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"a good one stops play.....I need to come down so yes in that respect my behaviour changes I have also been told I get a certain glow afterwards..." I should hope so! | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy! "Keep it up. It's a powerful evolutionary reward mechanism, according to Maggie. | |||
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"I find if I don't orgasm (not happened in a while tho!!) then I end up feeling weepy or really frustrated and angry! When I do have an orgasm, I feel much more at ease, less anxious and generally glowy, and maybe tired lol" That matches with what they are saying about helping with anxiety. | |||
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"I find if I don't orgasm (not happened in a while tho!!) then I end up feeling weepy or really frustrated and angry! When I do have an orgasm, I feel much more at ease, less anxious and generally glowy, and maybe tired lol That matches with what they are saying about helping with anxiety." 
Totally get that, I have suffered with anxiety long term, but after an orgasm that totally subsides for a while.... it's like the best relaxation ever. Apparently it's due to the release of oxytocin and seratonin, but whatever it is I'll keep it  | |||
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"I find if I don't orgasm (not happened in a while tho!!) then I end up feeling weepy or really frustrated and angry! When I do have an orgasm, I feel much more at ease, less anxious and generally glowy, and maybe tired lol That matches with what they are saying about helping with anxiety.
Totally get that, I have suffered with anxiety long term, but after an orgasm that totally subsides for a while.... it's like the best relaxation ever. Apparently it's due to the release of oxytocin and seratonin, but whatever it is I'll keep it "It also helps with pain management and if you have an orgasm with someone you love the happy effect lasts longer. | |||
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"I find if I don't orgasm (not happened in a while tho!!) then I end up feeling weepy or really frustrated and angry! When I do have an orgasm, I feel much more at ease, less anxious and generally glowy, and maybe tired lol That matches with what they are saying about helping with anxiety.
Totally get that, I have suffered with anxiety long term, but after an orgasm that totally subsides for a while.... it's like the best relaxation ever. Apparently it's due to the release of oxytocin and seratonin, but whatever it is I'll keep it
It also helps with pain management and if you have an orgasm with someone you love the happy effect lasts longer."Well I orgasmed about 4pm before he went to work and I'm still glowing LOL 
The body is amazing, it's a total self pain manager you just need to know how to release the hormones and sex and orgasm is a huge healer :D | |||
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"I've got a very vivid imagination and have had an orgasm just by using my imagination ( look! No hands! ) but not very often. I usually need a visual aid, my hand or proper sex. Oh, and why is the Hoover blocked again?! " They didn't say anything about non-manual, brain only male orgasms. You might be special. | |||
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"Another "surprise" is that the brain is the most critical part of the female orgasm. It is possible for us to think ourselves into an orgasm. I wonder if that is what is happening when I get an orgasm waiting for the bus?" Don't think I could just 'think' myself to an orgasm without any stimulation, but in my younger days I definitely thought myself out of having them! As for how orgasms make me feel, they can put me in a better mood for a few days afterwards - the better the orgasms the longer the good feelings last. If I go for a few days without though I do start to get irritable. I can get a temporary fix with toys, but orgasms from sex have longer lasting effects for me - possibly because I can think back to when I had the orgasm and enjoy the memory too | |||
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"Another "surprise" is that the brain is the most critical part of the female orgasm. It is possible for us to think ourselves into an orgasm. I wonder if that is what is happening when I get an orgasm waiting for the bus?" I've woken up orgasming, I guess like a wet dream in female form..... weird but fab!! | |||
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"Another "surprise" is that the brain is the most critical part of the female orgasm. It is possible for us to think ourselves into an orgasm. I wonder if that is what is happening when I get an orgasm waiting for the bus? Don't think I could just 'think' myself to an orgasm without any stimulation, but in my younger days I definitely thought myself out of having them! As for how orgasms make me feel, they can put me in a better mood for a few days afterwards - the better the orgasms the longer the good feelings last. If I go for a few days without though I do start to get irritable. I can get a temporary fix with toys, but orgasms from sex have longer lasting effects for me - possibly because I can think back to when I had the orgasm and enjoy the memory too "That fits pretty well with what the programme said too. The memory of a good orgasm hangs around for a few days and we have better, more memorable orgasms with people. | |||
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"Women have more orgasms with men they find attractive. They needed an experiment to prove this?" Does this mean the men ive been with, I havent found attractive? Because its not true, they were. I just dont orgasm when with men  | |||
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"Another "surprise" is that the brain is the most critical part of the female orgasm. It is possible for us to think ourselves into an orgasm. I wonder if that is what is happening when I get an orgasm waiting for the bus? I've woken up orgasming, I guess like a wet dream in female form..... weird but fab!!" I've had that too. | |||
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"Women have more orgasms with men they find attractive. They needed an experiment to prove this? Does this mean the men ive been with, I havent found attractive? Because its not true, they were. I just dont orgasm when with men "It's not as simple as that. Our brains are complex things. | |||
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"Been thinking hence the delayed post lol... There are self inflicted ones which can be very cool and relaxing. And then there are those achieved through sex and good company. They can be mind blowing. Nuff said! " I need a scratching head emoticon to wonder what sort of thinking went on. | |||
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"Been thinking hence the delayed post lol... There are self inflicted ones which can be very cool and relaxing. And then there are those achieved through sex and good company. They can be mind blowing. Nuff said! I need a scratching head emoticon to wonder what sort of thinking went on. "The kind of reflecting thinking on personal experience, what had been good, what had been better and what had been mind blowing. I guess mind blowing is probably only possible with somebody I know well and who knows all my buttons ?(that is possibly just me though). | |||
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"The release of oxytocin helps drive sperm towards the ovary releasing an egg and helps with pair bonding." You mean pair bonding as in, the union of the sperm and the egg, or pair bonding as in 'ooooh that was amazing - lets have a cuddle!' | |||
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"Been thinking hence the delayed post lol... There are self inflicted ones which can be very cool and relaxing. And then there are those achieved through sex and good company. They can be mind blowing. Nuff said! I need a scratching head emoticon to wonder what sort of thinking went on. The kind of reflecting thinking on personal experience, what had been good, what had been better and what had been mind blowing. I guess mind blowing is probably only possible with somebody I know well and who knows all my buttons ?(that is possibly just me though)."That's not just you. I don't have toys as I have never had a satisfactory orgasm with any toy I have tried, but that was on my own. A recent experience of a toy with someone who has taken time to get to know my body and what works for me has been an eye opener. | |||
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"The release of oxytocin helps drive sperm towards the ovary releasing an egg and helps with pair bonding. You mean pair bonding as in, the union of the sperm and the egg, or pair bonding as in 'ooooh that was amazing - lets have a cuddle!' "The let's have a cuddle and raise this child together. | |||
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"I've got a very vivid imagination and have had an orgasm just by using my imagination ( look! No hands! ) but not very often. I usually need a visual aid, my hand or proper sex. Oh, and why is the Hoover blocked again?! They didn't say anything about non-manual, brain only male orgasms. You might be special." I have before. It's hard work though. | |||
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"The release of oxytocin helps drive sperm towards the ovary releasing an egg and helps with pair bonding. You mean pair bonding as in, the union of the sperm and the egg, or pair bonding as in 'ooooh that was amazing - lets have a cuddle!'
The let's have a cuddle and raise this child together."So would this suggest then, that people who are more attracted toward one another sexually are likely to create more of this oxytocin thus deepening their emotional bond and forming a sturdier platform upon which to raise a family? ...and they say its 'just sex' | |||
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"The release of oxytocin helps drive sperm towards the ovary releasing an egg and helps with pair bonding. You mean pair bonding as in, the union of the sperm and the egg, or pair bonding as in 'ooooh that was amazing - lets have a cuddle!'
The let's have a cuddle and raise this child together.
So would this suggest then, that people who are more attracted toward one another sexually are likely to create more of this oxytocin thus deepening their emotional bond and forming a sturdier platform upon which to raise a family?
...and they say its 'just sex' "That is exactly what they were saying. | |||
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"I've got a very vivid imagination and have had an orgasm just by using my imagination ( look! No hands! ) but not very often. I usually need a visual aid, my hand or proper sex. Oh, and why is the Hoover blocked again?! They didn't say anything about non-manual, brain only male orgasms. You might be special. I have before. It's hard work though. " See? Not just me. Phew! Yes, it's easy to get a hardon - they can happen when I'm not thinking about sex. Just realise I've got one. Not easy to think yourself into an orgasm. | |||
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"I've got a very vivid imagination and have had an orgasm just by using my imagination ( look! No hands! ) but not very often. I usually need a visual aid, my hand or proper sex. Oh, and why is the Hoover blocked again?! They didn't say anything about non-manual, brain only male orgasms. You might be special. I have before. It's hard work though. See? Not just me. Phew! Yes, it's easy to get a hardon - they can happen when I'm not thinking about sex. Just realise I've got one. Not easy to think yourself into an orgasm. " I may need to conduct some controlled experiments on you and Ryan. | |||
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"I've got a very vivid imagination and have had an orgasm just by using my imagination ( look! No hands! ) but not very often. I usually need a visual aid, my hand or proper sex. Oh, and why is the Hoover blocked again?! They didn't say anything about non-manual, brain only male orgasms. You might be special. I have before. It's hard work though. See? Not just me. Phew! Yes, it's easy to get a hardon - they can happen when I'm not thinking about sex. Just realise I've got one. Not easy to think yourself into an orgasm. I may need to conduct some controlled experiments on you and Ryan." You have to act all grasshoppery | |||
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"Lickety: use Ryan. He's hopping mad, likes cricket and gets a buzz out of this." And you do what? | |||
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"I've got a very vivid imagination and have had an orgasm just by using my imagination ( look! No hands! ) but not very often. I usually need a visual aid, my hand or proper sex. Oh, and why is the Hoover blocked again?! They didn't say anything about non-manual, brain only male orgasms. You might be special. I have before. It's hard work though. See? Not just me. Phew! Yes, it's easy to get a hardon - they can happen when I'm not thinking about sex. Just realise I've got one. Not easy to think yourself into an orgasm. I may need to conduct some controlled experiments on you and Ryan. You have to act all grasshoppery" Ah, Grasshopper, see it without seeing it and it will happen. | |||
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"Lickety: use Ryan. He's hopping mad, likes cricket and gets a buzz out of this. And you do what?" I'll be the guinea pig. Head down, quietly munching away.... | |||
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" Oh, and why is the Hoover blocked again?! " On a completely unrelated note... haha. | |||
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"Any man/boy who has had a wet dream has 'thought' himself to orgasm" A good way of looking at it. Can you be sure no hands were involved though? | |||
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"I'm watching a programme on why sex is pleasurable and they've just looked at the female orgasm. It's only 20 seconds long (14 seconds longer than a mans). The release of oxytocin helps drive sperm towards the ovary releasing an egg and helps with pair bonding. They are now showing how the orgasm can affect our behaviour. Does having an orgasm, or not, affect your behaviour?" Dramatically 1. I stop dry humping things 2. I stop finding ugly people attractive 3. I stop self molesting 4. I stop being nice to whoever i've just had sex with 4. I get on with work or something | |||
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"7. I find I can't count past 4 during sex as well !" | |||
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" Does having an orgasm, or not, affect your behaviour?" Yes it does. I'm a randy devil before an orgasm and very naughty yet after I'm angelic innocent and so well behaved.  | |||
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" Does having an orgasm, or not, affect your behaviour? Yes it does. I'm a randy devil before an orgasm and very naughty yet after I'm angelic innocent and so well behaved. "I believe you. | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy! "Didn't realise any of the seven dwarves lived in Brighton | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy!
Didn't realise any of the seven dwarves lived in Brighton "The Orgasm Dwarves. | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy!
Didn't realise any of the seven dwarves lived in Brighton
The Orgasm Dwarves. "I know lots that seem bashful until after that first orgasm...and plenty that are sleepy after (myself included!) | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy!
Didn't realise any of the seven dwarves lived in Brighton
The Orgasm Dwarves.
I know lots that seem bashful until after that first orgasm...and plenty that are sleepy after (myself included!) "I've met Grumpy, Happy and Sleepy. I'm not sure about Sneezy. | |||
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"Women have more orgasms with men they find attractive. They needed an experiment to prove this?" i have had more orgasms with men i didnt find all that attractive. because they knew how to play with my clit, and did it for long enough.  | |||
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"Women have more orgasms with men they find attractive. They needed an experiment to prove this? i have had more orgasms with men i didnt find all that attractive. because they knew how to play with my clit, and did it for long enough. "What made you meet men you didn't find attractive? | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy!
Didn't realise any of the seven dwarves lived in Brighton "Oh my days! I've never been so well insulted! We are not worthy.....we are not worthy....we are not worth it...  | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy!
Didn't realise any of the seven dwarves lived in Brighton
The Orgasm Dwarves. "Sexy, Spanky, Randy, Pump-Ye, Pervy, Ass-Full, and Cock | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy!
Didn't realise any of the seven dwarves lived in Brighton
The Orgasm Dwarves.
Sexy, Spanky, Randy, Pump-Ye, Pervy, Ass-Full, and Cock "Sucky didn't make the cut? What a pity. | |||
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"Women have more orgasms with men they find attractive. They needed an experiment to prove this? i have had more orgasms with men i didnt find all that attractive. because they knew how to play with my clit, and did it for long enough.
What made you meet men you didn't find attractive?"because they kept sending me messages, i thought they were friendly or nice, or sometimes i didnt like to say no. | |||
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"I get grumpy if I haven't cum for ages. I'm often happy!
Didn't realise any of the seven dwarves lived in Brighton
The Orgasm Dwarves.
Sexy, Spanky, Randy, Pump-Ye, Pervy, Ass-Full, and Cock
Sucky didn't make the cut? What a pity."He had an accident with the vacuum cleaner and is no longer with the rest of the dwarves. At his funeral they were heard to sing 'On low, on low, you should have set it on low' | |||
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"Women have more orgasms with men they find attractive. They needed an experiment to prove this? i have had more orgasms with men i didnt find all that attractive. because they knew how to play with my clit, and did it for long enough.
What made you meet men you didn't find attractive?
because they kept sending me messages,
i thought they were friendly or nice,
or sometimes i didnt like to say no."Well, I'm glad it worked for you. | |||
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"I can 'think' myself into an orgasm, have done for a few years, not an all consuming 'oh my god' type of one, just a smile and relaxed feeling type. Very nice apart from being in wet nix all day "Just take them off then. | |||
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