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By *midnight- OP Woman
22 weeks ago

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... Fear on fab??

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By *midnight- OP Woman
22 weeks ago

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Mine is being recognized by my male work colleagues 😵‍💫😵‍💫

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

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By *es not the MessiahMan
22 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Being offered meet

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By *hunky GentMan
22 weeks ago

Stamford

"Mine is being recognized by my male work colleagues 😵‍💫😵‍💫"

You have no face pics so you should be pretty safe. X

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Being recognised by friends..

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"Mine is being recognized by my male work colleagues 😵‍💫😵‍💫"

I'd just say well that makes you a 'deviant' too for also being on here..

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By *hunky GentMan
22 weeks ago

Stamford

For me - it's sone of my family finding out - some are prudes.

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By *midnight- OP Woman
22 weeks ago

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"[Removed by poster too afraid to post at 07/03/25 10:37:47]"

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By *oeBeansMan
22 weeks ago

Derby

Lacking the will to be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I don't think any relatives.. or friends of mine would care, or even be surprised..

Blessed in that way.

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By *ornycougaWoman
22 weeks ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

My kids finding me. Other than that - nothing

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
22 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

My Greatest fear on Fab ........ You know when you try to log on and the site is down ???? yeah ......???? Well I always think that you are all in the pub talking about me...

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"... Fear on fab??

Wouldn't be good for productivity

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

"My Greatest fear on Fab ........ You know when you try to log on and the site is down ???? yeah ......???? Well I always think that you are all in the pub talking about me..."

That's because we are...

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By *eoBloomsMan
22 weeks ago

Springfield

Never getting out

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"My kids finding me. Other than that - nothing"

Same.

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By *eckard25Man
22 weeks ago

North West Durham

Finding my Mam and Dad on here.

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
22 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

call me a big softie, but my greatest fear is that I'm misunderstood or I offend in any way. I'm here for the grin and good times, not to wind people up.

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By *eckard25Man
22 weeks ago

North West Durham

"call me a big softie, but my greatest fear is that I'm misunderstood or I offend in any way. I'm here for the grin and good times, not to wind people up. "

Ya big softie

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
22 weeks ago

Always on the move

"For me - it's sone of my family finding out - some are prudes. "

I'm with Chunky on this. If work colleagues find me, so be it. Friends. Some already know.

Family though. Be difficult to look them in the face at the next family gathering 😂

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By *EAT..85Woman
22 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Mine is being recognized by my male work colleagues 😵‍💫😵‍💫"

One guy at work was showing my fab profile to my lover without realising he was my lover... I was curious after that how many other people he had showed. I mention fab around sed guy now and he goes all awkward 😂

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

My sister displaying my verification.

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By *eoBloomsMan
22 weeks ago

Springfield

"My sister displaying my verification."

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By *oughmanMan
22 weeks ago

Sunderland

Hmm Nope I can't think of anything.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"My sister displaying my verification.

Because I was all fumbly and a little bit shit. Just didn't feel the normal vibe

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
22 weeks ago

Next Door

Seeing my kids on here

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By *ongAndThick123Man
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Sexual health fears, mostly

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By *ynamicnatureMan
22 weeks ago

Doncaster

"... Fear on fab??

That I won't get the chance to meet everyone that I want to meet.

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By *illy IdolMan
22 weeks ago

Midlands

Being recognised by anyone I don't want to recognise me.

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By *ife NinjaMan
22 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Not getting another meet....it's been over a year 😱🤓

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
22 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"Being recognised by anyone I don't want to recognise me."

Is that you Willy ?

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By *bitofaslutWoman
22 weeks ago

Cannock

It's not a fear, but it's one of the few things I hate about being here.

The rampant transphobia.

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By *illy IdolMan
22 weeks ago

Midlands

"Being recognised by anyone I don't want to recognise me.

Is that you Willy ?"

Gran, I'll pick you up for bingo at 7pm. Love you😘

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By *coptoCouple
22 weeks ago

Côte d'Azur & Great Yarmouth

“My kids finding me. Other than that – nothing”

Yup, pretty much the same...

“Finding my Mam and Dad on here”

Pre-Fab days, when contact mags were the way to go (I met my wife through a contact mag, we’ve been together nearly forty years, so it CAN work) my father opened a letter addressed to us which was rather detailed to say the least. He never mentioned it again, and nor did we…

And when my parents were alive, they watched a TV report on bondage, SM etc. In the studio audience - leathered-up and masked - were a couple who owned a holiday chalet next to theirs. But my parents recognised them, and next weekend my father made a joke which was unfortunately not well received. They sold up and left the site.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
22 weeks ago

Wirral

That people will see me the way I see myself.

Horrifying thought.

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By *oodmessMan
22 weeks ago

yumsville

Thread revivals

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By *estructionDollyWoman
22 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

"Mine is being recognized by my male work colleagues 😵‍💫😵‍💫"

Exactly this 😅

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
22 weeks ago

kent

My only fab fear is not being able to switch it off easily. I hate the thought of ‘living’ through my phone screen rather than the real world. The same fear applies to all social media, which is why I have none outside of work (apart from this) Xx

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

That it turns me fab gay and I start looking at boobs on the down low.

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By *rHotNottsMan
22 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No fears about the site, but maybe I get fed up of the lifestyle or can’t get a hard on , or just stop fancying and meeting women. Being single & kind of retired it’s a fairly significant hobby

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By *inxy777Woman
22 weeks ago

essex

Thinking at my age, it’s time to stop. X

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By *leaningdutiesMan
22 weeks ago

South London

Turning the fantasy into reality and finally dxperiencing the mmf being discussed with my wife and it being a complete disater for our marriage

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By *exyScientistsCouple
22 weeks ago

Castlebar

Losing my mind 🤪

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not being able to go home safely and in one piece after a meet

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By *eoBloomsMan
22 weeks ago

Springfield

"My sister displaying my verification.

Because I was all fumbly and a little bit shit. Just didn't feel the normal vibe"

Yes, she said your Brother was better

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
22 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"My sister displaying my verification.

Because I was all fumbly and a little bit shit. Just didn't feel the normal vibe

Yes, she said your Brother was better

Yeah, which reminds me of the hidden MMF verification I have...

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

My family and friends finding out I’m on here and that I’m bi.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
22 weeks ago

Durham

Our parents and children finding out.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Meeting the man of my dreams... and then meeting his beautiful wife.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
22 weeks ago

Cannock

"Meeting the man of my dreams... and then meeting his beautiful wife.

That would be ironic

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By *midnight- OP Woman
22 weeks ago

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"Mine is being recognized by my male work colleagues 😵‍💫😵‍💫

Exactly this 😅"

Imagine them lining up 🤮🤮🤮

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading

I've had several meets here where I felt unsafe so I have fear about personal safety mostly.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
22 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

That I get the massive feels for someone…

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

That I'm the worst/most disappointing meet they've had.

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By *luebell888Woman
22 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"... Fear on fab??

Meeting someone who murders me.

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By *ittyNCremeCouple
22 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

The wanking dead

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By *eckard25Man
22 weeks ago

North West Durham

"The wanking dead "

"Hello, is that Channel 4? I've got a pitch for a new TV programme"

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By *atte Lover 82Man
22 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Becoming one of the wanking dead 😳😳

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By *oughmanMan
22 weeks ago

Sunderland

"... Fear on fab??

Meeting someone who murders me."

Well that got pretty fucking dark. But I do see your point. That is a legitimate fear to have.

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By *oughmanMan
22 weeks ago

Sunderland

"The wanking dead "

Okay thanks to that one, I think I've found my fear. Becoming one of the wanking dead.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
22 weeks ago

Always on the move

Running out of burger sauce, OP 😉😂 x

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By *inkShyWoman
22 weeks ago

near Windsor

Being recognised by colleagues if I share a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I haven’t got one

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
22 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"... Fear on fab??

Making an idiot of myself by being turned down...

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By *ebauchayMan
22 weeks ago

swindon south

"The wanking dead "

I think we should consider this forum shut.

Nothing is going to beat that answer

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
22 weeks ago

Ipswich

No fear of fab at all

Only on hear for friends I met on hear

That’s why filters set to 98-99

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

That my make up won't be as good as it can be for a meet

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By *elloWoman
22 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Mine is being recognized by my male work colleagues 😵‍💫😵‍💫"

I found 2 male co-workers on here and told them I was on fab and what my profile name was

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By *elloWoman
22 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"That my make up won't be as good as it can be for a meet

I think this would be similar to my fear.

If I arrange a meet up and the guy runs a mile shouting 'aarrggghhh begone catfish bitch'

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"That my make up won't be as good as it can be for a meet

I think this would be similar to my fear.

If I arrange a meet up and the guy runs a mile shouting 'aarrggghhh begone catfish bitch' "
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I'd be mortified if that happened.

I've got a friend on here who uses apps on her pics and god knows what people must think when they meet her; if I didn't know her, I wouldn't have recognised her from the doctored pics

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
22 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I don't really have one

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Actually, I'm changing my answer. Based on past Fab experiences, my biggest fear is being deceived and manipulated. Having someone deliberately mislead me to get what they want.

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
22 weeks ago

Chichester

"My sister displaying my verification.

Because I was all fumbly and a little bit shit. Just didn't feel the normal vibe"
This needs a bit more explanation!

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By *p4fun74Man
21 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Mine is being recognized by my male work colleagues 😵‍💫😵‍💫"

They're in here too and likely without partner knowing so you're fine. Also I think it's so hot seeing people you know on here

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By *im le2Man
21 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

"Being recognised by friends..

If friends are on this sort of site there looking for sex. I'd sooner have someone I know.

There's about 30 ppl within a mile of me on this site alone so there must be someone I know or drink in the same pub with.

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By *ypersoonMan
21 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

Being recognised by someone who knows me.

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By *im le2Man
21 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

"Finding my Mam and Dad on here. "

Then have someone ask why do don't look like either of them.

Yes your mam and dad have sex how do you think you came from.

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By *bi HaiveMan
21 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Forgetting my log in details. 🤷‍♂️

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By *im le2Man
21 weeks ago

AYLESTONE

As most ppl never show there face how are others supposed to recognise you.

I'm a gay man and there's a str8 woman that lives across the road we have both had sex with the same guy Several times. It was a bit strange when we first found out but now we recommend guys to eachother.

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By *afkaMan
21 weeks ago

Nottingham

"My kids finding me. Other than that - nothing

Same. "

Ditto

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