FabSwingers.com forum: Couples with guys playing alone

By *he Old School Rockers OP Couple
19 weeks ago

Gloucester

Sorry, but to us, guys playing separately count as single guys, no matter how much permission you say you have from the female half. So if you are a couple, you both play. If not, get a separate account.

I know that some get a kick out of playing separately, but make that clear from the outset, not pretending one thing, then saying another.

Rant over. Or probably not.

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By *he Old School Rockers OP Couple
19 weeks ago

Gloucester

Yes, it's a negative post, but we are fed up of fake couple profiles, or couple profiles, where only the male half seems to be available.

Prove me wrong...

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By *igboobstCouple
19 weeks ago

barrow

Quite agree!

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By *neeyedwillieMan
19 weeks ago

Darlington

How do you define a fake account?

My wife and I's couples account is well verified. I do the two account thing because I do play solo regualrly as well (yes..she participates but only as work allows).

And yet, outside of the club where my wife and I are well enough known to know it's all above board...

... there are still people on here implying I'm fake or cheating or whatever..even though it's made quite clear what our thing is on both profiles.

But it got to the point it was no longer worth trying to meet on here. So it's socials and clubs now.

I'm not saying you're wrong to be irritated by a single guy posing as a couple (had to deal.with them myself in the past and they irritate me as well). All I'm saying is, couples account, single account..what does it matter if they're being honest.

Because there is a difference between 1 party playing solo regularly and an actual fraud account. No one would be angry at the female half of a couple playing solo. It's only ever the guys.

All I'm saying is, be angry at dishonest accounts, not the type of accounts if that makes sense?

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By *andadbodMan
19 weeks ago

Liverpool

We had both singles and a couples profile when Mrs was active, the couples profile I used to do all the arranging with once the mrs was happy with whoever the other couple or guy was, we didn’t really have that much success with the couples profile, we did make it clear that we play separately too and our single profiles where mentioned so could contact us there if just wanting to meet one of us, needless to say the mrs was more popular than myself, but that’s life on fab for guys here.

We never came across any couple profiles that we thought were fake though?

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By *tlanshiaWoman
19 weeks ago

Chatham

I agree.

Had one where the guy was messaging on telegram, and the girl on Kik, she sent some pics so I reverse image searched them, and they were an OF models pictures lol.

Like, they think it bypasses our safety checks or something.

You can always tell because men pretending to be women talk so condescending like we chat like lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
19 weeks ago

Midlands

Local updates in most areas always have Men from "Couples" looking to meet (very rarely Women though), it's obvious some aren't a couple or aren't together any more. It's best to go to clubs where you can see and speak to real couples.

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By *he Old School Rockers OP Couple
19 weeks ago

Gloucester

Agreed to all so far.

We have no problems with honesty, and where it's clear in the profile about playing separately.

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By *ent on the looseMan
19 weeks ago

South Essex

My wife and I play together and separately, and have a couples account as well as singles accounts, all of which are fully verified by meets. We’re very up front about our situation and will always discuss it in initial messages.

It’s not for everyone, we get that, but by and large people accept our arrangement and understand that I’m not playing away.

Honesty is always the best policy.

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