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"Sexuality is a very diverse thing. You could still argue that you are straight and be with a transwoman because you're attracted to femininity, which is more specifically described as gynesuality. Even if they have a penis, your perception of them still viewing them as a woman would indicate that you're more heterosexual than bisexual. Bisexuality is the attraction to men as well as women. And attraction is when you feel that body urge and pull to someone you find physically/emotionally appealing. If you don’t feel that when you look at any man, then you're not bisexual. If you can have sex with a guy without there being that sense of attraction because you just detach from the idea of being with same the gender and youre just masturbating with their body, but you want the penis of another man involved, then you're more hete ![]() This was a really well put and interesting reply, thanks! Certainly beats all the posts by guys moaning about why other guys refuse to apply strict labels to themselves. | |||
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"Sexuality is a very diverse thing. You could still argue that you are straight and be with a transwoman because you're attracted to femininity, which is more specifically described as gynesuality. Even if they have a penis, your perception of them still viewing them as a woman would indicate that you're more heterosexual than bisexual. Bisexuality is the attraction to men as well as women. And attraction is when you feel that body urge and pull to someone you find physically/emotionally appealing. If you don’t feel that when you look at any man, then you're not bisexual. If you can have sex with a guy without there being that sense of attraction because you just detach from the idea of being with same the gender and youre just masturbating with their body, but you want the penis of another man involved, then you're more hete ![]() The first guy I slept with has only ever thought of himself as hetero. He knew exactly what I was and found me on here after seeing me around and lusting after me. We hooked up in a hotel and before during and after he's never treated me like anything but a woman. I'll never be hot like a lot of the TV's and cd's who do well on here, I'm too pudgy for that and well my face 😭 But there are plenty of people, men and women who accept me with all my flaws and failings as a woman and for that I will always be grateful. I love expressing my femininity and being a sexual creature is a big part of that. Fab isn't a very accepting place and I think I would get more action if I didn't identify as a woman, but fab isn't my only avenue. | |||
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"Sexuality is a very diverse thing. You could still argue that you are straight and be with a transwoman because you're attracted to femininity, which is more specifically described as gynesuality. Even if they have a penis, your perception of them still viewing them as a woman would indicate that you're more heterosexual than bisexual. Bisexuality is the attraction to men as well as women. And attraction is when you feel that body urge and pull to someone you find physically/emotionally appealing. If you don’t feel that when you look at any man, then you're not bisexual. If you can have sex with a guy without there being that sense of attraction because you just detach from the idea of being with same the gender and youre just masturbating with their body, but you want the penis of another man involved, then you're more hete ![]() You're more than welcome, I've done a lot in terms of understanding the human mind and the psychology to pretty much everything, sexuality was a fun topic to delve into. I would say in layman's terms I'm straight, however a penis on a transwoman doesn't make me think they're a man, I see them as women provided that they're actually trying to feminise. I have my own views on some individuals who label themselves trans but I don't see anything in the way of them being feminine, both emotionally and physically... but that's a hot topic I won't go further into for the sake of peace. More specifically I'd say I'm gynesxual. I mean I'm kinda sorta dating a transwoman right now, taking it very slow and nothing serious right now, but she is absolutely jaw dropping and practically an Instagram model, if she used Instagram like that anyway 🤷♂️ There's still an awful lot of stigma against men. I've seen social media posts about a guy calling himself a "straight alpha male" (cringe on the alpha part) but he's in a relationship with a transwoman who genuinely looks like a woman. There's a lot of mocking as a result for calling himself straight 🙄 | |||
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"Sexuality is a very diverse thing. You could still argue that you are straight and be with a transwoman because you're attracted to femininity, which is more specifically described as gynesuality. Even if they have a penis, your perception of them still viewing them as a woman would indicate that you're more heterosexual than bisexual. Bisexuality is the attraction to men as well as women. And attraction is when you feel that body urge and pull to someone you find physically/emotionally appealing. If you don’t feel that when you look at any man, then you're not bisexual. If you can have sex with a guy without there being that sense of attraction because you just detach from the idea of being with same the gender and youre just masturbating with their body, but you want the penis of another man involved, then you're more hete ![]() It's still great that you have people lusting after you, as long as you're happy and being allowed to express your sexuality and identity in a way that's fulfilling, that's the most important part, since in my opinion that's harder than all the things you can buy to feminise yourself on the surface with whatever you have to work with. So I'm happy for you that you can get to experience that, many don't unfortunately. | |||
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"How many straight guys find themselves liking trans girls? I recently came across Ruby Fiera and now I'm hooked 🤣" me find alot such a turn on | |||
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"Should Trans and TVs be lumped together. Surely they are very different catorgarie. TVs are men who like to dress as women and Trans are literally changing sex. " Fab is in desperate need for better categories to differentiate between TV/CD and trans people. I've seen plenty trans people asking for this for a long time. It's very alienating for trans people not being appropriately represented on this site, whether they're MTF or FTM. I know the site isn't run by a major company but it's 2025 now... 🙄 | |||
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"Sexuality is a very diverse thing. You could still argue that you are straight and be with a transwoman because you're attracted to femininity, which is more specifically described as gynesuality. Even if they have a penis, your perception of them still viewing them as a woman would indicate that you're more heterosexual than bisexual. Bisexuality is the attraction to men as well as women. And attraction is when you feel that body urge and pull to someone you find physically/emotionally appealing. If you don’t feel that when you look at any man, then you're not bisexual. If you can have sex with a guy without there being that sense of attraction because you just detach from the idea of being with same the gender and youre just masturbating with their body, but you want the penis of another man involved, then you're more hete ![]() absolutely spot on and couldn't agree with you more I class myself straight but have met many trans over the years I treat and see them as women yes they have a penis which I enjoy. But I have zero attraction to men. | |||
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"How many straight guys find themselves liking trans girls? I recently came across Ruby Fiera and now I'm hooked 🤣" A considerable number, if the constant propositions I get on here are anything to go by. 😄 | |||
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"Trans porn is more popular than cis but most men haven’t got the fucking bollocks to get to know you to take you out most harbour trans phobic ideologies" I have a little theory that the porn is behind a lot of cis male transphobia. A lot of them won't ever meet a trans woman and whenever we're talked about the image of these big booobed girls railing hetero men with their bigger dicks is what's in their heads. Shock horror can't have *them* in the ladies room, can't give *them* equal rights. And, like, everything with men is competition, y'know? With trans women they see "men" who've found a pass to the inner sanctum of femininity they wish they had. Women are - largely in my experience - lovely to us, befriend us while they're there on the outside. I've literally seen it on a husband's face while me, the wife and my friend have been chattering like lifelong besties while he sat looking like we pissed in his cornflakes. It's fear, it's jealousy, it's suspicion. There's a bit of projection too - the horrible things they accuse us of us what they'd do if they could get away with it and they think we're trying to get away with it. | |||
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"Should Trans and TVs be lumped together. Surely they are very different catorgarie. TVs are men who like to dress as women and Trans are literally changing sex. " I'd say there's still a huge spectrum between those two categories of complex feelings, emotions and ways of presenting. Not everything needs a box ![]() | |||
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"Trans porn is more popular than cis but most men haven’t got the fucking bollocks to get to know you to take you out most harbour trans phobic ideologies" although dont agree with the statement as such do agree that lots of male admirers are not secure enough with what they like and act disrespectful and basically like cocks which then can form an opinion that a certain type of admirer all all the same | |||
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"Trans porn is more popular than cis but most men haven’t got the fucking bollocks to get to know you to take you out most harbour trans phobic ideologies" I've watched trans porn and it's not made me want to have sex with a trans woman. Since becoming active on here I have seen some very attractive trans women I'd love to have fun with. I guess that shows we shouldn't believe everything we see in porn. | |||
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"Trans porn is more popular than cis but most men haven’t got the fucking bollocks to get to know you to take you out most harbour trans phobic ideologies I've watched trans porn and it's not made me want to have sex with a trans woman. Since becoming active on here I have seen some very attractive trans women I'd love to have fun with. I guess that shows we shouldn't believe everything we see in porn. " Or anything... | |||
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"Trans porn is more popular than cis but most men haven’t got the fucking bollocks to get to know you to take you out most harbour trans phobic ideologies I have a little theory that the porn is behind a lot of cis male transphobia. A lot of them won't ever meet a trans woman and whenever we're talked about the image of these big booobed girls railing hetero men with their bigger dicks is what's in their heads. Shock horror can't have *them* in the ladies room, can't give *them* equal rights. And, like, everything with men is competition, y'know? With trans women they see "men" who've found a pass to the inner sanctum of femininity they wish they had. Women are - largely in my experience - lovely to us, befriend us while they're there on the outside. I've literally seen it on a husband's face while me, the wife and my friend have been chattering like lifelong besties while he sat looking like we pissed in his cornflakes. It's fear, it's jealousy, it's suspicion. There's a bit of projection too - the horrible things they accuse us of us what they'd do if they could get away with it and they think we're trying to get away with it. " this is so well written exactly as it is x they’d rather Chester dies and dislocate and disassociate because they’re fucking scared | |||
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"Trans girls, absolutely. 😎 Crossdressers and part-time fetishists, no thanks.😬 " Each to their own. There is a fundamental difference between the two groups. 😌 | |||
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"For such a usually divisive issue, this thread suggests maybe fab is getting a little less so. " it’s fcuking boring to tell you the truth | |||
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"For such a usually divisive issue, this thread suggests maybe fab is getting a little less so. it’s fcuking boring to tell you the truth" The thread? Of fab? | |||
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"For such a usually divisive issue, this thread suggests maybe fab is getting a little less so. it’s fcuking boring to tell you the truth The thread? Of fab? " the whole issue the whole smoke screen regarding trans people at the moment meanwhile 400, billion was wasted during Covid lol 200 billion can’t even be tracked | |||
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"Sexuality is a very diverse thing. You could still argue that you are straight and be with a transwoman because you're attracted to femininity, which is more specifically described as gynesuality. Even if they have a penis, your perception of them still viewing them as a woman would indicate that you're more heterosexual than bisexual. Bisexuality is the attraction to men as well as women. And attraction is when you feel that body urge and pull to someone you find physically/emotionally appealing. If you don’t feel that when you look at any man, then you're not bisexual. If you can have sex with a guy without there being that sense of attraction because you just detach from the idea of being with same the gender and youre just masturbating with their body, but you want the penis of another man involved, then you're more hete ![]() Far to deep to justify | |||
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"For such a usually divisive issue, this thread suggests maybe fab is getting a little less so. " I think those that would normally decide this issue, are keeping their opinions quite (maybe) and rightly so. I’ve read so much hatred in here in the last, it’s about time Fab chilled out. ![]() | |||
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"Sexuality is a very diverse thing. You could still argue that you are straight and be with a transwoman because you're attracted to femininity, which is more specifically described as gynesuality. Even if they have a penis, your perception of them still viewing them as a woman would indicate that you're more heterosexual than bisexual. Bisexuality is the attraction to men as well as women. And attraction is when you feel that body urge and pull to someone you find physically/emotionally appealing. If you don’t feel that when you look at any man, then you're not bisexual. If you can have sex with a guy without there being that sense of attraction because you just detach from the idea of being with same the gender and youre just masturbating with their body, but you want the penis of another man involved, then you're more hete ![]() This is an excellent way to put it. I'm going to add another take though, personally I'd "define" myself as sexually-bi, rather than bisexual. In normal throws of life I'm not attracted to any men, but when it comes to sex I'm more than happy to accept a man for the pure pleasure of the situation rather than the fact it's another man. Feminine Trans women however I am attracted to, and would love to one day get to enjoy their company. It's been one pleasure I've not been fortunate to experience in life, despite being something I've admired since I first saw pictures of some in my youth. Hopefully that can change. Fab doesn't allow enough diversity in the title of TS/TV. Some of these ladies are absolutely stunning women who happen to have a penis, others are hairy guys in their wife's underwear behind her back. The gap between the two is colossal. So whether defining as straight, bi, gay or sexually-bi... Just appreciate the individual and enjoy the pleasure. ![]() | |||
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"Definitely some hot girls on here... just checked out a few in this thread... Wilts girl for certain would tempt the straightest of guys... let alone the Fab straight ones... (not sure I’m allowed to say that) " It’s interesting I have come across many straight men and just chatted casually out and about , once I told them I am trans a good few were honest enough to say that while they physically find me attractive like other women. , my having a cock is deal killer , they still carried on bantering chatting with me though like any other person. I can respect honesty and acceptance that you can be attracted to someone that you wouldn’t go further with. | |||
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"Definitely some hot girls on here... just checked out a few in this thread... Wilts girl for certain would tempt the straightest of guys... let alone the Fab straight ones... (not sure I’m allowed to say that) It’s interesting I have come across many straight men and just chatted casually out and about , once I told them I am trans a good few were honest enough to say that while they physically find me attractive like other women. , my having a cock is deal killer , they still carried on bantering chatting with me though like any other person. I can respect honesty and acceptance that you can be attracted to someone that you wouldn’t go further with. " Same with anything I guess, if its not for you then it's not for you. People have different tastes and thresholds. For example, if you slipped that same bit of information into a conversation with me, it would seal the deal, not kill it. ![]() | |||
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"It’s interesting I have come across many straight men and just chatted casually out and about , once I told them I am trans a good few were honest enough to say that while they physically find me attractive like other women. , my having a cock is deal killer , they still carried on bantering chatting with me though like any other person. I can respect honesty and acceptance that you can be attracted to someone that you wouldn’t go further with." Looking at you, I'd say they're the ones who lose out. 😎 | |||
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"It’s my Husband’s biggest fantasy, Pretty trans women with tits and a cock …… He’s a real gentleman too ….. hopefully the occasion will happen in the future, everyone has their own fantasy, how amazing if you get it ![]() ram his arse while the tits bounce about x | |||
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"It’s my Husband’s biggest fantasy, Pretty trans women with tits and a cock …… He’s a real gentleman too ….. hopefully the occasion will happen in the future, everyone has their own fantasy, how amazing if you get it ![]() I dream about this often, personally that is. Not about your husband ![]() | |||
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"My faves are Daisy Taylor and longtime pornstar Alison Dale from Britain." great choices | |||
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