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Anyone struggle to fathom the mood swings of certain male individuals in the vanilla world be they friends, associates or work colleagues. I've reached the stage where I erase numbers (for the sake of my own sanity)...

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By *Wgent72Man
19 weeks ago

Manchester

It's sex and football

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By *adeiteWoman
19 weeks ago

Stafford

Im convinced it's due to a lack of nurturing friendships among men

Most mens friend groups are the polar opposite of women's

Must make them very angry when they've no one to actually talk to so they fester over problems etc.

Just what I've seen from life

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
19 weeks ago

In fair Verona.

It’s our feminine sides coming out

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By *a LunaWoman
19 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Nope. The only moody man I knew was my Step-Dad. Oh and my ex! But then one was just moody and the other had depression.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
19 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Mood changes are part of life whether male or female

Having a little patience, calmness, open ears and understanding can calm these situations rather than ignite them

S xxx

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Im convinced it's due to a lack of nurturing friendships among men

Most mens friend groups are the polar opposite of women's

Must make them very angry when they've no one to actually talk to so they fester over problems etc.

Just what I've seen from life"

Thank you for these thought-provoking comments.

Do you think there's still room for these types to take charge/have responsibility for their emotional intelligence (or lack of)?

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Nope. The only moody man I knew was my Step-Dad. Oh and my ex! But then one was just moody and the other had depression.

Depression seems like a minefield. Fresh air, exercise, healthy food could be the answer...

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Mood changes are part of life whether male or female

Having a little patience, calmness, open ears and understanding can calm these situations rather than ignite them

S xxx"

How many chances overlap with a patient approach from person A before person B begins to harmfully impact the more stable bloke?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I don't know any excessively moody people luckily

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
19 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"Mood changes are part of life whether male or female

Having a little patience, calmness, open ears and understanding can calm these situations rather than ignite them

S xxx

How many chances overlap with a patient approach from person A before person B begins to harmfully impact the more stable bloke?"

Completely depends on the individuals and the circumstances

Everyone is different

Sometimes patience and understanding can go a long way to helping sometimes its abused, used and can be detrimental to both people

There is bo blanket, one type answer

Each person, each set of circumstances are completely unique but they should all start with compassion

S xxx

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
19 weeks ago

belfast

Coke

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
19 weeks ago

West London

"Im convinced it's due to a lack of nurturing friendships among men

Most mens friend groups are the polar opposite of women's

Must make them very angry when they've no one to actually talk to so they fester over problems etc.

Just what I've seen from life"

It’s this. Men’s mental health is in a terrible state and only appears to be getting worse

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
19 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Anyone struggle to fathom the mood swings of certain male individuals in the vanilla world be they friends, associates or work colleagues. I've reached the stage where I erase numbers (for the sake of my own sanity)...

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I think some get PMT (pre menstrual tension)

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By *ansoffateMan
19 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Do people need a justification for their mood?

There seems to be certain moods that do, in particular those deemed negative.

Why can't people just feel how they feel and if other people don't like it they leave them to it? Find something more interesting or appealling to focus on.

Theres lots of reasons to be moody in the modern world. Simply the fact you can be constantly mithered with calls, emails, texts any time of the day. You go AWOL for a few days and all of a sudden you are on everyone's shitlist. And that's before you have to deal with all the adulting life crap, whilst people are falling ill and dying around you.

There's good stuff too of course, but life isn't all marshmallow pie, wrapped up in candy floss clouds. So sometimes people aren't tapdancing in the rain.

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By *tr8MrEMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Mental health in today's environment is seriously overlooked in men. I know a lot of you are going to call bollocks on this, but when was the last time you actually walked up to a man you know who is in a bad mood and said "mate, are you ok" instead of saying "cheer up you grumpy cunt"

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