FabSwingers.com forum: The Fab Grand Slam

By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

Is there anyone on here that you've completed the Fab Grand Slam with? By this, I mean have you done all of the following with 1 person:

Winked each other

Messaged each other

Verified each other

Is on your friend's list

Is on your hotlist

If so, how many people do you reckon you've completed it with and if you're missing one or two, now might be the time to correct it 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

One couple full list

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By *eoBloomsMan
19 weeks ago

Springfield

Only 1. I never use winks and she did it once.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
19 weeks ago

North West

Two I think 🤔

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By *mmaleiaWoman
19 weeks ago

Trowbridge

2, but neither are on my hotlist since they made the friends list

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
19 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Fab? Completed it, mate. 🤣

5, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Yep.

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By *ude LawMan
19 weeks ago

Harrogate

Wooden spoon.

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"2, but neither are on my hotlist since they made the friends list "

I was going to remove the hotlist one as it seemed obvious to do so if they were a friend, but then it didn't feel complete 😅

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By *ure_heatMan
19 weeks ago

Solihull

Just the 1. Fucking fire though

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Yes. All the above. (the veri bit happening after ftf meeting) .... That was years ago though, not happened recently.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
19 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"2, but neither are on my hotlist since they made the friends list "

Absolute snap. Ditto.

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By *parkle1974Woman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Only 1 x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
19 weeks ago

Holibobs

Two very special men who are current in my life

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By *illy IdolMan
19 weeks ago

Midlands

I thought the grand slam was a myth. I don't think I ever have

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

I've just realised that I don't since I've been back 😭

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By *aizyWoman
19 weeks ago

west midlands

Yes, one.

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By *illy IdolMan
19 weeks ago

Midlands

"I thought the grand slam was a myth. I don't think I ever have

I've politely been corrected.

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By *avie65Man
19 weeks ago

In the west.

Yeah, 1.

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By *B..Woman
19 weeks ago

Wiltshire

3 I’m slacking in clearing my hotlist

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
19 weeks ago

Merseyside

About 4 for us

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"I thought the grand slam was a myth. I don't think I ever have

I've politely been corrected.

Ooof! Hope it actually was polite 😂

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
19 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Is there anyone on here that you've completed the Fab Grand Slam with? By this, I mean have you done all of the following with 1 person:

Winked each other

Messaged each other

Verified each other

Is on your friend's list

Is on your hotlist

If so, how many people do you reckon you've completed it with and if you're missing one or two, now might be the time to correct it 😉"

Definitely 1 .. at least...my slightly pharmaceutical addled brain will have to think about it later lol

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"Yes, one."

Wanna make it 2?

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
19 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

Only one

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By *anielpiercedMan
19 weeks ago

"Is there anyone on here that you've completed the Fab Grand Slam with? By this, I mean have you done all of the following with 1 person:

Winked each other

Messaged each other

Verified each other

Is on your friend's list

Is on your hotlist

If so, how many people do you reckon you've completed it with and if you're missing one or two, now might be the time to correct it 😉"

Three couples and four women, no longer on hotlist as now on friends list after meeting.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
19 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

My modus operandi

Does it matter who winks first?

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Two during my many years here

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By *ickedtiesWoman
19 weeks ago

limerick

Yes a few 😇

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Ha ha. In all the years I've been on here I've completed it with noone. Even guys I was seeing for numerous years weren't on my friends list

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By *aizyWoman
19 weeks ago

west midlands

"Yes, one.

Wanna make it 2?

🤔

😍

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By *ot so needyMan
19 weeks ago

Galway

Yes a few. But one favourite definitely

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By *ildTimes.Man
19 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Two people.. (they're hottt)

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By *ildTimes.Man
19 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

5 🥪

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"Ha ha. In all the years I've been on here I've completed it with noone. Even guys I was seeing for numerous years weren't on my friends list"

There's someone I've almost completed it with but I'm not on their friends list!

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By *exyScientistsCouple
19 weeks ago

Castlebar

All at the same time 2,

All of them but not at the same time 1 🤣

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
19 weeks ago

North West

Only one, a couple who have made my full list

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
19 weeks ago

Ipswich

Only 2

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By *ornycougaWoman
19 weeks ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

Only 1. I'm not a winker but made an exception in this particular case

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By *ad NannaWoman
19 weeks ago

East London

"Ha ha. In all the years I've been on here I've completed it with noone. Even guys I was seeing for numerous years weren't on my friends list"

Mine neither, and I have no idea who winked me.

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"Ha ha. In all the years I've been on here I've completed it with noone. Even guys I was seeing for numerous years weren't on my friends list

Mine neither, and I have no idea who winked me. "
I've never done winks or used my hotlist

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By *orphia2003Woman
19 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

1 person

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By *indergirlWoman
19 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

Would have been 2 but they left, one came back though and live on my hotlist only now

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"Only 1. I'm not a winker but made an exception in this particular case"

Well I think it used to be two 😇😉

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By *uke_silverMan
19 weeks ago

London

0, what's the point of friend + hotlist? Friend updates are at the top, so that should be enough, no? I don't use the hotlist tbf, so probably missing something.

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By *ags73Man
19 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Didn’t know that was a thing.

I’ll say at least 1 and be discreet

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"0, what's the point of friend + hotlist? Friend updates are at the top, so that should be enough, no? I don't use the hotlist tbf, so probably missing something."

For completeness

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

Two² for me. It would be seven⁷ if they weren't deficient in just one thing out of the five on the list (i.e. winks or friends).

One explanation is that my Friends List rarely ever goes into double figures. I never send a friend request; they've always been incoming.

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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Only two

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be.

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be."

I kind of made it up to be honest! I'm not sure what a Fab Grand Slam for sex would be 🤔

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By *indergirlWoman
19 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

Actually I double checked it would be 4

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be."

Oh my count might be up to 5 then 🤣🤣🤣

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be.

Oh my count might be up to 5 then 🤣🤣🤣"

What's the Grand Slam of sex?! 😳

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be.

Oh my count might be up to 5 then 🤣🤣🤣

What's the Grand Slam of sex?! 😳"

Only two

well three technically.. but two

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be.

I kind of made it up to be honest! I'm not sure what a Fab Grand Slam for sex would be 🤔"

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What I meant was that I have a total of two Grand Slams but only one amounted to sex, the other was a date.

Of the five incomplete (no winks) three were sex but not a Grand Slam. Clear as mud.

Other than that the remaining have gone UNLOS.

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be.

Oh my count might be up to 5 then 🤣🤣🤣

What's the Grand Slam of sex?! 😳

Only two

well three technically.. but two

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Míddèrs, did you and JoeBeans consummate before you both went UNLOS previously? If not then it doesn't count. 😉

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be.

I kind of made it up to be honest! I'm not sure what a Fab Grand Slam for sex would be 🤔

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What I meant was that I have a total of two Grand Slams but only one amounted to sex, the other was a date.

Of the five incomplete (no winks) three were sex but not a Grand Slam. Clear as mud.

Other than that the remaining have gone UNLOS.

Ahhh no, that makes perfect sense. Thanks for elaborating

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be.

Oh my count might be up to 5 then 🤣🤣🤣

What's the Grand Slam of sex?! 😳

Only two

well three technically.. but two

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Míddèrs, did you and JoeBeans consummate before you both went UNLOS previously? If not then it doesn't count. 😉"

🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫 Shhhhuussshhh

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By *oeBeans OP Man
19 weeks ago

Derby

"There also appears to be a misconception that the Fab Grand Slam is about sex. It doesn't have to be.

Oh my count might be up to 5 then 🤣🤣🤣

What's the Grand Slam of sex?! 😳

Only two

well three technically.. but two

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Míddèrs, did you and JoeBeans consummate before you both went UNLOS previously? If not then it doesn't count. 😉

🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫 Shhhhuussshhh"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *tsJustKateWoman
19 weeks ago

London

Quite a few in the past

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By *eyond PurityCouple
19 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We almost had one…we haven’t winked them.

Seems weird winking someone we are friends with now 😬

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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"We almost had one…we haven’t winked them.

Seems weird winking someone we are friends with now 😬"

They probably never check it anyway, so just do it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Central

0 in 15 years

I'm available for others, if you want to up your game. In Derby on Wednesday Joe

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By *sWyldWoman
19 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Erm. I fear my answer might make me look like a bit of a slut but 8..

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By *earded_GeordieMan
19 weeks ago

bedlington

Only one so far!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah I think so.

The mr

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
19 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

If someone joins my friends list, I take them off my hotlist. Feels untidy to have them on both.

So, erm … no grand slams for me.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
19 weeks ago

Leeds

Zero because I never wink.

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By *hiversMan
19 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

Just the 1... although technically they were only briefly on the hotlist and friends list simultaneously, as they graduated from the former to the latter.

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

No, what a grim thought. I think I'd like to be perma-holiday'd if I ever did.

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By *nnandElleCouple
19 weeks ago

Brackley

None - we rarely wink and don't use a hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I've managed the triple crown OP

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By *ecky and justCouple
19 weeks ago

Godalming

Yep.. grand slammed many times…

Although, once they’re on our friends list they come off our hotlist.

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere

One for me and still together after 3 years

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By *EAT..85Woman
19 weeks ago

Nottingham

Two historically.

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By *oiluvfunMan
19 weeks ago

Penrith

Nope, I don’t use the wink system as the majority of women think it’s lazy coming from a man…..

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By *eroLondonMan
19 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Nope, I don’t use the wink system as the majority of women think it’s lazy coming from a man….."

I don't use the "wink system" either. My (perfunctory) winks are to people I'm already acquainted with/dated/fornicated.

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By *adbod2godbodMan
19 weeks ago

Manchester

No where near

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