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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

but what would it take for people (in general, not just on here) to get on without making each other miserable?

Life can be fun! So I am being serious, what does it take?

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

tolerance and a sense of humour

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"tolerance and a sense of humour "
Do they have many calories?

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Just a little give and take....quite simple really

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't think you could ever have everyone getting on all the time.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

lots an lots of mind bending thing we can't talk about on here...........just a thought

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just a little give and take....quite simple really"

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Just a little give and take....quite simple really"

this with a dash of empathy and some tolerance on the side..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking their ego out of the equation.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I don't think you could ever have everyone getting on all the time. "
I can see people having differnet opinions, even very extreme and mutually incompatible opinions. And yet I believe that where there is a will there is a way and one can agree to disagree without disrespecting the other person?

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

.......happily, tolerance and a sense of fun are calorie free.......

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"Just a little give and take....quite simple really "

well we think so

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"lots an lots of mind bending thing we can't talk about on here...........just a thought "
See, where I am coming from is this : I can have an opinion, even an extreme one and I would like it if people said they disagreed but still respected me as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what makes life interesting, if we all got on life would be very boring.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


".......happily, tolerance and a sense of fun are calorie free....... "
A lady to my liking

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"That's what makes life interesting, if we all got on life would be very boring. "
Spose so lol xx

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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Not spending too much time together!

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I don't think you could ever have everyone getting on all the time. I can see people having differnet opinions, even very extreme and mutually incompatible opinions. And yet I believe that where there is a will there is a way and one can agree to disagree without disrespecting the other person?"

Exactly,!!! Opinions r opinions but with mutual respect and appreciation they just stay that and people get on! Ego and self importance of own opinions create arguments

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Plenty of vodka and sex......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree to disagree. I'm a tolerant and accepting person, life is way too short to not enjoy it, I've had first hand experience of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empathy and respect.

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Plenty of vodka and sex...... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My motto - traet others as you wish to be treated yourself...doesn't always work like that though

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't think you could ever have everyone getting on all the time. I can see people having differnet opinions, even very extreme and mutually incompatible opinions. And yet I believe that where there is a will there is a way and one can agree to disagree without disrespecting the other person?"

I do agree with you, but humans are just not like that. For every person like you or me there is at least 2 utter twats out there just wanting to cause hassle for their jollies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My motto - traet others as you wish to be treated yourself...doesn't always work like that though "
*treat*

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not spending too much time together!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Plenty of vodka and sex...... "
Maybe just the sex?;-)

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"lots an lots of mind bending thing we can't talk about on here...........just a thought See, where I am coming from is this : I can have an opinion, even an extreme one and I would like it if people said they disagreed but still respected me as a person. "

gawd you gota do somthing about the delusion of yous

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I don't think you could ever have everyone getting on all the time. I can see people having differnet opinions, even very extreme and mutually incompatible opinions. And yet I believe that where there is a will there is a way and one can agree to disagree without disrespecting the other person?

Exactly,!!! Opinions r opinions but with mutual respect and appreciation they just stay that and people get on! Ego and self importance of own opinions create arguments "

Good point

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Empathy and respect."
Just thought that was the name of a new couple on here xx

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"My motto - traet others as you wish to be treated yourself...doesn't always work like that though *treat*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Empathy and respect.Just thought that was the name of a new couple on here xx"

I'm sure they'd be a highly pleasant pair too x

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Empathy and respect.Just thought that was the name of a new couple on here xx

I'm sure they'd be a highly pleasant pair too x"

Hey, shall we create a profile ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Self awareness, honesty, humility & dignity.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"but what would it take for people (in general, not just on here) to get on without making each other miserable?

Life can be fun! So I am being serious, what does it take? "

imho Strip out the pointless competitive needle people seem to acquire and to learn to accept rejection as part of a quite natural selction process...you really cant be everyones gods gift ....no really you cant !!!!

But dont worry there is someone for everyone .

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"but what would it take for people (in general, not just on here) to get on without making each other miserable?

Life can be fun! So I am being serious, what does it take?

imho Strip out the pointless competitive needle people seem to acquire and to learn to accept rejection as part of a quite natural selction process...you really cant be everyones gods gift ....no really you cant !!!!

But dont worry there is someone for everyone . "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

While we all have our own individual personalities where not all going to get on. Unless we become a world of mindless aliens

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows


"but what would it take for people (in general, not just on here) to get on without making each other miserable?

Life can be fun! So I am being serious, what does it take?

imho Strip out the pointless competitive needle people seem to acquire and to learn to accept rejection as part of a quite natural selction process...you really cant be everyones gods gift ....no really you cant !!!!

But dont worry there is someone for everyone . "

Hmmm pointless competitive needle??? Its how man is wired... every guy wants to be bigger, stronger, faster, better looking, more well endowed, better sexual athlete than the next guy.... that will never change without bringing out v2.0 of male human

In my opinion, for which I am probably gonna get slated for but hey ho whatever nevermind...You only have to look at the forums to note that the place is like Ego Central at times with certain people believing their own hype to the point of being delusional,and someone is always gonna get wound up by someone else... with or without justification. Then you get the people who for some reason known only to themselves think they are a cut above, which again winds people up... so basically to answer the OP there is more chance of Lord Lucan riding Shergar down your street and giving you the 6 numbers for the Sat nite lotto.... and breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can't be done for the simple reason that what one person finds fun, another finds offensive.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

The secret is accepting people for who they are and not judge them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The secret is accepting people for who they are and not judge them...."

You do talk bollocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love nothing more but for the entire world to get on. But with people like the Talaban and Westboro baptist church (I think the latter is an utter joke by the way) it won't happen

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"but what would it take for people (in general, not just on here) to get on without making each other miserable?

Life can be fun! So I am being serious, what does it take?

imho Strip out the pointless competitive needle people seem to acquire and to learn to accept rejection as part of a quite natural selction process...you really cant be everyones gods gift ....no really you cant !!!!

But dont worry there is someone for everyone .

Hmmm pointless competitive needle??? Its how man is wired... every guy wants to be bigger, stronger, faster, better looking, more well endowed, better sexual athlete than the next guy.... that will never change without bringing out v2.0 of male human

In my opinion, for which I am probably gonna get slated for but hey ho whatever nevermind...You only have to look at the forums to note that the place is like Ego Central at times with certain people believing their own hype to the point of being delusional,and someone is always gonna get wound up by someone else... with or without justification. Then you get the people who for some reason known only to themselves think they are a cut above, which again winds people up... so basically to answer the OP there is more chance of Lord Lucan riding Shergar down your street and giving you the 6 numbers for the Sat nite lotto.... and breathe "

Think I just saw him...;-)

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