FabSwingers.com forum: Gives me the ick

By *ollyPocket75 OP Woman
19 weeks ago

Aberdeen

What makes you say no to someone in a message or on a profile? I cringe at the word "Naughty" it's a straight no for me. We're adults so why describe a meet as a "Naughty meet"? It gives me the ick

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By *parkle1974Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Anything that mentions mummy 🤢

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

They need to call it a "mischievous" meet. It has an air of Enid Blyton about it.

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By *uckurcumMan
19 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Can I call you ' Daddy'.... immediately puts me off

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By *ildTimes.Man
19 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

The Sex 🤮

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By *oughmanMan
19 weeks ago

Sunderland

I don't get messages, but if the word daddy comes up, I'm tapping out.

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By *ibblepilotMan
19 weeks ago

Preston

The word 'ick' used by adults

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By *angler 321Man
19 weeks ago

Hereford

The phrase "what you into" when it clearly stated in detail on my profile! Instant delete.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Chichester

"Anything that mentions mummy 🤢"

Everyone seems to call me mommy on here and Twitter

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Chichester

Mmmm

Slurpppp

Are pretty much instant eye roll Delete

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By *odgerMan
19 weeks ago

Coventry(ish)London/Lincoln

Folk that are defiantly meeting again.

Oh and ect.

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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Anything with a variation of 'I'm a nice guy' - gives me entitled, whiney vibes... And if you need to state you're a nice guy.....

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Anyone that calls me a sissy or anything along those lines instant delete

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
19 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

When a single guy is hanging out of a female in there pic on here & do the female even know there pics are being used

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By *otton Eye JoeMan
19 weeks ago

Grays & London

Same as above, I don’t get messages but the thought of being called ‘Daddy’ would be a 100% NO!!

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By *all_Dark_DirtyMan
19 weeks ago

all over

Anyone that writes ‘hahahah’ in their profile after saying how much fun they are.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
19 weeks ago

Voldsøy

"Anything with a variation of 'I'm a nice guy' - gives me entitled, whiney vibes... And if you need to state you're a nice guy..... "

This!!! I cannot stress this enough... 🚩

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By *allandathleticMan
19 weeks ago

Asgard

Same as above. "Daddy"

Nope. Cya 👋

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By *oughmanMan
19 weeks ago

Sunderland

"Anything with a variation of 'I'm a nice guy' - gives me entitled, whiney vibes... And if you need to state you're a nice guy..... "

I actually hate being called a nice guy now. I've never self proclaimed myself one. But after seeing some of these so called "nice guys" I think it's an insult.

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By *agic.MMan
19 weeks ago

Orpington

Daddy

Pornstar dick

Alpha male

Dominant real man

WAP

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By *irsSubCouple
19 weeks ago

Darlington

- straight to "I'm going to do xxxx to you"

- claiming to be amazing in bed (usually a sign they are shite)

- manipulative responses to "no thanks"

- people who assume as a couple you are waiting on standby to fulfill their desires. As if we are sat at home "on call" for a swinging emergency

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By *ickie_RankingMan
19 weeks ago

Space Mountain

1 word replies and suggesting to communicate over Skype.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Ilkeston

When they imply that because no one else has met then you have to

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
19 weeks ago

Cambs

Self declared Alphas..

Bareback pics with multiple partners with no indication of consent of their pics being used,

0% personality messages (fuck now? Or bland variations of)

Entitlement is a huge turn off too.

Blas x

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By *issmorganWoman
19 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Messaging to tell me they're nearby for a night in a truck/Hotel-good for you, why you telling me.

Asking if I've had much luck here.

No pics at all or more of other people in pics than them ie women /toys/cars.

Hi hun/babe/dear etc.

I don't bite unless asked..

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"Anything with a variation of 'I'm a nice guy' - gives me entitled, whiney vibes... And if you need to state you're a nice guy.....

This!!! I cannot stress this enough... 🚩"

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
19 weeks ago

Hampshire

Mummy/ daddy

Mummmmmm

Any long winded 'sexy' story.

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Marlow

Asking if I'm available in their first message, I mean, what planet?

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

As above "nice guy" or anything similar.

"The sex"

"Daddy/mummy"

Overly complimentary messages

"Play" instead of sex

"Pussy"

The long paragraph about being tied up and gagged in a random hotel room.

So many more but that about covers most

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By *ootnootboopCouple
19 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Self declared Alphas..

Bareback pics with multiple partners with no indication of consent of their pics being used,

0% personality messages (fuck now? Or bland variations of)

Entitlement is a huge turn off too.

Blas x

Ah the old " self declared alpha male"...

Nothing turns us off faster than someone who says that!

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By *tirlingbenMan
19 weeks ago

aberdeen

Watersports or worse

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By *oeBeansMan
19 weeks ago

Derby

Anything that compliments me too much or puts me on some sort of pedestal. It just creates expectation that I can't live up to.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

"genuine guy/woman"

"Gyne pics"

"Mummy/daddy"

"Dom"

"Clean" (as if it needs stating)

"Cheats"

Mrs

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
19 weeks ago

belfast

Mumsnet ballix

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
19 weeks ago

South Wales

‘Meet now’ or even worse ‘meet solo’ in the first message! It’s all in the bio! Xx

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

I'm in your area and I'd like to use you as a free sex worker

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
19 weeks ago

Norwich

One guy recently asked me if I had much luck on here.

Why do some men do that? I have never asked anyone that. He then proceeded to tell me in a really creepy manner that he could see from my verifications that I had!

Instant block!

Calling sex fun. It's such a throw away word.

I've had the nice guy thing a few times and it makes my stomach so uneasy. It definitely give red flag.

Guys who don't respect your preference

I just thought I'd try anyway.

Or I have a BWC and can black up.

Or when they get nasty when you say no. I've learnt now just to delete and not reply.

Sadly as the single men % has grown on here so has the frustration. Which I understand but that doesnt mean that some men should get unpleasant or act entitled.

Our bodies are our own.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

"I'm in your area and I'd like to use you as a free sex worker"

Obviously this isn't what's been said but it's how I read it.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
19 weeks ago

cardiff

'Meet'

'Play'

🤮

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