FabSwingers.com forum: Instability

Cambridge

This site is certainly interesting.

I was added as a friend by a cpl and blocked roughly 16 hours later...it made me chuckle rather than emotionally invested (hahaha). Not a reflection of the site as a whole. However, it makes one question the stability levels and motives of some folks...

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

"Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for "

👆I was gonna say this.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I read the (hahaha) in a maniac laugh so your post came across as you were unstable

Reality is probably you were discussed and discarded. Doesn’t make people unstable, just not interested. They could have sent a message saying that rather than leave you guessing but the games the game. Better luck next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for

👆I was gonna say this. "

Great minds eh 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Instability or just changing their minds. Heaven forbid!

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By *londebiguyMan
19 weeks ago

Southport

Yes, it can be odd.

A couple I meet in a club and want to play sometimes message me here and I reply but get nothing back.

Then they send me winks.

I'm never sure what it means

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By *icecouple561Couple
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19 weeks ago

East Sussex

That's not instability! 😱

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for "

Adding prior to consulting a partner...oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for

Adding prior to consulting a partner...oh dear"

Why “oh dear”, happens a lot. Couples don’t always sit on here together at the same time but you may pique one of theirs interest and they want to show the other but you may not pique theirs

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for

Adding prior to consulting a partner...oh dear

Waste of time but not the end of the world :--)

Why “oh dear”, happens a lot. Couples don’t always sit on here together at the same time but you may pique one of theirs interest and they want to show the other but you may not pique theirs "

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By *bitofaslutWoman
19 weeks ago

Cannock

"Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for "

Had that at 3am this morning. Hubs messages "hi I'm away for work and my Mrs is up for it on weds" my first question, am I even her type? "Dunno, I'll check"

Argh!

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By *estructionDollyWoman
19 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

"Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for

Adding prior to consulting a partner...oh dear"

This happens a lot, as a single you'll get used to it

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Central

If you meet and know people, then get added as a Fab friend, it's different to speculative adding, where you can just investigate and evaluate better, with more access to pics.

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By *romsgrovianMan
19 weeks ago

Cutnal green

You realise after a while there are so many different ways people respond to your well thought out message in the way they do, some of which you think yep i get that and other times you will never work it out or its just too personal a reason and they dont want to tell you. i just move on and chat to other people instead lifes just too short.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
19 weeks ago

Coventry

I think there's a tendency of some to assume one a few messages have been exchanged or a freinds invite accepted they're in. However until you meet someone in person you're not in. Simply because as time moves on, a profiles more scrutinised and more messages sent a bigger picture of you is formed and more time for cold feet. Sometimes all can be going well but it's that one thing you've sent, new verification or message or picture you've posted that can change someone's mind. It's a bit fickle but people can be quite particular in who they fuck.

That's why we like clubs. You meet people in person, you either click or you don't. If you do great, if you don't plenty more fish, no BS.

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By *naswingdressWoman
19 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you think that's instability, you've lived a very charmed life.

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"I think there's a tendency of some to assume one a few messages have been exchanged or a freinds invite accepted they're in. However until you meet someone in person you're not in. Simply because as time moves on, a profiles more scrutinised and more messages sent a bigger picture of you is formed and more time for cold feet. Sometimes all can be going well but it's that one thing you've sent, new verification or message or picture you've posted that can change someone's mind. It's a bit fickle but people can be quite particular in who they fuck.

That's why we like clubs. You meet people in person, you either click or you don't. If you do great, if you don't plenty more fish, no BS."

Yep, agreed... At clubs there's generally fewer mixed messages :--)

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"If you think that's instability, you've lived a very charmed life."

Perhaps :--)

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"You realise after a while there are so many different ways people respond to your well thought out message in the way they do, some of which you think yep i get that and other times you will never work it out or its just too personal a reason and they dont want to tell you. i just move on and chat to other people instead lifes just too short."

Yep, that makes a ton of sense. Thanks

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Sometimes one half of a couple will add you and when the other half logs on or they are on together they may look and see that you’re not what they’re looking for "

Fair enough - takes all sorts and certainly not the end of the world

;--)

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By *reative-mindMan
19 weeks ago

exeter

I think this is actually just the OP bragging that he's got some attention

When other single men like myself don't hahahah

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By *ambridgezwinger OP Man
19 weeks ago

Cambridge

"I think this is actually just the OP bragging that he's got some attention

When other single men like myself don't hahahah"

That made me smile :--)

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By *reative-mindMan
19 weeks ago

exeter

"I think this is actually just the OP bragging that he's got some attention

When other single men like myself don't hahahah

That made me smile :--)"

That's my mission for today done!

Make one person laugh a day and the world is a better place.

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