Wakefield

I haven’t got a single …. pic. I meet lots of people.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts

I think I do alright

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By *icolerobbieCouple
18 weeks ago

walsall


"Bit hypocritical if you display dick or fanny photo,i am generaly happy to flash it if asked"

It’s a swingers site. We’re swingers. We come here for nudity etc. it’s what we joined the site for. Not all who use the site class themselves as swingers. Each to their own. Some don’t like em, some embrace em.

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By *elloWoman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Bit hypocritical if you display dick or fanny photo,i am generaly happy to flash it if asked"

There's a difference between someone looking at your gallery to voluntarily see your penis and someone sending an initial unrequested message with hi look at my penis.

Surprised how people don't understand the difference

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By *elloWoman
18 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"I've done the googly eyes. It doesn't increase the minge count

Did you forget the moustache

I now blame you completely for how my life turns out from now on. You chose this "

I approve

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts


"I've done the googly eyes. It doesn't increase the minge count

Did you forget the moustache

I now blame you completely for how my life turns out from now on. You chose this

I approve "

I've often dreamt of your approval. You're lush

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By *iker64worceMan
18 weeks ago

redditch

Random pics with out being asked for is not on

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts


"I've done the googly eyes. It doesn't increase the minge count

Did you forget the moustache

I now blame you completely for how my life turns out from now on. You chose this

I approve "

Your theory sucks. I changed my profile picture 15 mins ago and the clunge is nowhere near deep enough.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
18 weeks ago

North West


"I don't remember ever sending a photo of my dick on fab, it's pointless "

Did you try just the tip?

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts


"I don't remember ever sending a photo of my dick on fab, it's pointless

Did you try just the tip?"

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"I've done the googly eyes. It doesn't increase the minge count

Did you forget the moustache

I now blame you completely for how my life turns out from now on. You chose this

I approve

Your theory sucks. I changed my profile picture 15 mins ago and the clunge is nowhere near deep enough. "

Pfft.

Cartoon ones don't count. We want authentic googly eyes 💜

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts


"I've done the googly eyes. It doesn't increase the minge count

Did you forget the moustache

I now blame you completely for how my life turns out from now on. You chose this

I approve

Your theory sucks. I changed my profile picture 15 mins ago and the clunge is nowhere near deep enough.

Pfft.

Cartoon ones don't count. We want authentic googly eyes 💜"

I still maintain I was the OG googly eye Master, but I'll do this when the weather stays warmer and I hedge trim the pubes again

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By *olds CoupleCouple
18 weeks ago

Louth Lincolnshire


"I don't want to see pics of dicks that belong to men I don't fancy... I only need to see your face to establish that... The more I like someone the more I want to see "

Same here,face, body and personality come first.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts


"I don't want to see pics of dicks that belong to men I don't fancy... I only need to see your face to establish that... The more I like someone the more I want to see

Same here,face, body and personality come first. "

That's fair but I've had more success personally when it's on my profile. Kinda pointless sending it in a DM. And anyway, DMs aren't always because I want a fuck. Sometimes it's maybe for a compliment or something

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
18 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Cocks are like religion... It's ok to have one, it's ok to be proud of it... But it's not ok to go around waving it in people's faces

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By *aybeLadyWoman
18 weeks ago

West Dublin


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?

Yes its a platform to find sex. But every guys has a dick. Women in general are far more interested in faces, bodies and personalities.

If your main focus is on what's between your legs rather than what's between your ears, then your giving yourself an uphill battle. 🤷‍♂️"

This. I know what a dick looks like & you have one. I dont know what you look like or your personality. If we dont click, the dick doesnt even register on my radar.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds

If you went on a blind date, would you turn up to the restaurant with you cock hanging out you zip ?

The mr

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By *AYENCouple
18 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

To us it demonstrates a basic lack of consent - and for us, sex is about a lot more than just a cock. K.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
18 weeks ago

Leeds


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

Typical bloke question, I want sex with people not genitals, sending unsolicited cock is just minging, if someone wants to see it they'll ask.

Consent is key! Lack of knowledge on consent would be a straight no.

Mrs

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By *carlettsWoman
18 weeks ago

Harpenden


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos "

Haha now those I would happily see like fancy dress for dicks

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
18 weeks ago

Coventry

I don't see its the dick pic that is the problem per se on its own, more how its used. Its not a game of blind date and people may like a preview to what they may be working with. However the problem is when a profile is full of dick pics or the first message comes with an unsolicited dick pic or first message with pictures is just a dick. Because it's like guys totally miss the point and want to thrust a dick in your face before the other aspects of attraction are established. But a guys dick although wholey not unimportant giving the nature of the game is only a small factor in what make people want to fuck them. So when guys are so phallic centric it's just a bit weird and off putting. And in terms of close up dick pics often many of them are not that appealing or well taken.

So that's not to say a dick pic doesn't have a place, just put it in the right place. Obviously people at some point will want to see what you got. So start on what they're more intrested in, a full body pic. Be that on your profile or if you don't have profile pictures (or a good range) in what you send. Send a good full body one be that dressed, underwear or tasteful nude (erect or not). Because that's what people want to see (apart from your face) is a full body one. Of which if it is a nude they'll see your dick anyway and get an idea if it meets their needs. People genrally are not so intrest in close ups of just a dick. If they ask for one by all means send one, if not just don't.

Mr

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By *emma200Woman
18 weeks ago

Warwickshire


"They bloody love it, it's all lies!!! 🥪"

This is so true.. please.. send them 😂

Don’t actually.. just face pics ☺️😂

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By *upanovaMan
18 weeks ago

Sheffield


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it? would you expose yourself to someone in the first 5 minutes of meeting them in public? Face pic yes dick pic body pic wait until your asked for one "

Agreed

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By *illan-KillashMan
18 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

Speaking on behalf of Margo, she's attracted to the personality not the penis. I doubt she's alone in that.

Would you walk up to a total stranger in a bar and flop your pride and joy out?

Because that's exactly what sending an unsolicited dick pic is.

J

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple
18 weeks ago

Worcestershire

Pretty much what's already been said

We don't want to see a dick before seeing the face of the person it's attached too

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Chichester

What if the dick was attached to the forehead

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By *mbarrassed_boxCouple
18 weeks ago

Congleton

If you need to ask your already wayyyy off track

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By *ustAnotherMan
18 weeks ago

brumish

I mean it's just a bit vulgar isn't it?

Have a bit of dignity, flapping it out on the table. Have a look at that.

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By *tr8MrEMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield


"What if the dick was attached to the forehead "

You said you'd never mention that photo!!! 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

It's not acceptable to send unsolicited explicit pics. The well established rules of common decency in life should be taken as a given, but, wow, on here all rules go out the window and people do and say things they would never dream of in society at large. If you wouldn't say it or show it in a pub why do some think it's ok on here? Yes, this is a swinging site - that doesn't mean we should be subject to a wild West free for all. We have explicit pics in our gallery, but would never dream of sending them unsolicited to people's inbox.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
18 weeks ago

Herts


"They are a bit boring looking , maybe if guys were willing to add googly eyes, fake beards, doughnuts etc. we would be more willing to see the photos

Haha now those I would happily see like fancy dress for dicks"

*cough*

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
18 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

They do nothing for me

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By *esthetic21Man
18 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Who told you that

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By *r.ZeusMan
18 weeks ago

Basgiath War College

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I like face picture I like eyes on man I like to look at all of the man with Dick out Danny porn 🌟 does this he gets me turned on everytime 😁I watched him last night with my Dildo in my pussy 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I like man wanking videos where you can see his face all his body that does it for me 😛

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By *rA n mrskCouple
18 weeks ago

glasgow

I don’t want to see an ugly man’s Willy . I want to see a v handsome man and then maybe his Willy

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By *ee-LiteWoman
18 weeks ago

Northampton

Dick pics are a turn off - I only want to see one in the flesh upon my choosing, and no, they’re not attractive, what’s attractive is how they’re utilised

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I want to see at least one good dick pic before I even contemplate meeting it

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I like real man in crisp white T shirt black bubble body warmer nice pair of shorts nice clean trainers nice watch on piercing eyes yummy I kind like rouge look

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago


"I like real man in crisp white T shirt black bubble body warmer nice pair of shorts nice clean trainers nice watch on piercing eyes yummy I kind like rouge look "
actually I love that look 🤣

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
18 weeks ago

.


"I don’t want to see an ugly man’s Willy . I want to see a v handsome man and then maybe his Willy "

This!

If you're a 9 out of 10 in handsome ratings showing your cock in a message can an will be forgiven in most cases

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
18 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Women…are different to men

What you find to be an effective seduction technique comes from an opposing perspective.

It’d work great on gay men 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
18 weeks ago

Stoke


"Please tell me in as few words as possible, why on here is sending a dick pick along with face and body pics off putting ? I mean it's a platform to find sex isn't it?"

Unsolicited dick pics are against the law 👍

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Fully naked rouge man with nice piercing eyes is welcome in my inbox 😁

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By *ansoffateMan
18 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

🦴🙈🫵🏻🐖

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By *ypersoonMan
18 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

Most dick pics I post go to my friends only section but I keep a small selection in my public album. IMO just feel it doesn't say much about a guy's personality if you have it on show (or if it's your profile pic)

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By *riar BelisseWoman
18 weeks ago

Holibobs

Its not for me, I wanna see what I potentially am gonna be munching on, after seeing the variety of types of dicks on here, send me the peen, so I can decide if we are compatible...

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By *avexxMan
18 weeks ago

cheshire

is one naked body picture ok

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