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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? " Maybe she's inferring she wants you to take Viagra lol | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? Maybe she's inferring she wants you to take Viagra lol" She's a hard taskmaster  | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? " Maybe she likes a lot of slow foreplay and build up? Maybe a couple of rounds with a rest in between maybe. Sex is much more than just penis in vagina! There is so much more pleasure and fun to be had. If I was to arrange a meet with a man and there was an expectation that it was going to be 10 minutes of penetrarion and nothing else I wouldn't bother. I like taking time to explore eachother in lots of ways. | |||
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"I love how bold women are. More of that. My next demand for sex is that the sex can last however long but I require a minimum of 30 minutes of cuddling afterwards. (Unless the sex was shit, then I went you gone immediately)" Yes, this. I always hated the bang-bang-bang, I've cum, now piss off type of meeting. I want afterglow and cuddles, gentle stroking and exploring the sensitive lesser erogenous zones with lips and fingers, either fading into sleepiness or waking into further excitement... | |||
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"No clue. We’ve been talking for about 4 days the flirting started off a bit tongue in cheek and then this morning she just said I want sex to last 2-3 hours nothing about for-play or chatting or breaks 😳😂" Ask her directly the duration of penetration expectations. I have had women say this to me they want 2 hours non stop hard fucking. I just laughed and said best they look elsewhere and not waste any more of each others time Better to get to the actual expectation now and manage from there  | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? " I would have replied “ what we going to do with the other 2 hours and 59 minutes “ just to see if she could take a joke. The mr | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? I would have replied “ what we going to do with the other 2 hours and 59 minutes “ just to see if she could take a joke. The mr " 😂😂 | |||
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"No clue. We’ve been talking for about 4 days the flirting started off a bit tongue in cheek and then this morning she just said I want sex to last 2-3 hours nothing about for-play or chatting or breaks 😳😂" Why not ask her for clarification because if you met her on here and created a post about it I find it weird you can’t just ask her | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? Maybe she's inferring she wants you to take Viagra lol She's a hard taskmaster "Not sure Greg Davies is behind this 🤣🤣 | |||
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"The last day hotel meet I had, we played for 2 hours then popped across the road for a carvery and then back to the room for another couple of hours. It is annoying to get yourself prepared just for a 30 minute fumble " This is so true. If I'm going to spend a few hours getting properly ready, then I really don't want him to last shorter than the drive over! Last year I spent a couple of hours grooming and dressing, then a 40 minute drive (extreme limit of what I'm prepared to travel). He literally lasted for a snog and a short blowjob! I was not impressed! It's kind of killed it for me for now - I haven't bothered with a meet since. | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? Maybe she's inferring she wants you to take Viagra lol She's a hard taskmaster
Not sure Greg Davies is behind this 🤣🤣"Tonight the contestants have been asked to bring in... the best sex you can have in 2-3 hours. At the end of the evening, the winner will take home all the sex and have 10-15 hours' worth of the best sex. Hold onto your ears! 😁 | |||
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"The last day hotel meet I had, we played for 2 hours then popped across the road for a carvery and then back to the room for another couple of hours. It is annoying to get yourself prepared just for a 30 minute fumble This is so true. If I'm going to spend a few hours getting properly ready, then I really don't want him to last shorter than the drive over! Last year I spent a couple of hours grooming and dressing, then a 40 minute drive (extreme limit of what I'm prepared to travel). He literally lasted for a snog and a short blowjob! I was not impressed! It's kind of killed it for me for now - I haven't bothered with a meet since. " Yeah not gonna lie, I would be fuming with that too. This is why I am reluctant to travel very far for an initial meet with someone without knowing what the play expectations are. If I spend 2-3 getting ready and then travelling 30+ mins and then the the play lasts 20 mins I would be beyond disappointed  | |||
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Not sure Greg Davies is behind this 🤣🤣"I blame Little Alex Horny... 😝 | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? " Can’t see the issue - 3 hours plus is the norm for me. But I also always take food (from M&S usually) for us to share and a half bottle of Prosecco (because of drink driving laws), and a couple of bottles of water…… the total session including breaks should be 5 hours. Of course you have to like and enjoy the other person’s company……. I don’t think she’s being unreasonable in her request. And ‘no’ I don’t take any tablets……. | |||
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"As Many have said above.. It isn't just about the Penetration.. Lots of kissing, cuddling, long relaxed oral and a couple of Rounds.. Sounds perfect ! " Some of the Ladies I have been with tell me that they are still amazed how many of the guys they go with are ‘one and done merchants’ - they’re amazed when I turn up and chat, bring food and perform for 2+ hours….. | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually " | |||
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"The last day hotel meet I had, we played for 2 hours then popped across the road for a carvery and then back to the room for another couple of hours. It is annoying to get yourself prepared just for a 30 minute fumble This is so true. If I'm going to spend a few hours getting properly ready, then I really don't want him to last shorter than the drive over! Last year I spent a couple of hours grooming and dressing, then a 40 minute drive (extreme limit of what I'm prepared to travel). He literally lasted for a snog and a short blowjob! I was not impressed! It's kind of killed it for me for now - I haven't bothered with a meet since. " You need to find a hotel with a carvery nearby | |||
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"... You need to find a hotel with a carvery nearby " 🤣 | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually " I don't think anyone is telling anyone how to perform sexually? She's setting her expectations? Same as I said with 30 minutes of cuddling? Because that's what I need to enjoy sex. If OP doesn't agree with the expectations, he can say no? | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually "I don't think it is telling people how to perform. We all like different things. Communication action is the key and if when discussing meets you find you have different expectations then you move on and noones time is wasted. Worked for me as I never had a bad meet from here | |||
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"... You need to find a hotel with a carvery nearby 🤣" Also one that's close to the a cinema showing the extended version of lord of the rings.... 
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"... You need to find a hotel with a carvery nearby 🤣 Also one that's close to the a cinema showing the extended version of lord of the rings....
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually I don't think anyone is telling anyone how to perform sexually? She's setting her expectations? Same as I said with 30 minutes of cuddling? Because that's what I need to enjoy sex. If OP doesn't agree with the expectations, he can say no? " There's a difference between communicating what you like and what you don't like in a general aspect, and telling a person they have to last for 2-3 hours straight. If I have a sexual meet with a woman (that I met once, or maybe haven't even met yet) I will communicate what I like sexually..."I enjoy it when a woman takes her time during oral sex" , but I wouldn't say "tomorrow night when we meet, you have to suck my dick for 45 minutes straight"... there's a level of emotional maturity that needs to be introduced when the topic is sex. Now I don't know what the dynamic is between the OP and this woman, and maybe this is how they communicate and they are comfortable with that...for me it would sound cringe if a woman would speak to me that way and I hope the OP and the majority of men share my opinion. | |||
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"... You need to find a hotel with a carvery nearby 🤣 Also one that's close to the a cinema showing the extended version of lord of the rings....
...at this point I don't actually need a man. "Sounds like a great day either way  | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually " I don't see it that way at all, it's assessing sexual compatibility before arranging a meet up. If one person says "I like this, this and this during sex and need this to feel fulfilled" and the other person doesn't like that, or doesn't feel comfortable or knows they wouldn't enjoy what they are asking they are then free to decide not to meet up! Better than an awkward meet where both parties are disappointed. From the original post, all she has said is she likes a meet to last 2-3 hours I don't think that's an unreasonable expectation 😅 she hasn't drawn up an itinerary of positions. | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually I don't think anyone is telling anyone how to perform sexually? She's setting her expectations? Same as I said with 30 minutes of cuddling? Because that's what I need to enjoy sex. If OP doesn't agree with the expectations, he can say no? There's a difference between communicating what you like and what you don't like in a general aspect, and telling a person they have to last for 2-3 hours straight. If I have a sexual meet with a woman (that I met once, or maybe haven't even met yet) I will communicate what I like sexually..."I enjoy it when a woman takes her time during oral sex" , but I wouldn't say "tomorrow night when we meet, you have to suck my dick for 45 minutes straight"... there's a level of emotional maturity that needs to be introduced when the topic is sex. Now I don't know what the dynamic is between the OP and this woman, and maybe this is how they communicate and they are comfortable with that...for me it would sound cringe if a woman would speak to me that way and I hope the OP and the majority of men share my opinion. " I just find it fascinating that you've read what little the OP has said and taken that to mean you must thrust into me no fewer than 3450 times and I must have 17 orgasms. Why couldn't you read this as ...I want you so much that a quickie just isn't going to satisfy me? Let's spend 2-3 hours exploring each other's bodies? | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually I don't think anyone is telling anyone how to perform sexually? She's setting her expectations? Same as I said with 30 minutes of cuddling? Because that's what I need to enjoy sex. If OP doesn't agree with the expectations, he can say no? There's a difference between communicating what you like and what you don't like in a general aspect, and telling a person they have to last for 2-3 hours straight. If I have a sexual meet with a woman (that I met once, or maybe haven't even met yet) I will communicate what I like sexually..."I enjoy it when a woman takes her time during oral sex" , but I wouldn't say "tomorrow night when we meet, you have to suck my dick for 45 minutes straight"... there's a level of emotional maturity that needs to be introduced when the topic is sex. Now I don't know what the dynamic is between the OP and this woman, and maybe this is how they communicate and they are comfortable with that...for me it would sound cringe if a woman would speak to me that way and I hope the OP and the majority of men share my opinion. I just find it fascinating that you've read what little the OP has said and taken that to mean you must thrust into me no fewer than 3450 times and I must have 17 orgasms. Why couldn't you read this as ...I want you so much that a quickie just isn't going to satisfy me? Let's spend 2-3 hours exploring each other's bodies? " Absolutely agree with this take  | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually I don't think anyone is telling anyone how to perform sexually? She's setting her expectations? Same as I said with 30 minutes of cuddling? Because that's what I need to enjoy sex. If OP doesn't agree with the expectations, he can say no? There's a difference between communicating what you like and what you don't like in a general aspect, and telling a person they have to last for 2-3 hours straight. If I have a sexual meet with a woman (that I met once, or maybe haven't even met yet) I will communicate what I like sexually..."I enjoy it when a woman takes her time during oral sex" , but I wouldn't say "tomorrow night when we meet, you have to suck my dick for 45 minutes straight"... there's a level of emotional maturity that needs to be introduced when the topic is sex. Now I don't know what the dynamic is between the OP and this woman, and maybe this is how they communicate and they are comfortable with that...for me it would sound cringe if a woman would speak to me that way and I hope the OP and the majority of men share my opinion. I just find it fascinating that you've read what little the OP has said and taken that to mean you must thrust into me no fewer than 3450 times and I must have 17 orgasms. Why couldn't you read this as ...I want you so much that a quickie just isn't going to satisfy me? Let's spend 2-3 hours exploring each other's bodies? " Shows how people interpret things different ways I guess. I read it the same as him. Some people like being told exactly what someone wants and that’s fine. To me it sounds too demanding. And if I was a man I’d be off. | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually I don't think anyone is telling anyone how to perform sexually? She's setting her expectations? Same as I said with 30 minutes of cuddling? Because that's what I need to enjoy sex. If OP doesn't agree with the expectations, he can say no? There's a difference between communicating what you like and what you don't like in a general aspect, and telling a person they have to last for 2-3 hours straight. If I have a sexual meet with a woman (that I met once, or maybe haven't even met yet) I will communicate what I like sexually..."I enjoy it when a woman takes her time during oral sex" , but I wouldn't say "tomorrow night when we meet, you have to suck my dick for 45 minutes straight"... there's a level of emotional maturity that needs to be introduced when the topic is sex. Now I don't know what the dynamic is between the OP and this woman, and maybe this is how they communicate and they are comfortable with that...for me it would sound cringe if a woman would speak to me that way and I hope the OP and the majority of men share my opinion. I just find it fascinating that you've read what little the OP has said and taken that to mean you must thrust into me no fewer than 3450 times and I must have 17 orgasms. Why couldn't you read this as ...I want you so much that a quickie just isn't going to satisfy me? Let's spend 2-3 hours exploring each other's bodies? " For me personally, communication about sex should be clear...if a woman wants me to explore her body for 2-3 hours, she simply has to say that, but if she says "you need to last 2-3 hours" I'm gonna assume she demands I last (as in do not cum) for 2-3 hours. Judging by the comments people interpret this in very different and conflicting ways, which makes my point about clear communication more reasonable. | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually I don't think anyone is telling anyone how to perform sexually? She's setting her expectations? Same as I said with 30 minutes of cuddling? Because that's what I need to enjoy sex. If OP doesn't agree with the expectations, he can say no? There's a difference between communicating what you like and what you don't like in a general aspect, and telling a person they have to last for 2-3 hours straight. If I have a sexual meet with a woman (that I met once, or maybe haven't even met yet) I will communicate what I like sexually..."I enjoy it when a woman takes her time during oral sex" , but I wouldn't say "tomorrow night when we meet, you have to suck my dick for 45 minutes straight"... there's a level of emotional maturity that needs to be introduced when the topic is sex. Now I don't know what the dynamic is between the OP and this woman, and maybe this is how they communicate and they are comfortable with that...for me it would sound cringe if a woman would speak to me that way and I hope the OP and the majority of men share my opinion. I just find it fascinating that you've read what little the OP has said and taken that to mean you must thrust into me no fewer than 3450 times and I must have 17 orgasms. Why couldn't you read this as ...I want you so much that a quickie just isn't going to satisfy me? Let's spend 2-3 hours exploring each other's bodies? For me personally, communication about sex should be clear...if a woman wants me to explore her body for 2-3 hours, she simply has to say that, but if she says "you need to last 2-3 hours" I'm gonna assume she demands I last (as in do not cum) for 2-3 hours. Judging by the comments people interpret this in very different and conflicting ways, which makes my point about clear communication more reasonable. " Exactly. “She wants me to last 2-3 hours” is very different to “she wants to spend 2 to 3 hours with me.” Even though I seem to be in the minority here I still don’t get how people can’t see this 🤷♀️ | |||
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"I’d tell her to fuck off stipulating things like that. Who needs that kind of pressure. Wouldn’t be for me " Yes. Get a dildo and a stopwatch if that's your thing. | |||
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"If I said to a guy I want them to last a couple of hours at least, that would be playing in bed for the entire time. Doesn't have to be rampant banging for the entire time, a few rests between romps whilst stroking eachother gently is perfect " Totally agree 🤗 | |||
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"The only expectations anyone should have regarding sex should be based on behaviour and consent...not performance- how long it should last, how many minutes the foreplay should be, how many strokes, how many positions, how many orgasms etc... I feel fab (and also porn) is diluting the enjoyment of sex for some people, creating unrealistic standards when it comes to "performing " during sex when it should be natural, spontaneous, comfortable...yet here we are telling people how they should perform sexually I don't think anyone is telling anyone how to perform sexually? She's setting her expectations? Same as I said with 30 minutes of cuddling? Because that's what I need to enjoy sex. If OP doesn't agree with the expectations, he can say no? There's a difference between communicating what you like and what you don't like in a general aspect, and telling a person they have to last for 2-3 hours straight. If I have a sexual meet with a woman (that I met once, or maybe haven't even met yet) I will communicate what I like sexually..."I enjoy it when a woman takes her time during oral sex" , but I wouldn't say "tomorrow night when we meet, you have to suck my dick for 45 minutes straight"... there's a level of emotional maturity that needs to be introduced when the topic is sex. Now I don't know what the dynamic is between the OP and this woman, and maybe this is how they communicate and they are comfortable with that...for me it would sound cringe if a woman would speak to me that way and I hope the OP and the majority of men share my opinion. I just find it fascinating that you've read what little the OP has said and taken that to mean you must thrust into me no fewer than 3450 times and I must have 17 orgasms. Why couldn't you read this as ...I want you so much that a quickie just isn't going to satisfy me? Let's spend 2-3 hours exploring each other's bodies? For me personally, communication about sex should be clear...if a woman wants me to explore her body for 2-3 hours, she simply has to say that, but if she says "you need to last 2-3 hours" I'm gonna assume she demands I last (as in do not cum) for 2-3 hours. Judging by the comments people interpret this in very different and conflicting ways, which makes my point about clear communication more reasonable. " It’s also not a negotiation with a terrorist though. And some of your response feels like it is. Even if it is a demand, the simple answer is ‘no’ | |||
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"Pah, you lilly-livered folk! 2/3 hours is nothing! It's but an amuse-bouche, an entrée to the seduction, the hors d'œuvre to the foreplay. I'm all for the noon-to-midnight gauntlets or the overnight trysts, with pillow talk, the bonking, the stroking, the caressing... "... and the 9¾ hour LotR marathon. 😏 | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? " I usually plan to meet for a four hour period - with fingers, palms, lips and tongue, there's plenty to enjoy beyond the obvious and staying hard  | |||
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"I'd say 2-3 hours is perfect! Not just for sex, but chatting, having drinks and snacks in between rounds "Totally understand this vibe, it's ours too. Mrs | |||
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"Pah, you lilly-livered folk! 2/3 hours is nothing! It's but an amuse-bouche, an entrée to the seduction, the hors d'œuvre to the foreplay. I'm all for the noon-to-midnight gauntlets or the overnight trysts, with pillow talk, the bonking, the stroking, the caressing... "What DooLittle said. 🩷 | |||
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" For me personally, communication about sex should be clear...if a woman wants me to explore her body for 2-3 hours, she simply has to say that, but if she says "you need to last 2-3 hours" I'm gonna assume she demands I last (as in do not cum) for 2-3 hours. Judging by the comments people interpret this in very different and conflicting ways, which makes my point about clear communication more reasonable. It’s also not a negotiation with a terrorist though. And some of your response feels like it is. Even if it is a demand, the simple answer is ‘no’ " I agree it's not a negotiation- it's simple communication (a person just has to clearly say what they want and what they don't, so we don't have to read between the lines) I agree the answer is NO - but that was never the topic of the discussion or the thread | |||
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"I think the main take away from this is why the hell is he asking all of us on here instead of just asking her to clarify what she means? 😂" I think the actual main takeaway from this is (drumroll)......; a positive thread from a solo guy receiving a message from an actual woman wanting to meet! Let's celebrate this above all else people! | |||
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"2-3 minutes would do me. And a minute of that would be sucking his cock! " I'm your man | |||
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? " Can you imagine if a guy started making such demands 
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"Been told by a lady on here that if we meet she wants me to last 2-3 hours. 😳 Serious question is she thinking along the lines that these 2-3 hours will include a meal out and drinks? " Top tip, pretend to be into bondage, leave her tied up, gagged and blindfolded in the room and then spend 2 hours down in the hotel bar watching sports on the big screen | |||
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