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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My very old cat with kidney disease has gone missing???!!!!!

I know its only a cat but ive had her 14 years and she was my mate. She cant eat normal food, as it would kill her so even if some nice person finds and takes her in they will do more harm than good....

Just want to know if she is ok or dead....need to know one way or the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really feel for you, was devastated when my cat died at 17, he was one of the family. Hope the wanderer returns very soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hppe you find her and she is ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly our pets become one of the family so we can imagine exactly how you feel. We've lost both of our cats now and won't have anymore as both times hit us so hard. We'll make do with sharing our kids animals lol.

Hope your cat turns up safe and well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hope she turns up soon, losing a pet is very distressing particularly when they have been part of your family for so long, lost a few and its never easy.

Our condolences if she is dead, but as you say not knowing is worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really feel for you, I used to foster the older cats for our local cat rescue centre, it always broke my heart when one became poorly.... Have you checked outside under hedges and bushes? If you cat isn't feeling to go it may have gone somewhere quiet, hope your cat returns soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really feel for you, I used to foster the older cats for our local cat rescue centre, it always broke my heart when one became poorly.... Have you checked outside under hedges and bushes? If you cat isn't feeling to go it may have gone somewhere quiet, hope your cat returns soon "

Lots of people have said that....she has thrown up a few times lately....which is a bad sign I know....

Thanks to everyone for their wishes x

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By *ooking4you69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Hope you find your cat safe and sound, it's devastating when something happens to them. Fingers crossed you get her home soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's horrible when they disappear. My cat was 16 and of declining health. One day she didn't come in for her tea and we later found her at the bottom of the garden curled up in a ball. It was almost like she knew it was her time and wanted to take herself away. Like you say it's the not knowing that's the killer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not sure if it will help but i have a male cat and hes been castrated but he still went missing for just over a week i was worried sick ,but he turned up at the door after about 9 days he was looking a little thin but he was ok ,im telling you this as id lost hope but he still came back in the end,dont lost hope im sure yours will turn up soon too just like mine did ,i have everything crossed for u as i know how upsetting it can be , ;-(

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im not sure if it will help but i have a male cat and hes been castrated but he still went missing for just over a week i was worried sick ,but he turned up at the door after about 9 days he was looking a little thin but he was ok ,im telling you this as id lost hope but he still came back in the end,dont lost hope im sure yours will turn up soon too just like mine did ,i have everything crossed for u as i know how upsetting it can be , ;-("

I do hope she will just turn up.......don't wanna go to work 2moz to be honest but I can't just sit and wait can I?....I'm sat with the patio door open now and freezing off my knobs....just incase she comes back

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Sad to hear your news, as a cat lover myself I know how you feel, had one cat that went for 6 weeks (we'd moved across town and he kept going back to woods near the old house).

We had given up hope when we had a phone call.

Best of luck, as has been said, it'd the not knowing that does us in most.

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Oh curvy im so hoping she comes back soon!! Probably just chasing birds xxxxxxxxx

Huge hugs, I've got a kitty he's my buddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sad, I hope your cat returns home xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs, hope your cat comes back home soon. I know how horrible it can be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww bless curvy hun ,i know its not nice an im really hoping it comes back soon just as ours did,im sure it will though so try and keep positive in the meantime ,x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if it's the same with cats (never had one), but dos tend to go off alone when they sense they are about to die. Sorry, but I think you should be prepared for the worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you rang rspca or local cat home in case its been found and handed in.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I hope she turns up soon Hun. My old cat went missing for a couple of days once and it turns out he was in next doors caravan but cos he was going a bit deaf he couldn't hear me calling him so he just enjoyed the comfy warm bed and slept.

Cats are funny things so independent in a funny sort of way. Keep us posted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope she turns up soon,and all being well none the worse for wear x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also had an old cat disappear and not come home. I was told that they often disappear and find somewhere quiet to die when they know it is their time as someone has already said, least that is what I like to think rather than she was hurt and couldn't get home. I do hope that your's comes home as it is an upsetting time when a member of the family as they are disappears, so fingers crossed for you but be prepared and you may never know

Hugs to you xx

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Any news xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hate the 'its only a cat'-

my wee cat is my darling..I'd poke a PERSONS eyes out if they ever wittingly harmed her..and that is a fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever the species small or large the pet is it becomes family. I really hope you find your kitty soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever the species small or large the pet is it becomes family. I really hope you find your kitty soon."

glad u never said pussy!

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"i hate the 'its only a cat'-

my wee cat is my darling..I'd poke a PERSONS eyes out if they ever wittingly harmed her..and that is a fact"

For sure, my cat is my friend and buddy, more special because she adopted me.

Any news yet?

Really hoping for a good outcome.

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

Loves n hugs ;( xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww no hope you find her... xx

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