FabSwingers.com forum: Small things that drive you wild...

By *il-red OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Ok so I think it's safe to assume, that to some degree, sex/anything directly associated with it, drives us all wild.

But what are some of the small, specific details/things you or someone else does, that drives you crazy? Bonus points for things that your partner/playmate might not pick up on?

I'll share one of mine:

I have a hand fetish, so while the obvious hand in my knickers will do something, what actually drives me wiiiild are the hand on face/neck/in my hair/around my throat type moves 🥵🫠

Especially curious to hear from the men, but welcome all (may even try some out.. for science 👩‍🔬🤭)

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
7 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Anytime a woman touches me from behind. Like, an arm around my waist, or a kiss on my neck, or fingertips on my shoulder blades … I’m not used to that vulnerability. I’m usually the one doing the touching, deciding what comes next …

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

When I see a woman dangling her heels / flats

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

The way she moves... when she's that kind of performative, sensual siren slowly slinking her way around the home naked after a shower, the way the dim light hits her body creating shadows and definitions...

Oh lawd have mercy on my soul 🫦

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By *hilly1515Man
7 weeks ago

coastal

unloading inside pulling out getting up wiping my cock on her Laura Ashley curtains ..... she would hit the fooking roof with that one ...

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
7 weeks ago

North West mainly. Sometimes London/SouthWest

A wet fringe … that just come out of the shower and it’s all dishevelled looking and the droplets of water. Gives me carnal feelings 😈

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By *parkle1974Woman
7 weeks ago

Leeds

The feel of his fingertips brushing at first gently against my neck as he pulls me in for a deep kiss x

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By *ude LawMan
7 weeks ago

Harrogate

Kylie.

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
7 weeks ago

Manchester

Someone stroking my skin/hair really gently and tantalisingly

Gravelly voices

Making him gasp/groan in a way that surprises even him

I also get the hand thing. I like having my face/neck stroked/squeezed/caressed/grabbed during sex and fingers in my mouth in a sensual way

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
7 weeks ago

Somewhere in Neverland

There's a certain look on their face during sex or oral that is just 😍🤯🥵 Idk how to describe it, I've tried. Their face becomes almost even more attractive during those acts. That. I love that! Or certain words or phrases they say. Being a great kisser works a treat too

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
7 weeks ago

Somewhere in Neverland

"I also get the hand thing. I like having my face/neck stroked/squeezed/caressed/grabbed during sex and fingers in my mouth in a sensual way "

I forgot to add this...

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
7 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Someone playing with my hair and an innocent hand on my hip..

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By *hilly1515Man
7 weeks ago

coastal

serious post now. ist not any one particular action more the transformation in response to what ever it is we are doing , eyes transforming into a different look and that verbal lust in the voice and body spasms...

that amplifies through each other to crescendo

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By *oeBeansMan
7 weeks ago

Derby

It may not be during sex but the time after when we're just laying down together and chatting and the tips of her fingers start wandering over my arms and my body and if they find the right spot, it just slightly tickles me in a good way.

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By *ocketman81Man
7 weeks ago

Ennis

I love been hugged from behind and my neck kissed and having my hair pulled.,

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By *sWyldWoman
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Fingers in my hair , stroking my skin gently and gently biting where my neck meets my shoulder.

Reactions . Subtle ones ,the breathy sigh or the moan . Just sometimes a look that tells me I'm driving them wild is a huge thing for me .

Sometimes I like to be in control. Not in a BDSM or domme way but just being indulged to take the lead . Maybe bind their hands ,maybe blindfold and then chase their reactions..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
7 weeks ago

Leeds

When apple tizer cans are on offer, instant boner.

The mr

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By *100Man
7 weeks ago

Essex

Titties

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
7 weeks ago

Lancashire

"When apple tizer cans are on offer, instant boner.

The mr "

I laughed way harder than this deserved

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By *ansoffateMan
7 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I can relate to the hands fascination. Touch to my hands, arms, neck... can evoke all kinds of responses; sometimes it's like I feel the message they convey the tone of the desire. I can instinctively respond to the right partner. When those nails dig in to my back it can drive me wild. After a time with a partner, those feelings b come associated with patterns of touch, eye contact, facial expressions like eyebrow raises.

That level of intimate attunement is highly desirable to me. And the sex that comes from it - awesome sauce.

I love that feeling of relinquishment, fate being in the hands of a spiraling feedback loop. Without a need for one or the other being in control. When I see that in the hands of a partner and feel it in their touch, I'm deeply content.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
7 weeks ago

Doncaster

I go all GA GA when a woman whispers in my ear,🥵

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By *eyond PurityCouple
7 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

A neck scarf drives me wild - not a big thick woolly one but a dainty silk scarf tied round the neck…🥵

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
7 weeks ago

Leeds

"When apple tizer cans are on offer, instant boner.

The mr

I laughed way harder than this deserved

£5 for 6, if I wouldn’t get arrested I’d shag the shelf when they’re £3.50

The mr

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'm not submissive and I instinctively and naturally orchestrate and take charge in the bedroom until that one unexpected moment - and one exhilarating moment only - I am coaxed into something by the other person. It could be anything - anything that breaks the conformity of the sex or the foreplay and just takes me to another level of heightened ecstacy. It could even be something simple like kissing my nipples which are my achilles heel when it comes to passion.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
7 weeks ago

furnace

I love to wash a ladies hair it can be such a sensual act

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
7 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

Soft sensual touching of my neck and light fingernails down my back

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
7 weeks ago

Hull

There’s something about when you have that mind blowing chemistry, but haven’t kissed or touched yet, the anticipation as your sat talking together, the lingering eye contact, leaning in as your talking and lightly brushing against them…fingers touching but feels like electric … waiting for that first kiss… with the right person it can be incredibly erotic and such a turn on!

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
7 weeks ago

Reading

All of these things are physical things other people do ... which makes me think I shouldn't post my thing.

But the thing that drives me the most crazy in other people is acceptance. When we both know I'm A LOT in whatever way and they reassure me that I'm not too much for them? I will want to rip your clothes off.

But if the question is just physical things, most partners aren't aware of my most erogenous zone. And I won't generally point them there. Find it on your own, be a brave explorer.

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By *igletMan
7 weeks ago

manchester

The sound of stilettos on a hard floor

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By *ags73Man
7 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Touch I guess, just that difference in feeling.

Light in eyes is amazing. Eye contact and then sort of seeing eyes brighten

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By *ust want fun 888Man
7 weeks ago

nearby

Just love a girl putting her hair behind her ears and her wearing a baseball cap, just does it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

The cuddle. Big arms around me that just immediately makes me let go, relaxes the noises in my head makes me feels safe. Then the hands gently on my cheeks when we snog.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
7 weeks ago

Poole

My (Mrs) lastest is, a tanned bare arm (male), with a black leather glove. What makes me dribble more if the arm is on a motorbike.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
7 weeks ago

Wirral

It varies by partner for me. My current FWB has such a glorious sense of joy and fun and I love him for it.

Whenever he gets out of the shower he unwraps the towel as he passes me and waggles his cock at me.

It's such a juvenile thing to do but I love how it makes him laugh every time and his joy in it is what turns me on. It can honestly make me breathless with lust for him.

I normally end up getting him a bit sweaty so he needs another shower, and the whole cycle starts again

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By *easer71Man
7 weeks ago

Abertillery

Love a woman in nice patent heels really turns me on

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
7 weeks ago

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"It varies by partner for me. My current FWB has such a glorious sense of joy and fun and I love him for it.

Whenever he gets out of the shower he unwraps the towel as he passes me and waggles his cock at me.

It's such a juvenile thing to do but I love how it makes him laugh every time and his joy in it is what turns me on. It can honestly make me breathless with lust for him.

I normally end up getting him a bit sweaty so he needs another shower, and the whole cycle starts again

This whole comment just made me so happy. Waggles his cock at you, that is so adorable.

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By *a LunaWoman
7 weeks ago

Wherever the wind takes me

"It varies by partner for me. My current FWB has such a glorious sense of joy and fun and I love him for it.

Whenever he gets out of the shower he unwraps the towel as he passes me and waggles his cock at me.

It's such a juvenile thing to do but I love how it makes him laugh every time and his joy in it is what turns me on. It can honestly make me breathless with lust for him.

I normally end up getting him a bit sweaty so he needs another shower, and the whole cycle starts again

This would work for me too. Playful men. Very sexy.

Also partial to a foot rub and a tongue in my ear.

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By *cLovin2Man
7 weeks ago

Reading

"All of these things are physical things other people do ... which makes me think I shouldn't post my thing.

But if the question is just physical things, most partners aren't aware of my most erogenous zone. And I won't generally point them there. Find it on your own, be a brave explorer. "

Put some signs up on broad street and you might get someone wandering in

For me I have this weird attraction to curvaceous hips, especially in tight jeans. Some women with the right curvature just

Yes I know I'm odd, I'll get my coat.

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By *abbum69Man
7 weeks ago

Croydon

Fingernails down my back is a good one, that always nice.

It also really turns me on having my hands pinned down and being kissed wildly and teased.

Wispering dirty words to each over in public.

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