FabSwingers.com forum: What have you discovered you liked/disliked since starting swinging ? 💐

By *oveToPlay. OP Couple
19 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Hey you lovely lot

So as the title says, what have you discovered you like and/or dislike since you started swinging?

Hope you all have a fabulous day and looking forward to reading your answers

S xxx

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By *estructionDollyWoman
19 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Never thought I'd be into being watched having sex, but I have discovered I love it in the right context. I have a little exhibitionist inside me I never knew about. I love open play areas in clubs for both the exhibitionist and the voyeuristic aspects.

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By *es not the MessiahMan
19 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Hate sex these day's

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
19 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Hate sex these day's "

^ I find it more of a chore these days

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By *he OxfordMaleMan
19 weeks ago

wantage

Getting Cock Sucked & play with h by Fellas& How Hard& throbbing male touch would get my Cock!!

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By *aulupforitMan
19 weeks ago

Corbridge

Bad breath,smoke still on clothes and hygiene

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
19 weeks ago

Middle England

We both like being watched too. It's such a turn on.

Also like clubs with glory holes. So sexy seeing Mrs in the Czech style ones and guys taking it in turns.

We've been to some great clubs and enjoy the club scene.

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By *r SensualMan
19 weeks ago

London

Likes: the amount of women I’ve come across who love kissing just as much as I do, the unlocking of new kinks such as sploshing. Getting to indulge in group fun, being watched by others whilst I’m having sex as I’m a big exhibitionist.

Dislikes: the drama, entitlement and downright disrespect by some. Judgemental and snarky remarks made too about how I choose to indulge in this lifestyle and who with.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I didn’t know I had an exhibitionist side, I was always body insecure (as an ex ballerina I’ve been screamed at for putting an ounce on- I kid you not) so going to clubs etc and receiving nice comments and glances was quite liberating.

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By *oeBeansMan
19 weeks ago

Derby

I've found that I love being watched in clubs which is something I thought totally went against my personality and how I overthink, but being in that environment is just a massive turn on. I also found I love the social side which is something I didn't anticipate as I essentially joined looking for more casual sex.

Something I dislike (and I don't want to make this a big thing) but before I joined, I never thought of my race being a limiting factor in any aspect of my life until I started seeing things like "No Asians" on profiles and hearing people's experiences. So even though I know there are preferences, I do dislke the colour of my skin being a limiting factor...

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I thought at the start of swinging i was more s kink person and that would be me. However ive discovered that i really enjoy sensual sex too. As well as being watched.

In terms of dislikes how judgmental people can be. I get us trans folk aren’t for everyone and thats fine but dont treat me as a secret or want to never be seen with me if we did play

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

I've discovered my love for women and discovered my dislike for most men.

Mrs

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By *ornycougaWoman
19 weeks ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

As someone who suffered from body dysmorphia I love how affirming this lifestyle is: it has played a big part in my recovery and building up my confidence. I now love being watched and am a total exhibitionist. I also never thought I was capable of compersion so that has been another area of personal growth for me.

The only thing I dislike is how normalised the lifestyle is for some people. Being on an orgy bed at a greedy girls night and being distracted by a conversation about trading in cars whilst I'm taking multiple cocks is something I struggle to understand!

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By *dc1Man
19 weeks ago

essex and all over the south

Ive found out i love the look of a fully nakid man and still have a total dislike to any type of peeing.

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By *igbustedmilfCouple
19 weeks ago

Maidstone

I love the freedom of swinging, just to be yourself and indulge your fantasies.

I absolutely love being the centre of attention, love being surrounded by guys while my partner watches and I’m a total cum slut. Something 18 year old me would never have believed

I love guys wanking over me too. So total opposite of a lot of women

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By *oeBeansMan
19 weeks ago

Derby

"As someone who suffered from body dysmorphia I love how affirming this lifestyle is: it has played a big part in my recovery and building up my confidence. I now love being watched and am a total exhibitionist. I also never thought I was capable of compersion so that has been another area of personal growth for me.

I get what you mean on that second point. It does feel like sex has been such a taboo subject for some that people have overcompensated a bit to the point it can be a total mood killer.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
19 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

This absolutely does my head in!! Fuck off and have you banal conversations in the bar some of us are trying to cum here

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By *eo PublicMan
19 weeks ago

Lincoln

Not sure if this is exactly what was asked, but since being on here I've found that I'm very attracted to trans women.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

That i'm not a swinger and this is a far better place to meet new people than those awful dating apps 😂

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By *eyond PurityCouple
19 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I didn’t realise I’d ever be sharing a partner with someone else. I absolutely love it.

Watching C make someone else cum (man or woman) is such a huge turn on…

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
19 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I thought we’d be meeting other couples and swapping, and that I’d be exploring with other women. I know, such a cliché.

I never imagined Mr would enjoy sitting back and watching me at the centre of a group of men. And that I would love him watching me.

Thanks, fab!

Mrs TMN x

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By *illy IdolMan
19 weeks ago

Midlands

I enjoy how easy it is to meet like minded people and how open most are about sex.

I don't enjoy the double standards and sweeping generalisations.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
19 weeks ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

Bit like the poster above, the sense of community and shared interests is really reassuring.

Spit roasts are our absolute favourite.

Message etiquette and communication skills are the worst part of it all.

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