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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it right that they say they will meet with there partner, should they not have a couples profile?, thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they not meet alone too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do they not meet alone too? "

Not according to some of the profiles and meet requests ive seen on her, and im not saying its every single lady

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

I have a single fem profile as I like to keep my independence as in the real world I am single. Keep in touch with 'my' friends and maybe still play with long term playmates (if I feel like it). Not looking for anyone new.

We both have single profiles for this reason, but have a couples profile for when we do eventually get around to swinging, but at the moment we keep snogging each others faces off and not quite gotten around to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a single female profile that states she only meets with her partner then to my mind that makes them a couple. Report the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a single fem profile as I like to keep my independence as in the real world I am single. Keep in touch with 'my' friends and maybe still play with long term playmates (if I feel like it). Not looking for anyone new.

We both have single profiles for this reason, but have a couples profile for when we do eventually get around to swinging, but at the moment we keep snogging each others faces off and not quite gotten around to it!"

That great, but like i've said i've noticed more and more just lately that single women are putting meet mee's up , but then say they will only meet with there partners, like the add below

Hi, I'm looking to meet up with a guy/s for some very horny mmf fun with my partner tonight. Guys you must be orally bi, this is a big turn-on for me

This is from a single ladies meet me add

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a single fem profile as I like to keep my independence as in the real world I am single. Keep in touch with 'my' friends and maybe still play with long term playmates (if I feel like it). Not looking for anyone new.

We both have single profiles for this reason, but have a couples profile for when we do eventually get around to swinging, but at the moment we keep snogging each others faces off and not quite gotten around to it!

That great, but like i've said i've noticed more and more just lately that single women are putting meet mee's up , but then say they will only meet with there partners, like the add below

Hi, I'm looking to meet up with a guy/s for some very horny mmf fun with my partner tonight. Guys you must be orally bi, this is a big turn-on for me

This is from a single ladies meet me add "

I apologise if my last quote was against the rules i didnt know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's a single female profile that states she only meets with her partner then to my mind that makes them a couple. Report the profile."

That's how I see it. Often the couple are sat behind a 'single fem' profile simply because it generates more interest. Almost the same as single guys who sit behind a 'couples' profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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That great, but like i've said i've noticed more and more just lately that single women are putting meet mee's up , but then say they will only meet with there partners, like the add below

Hi, I'm looking to meet up with a guy/s for some very horny mmf fun with my partner tonight. Guys you must be orally bi, this is a big turn-on for me

This is from a single ladies meet me add "

Probably written by the guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's a single female profile that states she only meets with her partner then to my mind that makes them a couple. Report the profile."

I agree

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"If it's a single female profile that states she only meets with her partner then to my mind that makes them a couple. Report the profile.

I agree "

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am too scared to comment on females and couples as I am a single guy and I know my place....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah, right

yup couple profile and report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/05/13 09:33:26]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am too scared to comment on females and couples as I am a single guy and I know my place...."

Don't worry, I'll have you back

I'm starting to wonder if anyone on her speaks any amount of truth anymore, Come across a fair few liars and fakes and only been on here 8 weeks or so

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I have a single female profile because on here i am...my male partner who I've been with for 7 years likes me to meet up with a fb and then hear all about it. ..having said that we have done 2 meets with bi guys together but that's not why I'm on here its to meet single guys and bi guys and girls xxx"

what am I misreading this... are you a single female

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I have a single lady profile as I had it when I joined. I now only really play with my partner who I met on here. We have a couple's profile as well as out single ones and if we are looking for a meet all 3 profiles will have meet today posts on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Called hedging your bets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a single female profile because on here i am...my male partner who I've been with for 7 years likes me to meet up with a fb and then hear all about it. ..having said that we have done 2 meets with bi guys together but that's not why I'm on here its to meet single guys and bi guys and girls xxx

what am I misreading this... are you a single female"

I think someone was signed into wrong profile when they wrote that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am too scared to comment on females and couples as I am a single guy and I know my place....

Don't worry, I'll have you back

I'm starting to wonder if anyone on her speaks any amount of truth anymore, Come across a fair few liars and fakes and only been on here 8 weeks or so"

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

[Removed by poster at 04/05/13 09:38:11]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a single female profile because on here i am...my male partner who I've been with for 7 years likes me to meet up with a fb and then hear all about it. ..having said that we have done 2 meets with bi guys together but that's not why I'm on here its to meet single guys and bi guys and girls xxx

what am I misreading this... are you a single female"
...sorry I wrote this whilst on my boyfriends log in. ..forgot xxxx]

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I have a single female profile because on here i am...my male partner who I've been with for 7 years likes me to meet up with a fb and then hear all about it. ..having said that we have done 2 meets with bi guys together but that's not why I'm on here its to meet single guys and bi guys and girls xxx

what am I misreading this... are you a single female

LOL he removed it before I could say anything!!!!

"

and you wonder the games people play

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I have a single female profile because on here i am...my male partner who I've been with for 7 years likes me to meet up with a fb and then hear all about it. ..having said that we have done 2 meets with bi guys together but that's not why I'm on here its to meet single guys and bi guys and girls xxx

what am I misreading this... are you a single female...sorry I wrote this whilst on my boyfriends log in. ..forgot xxxx]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a single female profile because on here i am...my male partner who I've been with for 7 years likes me to meet up with a fb and then hear all about it. ..having said that we have done 2 meets with bi guys together but that's not why I'm on here its to meet single guys and bi guys and girls xxx

what am I misreading this... are you a single female...sorry I wrote this whilst on my boyfriends log in. ..forgot xxxx]"

But yet I remain skeptical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have profiles on here ..me to meet up with guys and girls my partner to meet up with bi guys ..occasionally I will join his meet for some fun x

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Is it right that they say they will meet with there partner, should they not have a couples profile?, thoughts please"

Does it say on profile they only meet with partner?

Or was it just a one off meet today kinda thing?

There is a difference....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for the confusion ..I was on his login and commented on this thread thinking i was on mine ..oops xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it right that they say they will meet with there partner, should they not have a couples profile?, thoughts please

Does it say on profile they only meet with partner?

Or was it just a one off meet today kinda thing?

There is a difference...."

And thats the whole point of my question, nope its says nothing on her or his profile about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On first joining the site, and a bit wet behind the ears, I had a single fem profile, but I did mention in it that my OH was aware and happy for me to meet as a single, and that he may occasionally join in etc etc. I didn't hide anything as that would be a pointless exercise

Months later,I got a bit of an abrupt message from a site user, stating that I was being deceptive and masquerading as a single (I felt I wasn't as I'd mentioned hubby), next thing I noticed was my profile had been changed, I assume by admin, from woman to mf couple - I went with it and rewrote the profile, as I had nothing to hide.

All that said, if what you read isn't for you, on any profile, personal choice for me would be to move onto the next one - there's a smorgasbord of swingles out there in fabland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a single woman says she will only meet up with her partner then it's clearly a cpl profile disguised as a single female profile. .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am too scared to comment on females and couples as I am a single guy and I know my place...."

Down boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On first joining the site, and a bit wet behind the ears, I had a single fem profile, but I did mention in it that my OH was aware and happy for me to meet as a single, and that he may occasionally join in etc etc. I didn't hide anything as that would be a pointless exercise

Months later,I got a bit of an abrupt message from a site user, stating that I was being deceptive and masquerading as a single (I felt I wasn't as I'd mentioned hubby), next thing I noticed was my profile had been changed, I assume by admin, from woman to mf couple - I went with it and rewrote the profile, as I had nothing to hide.

All that said, if what you read isn't for you, on any profile, personal choice for me would be to move onto the next one - there's a smorgasbord of swingles out there in fabland "
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I agree that there are a few couples that use a single female profile to get more interest, and if I see them I report them. But men do it too! I have used to get messages from couples all the time where the guy would state he is actually single but not got round to changing his profile yet (yeah right!) and lately I've been getting messages from men who have single guy profiles but state on their profile that they are part of a couple.

Yes, I'm mean. I report them too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree that there are a few couples that use a single female profile to get more interest, and if I see them I report them. But men do it too! I have used to get messages from couples all the time where the guy would state he is actually single but not got round to changing his profile yet (yeah right!) and lately I've been getting messages from men who have single guy profiles but state on their profile that they are part of a couple.

Yes, I'm mean. I report them too. "

Agreed especially to meet single females

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Is it right that they say they will meet with there partner, should they not have a couples profile?, thoughts please"

no likey no lookie - Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it right that they say they will meet with there partner, should they not have a couples profile?, thoughts please

no likey no lookie - Z"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Is it right that they say they will meet with there partner, should they not have a couples profile?, thoughts please

no likey no lookie - Z"

you don't know you don't likie until you have lookie'd

you just don't lookie again

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

well i'm single but cant prove it altho

my previous posts may help .so does that mean im genuine and my profile is not fake

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just read another meet meet me add, a single woman again looking to meet, but pics will be taken, by who?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I have a single female profile because on here i am...my male partner who I've been with for 7 years likes me to meet up with a fb and then hear all about it. ..having said that we have done 2 meets with bi guys together but that's not why I'm on here its to meet single guys and bi guys and girls xxx

what am I misreading this... are you a single female...sorry I wrote this whilst on my boyfriends log in. ..forgot xxxx]"

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To clear it up.

If they are just using the forum/chat and are using an old single profile thats ok as long as that is what it says on the profile.

If a person is playing alone they have a single profile.

If they are playing as a couple they have a couples profile.

Report any profile that says they are swinging as a couploe but trying to attract people with a single profile.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Just read another meet meet me add, a single woman again looking to meet, but pics will be taken, by who? "

I do small GBs from time to time and prefer a male friend to be there to take pics and make sure things don't get out of hand. There is a difference between a couple pretending to be single to get meets and a single woman wanting to feel safe at a meet. If in doubt, check the veris. A single female profile with veris saying 'I met these guys....' is not a single female profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To clear it up.

If they are just using the forum/chat and are using an old single profile thats ok as long as that is what it says on the profile.

If a person is playing alone they have a single profile.

If they are playing as a couple they have a couples profile.

Report any profile that says they are swinging as a couploe but trying to attract people with a single profile.

"

Do amdim monitor the meet me adds, because its clearly obvious to me some single women are using it to meet

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Sorry for the confusion ..I was on his login and commented on this thread thinking i was on mine ..oops xxx"

That is against site rules.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"To clear it up.

If they are just using the forum/chat and are using an old single profile thats ok as long as that is what it says on the profile.

If a person is playing alone they have a single profile.

If they are playing as a couple they have a couples profile.

Report any profile that says they are swinging as a couploe but trying to attract people with a single profile.

Do amdim monitor the meet me adds, because its clearly obvious to me some single women are using it to meet "

I doubt it with the amount of meets there are. They rely on us all helping them by reporting so they can sort it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you we have two profiles x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To clear it up.

If they are just using the forum/chat and are using an old single profile thats ok as long as that is what it says on the profile.

If a person is playing alone they have a single profile.

If they are playing as a couple they have a couples profile.

Report any profile that says they are swinging as a couploe but trying to attract people with a single profile.

Do amdim monitor the meet me adds, because its clearly obvious to me some single women are using it to meet

I doubt it with the amount of meets there are. They rely on us all helping them by reporting so they can sort it "

Ok thats cool i just thought id ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with you we have two profiles x"

But do you use your female profile to entice meets with single females for you and your partner or just yourself, and i think thats were the site lets its self down slighty

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I agree with you we have two profiles x

But do you use your female profile to entice meets with single females for you and your partner or just yourself, and i think thats were the site lets its self down slighty "

I think you are missing the point a bit....there are hundreds of thousands of profiles.....they don't manually check every profile.

If we all report any that are against rules and it is verified then they get changed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I agree with you we have two profiles x

But do you use your female profile to entice meets with single females for you and your partner or just yourself, and i think thats were the site lets its self down slighty "

The site isn't the one setting up misleading profiles though. Up to us to report them when we see them.

However if you see a meet request from me that says I have a guy there to take photos then please don't report me. I am definitely single!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with you we have two profiles x

But do you use your female profile to entice meets with single females for you and your partner or just yourself, and i think thats were the site lets its self down slighty

The site isn't the one setting up misleading profiles though. Up to us to report them when we see them.

However if you see a meet request from me that says I have a guy there to take photos then please don't report me. I am definitely single!"

Im not saying the site is misleading anyone, all im saying is that some site will only let you set one profile up from one email address, is this site any different or the same

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I agree with you we have two profiles x

But do you use your female profile to entice meets with single females for you and your partner or just yourself, and i think thats were the site lets its self down slighty

The site isn't the one setting up misleading profiles though. Up to us to report them when we see them.

However if you see a meet request from me that says I have a guy there to take photos then please don't report me. I am definitely single!

Im not saying the site is misleading anyone, all im saying is that some site will only let you set one profile up from one email address, is this site any different or the same "

I think its the same. However you can have as many email addresses as you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg why dont people just state the truth on there profiles,so frustrating grrr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"omg why dont people just state the truth on there profiles,so frustrating grrr "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am too scared to comment on females and couples as I am a single guy and I know my place...."

Yeah me too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am too scared to comment on females and couples as I am a single guy and I know my place....

Yeah me too. "

Single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's a single female profile that states she only meets with her partner then to my mind that makes them a couple. Report the profile."

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Im not saying the site is misleading anyone, all im saying is that some site will only let you set one profile up from one email address, is this site any different or the same "

You need a new E-mail address for every profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Either way, don't forget to report.

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