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By *aveyougotmymarbles OP   Man
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.

Just had them view and wink again.

Why?

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By *avexxMan
16 weeks ago

cheshire

playing games

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By *atte Lover 82Man
16 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED


"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.

Just had them view and wink again.

Why?"

Maybe the age range is just a preference but are willing to meet outside of that range too

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By *eliWoman
16 weeks ago

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They're keen to get your penis.

Hope that helps.

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By *urplevanmanMan
16 weeks ago

Salford

Are you able to message them? Wouldn’t hurt to say hello

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By *aveyougotmymarbles OP   Man
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun


"They're keen to get your penis.

Hope that helps. "

It's useless these days

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By *aveyougotmymarbles OP   Man
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun


"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.

Just had them view and wink again.

Why?

Maybe the age range is just a preference but are willing to meet outside of that range too"

There age range says it and so does the profile text

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By *aveyougotmymarbles OP   Man
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun


"Are you able to message them? Wouldn’t hurt to say hello "

Didn't try and not going to

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"There age range says it and so does the profile text "

As long as you aren't actually blocked from messaging outside that age group then you can message. The wink and the view *could* be considered interest.

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By *ealitybitesMan
16 weeks ago

Belfast

Unless things have changed you can only wink someone once every 30 days so maybe they had forgotten they had done so before. If you don't want them to do it again just don't delete the wink and that means they can't send another one.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
16 weeks ago

little house on the praire


"Unless things have changed you can only wink someone once every 30 days so maybe they had forgotten they had done so before. If you don't want them to do it again just don't delete the wink and that means they can't send another one. "
I thought you could only wink every 30 days so was wondering how they had done it

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By *r-8-BBCMan
16 weeks ago

LONDON


"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.

Just had them view and wink again.

Why?"

Maybe she'll make an exception for you

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By *ualityNotQuantityUKCouple
16 weeks ago

Leicester

Perhaps they've opened up their age preference but haven't updated their profile. What have you got to lose by winking back?

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago


"Unless things have changed you can only wink someone once every 30 days so maybe they had forgotten they had done so before. If you don't want them to do it again just don't delete the wink and that means they can't send another one. I thought you could only wink every 30 days so was wondering how they had done it"

The winks expire after 30 days but if you delete it they can wink again.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

16 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.

Just had them view and wink again.

Why?"

It's a hint that they may be interested.

Whether to respond in any way is up to you.

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By *aveyougotmymarbles OP   Man
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun


"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.

Just had them view and wink again.

Why?

It's a hint that they may be interested.

Whether to respond in any way is up to you.

"

Shouldn't my deletion of the first one be taken as I'm not interested though?

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By *ornysouthwalesMan
16 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

If you like the look of their profile ignore the age limit and contact them say hello unless the age limit stops you doing that!

If they’re interested they’ll chat and maybe meet for a social if you click what’s the harm in being friendly?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

16 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So I was viewed and winked at by someone local to me after reading their profile I am 8 years older than they are looking for so I just deleted the wink and went on with my day.

Just had them view and wink again.

Why?

It's a hint that they may be interested.

Whether to respond in any way is up to you.

Shouldn't my deletion of the first one be taken as I'm not interested though?"

They won't know that you've deleted a wink. You don't get notified.

Easier to either tell them or block them. Both are clear messages of your feelings on the wink.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
16 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Winking is a cowards game. Have the balls to message people!!!

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By *ympho6969Woman
16 weeks ago

glasgow

In my personal experience, if I wink at someone I'm rolling out the welcome mat.

Can't say this is the same situation but no harm testing the waters if message filters aren't blocking it.

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