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By (user no longer on site) OP   
21 weeks ago

Turning 40 in a couple of days so this is my last chance to engage haha, happy fudging Monday R x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
21 weeks ago

I felt like my 30's were great, although great-fully looking forward to my 40's

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By *eliWoman
21 weeks ago

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Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I’m in my 50s

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

40s is a bit old for me. Good luck

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
21 weeks ago

kent

Nothing happens when you turn 40. I was expecting life to start and the world to end, but it was a great disappointment. You just carry on, much as you did before. I’m now hoping for revelations at 50, surely after knocking about for half a century something interesting will happen.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
21 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

My 30s have been much more wild and exciting than my 20s. I'm loving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"My 30s have been much more wild and exciting than my 20s. I'm loving it. "

Buzzing for it

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By *eliWoman
21 weeks ago

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"Nothing happens when you turn 40. "

Oh for f*ck's sake. What an anticlimactic midlife disappointment that is.

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By *oughmanMan
21 weeks ago

Sunderland

Thing just keep chugging along nicely. Things don't change just because you hit some arbitrary milestone in most cases.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
21 weeks ago

kent


"Nothing happens when you turn 40.

Oh for f*ck's sake. What an anticlimactic midlife disappointment that is."

Isn’t it! I was so hoping for the answer to life, the universe and everything. I thought a great booming voice would descend and reveal what the whole thing is all about. But nope. Nothing. I think this what fuels the midlife crisis. It’s not the age, it the disappointment that nothing interesting happens. At all

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By *estructionDollyWoman
21 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"My 30s have been much more wild and exciting than my 20s. I'm loving it.

Buzzing for it "

It will only be as exciting as you make it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
21 weeks ago


"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared."

Unfortunately working between now and the massive change haha, but we're away for my bady lovely little log cabin with hottub and plenty of space to walk the dog.

I'll let you know hahah

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By *eliWoman
21 weeks ago

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"Nothing happens when you turn 40.

Oh for f*ck's sake. What an anticlimactic midlife disappointment that is.

Isn’t it! I was so hoping for the answer to life, the universe and everything. I thought a great booming voice would descend and reveal what the whole thing is all about. But nope. Nothing. I think this what fuels the midlife crisis. It’s not the age, it the disappointment that nothing interesting happens. At all "

Not even a little voice that whispers 'this is the purpose of life; hear me and you'll forever know how to get what you want.'?

Devastated. Well and truly. Guess I'll have to start looking at wildly inappropriate cars.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
21 weeks ago

I think the issue for me is that when you hit 40 people expect you to be all grown up and stuff. I'm still a massive kid doing adult stuff haha. Work etc. My philosophy is play everyday, be silly make yourself and others smile and laugh but never at the expense of another. And that's pretty much how I intend to continue long may we be silly

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"My 30s have been much more wild and exciting than my 20s. I'm loving it.

Buzzing for it

It will only be as exciting as you make it "

You offering guidance?

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By *oughmanMan
21 weeks ago

Sunderland


"Nothing happens when you turn 40.

Oh for f*ck's sake. What an anticlimactic midlife disappointment that is.

Isn’t it! I was so hoping for the answer to life, the universe and everything. I thought a great booming voice would descend and reveal what the whole thing is all about. But nope. Nothing. I think this what fuels the midlife crisis. It’s not the age, it the disappointment that nothing interesting happens. At all "

No mate, that happens at 42. But it's just as disappointing. You get asked what the question was again.

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By *emofaJamesMan
21 weeks ago

London, Notting Hill.


"I think the issue for me is that when you hit 40 people expect you to be all grown up and stuff. I'm still a massive kid doing adult stuff haha. Work etc. My philosophy is play everyday, be silly make yourself and others smile and laugh but never at the expense of another. And that's pretty much how I intend to continue long may we be silly "

Now that's a philosophy I can get behind, and I believe the most effective device for a prolonged, hearty life.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
21 weeks ago

kent


"Nothing happens when you turn 40.

Oh for f*ck's sake. What an anticlimactic midlife disappointment that is.

Isn’t it! I was so hoping for the answer to life, the universe and everything. I thought a great booming voice would descend and reveal what the whole thing is all about. But nope. Nothing. I think this what fuels the midlife crisis. It’s not the age, it the disappointment that nothing interesting happens. At all

No mate, that happens at 42. But it's just as disappointing. You get asked what the question was again."

That never happened at 42, either. Just a great big silence. I wanted to learn the secret of flying. I know I throw myself at the ground and miss, but I can never get it right.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
21 weeks ago

kent


"Nothing happens when you turn 40.

Oh for f*ck's sake. What an anticlimactic midlife disappointment that is.

Isn’t it! I was so hoping for the answer to life, the universe and everything. I thought a great booming voice would descend and reveal what the whole thing is all about. But nope. Nothing. I think this what fuels the midlife crisis. It’s not the age, it the disappointment that nothing interesting happens. At all

Not even a little voice that whispers 'this is the purpose of life; hear me and you'll forever know how to get what you want.'?

Devastated. Well and truly. Guess I'll have to start looking at wildly inappropriate cars. "

I’m going to build my own monster truck 😁

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
21 weeks ago

here there and everywhere


"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared."

I turned 40 a few weeks ago, sadly nothing weird happens… you’re still exactly the same, just a day older 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I hated my 30s due to several losses, so I couldn't wait to hit 40 and get rid of my 30s.

I didn't feel much different to be fair though, I hit 50 last year & that was the same.

As you get older you just wonder how you got there so quickly, time definitely does go faster the older you get.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
21 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"My 30s have been much more wild and exciting than my 20s. I'm loving it.

Buzzing for it

It will only be as exciting as you make it

You offering guidance? "

It would be more like corruption

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By *sWyldWoman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared."

40s are fabulous. Life got so much better .

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By *ee69Man
21 weeks ago

glasgow

After 21 it all the same , doesn’t matter tbh

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By *estructionDollyWoman
21 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"After 21 it all the same , doesn’t matter tbh"

I dunno in the last 15 years I've changed quite a bit as a person

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By *acchus LyaeosMan
21 weeks ago

London


"After 21 it all the same , doesn’t matter tbh"

I don't think that's true. I've changed so much just between 22 and 25.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
21 weeks ago

Voldsøy

I've never dreaded turning an age before. 40 is close and YIKES. Tbf though, I've had as much fun this year as I did when I was 18-early 20s, so I guess it's what you make of it. 🤷‍♀️

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By *estructionDollyWoman
21 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"I've never dreaded turning an age before. 40 is close and YIKES. Tbf though, I've had as much fun this year as I did when I was 18-early 20s, so I guess it's what you make of it. 🤷‍♀️"

Absolutely this. I've had more fun in the last 4 years than I had through most of my 20s

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By *sWyldWoman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"I've never dreaded turning an age before. 40 is close and YIKES. Tbf though, I've had as much fun this year as I did when I was 18-early 20s, so I guess it's what you make of it. 🤷‍♀️"

I felt that way too . I was dreading it , I was sad . However there was no need. It's been great. There is some truth to the life begins at 40 theory.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
21 weeks ago

Voldsøy


"I've never dreaded turning an age before. 40 is close and YIKES. Tbf though, I've had as much fun this year as I did when I was 18-early 20s, so I guess it's what you make of it. 🤷‍♀️

Absolutely this. I've had more fun in the last 4 years than I had through most of my 20s "

Naughty forties after the dirty thirthies? OK, THEN! 😅

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By *eliWoman
21 weeks ago

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"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared.

I turned 40 a few weeks ago, sadly nothing weird happens… you’re still exactly the same, just a day older 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 "

This thread is so disappointing.

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
21 weeks ago

Voldsøy


"I've never dreaded turning an age before. 40 is close and YIKES. Tbf though, I've had as much fun this year as I did when I was 18-early 20s, so I guess it's what you make of it. 🤷‍♀️

I felt that way too . I was dreading it , I was sad . However there was no need. It's been great. There is some truth to the life begins at 40 theory.

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I'm glad it's been great for you! I can get that. Do you think as we get older, we just tend not to give as much of AF anymore? I feel that's the case for me, idk.

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By *acchus LyaeosMan
21 weeks ago

London


"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared.

I turned 40 a few weeks ago, sadly nothing weird happens… you’re still exactly the same, just a day older 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

This thread is so disappointing. "

I tried to create a thread of 20+ only but most of the posters ended up being 40s+ lol

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared.

I turned 40 a few weeks ago, sadly nothing weird happens… you’re still exactly the same, just a day older 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

This thread is so disappointing.

I tried to create a thread of 20+ only but most of the posters ended up being 40s+ lol"

You’ll learn bro. You’ll learn.

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By *eliWoman
21 weeks ago

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"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared.

I turned 40 a few weeks ago, sadly nothing weird happens… you’re still exactly the same, just a day older 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

This thread is so disappointing.

I tried to create a thread of 20+ only but most of the posters ended up being 40s+ lol"

That's because the majority on here are. Love them though, they're great for my parent issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
21 weeks ago


"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared.

I turned 40 a few weeks ago, sadly nothing weird happens… you’re still exactly the same, just a day older 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

This thread is so disappointing. "

The thread or the realisation that nothing miraculous happens at 40? Lmao

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By *eliWoman
21 weeks ago

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"Hope you're able to make the most of your final days of your thirties OP!

When you do hit 40, can you come back to this thread and let me know if anything weird happens?

Got a few years to go but want to be prepared.

I turned 40 a few weeks ago, sadly nothing weird happens… you’re still exactly the same, just a day older 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

This thread is so disappointing.

The thread or the realisation that nothing miraculous happens at 40? Lmao"

Aww, not the thread! The realisation that I won't find out the meaning of life. Will end up buying a daft car. Be middle aged. No earth shattering, almost epiphany like moment.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
21 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

There’s no such thing as a mid-life crisis y’know. It’s just that in your 40s you can finally afford all the fun things you wanted when you were 20-something.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"There’s no such thing as a mid-life crisis y’know. It’s just that in your 40s you can finally afford all the fun things you wanted when you were 20-something."

Speak for yourself, granda: some of us have peaked early

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
21 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Speak for yourself, granda: some of us have peaked early "

You haven’t peaked. You’re still getting better and better.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Speak for yourself, granda: some of us have peaked early

You haven’t peaked. You’re still getting better and better."

Stop it you 🤭

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"My 30s have been much more wild and exciting than my 20s. I'm loving it.

Buzzing for it

It will only be as exciting as you make it

You offering guidance?

It would be more like corruption "

Let’s go

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By *eliWoman
21 weeks ago

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"There’s no such thing as a mid-life crisis y’know. "
Clearly there's wisdom though, thank you for sharing.


"It’s just that in your 40s you can finally afford all the fun things you wanted when you were 20-something."

Is it? What happens if you could already afford those things? What do you do then? I'm hoping become a cougar.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
21 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"Is it? What happens if you could already afford those things? What do you do then? I'm hoping become a cougar."

Live your dreams Meli.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
21 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods


"My 30s have been much more wild and exciting than my 20s. I'm loving it.

Buzzing for it

It will only be as exciting as you make it

You offering guidance?

It would be more like corruption

Let’s go "

Such an eager pup

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Such an eager pup "

Must be my age

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By *uffnmuffCouple
21 weeks ago

London

In my 50s and life is great and I definitely look and feel better then when I was in my 30s x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
21 weeks ago

North West


"40s is a bit old for me. Good luck"

Shit. I'm entering Club 40 this year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
21 weeks ago

I can confirm that as was mentioned before there were no philosophical booming voice to voice me to the true meanings of life. I woke with the the same knowledge I had when I laid my head to sleep lol

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