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By *ruceyy OP   Man
19 weeks ago

London

Are you satisfied with the amount of attention and orgasms you get during sex? Or do you feel like it is still primarily about his enjoyment? Discuss....

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By *a LunaWoman
19 weeks ago

o o OO o o

If he does something other than oral then I know he’s gonna be a top shaggers.

The whole body is a sexual playground, explore it, then dive in. DEEP.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
19 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Are you satisfied with the amount of attention and orgasms you get during sex?"

Absolutely.


"Or do you feel like it is still primarily about his enjoyment? Discuss...."

It takes next to nothing for the right people to give me an orgasm. I am definitely more invested in getting them there than I am bothered about my own, but that's because I'm happily secure in my own being provided 💜

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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"Are you satisfied with the amount of attention and orgasms you get during sex? Or do you feel like it is still primarily about his enjoyment? Discuss...."

Not all attention is good - I've decided I don't like massages after after sex.... I feel like a chicken escalope when they've finished 🤨🤨

There is never enough biting, slipping and trapping 😈😈😈

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Are you satisfied with the amount of attention and orgasms you get during sex? Or do you feel like it is still primarily about his enjoyment? Discuss...."

On the rare occasions where it had been all about him we've not met again. I'm more than satisfied with those i meet regularly otherwise I wouldn't meet them.

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By *electableicecreamMan
19 weeks ago

The West


"Are you satisfied with the amount of attention and orgasms you get during sex? Or do you feel like it is still primarily about his enjoyment? Discuss....

Not all attention is good - I've decided I don't like massages after after sex.... I feel like a chicken escalope when they've finished 🤨🤨

There is never enough biting, slipping and trapping 😈😈😈"

What are slipping and trapping?

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By *midnight-Woman
19 weeks ago

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"Are you satisfied with the amount of attention and orgasms you get during sex? Or do you feel like it is still primarily about his enjoyment? Discuss....

Not all attention is good - I've decided I don't like massages after after sex.... I feel like a chicken escalope when they've finished 🤨🤨

There is never enough biting, slipping and trapping 😈😈😈

What are slipping and trapping?"

When you are so sweaty that hands and bodies are slipping off each other when you are squirming around...and being pinned so you can't squirm around and instead fingers are slipping over your hip bones

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
19 weeks ago

Reading

God I can’t do selfish lovers anymore. My turn first then maybe you.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
19 weeks ago

Cannock

If sex is all they want to do, we're not going to be meeting.

There's so much more to mutual satisfaction than "stick it in and wiggle it a bit".

What about the rest of your/my body? How about they open themes to learn a little more about themselves and me and discover new and fun ways of being satisfied and satisfying their partner?

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By *electableicecreamMan
19 weeks ago

The West


"Are you satisfied with the amount of attention and orgasms you get during sex? Or do you feel like it is still primarily about his enjoyment? Discuss....

Not all attention is good - I've decided I don't like massages after after sex.... I feel like a chicken escalope when they've finished 🤨🤨

There is never enough biting, slipping and trapping 😈😈😈

What are slipping and trapping?

When you are so sweaty that hands and bodies are slipping off each other when you are squirming around...and being pinned so you can't squirm around and instead fingers are slipping over your hip bones "

I'm in.

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By *sWyldWoman
19 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I don't have sex very often but when I do ,I try to make sure it's good!

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

If he's not interested in exploring my body and finding how to give me goosebumps and make me tremble, there'd be no second time. I don't orgasm easily, but there is far more pleasure to be had from sex than just that. The good ones understand this. I love finding out what makes a guy tick. I require the same from him.

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

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It's never been primarily about *his* enjoyment - my introduction to sex was very much penis free and very much on equal footing.

Yes, I'm generally very happy with the amount of attention and orgasms I have during sex; there are times when I happily focus on the other and enjoy getting cockdr*nk, when their pleasure is so arousing to watch and feel.

The only worry I have is sometimes I think I can be a bit erm... hard work. As in, I can come a lot. And I think, 'oh that's not very fun for the other person'. The more I come, the more I want to and yeah. I think that must be a bit tiring for the other.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
19 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"When you are so sweaty that hands and bodies are slipping off each other when you are squirming around...and being pinned so you can't squirm around and instead fingers are slipping over your hip bones "

You’re on heat today Midders. I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"The only worry I have is sometimes I think I can be a bit erm... hard work. As in, I can come a lot. And I think, 'oh that's not very fun for the other person'. The more I come, the more I want to and yeah. I think that must be a bit tiring for the other. "

This is so interesting, Mellster. I worry that I'm "hard work" for the very opposite reason! I worry that they're getting bored because it takes so long for me to get there. We should swap bodies sometime so I know how it feels to be a multi-orgasmic powerhouse.

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By *lue morphoCouple
19 weeks ago

north west

This week it’s all about me, i switching it up. I am going to use him like a doll, taking all the orgasms I need but forbidding him to reach the point of comming. Edging all week until next Saturday until I take him to a club and then I will switch back to my more comfortable submissive self and let him use me in what ever way he sees fit, should keep my adhd brain active this week 🤣 he has just read this and told me I am a sexual predator 🤣

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

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"The only worry I have is sometimes I think I can be a bit erm... hard work. As in, I can come a lot. And I think, 'oh that's not very fun for the other person'. The more I come, the more I want to and yeah. I think that must be a bit tiring for the other.

This is so interesting, Mellster. I worry that I'm "hard work" for the very opposite reason! I worry that they're getting bored because it takes so long for me to get there. We should swap bodies sometime so I know how it feels to be a multi-orgasmic powerhouse."

Oh! We are opposite reasons! Yes, it's a genuine worry. I quite like women who are one/two orgasms and sated. I sometimes think it's selfish of me? And a bit like oh gawd, she's going to want to come again.

Yes please to the body swap, I always wonder if your orgasms are more intense. Like a grander death compared to my little.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"The only worry I have is sometimes I think I can be a bit erm... hard work. As in, I can come a lot. And I think, 'oh that's not very fun for the other person'. The more I come, the more I want to and yeah. I think that must be a bit tiring for the other.

This is so interesting, Mellster. I worry that I'm "hard work" for the very opposite reason! I worry that they're getting bored because it takes so long for me to get there. We should swap bodies sometime so I know how it feels to be a multi-orgasmic powerhouse.

Oh! We are opposite reasons! Yes, it's a genuine worry. I quite like women who are one/two orgasms and sated. I sometimes think it's selfish of me? And a bit like oh gawd, she's going to want to come again.

Yes please to the body swap, I always wonder if your orgasms are more intense. Like a grander death compared to my little."

Cool. I'll check my diary.

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By *eliWoman
19 weeks ago

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"The only worry I have is sometimes I think I can be a bit erm... hard work. As in, I can come a lot. And I think, 'oh that's not very fun for the other person'. The more I come, the more I want to and yeah. I think that must be a bit tiring for the other.

This is so interesting, Mellster. I worry that I'm "hard work" for the very opposite reason! I worry that they're getting bored because it takes so long for me to get there. We should swap bodies sometime so I know how it feels to be a multi-orgasmic powerhouse.

Oh! We are opposite reasons! Yes, it's a genuine worry. I quite like women who are one/two orgasms and sated. I sometimes think it's selfish of me? And a bit like oh gawd, she's going to want to come again.

Yes please to the body swap, I always wonder if your orgasms are more intense. Like a grander death compared to my little.

Cool. I'll check my diary."

Can I choose a different willy?

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"The only worry I have is sometimes I think I can be a bit erm... hard work. As in, I can come a lot. And I think, 'oh that's not very fun for the other person'. The more I come, the more I want to and yeah. I think that must be a bit tiring for the other.

This is so interesting, Mellster. I worry that I'm "hard work" for the very opposite reason! I worry that they're getting bored because it takes so long for me to get there. We should swap bodies sometime so I know how it feels to be a multi-orgasmic powerhouse.

Oh! We are opposite reasons! Yes, it's a genuine worry. I quite like women who are one/two orgasms and sated. I sometimes think it's selfish of me? And a bit like oh gawd, she's going to want to come again.

Yes please to the body swap, I always wonder if your orgasms are more intense. Like a grander death compared to my little.

Cool. I'll check my diary.

Can I choose a different willy?"

Sure, but make it a good one

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
19 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I never met a selfish guy on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

The Mr makes sure I'm very satisfied - zero complaints here.

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
19 weeks ago

Stafford

I’m always satisfied by Mr he treated me to a sensual Yoni massage first which always helps x

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By *ad NannaWoman
19 weeks ago

East London

My regular men aren't selfish or uncaring.

That's why I kept them.

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago


"Are you satisfied with the amount of attention and orgasms you get during sex? Or do you feel like it is still primarily about his enjoyment? Discuss...."

If we're just chatting and he's just on about himself and not trying to find out what I enjoy, we won't be meeting.

If we meet and he's just about his own enjoyment, I won't be sticking around.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
19 weeks ago

Holibobs

Very much so

Which is why I stopped meeting. my participating in mediocre sex and me having to wank to cum days are in the past

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By *iss DevilWoman
19 weeks ago

Bedford

I am very lucky, I'm getting spoiled by my play partners. I am not currently looking for new meets, but if at any point I meet someone who is mainly interested about their own pleasure (be it man or woman), they are not likely to get another meet. Unless, for whatever reason, it was agreed beforehand it would be their turn to be spoiled.

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By *iss DevilWoman
19 weeks ago

Bedford


"Very much so

Which is why I stopped meeting. my participating in mediocre sex and me having to wank to cum days are in the past "

And that's how it should be!

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By *bitofaslutWoman
19 weeks ago

Cannock


"Very much so

Which is why I stopped meeting. my participating in mediocre sex and me having to wank to cum days are in the past "

See, I don't get that for hookups. Sex is supposed to be amazing for everyone. You'd think if it's a one off thing, they'd put the effort in to making sure you're down for more, not wishing they'd piss off so you can sort yourself out.

I'm new and naive though.

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By *iss DevilWoman
19 weeks ago

Bedford


"Very much so

Which is why I stopped meeting. my participating in mediocre sex and me having to wank to cum days are in the past

See, I don't get that for hookups. Sex is supposed to be amazing for everyone. You'd think if it's a one off thing, they'd put the effort in to making sure you're down for more, not wishing they'd piss off so you can sort yourself out.

I'm new and naive though."

Well, maybe they thought they put loads of effort in? They turned up, didn't they?

I do get "first time nerves" so I'd probably invite them back to see if it was just that. But if they're not up to my standards, they would not get a 3rd try.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
19 weeks ago

Cannock


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Well, maybe they thought they put loads of effort in? They turned up, didn't they? "

I knew the bar was low, but....

Oh boy.

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