FabSwingers.com forum: Flirting

By *urry Bloke OP Man
21 weeks ago

You hear it mentioned a lot here

But what actually is it?

Can it be defined beyond the dictionary definition

Does it boil down to individual interpretation?

Does it depend on how much you fancy the flirter?

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By *elloWoman
21 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Flirting in real life, act awkward, talk too filthy, get d*unk, dribble in their ear and try not to throw up as I deep throat them.

I've got flirting down to a T

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By *eckard25Man
21 weeks ago

North West Durham

Flirting in real life, act awkward, talk too filthy, get d*unk, dribble in their ear and try not to throw up as I deep throat them.

I've got flirting down to a T

Look at who has the smooth moves

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By *eoBloomsMan
21 weeks ago

Springfield

Flirting is a form of communication, words and body language. It works when both people speak the same language, can read the same signals, but can be wildly wrong if not. Probably better in real life than online.

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By *ansoffateMan
21 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Implied communication is so sexy and romantic isn't it?

Personally I can't see how that kind of thing could be misinterpreted in any way, shape or form.

I quite enjoy it though, when it's playful and we are on the same page already. Too much and it become a bit: shit or get off the potty.

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By *hunky GentMan
21 weeks ago

Stamford

Flirting in real life, act awkward, talk too filthy, get d*unk, dribble in their ear and try not to throw up as I deep throat them.

I've got flirting down to a T

Get ya coat luv, you've pulled.

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I flirt. I can't define it because I'm unable to deconstruct the trait. I just do it without looking into the minutiae of it.

I think flirting is one of those things which relies on stimulus from the other person (obviously) because the other person may not be aware of their interest, until the 'flirter' starts to ruffle their plumage at the 'flirtee'.

Who knows? I don't.

I just flirt in my own hapless way.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
21 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Seeing the way some flirt on here is cringeworthy

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By *hunky GentMan
21 weeks ago

Stamford

"Seeing the way some flirt on here is cringeworthy

Awwww. Fanx

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By *uchessdoeWoman
21 weeks ago

Northampton

Flirting is so much more than just words, and therefore always better in person. It's the eye contact, the body language, the tone of your voice, the touches; it's more how you say than what you say 🥰

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By *he Silver FuxMan
21 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I woo rather than flirt

And if that fails I use the irresistible power of

Abduction

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By *estructionDollyWoman
21 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

As some have said, flirting is definitely better in person. Body language, eye contact, gestures, intonation of your voice all add to the flirting and build the chemistry. Biting your lip, smiling, holding someone's gaze, breathing quickening, giggling, blushing, how you hold yourself, teasing etc etc are all part of the game.

You can flirt on here and it can be fairly successful, but it's a very base level of flirting. It's only when you are face to face that you can gauge if there is real chemistry

I used to be such an awkward flirt because I was shy and a bit bashful. I think I've gotten better, age brings more confidence too. I do fairly okay I think.

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By *unwithus71Couple
21 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I completely agree with this , feel like such a potato when it all goes wrong so much easier in person haha xx

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By *hunky GentMan
21 weeks ago

Stamford

"I completely agree with this , feel like such a potato when it all goes wrong so much easier in person haha xx"

I'd love to roast you.

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By *parkle1974Woman
21 weeks ago

Leeds

Online I find it quite cringy and false....in person I find it more sincere and honest x

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By *bitofaslutWoman
21 weeks ago

Cannock

Not a clue.

My friends have to tell me afterwards if someone's been flirting with me or I've been flirty.

Grab my arm and pull me to bed and I'll still think you're just being nice. Like, let's just sit around on this swingers club bed with the door locked and have a nice ol' chinwag.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

On here.. insulting each other and sending the occasional nude 🤷‍♀️

In real life? Standing there awkwardly saying stupid shit like I like your face

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By *hunky GentMan
21 weeks ago

Stamford

"On here.. insulting each other and sending the occasional nude 🤷‍♀️

In real life? Standing there awkwardly saying stupid shit like I like your face

Nudes, you send nudes.

Damn.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
21 weeks ago

Doncaster

I'm pretty useless at flirting online but face to face, up close and personal is a different story entirely.

I run a bar for a living, so I pretty much get paid to flirt,😁

I'll never cross the line and put the heavie's on anyone. It's all light hearted stuff. I get lots of pleasure from making people feel good about themselves and as a host it's my job/ pleasure to do so,😊🌈

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By *hilly1515Man
21 weeks ago

coastal

shared humour laughter and awkwardness of attraction teased with innuendo of a subtle but intriguing mature ,,, as mentioned need to be on a similar wavelength

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By *urry Bloke OP Man
21 weeks ago

Thank You for the contributions and insights so far...

Now, let me pose another question

Have you ever met someone you didn't particularly fancy whose 'flirt' was so good that it altered your view of them?

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By *eoBloomsMan
21 weeks ago

Springfield

"Thank You for the contributions and insights so far...

Now, let me pose another question

Have you ever met someone you didn't particularly fancy whose 'flirt' was so good that it altered your view of them?"

100% If your verbal and body language just click its a game changer.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
21 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Thank You for the contributions and insights so far...

Now, let me pose another question

Have you ever met someone you didn't particularly fancy whose 'flirt' was so good that it altered your view of them?"

Yes it has , personality goes a very long way,😊

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By *estructionDollyWoman
21 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

"Thank You for the contributions and insights so far...

Now, let me pose another question

Have you ever met someone you didn't particularly fancy whose 'flirt' was so good that it altered your view of them?"

Yes, a few

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By *orbidden eastMan
21 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

Flirting in real life, act awkward, talk too filthy, get d*unk, dribble in their ear and try not to throw up as I deep throat them.

I've got flirting down to a T

That’s possibly a good definition 🤣

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By *ife NinjaMan
21 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I generally go to mush, start burbling insanely, flash my baby browns, then leave on my own 😬🤓

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I often get told that my idea of flirting is simply opening my mouth to speak.

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Thank You for the contributions and insights so far...

Now, let me pose another question

Have you ever met someone you didn't particularly fancy whose 'flirt' was so good that it altered your view of them?"

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No. I'm not that impressionable that someone's flirt is going to capitulate my desire for chemistry and personality.

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Actually, yes, I'm easily beguiled.

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By *ife NinjaMan
21 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I often get told that my idea of flirting is simply opening my mouth to speak.

Voice of an angel, obviously 🤓

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