FabSwingers.com forum: Women, how do you ask guys for sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

Just wondering how women ask guys for sex?

What are the most common phrase or body language most women are using to ask someone they fancy for sex.

I might have missed a clue earlier

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
19 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

I don't 🤣

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Oi dickhead, what are you waiting for"

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By *a LunaWoman
19 weeks ago

o o OO o o

“Well it ain’t gonna fuck itself” said as bent over the kitchen table.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
19 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Usually, they get the idea without me having to outright say it.

But, when all else fails, 'Please may I ch0ke on your dick now' has a solid 99% success rate 💜

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By *lueDressWoman
19 weeks ago

Bath

If I'm in a relationship I just show My interest in him. Haven't tried it on with a stranger though. That's not My thing.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
19 weeks ago

cardiff

Come drink from my ⛲️

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
19 weeks ago

Ilford

"Just wondering how women ask guys for sex?

What are the most common phrase or body language most women are using to ask someone they fancy for sex.

I might have missed a clue earlier

I'm really shit with non-verbal cues, the amount of missed oppertunities I've had, you would think I would have learned by now.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
19 weeks ago

Durham

Would you like to fuck me? That's if I'm feeling fairly confident that they fancy me and have made it obvious they are definitely interested.

Ruby

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By *aramel.desiresMan
19 weeks ago

Laleham

""Oi dickhead, what are you waiting for""

This works for me..

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

I probably start to get handsier. Though my ex said I gave him great fuck me eyes.

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By *dam1971Man
19 weeks ago

Bedford

"Usually, they get the idea without me having to outright say it.

But, when all else fails, 'Please may I ch0ke on your dick now' has a solid 99% success rate 💜"

I’m curious about the other 1%

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By *hilly1515Man
19 weeks ago

coastal

I am taken aback i thought you ladies of fab where as pure and unspoilt as the driven snow of winter,,,

I had you all high on a pedestal and now my sacred thoughts have been desecrated by filth and talk of sins of the flesh....

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I'm not actually sure, it usually just happens when kissing turns into groping, and so on.

I think I've said "shall we get naked?" a few times.

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By *arialoueWoman
19 weeks ago

Doncaster

Idont

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By *riar BelisseWoman
19 weeks ago

Holibobs

"I don't 🤣"

This

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By *urvyCuckoldressCouple
19 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Have a good success rate in clubs by saying something like “fancy joining me in a private room?”

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
19 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

With my partner I just stroke his cock... After that I'm normally trying to tell numerous guys I don't want sex with them

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By *elloWoman
19 weeks ago

alpha centauri

In a swingers club I'd ask if they'd like to join me in a room.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Not sure, think you can be clear without having to say the exact words

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

It’s hard to believe that you don’t and you don’t send signals

Probably, you haven’t met a guy you fancy so much, who did not decode your naughty intentions

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
19 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

Get it out then

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By *rincipessaWoman
19 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

It’s usually very obvious. But if it’s not obvious enough, I tend to use, “fuck me”. It normally works

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By *sWyldWoman
19 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I don't think I've ever asked . Kissing has often just naturally progressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Being autistic I miss an awful of the body language women use. You could be literally throwing yourself at me and I won't realise it.

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
19 weeks ago

La La Land

FAF?

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By *uke_silverMan
19 weeks ago

London

"Usually, they get the idea without me having to outright say it.

But, when all else fails, 'Please may I ch0ke on your dick now' has a solid 99% success rate 💜"

What do the remaining 1% do?

To OP, I believe you can never really tell - even if you do have sex, it's possible that the woman was from Canada and was just being polite. Best to keep your wits about you and continue to look for signs.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
19 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"I don't think I've ever asked . Kissing has often just naturally progressed.

Mhm, this for me too. 🤷‍♀️

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

You said it correctly, most guys tend to be polite

That does not mean they’re weak

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By *estructionDollyWoman
19 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

"would you like your cock in my mouth?"

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By *avie65Man
19 weeks ago

In the west.

""would you like your cock in my mouth?"

The quick and simple answer is yes.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
19 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Usually, they get the idea without me having to outright say it.

But, when all else fails, 'Please may I ch0ke on your dick now' has a solid 99% success rate 💜

I’m curious about the other 1%

He just wasn't as into me as I'd thought.

It is what it is 💜

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Usually, they get the idea without me having to outright say it.

But, when all else fails, 'Please may I ch0ke on your dick now' has a solid 99% success rate 💜

I’m curious about the other 1%

He just wasn't as into me as I'd thought.

That’s true, you can never get a 100% successful rate

That 1% club belongs to someone who is not into you

It is what it is 💜"

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
19 weeks ago

North West

Am I hopping on or not?

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By *emma200Woman
19 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Put your dick in me… thanks

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By *iaisonseekerMan
19 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Put your dick in me… thanks "

Hmmm, that'll do it

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

I genuinely wasn't aware that women actually •asked• men for sex.

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By *onnachakeaneMan
19 weeks ago

Dundrum

The other shoppers in IKEA… were stunned as they entered the kitchen section…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Put your dick in me… thanks "

Pls, don’t use such language to a virgin, he may end up putting his dick on your belly button haha

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By *onnachakeaneMan
19 weeks ago

Dundrum

Was having post work pints with a former Colleague and as we finished our 4th drink just goes “do you want to come back to mine and have sex?”

My coat was on before she finished her sentence 🤣

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By *onnachakeaneMan
19 weeks ago

Dundrum

Lucky guy!!

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

I don't know, I've never asked. Things somehow happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Sex please!

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By *onkey 2023Man
19 weeks ago

Cross Hands

"“Well it ain’t gonna fuck itself” said as bent over the kitchen table."

Pmsl 🤣

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By *S17Couple
19 weeks ago

Liverpool

'So....how about it then? 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

You have way too many clothes on

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By *otguy555Man
19 weeks ago

Bristol

"You have way too many clothes on

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do you want me to take some off for you x

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"C'mere lover boyyyy"

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"I said, C'MERE LOVER BOY!"

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"hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

🤣🤣I have forgotten been while since had sex been using my Dildo so don't have to speak 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Put your choo Choo train in the tunnel get all steamy 🤣🤣

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"Put your choo Choo train in the tunnel get all steamy 🤣🤣"

That would instantly get me excited

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"You have way too many clothes on

Ok!

I must have missed something similar like this previously

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By *EAT..85Woman
19 weeks ago

Nottingham

Do you want to/ is it time to put your penis in me now?

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By *ngelLordCouple
19 weeks ago

Newport

We don't ask lol

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Chichester

Do you wanna fuck usually works

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"“Well it ain’t gonna fuck itself” said as bent over the kitchen table."

It seems kitchen is another code word. I was recently told by my local fb “ buy some nice wine and meet me at the kitchen 7:30”

At 7:31, we were doggyin in the kitchen

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By *ommy trucker1Man
19 weeks ago

anywhere near you

"Come drink from my ⛲️ "

Oh good because I'm thirsty

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By *arysueCouple
19 weeks ago

West Wales

ask outright , after all this isnt a dating site lol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

The Mrs usually just twats me on the head with a rolling pin and drags me upstairs.

The mr

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By *etwife8230Couple
19 weeks ago

Newport

Dropping my knickers usually helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I am taken aback i thought you ladies of fab where as pure and unspoilt as the driven snow of winter,,,

I had you all high on a pedestal and now my sacred thoughts have been desecrated by filth and talk of sins of the flesh....

Pastor, I think you’re on the wrong forum

Please, pray for us haha

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By *orbidden eastMan
19 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

"Do you want to/ is it time to put your penis in me now? "

Absolutely perfect 🤣🤣🤣

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
19 weeks ago

Norwich

I don't think I've ever asked as its been obvious.

I'm not sure if it would feel empowering, downright scary or creepy as the guys who are interested are usually way younger than me.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
19 weeks ago

Herts

They usually use one of their "shag a random" voucher.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I have a special mating dance....

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Smile

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By *tr8MrEMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

Text --FAF! TONIGHT

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By *oughmanMan
19 weeks ago

Sunderland

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By *annessaTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Denham

Does the bus leave from here or do I need to go too the station.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"I have a special mating dance...."

Please, is it possible to see this special dance

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By *r and Mrs CACACouple
19 weeks ago

congleton

Kinda happens once I’ve taken their peen out to play with and suck. I’m very hands on x

Charlotte x

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By *FF23Man
19 weeks ago

London

"It’s usually very obvious. But if it’s not obvious enough, I tend to use, “fuck me”. It normally works"

If you said that to me it would definitely work. X

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By *ad NannaWoman
19 weeks ago

East London

I can't remember ever asking for sex.

I might message asking when I'm seeing him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"It’s usually very obvious. But if it’s not obvious enough, I tend to use, “fuck me”. It normally works

If you said that to me it would definitely work. X

This is where I go wrong. "Fuck off" tends to slip out instead.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

The last time I asked was last weekend. ‘Come over Monday?’ he knew it was for naked sexy time. (He said no so now I’ve pretty much given up on men 😭 )

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By *r and Mrs CACACouple
19 weeks ago

congleton

"The last time I asked was last weekend. ‘Come over Monday?’ he knew it was for naked sexy time. (He said no so now I’ve pretty much given up on men 😭 )"

His loss hunny your one sexy lady

Charlotte xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
19 weeks ago

"The last time I asked was last weekend. ‘Come over Monday?’ he knew it was for naked sexy time. (He said no so now I’ve pretty much given up on men 😭 )"

That’s an invitation I wouldn’t never turn down because from your sexy pics, you worth the time

As Charlotte said earlier, he is the loser

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
19 weeks ago

North West

Carest thou to fornicate with me, dear chap?

Gets 'em hard every time 🍆

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

No ones said the arse wiggle to the crotch yet. Usually that if I haven't already made it obvious enough.

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By *edSirenWoman
19 weeks ago

magic mountain

I’m pretty good at making sure my non verbal cues are on point.

But should that fail, or I’m just feeling impatient, then ‘we need to fuck. Now’ tends to work.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
19 weeks ago

North West

"No ones said the arse wiggle to the crotch yet. Usually that if I haven't already made it obvious enough. "

The wiggle back up - major move and 99.% successful!

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
19 weeks ago

North West

99.9%

I’m d*unk sorry

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By *tr8MrEMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"99.9%

I’m d*unk sorry "

Something tells me you don't struggle

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By *un guy300Man
18 weeks ago

Swansea

My wife said when we met, do you want to go to a party, I replied who is going, she said me and you

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