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By (user no longer on site) OP   
22 weeks ago

If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach

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By *elloWoman
22 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach "

Approach with caution and cake

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I'm not sure as it's only happened a couple of times, and the last one was about 6 years ago.

I know how I don't like it, though. Don't say that you've been watching me, then hand me a card for your photographer "friend".

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By *mmaleiaWoman
22 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Hey, if you fancy a coffee sometime, here’s my number

Hand over number on a bit of paper

Walk away so my brain can process, unless I say ‘sure’ straight away

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading


"If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach "

It's never happened in my entire life so I have no idea.

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By *eroLondonMan
22 weeks ago

Soho

Taking notes in my trusty faux mønøchrome moleskin notebook. 📓

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By *acchus LyaeosMan
22 weeks ago

London


"If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach

It's never happened in my entire life so I have no idea. "

Seriously? Not one guy?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Can I be the bellend and say "not from behind on tip toes"

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
22 weeks ago

Next Door


"Can I be the bellend and say "not from behind on tip toes""

I don't know, that sounds good

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
22 weeks ago

Next Door

Was chatted up for the 1st time in ages a few ago in a bar.

Flirty banter,a few drinks, numbers exchanges, messaging then a great date together.

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By *eroLondonMan
22 weeks ago

Soho


"Taking notes in my trusty faux mønøchrome moleskin notebook. 📓"

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So far so few scribbles.

OP, I suspect you're not going to have much anecdotal input from the sirens and the gorgons on here. They're rarely woo'd and pursued in real life and they refuse to buck the trend and find paramours for themselves.

The hard work remains, sadly, with us men.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
22 weeks ago

Cannock

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Can I be the bellend and say "not from behind on tip toes"

I don't know, that sounds good "

Asks Nerø to scribble that on his book for me 😉

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By *emofaJamesMan
22 weeks ago

London, Notting Hill.


"If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach

Approach with caution and cake "

Now are we talking, chocolate, carrot or perhaps a heavily creamed Victoria Sponge?

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By *estructionDollyWoman
22 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I rarely ever get approached in the wild so I can't help much

Maybe just try talking to the woman like a human being and don't be creepy, say you've been watching/looking at her, say something oversexualised etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

With a view to getting to know me?

Say "_ello" with a smile, chat normally and ask if I'd like to go for coffee. If I say "no thank you" accept gracefully and walk away.

🤷‍♀️

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By *bitofaslutWoman
22 weeks ago

Cannock

If I wasn't on fab and wasn't single?

Or single and not on fab?

I'm oblivious to people flirting with me, so short of grabbing me and saying "let's fuck" I'll probably just think you're being friendly.

If I'm not single, I don't want to be approached.

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By *hipdaleCouple
22 weeks ago

Greenhithe

I'd approach him

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading


"If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach

It's never happened in my entire life so I have no idea.

Seriously? Not one guy? "

No, you're right. I tell a lie. Once at a work Christmas party with an ex one of his colleagues came up to me, completely d*unk, and said I've not seen you before, do you know anyone here? (staring at my cleavage) and I said I do, I know that guy (pointing at my ex) and he said, oh, you work in the same team? And I said, no we've been married 10 years. And he called my ex over to apologise profusely and at one point said I didn't mean to start hitting on your wife, man. ...but I hadn't realised he was hitting on me. I thought he felt sorry for me standing on my own.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex


"If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach

It's never happened in my entire life so I have no idea.

Seriously? Not one guy?

No, you're right. I tell a lie. Once at a work Christmas party with an ex one of his colleagues came up to me, completely d*unk, and said I've not seen you before, do you know anyone here? (staring at my cleavage) and I said I do, I know that guy (pointing at my ex) and he said, oh, you work in the same team? And I said, no we've been married 10 years. And he called my ex over to apologise profusely and at one point said I didn't mean to start hitting on your wife, man. ...but I hadn't realised he was hitting on me. I thought he felt sorry for me standing on my own."

He apologised to your ex and not you!? 😱

Blimey!

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By *ornywestendboyMan
22 weeks ago

Newcastle

get ya coat youve pulled. fancy a shag no i do not well do you mind lying down while i have one fancy going halfers on a bastard how do you like your eggs in the morning fertilised so long as my face exists youll alwys have somewhere to sit ive had my mostasche 3 years how long you had yours excuse me you have something on your chin no no the other one you have a great face for radio all yhese are in jest

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By *estructionDollyWoman
22 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach

It's never happened in my entire life so I have no idea.

Seriously? Not one guy?

No, you're right. I tell a lie. Once at a work Christmas party with an ex one of his colleagues came up to me, completely d*unk, and said I've not seen you before, do you know anyone here? (staring at my cleavage) and I said I do, I know that guy (pointing at my ex) and he said, oh, you work in the same team? And I said, no we've been married 10 years. And he called my ex over to apologise profusely and at one point said I didn't mean to start hitting on your wife, man. ...but I hadn't realised he was hitting on me. I thought he felt sorry for me standing on my own."

Eurgh, I hate this sort of behaviour. You're aren't your partner's property!

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By *uchessdoeWoman
22 weeks ago

Northampton

On one knee, hands out-stretched, not worthy enough to make eye contact, begging me to allow him to ask for my courtship.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Like a human, chat normally.

Mrs

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By *uchessdoeWoman
22 weeks ago

Northampton

OR just say _ello and ask if I'd like to chat to him?

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading


"

He apologised to your ex and not you!? 😱

Blimey!"

He did

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By *heTattooedDomMan
22 weeks ago

Winnersh


"If you were not on fab and single. How would you like a guy to approach

Approach with caution and cake "

Takes notes. What sort of cake, should it be themed?

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Now the we all communicate through social media so much, has it become alot harder to actually talk to someone in person or approach someone that your attracted to

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