FabSwingers.com forum: Playing it cool

By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear?

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple
22 weeks ago

In The Hills

Play the long game

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By *parkle1974Woman
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Obvious. Too old to play games.

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I block them and purge them from my life

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By *cott73Man
22 weeks ago

brighton

Sit in the corner full of self doubt usually.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
22 weeks ago

from mars

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I normally just get left on read 😂 which says everything lol

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By *rHotNottsMan
22 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I try not to do an impression of an excited little puppy or be impatient no matter how hot they are but I do make it obvious in the first 1-2 messages. Otherwise it’s weird later when you do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I block them and purge them from my life"

So you don’t fancy me………………..?

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
22 weeks ago

from mars

Play it cool 😎 …..

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By *a LunaWoman
22 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Cool. It’s how I protect my heart.

However, if loved up and in a relationship, then I’m practically on fire 🔥

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By *a LunaWoman
22 weeks ago

o o OO o o

"Play it cool 😎 ….. "

Strewth, someone’s not shaved for a bit….

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By *uchessdoeWoman
22 weeks ago

Northampton

I accidentally play it cool by being oblivious to what other people think about me, then wait for the other person to say something. When that's out of the way and floodgates have opened, I'll be very open about liking them.

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By *acchus LyaeosMan
22 weeks ago

London

Play it cool till I know they like me and then be obvious

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

I need to be cooler.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading

🤷‍♀️ everyone pisses me off lately so I think most people will end blocked.

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West

I used to play it cool but fab has taught me to show them my penis as quickly as possible.

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By *tr8MrEMan
22 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear? "

Best to both surely

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
22 weeks ago

from mars

"Play it cool 😎 …..

Strewth, someone’s not shaved for a bit….

😂 I’ll need a Mach 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"🤷‍♀️ everyone pisses me off lately so I think most people will end blocked. "

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I’m about as cool as a fucking sauna. If I want you.. you’ll know about it!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 weeks ago

North West

It depends. But generally not so cool, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I'm a bit cool but that's largely because I can never make my mind up about people and also because I don't show my hand until I'm sure.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
22 weeks ago

Castlebar

I wait to see if someone likes me and sometimes that's too long. I need to be more obvious. It's my new plan for 2025.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
22 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I play it too cool because I don't want to scare people off, and then people think I'm not interested

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By *bitofaslutWoman
22 weeks ago

Cannock

If someone likes me I tend to not believe it

*I* like me, I haven't given *you* any reason to like me, so why are you smiling, buying me drinks, taking my clothes off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear?

Best to both surely"

HOW

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I'm a bit cool but that's largely because I can never make my mind up about people and also because I don't show my hand until I'm sure. "

Fuck me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I play it too cool because I don't want to scare people off, and then people think I'm not interested

That’s the danger. That’s the danger

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By *tr8MrEMan
22 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear?

Best to both surely

HOW

Beats me, just a guess

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Once I know I *really* like them it's very obvious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear?

Best to both surely

HOW

Beats me, just a guess

We’re all just winging it

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
22 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"I play it too cool because I don't want to scare people off, and then people think I'm not interested

This is soo relatable 🤣🤣

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
22 weeks ago

Up North

"I’m about as cool as a fucking sauna. If I want you.. you’ll know about it!"

Haha, glad I’m not the only one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I’m about as cool as a fucking sauna. If I want you.. you’ll know about it!

Haha, glad I’m not the only one

I hope some day you will join us

And the world will be as one

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By *emorefridaCouple
22 weeks ago

La la land

I'm as cold as ice apparently

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I'm as cold as ice apparently

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willing to sacrifice our love?

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By *emorefridaCouple
22 weeks ago

La la land

"I'm as cold as ice apparently

willing to sacrifice our love?"

Something like that

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
22 weeks ago

Portstewart

It depends on how badly we want something but usually we're concise and to the point

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I'm as cold as ice apparently

willing to sacrifice our love?

Something like that

You’re a tough one. But I’m a trier

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By *tr8MrEMan
22 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear?

Best to both surely

HOW

Beats me, just a guess

We’re all just winging it"

Completely unconfidently. Thank you Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I fuck it up. Totally.

I think I’m being flirty, but not clingy. Funny but not friendzone.

In reality I’m giving off ice queen vibes.

I’m awful via text. Absolutely bloody awful 🤣

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By *tr8MrEMan
22 weeks ago

somewhere near Sheffield

"I fuck it up. Totally.

I think I’m being flirty, but not clingy. Funny but not friendzone.

In reality I’m giving off ice queen vibes.

I’m awful via text. Absolutely bloody awful 🤣"

You do know you've got your shoes stuck in your knickers again!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I fuck it up. Totally.

I think I’m being flirty, but not clingy. Funny but not friendzone.

In reality I’m giving off ice queen vibes.

I’m awful via text. Absolutely bloody awful 🤣"

Shall I add to this list of awfulness

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"I fuck it up. Totally.

I think I’m being flirty, but not clingy. Funny but not friendzone.

In reality I’m giving off ice queen vibes.

I’m awful via text. Absolutely bloody awful 🤣

Shall I add to this list of awfulness

Is there any room left?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"I fuck it up. Totally.

I think I’m being flirty, but not clingy. Funny but not friendzone.

In reality I’m giving off ice queen vibes.

I’m awful via text. Absolutely bloody awful 🤣

Shall I add to this list of awfulness

Is there any room left?"

Yes.

But anyway to be clear, you’re saying you’re terrible at playing it cool? Or too good at playing it cool?

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

If I like you, you'll probably see pictures of me looking awful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"If I like you, you'll probably see pictures of me looking awful "

You never look awful. Except when you’re wearing lipstick actually.

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If I like you, you'll probably see pictures of me looking awful

You never look awful. Except when you’re wearing lipstick actually.

Rude!

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Both. About as clear as mud

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By *es not the MessiahMan
22 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I can't flirt to save myself so they would never know

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By *ugehandsMan
22 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

If you like them go and chat to them, you may find you have things in common and like each other, but then again you may find they're not interested in you. Both a win win when you know where you stand.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex

If I'm cool it's because I'm not really interested. If someone plays it cool with me I assume they're not interested and walk away

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By *ookie46Woman
22 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I played it way too cool once but it all worked out perfectly in the end 🥰

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By *oeBeansMan
22 weeks ago

Derby

I play it cool out of fear of rejection 😅

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By *nnCeeWoman
22 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

I normally end up acting like a muppet (no difference there, I hear you shout!)

I'll probably over-do it. And I don't have a poker face, so I'm pretty screwed.

But also, mostly, when I like someone, the feeling isn't mutual, so... 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
22 weeks ago

from mars

"I play it cool out of fear of rejection 😅"

Was going to say the same thing 😎

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
22 weeks ago

Bristol

Not sure I've ever been cool in my life

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By *ansoffateMan
22 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I'm obviously cool

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By *riar BelisseWoman
22 weeks ago

Holibobs

If I'm into him, I'm extraordinarily tactile with him, his response to that is whether that triggers me to ask him

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By *dam1971Man
22 weeks ago

Bedford

"If I'm into him, I'm extraordinarily tactile with him, his response to that is whether that triggers me to ask him

You mean putting your hand in his trouser pocket and he says “There’s a hole in the lining”?

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By *ecretxLoverWoman
22 weeks ago

Glasgow

Sometimes I play it too cool and they end up thinking I don’t like them

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

https://youtu.be/FYGTT7YhywA?si=JDPO8YaV7xqHXJKy

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
22 weeks ago

from mars

"https://youtu.be/FYGTT7YhywA?si=JDPO8YaV7xqHXJKy "

Daddy cool ☺️

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By *ynamicnatureMan
22 weeks ago

Doncaster

If I'm into them and I think their into me, all pretences of being cool quickly go straight out the window.

Face to face, up close and personal I would describe myself as a bit more of a hot potato,🫦

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By *riar BelisseWoman
22 weeks ago

Holibobs

"If I'm into him, I'm extraordinarily tactile with him, his response to that is whether that triggers me to ask him

You mean putting your hand in his trouser pocket and he says “There’s a hole in the lining”?

Ha, my hands never go in his pockets

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By *eroLondonMan
22 weeks ago

Soho

"...do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear? "

I play it cool by being quite obvious and clear, with an air of nonchalance.

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By *hirleyMan
22 weeks ago

London

Why do you need to be differently if you like or even dislike anyone OP?

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By *herry.bombWoman
22 weeks ago

basingstoke

I try to play it cool, but then I start getting awkward and it becomes painfully obvious

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By *orbidden eastMan
22 weeks ago

london dodging electric bikes

Always Gotta play it cool. With a little bit of sarcasm 🤣

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By *ambertMan
22 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I'm usually oblivious

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By *ochaManMan
22 weeks ago

Stratford

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear? "

I reply to their forum threads in the hope that they'll notice me.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 weeks ago

North West

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear?

I reply to their forum threads in the hope that they'll notice me."

Pickle, I think you've pulled

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

I don't know if I play it any particular way. I'm normally quite a slow burner and it takes me a bit of time to realise I like someone.

Sometimes, and it's incredibly rare, I'll like someone and I get flustered. Unable to talk properly, giggle far too much. It's rare and obvious. Embarrassingly so.

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By *eroLondonMan
22 weeks ago

Soho

"I don't know if I play it any particular way. I'm normally quite a slow burner and it takes me a bit of time to realise I like someone.

Sometimes, and it's incredibly rare, I'll like someone and I get flustered. Unable to talk properly, giggle far too much. It's rare and obvious. Embarrassingly so."

Sometimes, oftentimes in fact, her words cascade uncontrollably like an excitable Eliza. This woman needs the linguistic temperament of a Colonel Pickering and a Henry Higgins rolled into one. 🎩²

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear?

I reply to their forum threads in the hope that they'll notice me.

Pickle, I think you've pulled

He’s got game

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By *ochaManMan
22 weeks ago

Stratford

"When you like them, do you play it cool or are you really obvious and clear?

I reply to their forum threads in the hope that they'll notice me.

Pickle, I think you've pulled

He’s got game"

He's hard to get cos he's surrounded by women every time I see him. Got to take my chances, right? Turns out forum-based flirting is successful ✍️

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