FabSwingers.com forum: Why is there so many single guys on here ?

By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

Not picking a fight or anything just genuinely want to know what brings all the single guys here to a swinging site ? Would you not just use tinder etc if you’re just looking a fuck ? We personally find it off putting especially at clubs when there is so many single guys . And do you actually get to meet anyone on here or just look at pics ? Again no hate or anything just want to know lol

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By *andering_welshman2025Man
23 weeks ago

KIRKBY

Tinder is advertised as a dating site and sometimes I suppose single guys don’t want that - this is viewed as something for casual encounters maybe!!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

The forum is entertaining.

I'm not even a swinger.

- thankful that you guys put up with me..

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Not picking a fight or anything just genuinely want to know what brings all the single guys here to a swinging site ? Would you not just use tinder etc if you’re just looking a fuck ? We personally find it off putting especially at clubs when there is so many single guys . And do you actually get to meet anyone on here or just look at pics ? Again no hate or anything just want to know lol "

Because we're allowed to be and we're allowed to look for what we want.

Can't speak for other single men, I've met plenty of couples and single women.

What brings men to a swinging site? We like to swing.

Or are you suggesting single men can't be swingers? If so, what's your take on single women on Fab?

Tell you what I hate about clubs, pious couples who think clubs were opened just for them.

No hate. Just answering your question from my point of view.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
23 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Looking for someone that won’t be in a regular bar or dating site … with similar experience.. plus single after failed marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Here’s a question in return

Why shouldn’t we be?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Many different reasons as to why I’m here.

1) meet likeminded people (and I have met a couple, and a few single ladies)

2) interact on the forums with others

3) boost my own confidence.

However, I do ask if swinging is exclusively a couples only thing? If so, single folks are in a lot of trouble..

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By *r-8-BBCMan
23 weeks ago

LONDON

So swinging is only for couples now ? I hope that's what you think when looking for a single female you should use the filter option you know exactly what you're say when you made this thread

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By *ackdaw52Man
23 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Because Fab allows you to be much more forthright about what you are looking for, and the people you talk to are much more honest about what they want.

You don't get that with dating apps or even when meeting people irl.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
23 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

By that reasoning should I not be on here either as a single woman? Just curious. I've heard this "swinging is only for couples" stuff a few times.

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By *oeBeansMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

Because we're allowed to be and we're allowed to look for what we want.

Can't speak for other single men, I've met plenty of couples and single women.

What brings men to a swinging site? We like to swing.

Or are you suggesting single men can't be swingers? If so, what's your take on single women on Fab?

Tell you what I hate about clubs, pious couples who think clubs were opened just for them.

No hate. Just answering your question from my point of view."

👏👏👏

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By *herrybakewellCouple
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Some think its an easy way to get sex.

Little do they know lol

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By *P_80Man
23 weeks ago

Waterford

You being 'put off' by single men is not our problem.

We don't have to explain our reasons. As your comment suggests, you clearly know why we're on here.

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By *ood time Chris BMan
23 weeks ago

TAUNTON AREA

Because we're allowed to be and we're allowed to look for what we want.

Can't speak for other single men, I've met plenty of couples and single women.

What brings men to a swinging site? We like to swing.

Or are you suggesting single men can't be swingers? If so, what's your take on single women on Fab?

Tell you what I hate about clubs, pious couples who think clubs were opened just for them.

No hate. Just answering your question from my point of view."

I've been on here for a number of years both as a couple, since divorced, I have meets not very frequently though ,probably because I prefer group sessions and mmf etc ,I enjoy the forums too,a source of humour and information.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

On here because it is full of people with the same outlook as me. Yes I'm single on here but have met someone here and started a relationship. And when you only have pictures of the female half or the couple how can we even be sure you are a couple.

Imo single male and females are what make the socials fun. Couples seem to spend the evening with other couples that they already know. Some friendly but others so far up their own holes they are not worth approaching.

So set your filters and enjoy the ride🥰

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Chichester

The lure of easy sex supposedly

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By *oeBeansMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

The lure of easy sex supposedly "

"Easy sex"... Good one

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By *yfer2021Man
23 weeks ago

London & Midlands

Most dating sites are full of fake profiles/bots. Even though the odds of responses still aren't great here I'd rather get ignored by a real person than waste time messaging a fake profile.

Clubs should manage the ratios of single guys at events.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
23 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Free sex innit

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

But are the single guys getting the meets they are after ?

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

But is it ? If no one meets you ?

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

But it pushes all the fakes on here because so many single guys getting turned away no ?

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By *r-8-BBCMan
23 weeks ago

LONDON

"But are the single guys getting the meets they are after ?"

I am certainly getting meets !

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

Wow what a ignorant reply I bet everyone loves you lol not

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By *abioMan
23 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Because we're allowed to be and we're allowed to look for what we want.

Can't speak for other single men, I've met plenty of couples and single women.

What brings men to a swinging site? We like to swing.

Or are you suggesting single men can't be swingers? If so, what's your take on single women on Fab?

Tell you what I hate about clubs, pious couples who think clubs were opened just for them.

No hate. Just answering your question from my point of view."

Amen to that brother!!!

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
23 weeks ago

kendal

For the same reason single women (like me) and couples are here I guess 🤷‍♀️

Coz they like swinging.

I'm personally here because I like swinging, it's fun, its liberating, it satisfies my needs, I like going to clubs I enjoy 121 play as much as group fun.

If there were no single males, all those hot wives who just wanna play with lone males would be up 💩 creek without a paddle wouldn't they.

Just as people looking to play ffm would be if there were no lone females.

You don't have to be in a relationship to be a swinger, it's fun and inclusive for everyone (or its supposed to be anyway) regardless of thier gender,

Sexual preferences,

Tastes,

Or desires.

Isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"But are the single guys getting the meets they are after ?"

Yes very satisfied.

What about you?

By verifications it doesn't look like it.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
23 weeks ago

LONDON

"But are the single guys getting the meets they are after ?

Yes very satisfied.

What about you?

By verifications it doesn't look like it."

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Chichester

The lure of easy sex supposedly

"Easy sex"... Good one

Pretty much every single I have spoken to over 15-16 years regarding swinging has all said the same idea that they deem it would be easy sex as people just want to fuck. When you try highlight that’s remotely not accurate they thought I was trolling. Then some of them tried it on various sites and learned the reality

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
23 weeks ago

South Wales

As a couple mostly looking for single guys it’s pretty good that they’re on here xx 😄

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By *ai Hard 2 - Dai HarderMan
23 weeks ago

Manchester / Cardiff

Stupid fat fingers.... I wanted a taxi one time, typed CABS but typed it wrong. Never looked back.

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By *couseFun2.0Man
23 weeks ago

Liverpool

Said the couple that's had 1 meet in 5 month's

. Us single men have just as much fun as couples and have every right to be on here

. Hope you enjoy the rest of your day

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

As a couple looking exclusively for single men I’m glad this site gives us that opportunity ☺️

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I like to meet couples and single ladies that’s why I use it.

More to the point why are there so many couples out and it’s just one person??

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"But are the single guys getting the meets they are after ?"

Personally, my 43 meets summary says yes.

Quote and reply helps us know who you're replying to by the way.

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By *ornycougaWoman
23 weeks ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

"By that reasoning should I not be on here either as a single woman? Just curious. I've heard this "swinging is only for couples" stuff a few times."

This. I find it pretty entitled when couples want to exclude everyone but other couples

There is room here for everyone.

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By *r SensualMan
23 weeks ago

London

Believe or not, there ARE people on here who do like to connect with single guys. A lot are on here for the same reasons you are. There are plenty of men (including myself) who’ve found swinging to be VERY fruitful. What a ridiculous post this is.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Looks like you've upset alot of the singles on here

Noce bum by the way

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
23 weeks ago

Yorkshire

We’re only here for single guys so I’m glad they’re here. All the ones we’ve met or chatted to have been great guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"We’re only here for single guys so I’m glad they’re here. All the ones we’ve met or chatted to have been great guys."

We've had the exact opposite experience. Some very strange interactions xx

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By *estructionDollyWoman
23 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

"By that reasoning should I not be on here either as a single woman? Just curious. I've heard this "swinging is only for couples" stuff a few times.

This. I find it pretty entitled when couples want to exclude everyone but other couples

There is room here for everyone. "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"By that reasoning should I not be on here either as a single woman? Just curious. I've heard this "swinging is only for couples" stuff a few times.

This. I find it pretty entitled when couples want to exclude everyone but other couples

There is room here for everyone. "

You tell them sister 🙌

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

And that is fine like I said not hating on anyone , there is always 2 sides we just want to know the other side

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By *oeBeansMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

Personally, if I'm using dating app, I'm using them for their intended purpose. Fab can offer much more in the way of more casual interactions and different dynamics that can help me sexually explore what I enjoy. Also, of single men in clubs is off-putting to you, maybe only go on the nights for couples or single men? Otherwise, even if you're not wanting to have sex with them, try at least chatting with a few of them and you might be surprised

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

Why are you on the defensive? It’s just a topic to talk about , we are more than willing to hear both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"And that is fine like I said not hating on anyone , there is always 2 sides we just want to know the other side "

We forgive you, maybe😏

Just depends n what you like that’s what this site is for. You should really group all single men in as one though. Some of us are single some are married and some are just here to wank.

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

Wow that’s amazing good to see there is some real nice respectful gents on here

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By *oeBeansMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

"Why are you on the defensive? It’s just a topic to talk about , we are more than willing to hear both sides "

It's the assumption that guys are just looking for a fuck, or only here to look at pics, or the d view you have of single men in clubs. The intrigue is fine, the wording could've been a bit more tactful

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

They are perfectly good reasons thank you ,

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I know what the OP is getting at really. We are not bothered either way everyone is welcome and can choose to filter out singles if you want.

But We personally don’t really see single people on here as swingers, more just they here to have sex. Swingers to us is a couple looking for extra fun, if that makes sense. If single people looking for sex is swinging then tech everyone one is a swinger.

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By *oeBeansMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

"They are perfectly good reasons thank you , "

Also, try and use reply+quote so we can see which posts you're responding to

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Wow that’s amazing good to see there is some real nice respectful gents on here "

Always respectful, treat people the way you expected to be treated. If not just block them 🙏

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

I’m not saying you shouldn’t be , I’m saying what makes a single guy come to a swinging site when swinging is at it core a couple and another couple swapping ( not saying it’s the only way )

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

Another guy on the defensive when all we are looking for is a discussion no right or wrong answers just don’t be a cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I know what the OP is getting at really. We are not bothered either way everyone is welcome and can choose to filter out singles if you want.

So why are you looking single men and woman…kinda shot yourself in the foot 🦶

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Another guy on the defensive when all we are looking for is a discussion no right or wrong answers just don’t be a cunt "

Who? Me?

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By *r SensualMan
23 weeks ago

London

"Another guy on the defensive when all we are looking for is a discussion no right or wrong answers just don’t be a cunt "

Use the “Reply + Quote” button, that’ll make it easier for you to respond to individual posts

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By *ornycougaWoman
23 weeks ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT

"I know what the OP is getting at really. We are not bothered either way everyone is welcome and can choose to filter out singles if you want.

What a superior attitude. Single people meeting couples or groups? Couples wanting another person or people? Often wanting more than just sex. Get over yourself

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By *ddie7XXXMan
23 weeks ago

wigan

I have been in and out of the lifestyle for many years as a single however I am married now but still very much enjoy what the lifestyle has to offer and the friendship you make.

Unfortunately for me I do have to do this as a single as my wife has no desire to be apart of the lifestyle x

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By *eckard25Man
23 weeks ago

North West Durham

I think there are probably a lot of reasons and they are mostly the same reasons there are single women and couples on here, which can be very vaguely summed up as to have sexy fun in some way.

As to why there are a lot more men than women and couples. I don't know, maybe men are in general hornier than women (though, I don't really think so).

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By *exyScientistsCouple
23 weeks ago

Castlebar

We are looking for singles and couples. There are plenty of couples just looking for couples - thats what we were focused on initially, and some just looking for singles. I see it as an ENM site for people that don't want a monogamous relationship. Again, that's not always the case either.

There is no description of this site that covers everything that everyone is looking for....in the sense it is the same as "real life". That's gives us all the opportunity to find what we want and also those wants can change and evolve.

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By *allipygousMan
23 weeks ago

Leicester

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I'm just on here to wind couples up that don't like men enjoy

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By *he Silver FuxMan
23 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Some think its an easy way to get sex.

Little do they know lol "

In fairness, it actually is. Vanilla dating sites are worse than Fab. Here we know exactly what the deal is, the verification system is great, uninhibited sexual expression encouraged, x-rated pictures…

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Soho

"...genuinely want to know what brings all the single guys here to a swinging site? Would you not just use tinder"

I've only used once mainstream app, years ago, and they don't give me what Fab offers: the social aspects, group socials and less emphasis on sharing face photographs from the onset because I wish to establish a modicum of chemistry. In relative terms Fab is also obscure and I thrive on the anonymity that mainstream apps wouldn't give me. The vast numbers of men on here afford me the inconspicuousness.

"if you’re just looking to fuck?"

I'm not a swinger. I'm relatively vanilla compared to the masses on here. So yes, the "looking to fuck" is the endgame, amongst other things, and it works perfectly for me.

"We personally find it off putting especially at clubs when there is so many single guys."

It's not a case of so many single guys. It's a case of far too fewer women.

"And do you actually get to meet anyone on here?"

Yes, absolutely. Otherwise I would have departed these shores years ago. The women on mainstream apps are too vacuous for me. On here they're bat-shit crazy, but they're my type of bat-shit crazy.

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Another vote for the "Quote and reply" button.

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By *onnie 90Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd say at least 75% of the "single" guys on here aren't single. It's a cheaters paradise. That's just my opinion and not an argument.

There are definitely a large number of pic collectors too.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I'd say at least 75% of the "single" guys on here aren't single. It's a cheaters paradise. That's just my opinion and not an argument.

There are definitely a large number of pic collectors too.

Completely agree

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

These threads never complain about single women, as others have said.

If swinging is only for couples, I should be equally unwelcome.

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By *ripod1990Man
23 weeks ago

Sheffield

Personally I’m here by pure fluke. I always had the idea that swinging was a couples only thing but somehow I ended up at a club and had a fantastic time and got told about fab so decided to join.

From there it’s only really been a place to keep in touch with those iv played with and to see what’s happening at the clubs I like.

Other than that I enjoy sex, from the verifications I get I’m not too bad at it and I like to join couples/ single females in naughty fun if/ when they reply to messages.

Hope that helps

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By *onnie 90Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"I'm just on here to wind couples up that don't like men enjoy "

Thank you for inviting yourself onto my block list.

Your attitude is what gives the genuine guys on here a bad name.

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By *r SensualMan
23 weeks ago

London

I'd say at least 75% of the "single" guys on here aren't single. It's a cheaters paradise. That's just my opinion and not an argument.

There are definitely a large number of pic collectors too.

Yes, there are guys on here who aren’t single but there’s also a lot who are in open relationships (NOT cheating) where BOTH them and their partner meet separately.

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Soho

"...I'd say at least 75% of the "single" guys on here aren't single. It's a cheaters paradise. That's just my opinion and not an argument."

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If we compare apples with apples, pound for pound and ratios, then I would say 90% of single women on here are married, attached or betrothed: last year every woman I met for whatever reason was married.

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By *ripod1990Man
23 weeks ago

Sheffield

I'd say at least 75% of the "single" guys on here aren't single. It's a cheaters paradise. That's just my opinion and not an argument.

There are definitely a large number of pic collectors too.

Completely agree "

I personally don’t understand the pic collector thing. Kinda seems pointless to me.

Also just to let you know that you have an amazing bum!

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By *onnie 90Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"By that reasoning should I not be on here either as a single woman? Just curious. I've heard this "swinging is only for couples" stuff a few times.

This. I find it pretty entitled when couples want to exclude everyone but other couples

There is room here for everyone. "

You've never heard of personal preference then?

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By *wesomeprofilenameMan
23 weeks ago

Cornwall

"Tinder is advertised as a dating site and sometimes I suppose single guys don’t want that - this is viewed as something for casual encounters maybe!!

100%, since the hook up sites have turned into dating sites, we get the casual culture here.

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By *ildTimes.Man
23 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

"I’m not saying you shouldn’t be , I’m saying what makes a single guy come to a swinging site when swinging is at it core a couple and another couple swapping ( not saying it’s the only way ) "

I'm here because there's plenty of easy women 🤷🏻‍♂️ 🥪

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"By that reasoning should I not be on here either as a single woman? Just curious. I've heard this "swinging is only for couples" stuff a few times.

This. I find it pretty entitled when couples want to exclude everyone but other couples

There is room here for everyone.

You've never heard of personal preference then?

Bizarrely, personal preferences are for everyone. (Just like Fab)

Single people are allowed preferences too.

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By *electableicecreamMan
23 weeks ago

The West

I'm not a swinger

I'm here for the sex and for the craic.

It works just great.

Because I can.

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By *og-ManMan
23 weeks ago

somewhere

Op if you're not looking for single guys as per your profile then why does it bother you how many single men are on here

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By *issmorganWoman
23 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Surely that would apply to single women too, then?.

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By *issmorganWoman
23 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Lots of couples like meeting single men and look how many just want a women, so there's a need for both of them.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
23 weeks ago

kendal

I guess people could ask you the same kinda questions though couldn't they.....

Like,

Why have a couples profile, and only have pictures of 1 member of that couple?

I'll play as part of a couple with a fwb,

But I absolutely WILL NOT even entertain the idea of turning up to social, or play with a couple.....

If I've only seen the ass of 1 half of it

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
23 weeks ago

Hounslow

I wouldn't worry about it OP, people are entitled to be here regardless of their relationship status. The filters are there to prevent messages from pretty much whoever you want.

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By *electableicecreamMan
23 weeks ago

The West

It's not a swinging site though. That's just it's name. Maybe it used to but it's not one thing now.

Fab is, by design, open to everyone for just about any configuration of sexual relationship.

I don't limit myself to fab but what I have here that's different from dating apps is a social network of equally sex positive peers who are great company whether or not we are hopping into bed.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
23 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I almost never replied to this thread because it's titled "why is there so many single guys on here ?" When quite clearly it should read "why are there..." (And without the gap before the question mark)

You have used "are" which is a plural noun and therefore relates to single men (plural).

Nice starfish by the way.

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By *a LunaWoman
23 weeks ago

o o OO o o

A lot of “single” men aren’t single.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"A lot of “single” men aren’t single.

Some of us are

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By *upanovaMan
23 weeks ago

Sheffield

Interesting comments! Why cant singles be in here? Couples look for singles don't they? Single women look for single men and vice versa. Why cant singles swing?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
23 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"A lot of “single” men aren’t single.

Some of us are "

Say you're not and you might get an invite to see her bum

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By *oldyoudown41Man
23 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"A lot of “single” men aren’t single.

Some of us are "

A lot of us are

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I've been swinging as a single for more years than I ever did as a couple, and have always found it off putting to have a club full of couples and not enough single men.

I'm not here to indulge a couple with their mff fantasies so rarely look for or interact with couples. Swinging is a lifestyle and your membership to it is not refused or revoked because you are single.

Single males, females, TVs, trans, and couples who are made up from more than just a male and a female are all welcome here and should just ignore the intolerant people

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"A lot of “single” men aren’t single.

Some of us are

Say you're not and you might get an invite to see her bum"

Is it hairy 🤨

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

We never said they couldn’t , more asking what brings them to fab

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By *sWyldWoman
23 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Some people think it's instashag

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

What a great answer x

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By *og-ManMan
23 weeks ago

somewhere

Op ...Reply and quote ...makes it easier for all the single men to read

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By *oldyoudown41Man
23 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Some people think it's instashag"

I see why … impressive

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We never said they couldn’t , more asking what brings them to fab "

Using quote and reply will help us know who you're replying to, and thus be able to make sense of what you say.

On mobile, it is the right hand button just underneath the post you're responding to.

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

Apologies for the poor grammar ( how embarrassing) tbh I wrote it on 2 minutes break at work and didn’t expect it to blow up like this . And thank you

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"We never said they couldn’t , more asking what brings them to fab "

Maybe re-read your forum post.

It's basically saying

Men why are you here, we fund you off putting!.

Ending it with LOL is not going to soften that,

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"We never said they couldn’t , more asking what brings them to fab

Using quote and reply will help us know who you're replying to, and thus be able to make sense of what you say.

On mobile, it is the right hand button just underneath the post you're responding to."

What about if they don’t know the difference between right and left?? 🤷🏻‍♂️

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

Love this answer and you so right in so many points .

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We never said they couldn’t , more asking what brings them to fab

Using quote and reply will help us know who you're replying to, and thus be able to make sense of what you say.

On mobile, it is the right hand button just underneath the post you're responding to.

What about if they don’t know the difference between right and left?? 🤷🏻‍♂️"

Hold up your hands in front of you. Stretch your fingers as far as they go. The one that makes roughly an L shape with your thumb is left. (Used by some allied health professionals, too, I'm not being a dick

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Do you think people should have to sit and introduction before they are allowed to post on the forums, it appears that it's difficult to figure out the reply+quote button .

How off putting lol

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

Again great reply , love from Ireland

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
23 weeks ago

Bristol.

Because we're allowed to be and we're allowed to look for what we want.

Can't speak for other single men, I've met plenty of couples and single women.

What brings men to a swinging site? We like to swing.

Or are you suggesting single men can't be swingers? If so, what's your take on single women on Fab?

Tell you what I hate about clubs, pious couples who think clubs were opened just for them.

No hate. Just answering your question from my point of view."

....and so say many of us

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By *a LunaWoman
23 weeks ago

o o OO o o

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By *a LunaWoman
23 weeks ago

o o OO o o

don’t know why all the genuinely single men are getting bitchy.

I said “a lot” NOT all.

And yes, my bum is hairy.

So what?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Do you think people should have to sit and introduction before they are allowed to post on the forums, it appears that it's difficult to figure out the reply+quote button .

How off putting lol "

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"I know what the OP is getting at really. We are not bothered either way everyone is welcome and can choose to filter out singles if you want.

If single people aren't swingers, and only couples looking for couples are swingers, why are you looking for singles?

Surely that means you're no more swingers than single people.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Do you think people should have to sit and introduction before they are allowed to post on the forums, it appears that it's difficult to figure out the reply+quote button .

How off putting lol "

Maybe we should be more understanding the tunnel vision might not let them look left and right🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

And some of us single guys don't meet either .. what a conundrum..

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

We have nothing against single guys who are polite and respectful, but in our experience there is a lot more who are not than are

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Do you think people should have to sit and introduction before they are allowed to post on the forums, it appears that it's difficult to figure out the reply+quote button .

How off putting lol "

I mean, it's not like no-one has mentioned it.......

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

For me it's about meeting and connecting with like minded people. Interacting through the forums and making friends through shared experiences

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I will come at it at a slightly different approach. I first joined the site as a single guy a couple of years ago in the hope of at the time A finding some friends as i hadn’t long moved to the area and B sex. I then went to my local club and joined in on the forums. The swinging world is so diverse that i found people who were like me (trans (but at the time dealing with so much denial about it)). We started speaking and getting to know eachother and it gave me 1 the confidence to be myself (cliche i know) and 2 people like me exist and 3 i found a community that didnt see me as some freak even if i wasn’t what they were after sexually (which is fine as we are all entitled to preferences). I have made some amazing friendships through the swinging scene so yes there so much more to it then men just wanting sex. After all isnt swinging supposed to be a fun and inclusive place for us to be ourselves as the vanilla world can suck sometimes

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By *Silver-Man
23 weeks ago

North Wales

Because we're allowed to be and we're allowed to look for what we want.

Can't speak for other single men, I've met plenty of couples and single women.

What brings men to a swinging site? We like to swing.

Or are you suggesting single men can't be swingers? If so, what's your take on single women on Fab?

Tell you what I hate about clubs, pious couples who think clubs were opened just for them.

No hate. Just answering your question from my point of view."

Love this reply💪

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By *ude LawMan
23 weeks ago

Harrogate

I'm just here for the articles.

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By *ude LawMan
23 weeks ago

Harrogate

Sorry. I'm just here for the articles.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Ilkeston

"We have nothing against single guys who are polite and respectful, but in our experience there is a lot more who are not than are "

Fab is just a slice of society you get the good eggs and the bad ones just like any where else. Its about choosing how you deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I'm just here for the articles."

Here for LOL

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By *Silver-Man
23 weeks ago

North Wales

"But is it ? If no one meets you ?"

I do pretty well as it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"We have nothing against single guys who are polite and respectful, but in our experience there is a lot more who are not than are "

Treat people the way would like to be treated. If not just block them 🙏

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By *herest KhanMan
23 weeks ago

The Jungle

"Do you think people should have to sit and introduction before they are allowed to post on the forums, it appears that it's difficult to figure out the reply+quote button .

How off putting lol

There is a course on here about swinging and how to use the site. He’s nice chap. Nigerian prince, all he needs is your bank details and you answer five questions and you get a certificate in the post "
I think this might be a scam! I signed up about 4 weeks ago and still haven't received my certificate!

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"I'm just here for the articles."

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol

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By *moothdickMan
23 weeks ago

stoke

After a shag or is it that there’s a lot that ain’t single? But they are after a shag too !

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I'm just here for the articles.

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol"

😂😂 it will blow there mind 🤯

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

"I'm just here for the articles.

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol

😂😂 it will blow there mind 🤯"

So funny

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By *herest KhanMan
23 weeks ago

The Jungle

"I'm just here for the articles.

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol"
didn't look promising but got there in the end

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"I'm just here for the articles.

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol

😂😂 it will blow there mind 🤯

So funny "

Omg yay congratulations

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By *oeBeansMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

"By that reasoning should I not be on here either as a single woman? Just curious. I've heard this "swinging is only for couples" stuff a few times.

This. I find it pretty entitled when couples want to exclude everyone but other couples

There is room here for everyone.

You've never heard of personal preference then? "

Personal preference is fine, but viewing it as being superior to single people is where the issue can take place. Imagine havung an ego because of who you decide to have sex with, with your existing partner.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
23 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Because single guys need love too 🤣

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I'm just here for the articles.

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol

😂😂 it will blow there mind 🤯

So funny

Omg yay congratulations

Our work here is done

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Stamford

We're horny,

Horny, horny, horny,

So horny,

Horny, horny, horny tonight.....

😆 🤣 😂

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By *an8iMan
23 weeks ago

Bilston

"I'm just here for the articles.

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol"

💯

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By *_n_H OP Couple
23 weeks ago

donegal

"I'm just here for the articles.

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol

😂😂 it will blow there mind 🤯

So funny

Omg yay congratulations

Our work here is done "

(Hanging head in shame what noobs) in my defense we don’t use the forums and also I’m working atm ( welll kinda )

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"We're horny,

Horny, horny, horny,

So horny,

Horny, horny, horny tonight.....

😆 🤣 😂 "

FFS why did I read that, that's going to be playing in my head all day now gggrrrrr

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By *ddie7XXXMan
23 weeks ago

wigan

"We're horny,

Horny, horny, horny,

So horny,

Horny, horny, horny tonight.....

😆 🤣 😂

FFS why did I read that, that's going to be playing in my head all day now gggrrrrr

Haha

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Stamford

"We're horny,

Horny, horny, horny,

So horny,

Horny, horny, horny tonight.....

😆 🤣 😂

FFS why did I read that, that's going to be playing in my head all day now gggrrrrr

You luv me really

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
23 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"Some think its an easy way to get sex.

Little do they know lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I'm just here for the articles.

I'm here to see if they find the quite+reply before the post fills up. It's not looking too promising at the moment

Lol

😂😂 it will blow there mind 🤯

So funny

Omg yay congratulations

Our work here is done

(Hanging head in shame what noobs) in my defense we don’t use the forums and also I’m working atm ( welll kinda ) "

You will get there. No hanging your head in shame either.

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"By that reasoning should I not be on here either as a single woman? Just curious. I've heard this "swinging is only for couples" stuff a few times.

This. I find it pretty entitled when couples want to exclude everyone but other couples

There is room here for everyone.

You've never heard of personal preference then?

Right?!

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
23 weeks ago

west london

Sex

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
23 weeks ago

wonderland.

Mr did very well as a single guy on here. I also know lots of single guys that are doing well

They are a very welcome part of the swinging community..

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By *ealitybitesMan
23 weeks ago

Belfast

It's twofer Thursday

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By *armandwet50Couple
23 weeks ago

Out of UK

Swinging = swapping partners, how do singles do that?

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By *ude LawMan
23 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Swinging = swapping partners, how do singles do that?"

Change hands.

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Soho

"Swinging = swapping partners, how do singles do that?"

By meeting another singleton and joining forces?

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By *armandwet50Couple
23 weeks ago

Out of UK

"Swinging = swapping partners, how do singles do that?

By meeting another singleton and joining forces?"

Then you wouldn't be a single

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By *oldyoudown41Man
23 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Singles are not swinging…

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Swinging = swapping partners, how do singles do that?"

Swinging acutely means “ a motion moving back and forth. “

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By *armandwet50Couple
23 weeks ago

Out of UK

"Swinging = swapping partners, how do singles do that?

Swinging acutely means “ a motion moving back and forth. “"

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Most couples on here say that a favourite fantasy is a threesome, are they ment to meet couples and exclude 1 person ? That's so mean

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
23 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Swinging = swapping partners, how do singles do that?

Swinging acutely means “ a motion moving back and forth. “"

With your legs in the air or sometimes being pushed from behind 🤣

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By *electableicecreamMan
23 weeks ago

The West

"We never said they couldn’t , more asking what brings them to fab "

The sex.

Is this not obvious?

I think it's obvious

So why ask?

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By *armandwet50Couple
23 weeks ago

Out of UK

"Most couples on here say that a favourite fantasy is a threesome, are they ment to meet couples and exclude 1 person ? That's so mean "

Maybe we should change the name from fabswingers to fabsex

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Most couples on here say that a favourite fantasy is a threesome, are they ment to meet couples and exclude 1 person ? That's so mean

Maybe we should change the name from fabswingers to fabsex

Maybe couples who don't like non-couples should set up their own site and say no singles allowed

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By *ealitybitesMan
23 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm not a swinger. Never have been and never will be.

I've been here 9 years simply because I can and also because there are women here who want to have sex with me.

If there weren't I wouldn't be here.

In regards to attitude, most of the negative experiences I've had here have been with ignorant demanding couples who aren't capable of speaking to me as a human being and only seem interested in talking to the cock.

I have to add also that I am one half of a fab couple so it's not a dig at all couples.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
23 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"don’t know why all the genuinely single men are getting bitchy.

I said “a lot” NOT all.

And yes, my bum is hairy.

So what?

We aren't on about your bum. I mentioned that if he said he wasn't single he would get to see 'her' bum meaning the OP because she doesn't want single guys.

PS Immac 😉

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
23 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I'm not a swinger. Never have been and never will be.

I've been here 9 years simply because I can and also because there are women here who want to have sex with me.

If there weren't I wouldn't be here.

I have to add also that I am one half of a fab couple so it's not a dig at all couples.

A couple of couples

Couples²

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I'm not a swinger. Never have been and never will be.

I've been here 9 years simply because I can and also because there are women here who want to have sex with me.

If there weren't I wouldn't be here.

I have to add also that I am one half of a fab couple so it's not a dig at all couples.

You tell them brother 🙌

I’ve had many of this too, just rude people on here. That’s why that block button is amazing

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By *armandwet50Couple
23 weeks ago

Out of UK

"Most couples on here say that a favourite fantasy is a threesome, are they ment to meet couples and exclude 1 person ? That's so mean

Maybe we should change the name from fabswingers to fabsex

Maybe couples who don't like non-couples should set up their own site and say no singles allowed

Now that doesn't sound sensible

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By *haggydogMan
23 weeks ago

Brooklands/London

I think single guys are the main source of income for the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Most couples on here say that a favourite fantasy is a threesome, are they ment to meet couples and exclude 1 person ? That's so mean

Maybe we should change the name from fabswingers to fabsex

Maybe couples who don't like non-couples should set up their own site and say no singles allowed

Now that doesn't sound sensible

At lest then you would have men pretending to be couple accounts on here

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By *electableicecreamMan
23 weeks ago

The West

If a sites function is determined by it's userbase then fab is a porn site where guys get to message the content creators.

If a sites function is determined by it's revenue base then fab is still a porn site where guys get to message the content creators.

It's not even close. There's way, way more guys on fab than anyone else.

From a revenue point of view. The porn is the product.

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By *illy IdolMan
23 weeks ago

Midlands

Welcome to the forums, OP.

I think your question has been answered now by others but it is worth you both checking out club nights that only allow couples and single women. You may enjoy these more.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Motherwell

Fab is for all and like all dynamic media, it has evolved and is all the better for it.

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
23 weeks ago

Yorkshire

"We’re only here for single guys so I’m glad they’re here. All the ones we’ve met or chatted to have been great guys.

We've had the exact opposite experience. Some very strange interactions xx"

Don’t get me wrong, we’ve had an our fair share of unpleasant messages but the ones we’ve decided to chat to and met have all been lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"We’re only here for single guys so I’m glad they’re here. All the ones we’ve met or chatted to have been great guys.

We've had the exact opposite experience. Some very strange interactions xx

Don’t get me wrong, we’ve had an our fair share of unpleasant messages but the ones we’ve decided to chat to and met have all been lovely."

Would also have to say the same about couples as well

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I know what the OP is getting at really. We are not bothered either way everyone is welcome and can choose to filter out singles if you want.

If single people aren't swingers, and only couples looking for couples are swingers, why are you looking for singles?

Surely that means you're no more swingers than single people."

Definition of swinging is moving back and forth, so playing with your partner then to others outside your couple then back. If your a single joining a couple you have no one to swing back too. You’re just having sex with a couple. That’s how I take it anyway. We are not bothered if singles are on here or not. Like I said everyone’s after different things and welcome to filter to what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I know what the OP is getting at really. We are not bothered either way everyone is welcome and can choose to filter out singles if you want.

If single people aren't swingers, and only couples looking for couples are swingers, why are you looking for singles?

Surely that means you're no more swingers than single people.

Actual definitions of swinging is a motion back and forth

The sactual definition of sex swinging is that you are not in monogamy relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"If a sites function is determined by it's userbase then fab is a porn site where guys get to message the content creators.

If a sites function is determined by it's revenue base then fab is still a porn site where guys get to message the content creators.

It's not even close. There's way, way more guys on fab than anyone else.

From a revenue point of view. The porn is the product."

100% true and people get enjoyment at people looking at them ( us included) is just real porn at end of day with a small chance of playing with the creator

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I know what the OP is getting at really. We are not bothered either way everyone is welcome and can choose to filter out singles if you want.

If single people aren't swingers, and only couples looking for couples are swingers, why are you looking for singles?

Surely that means you're no more swingers than single people.

Actual definitions of swinging is a motion back and forth

The sactual definition of sex swinging is that you are not in monogamy relationships "

Forgot moving wasn’t a motion cheers lol

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By *ilverfox for youMan
23 weeks ago

Hull

Some interesting posts on this topic !!!

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Wiki says;

Swinging, earlier commonly known as wife-swapping, is a sexual activity in which both singles and partners in a committed relationship sexually engage with others for recreational purposes.

Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping or adding a third or more participants at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings.

The term "wife swapping" was introduced by the media in the United States during the 1950s to describe this emerging phenomenon.

"Introduced by the media" being the key phrase there..... Read "made up by non swingers"

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By *olliecolcolMan
23 weeks ago

Portsmouth/New Milton

I joined to be more open minded and engage with people who could help me discover myself I'm bi but quite uncomfortable with telling people that I am so being around open minded people I hope to become more open myself.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
23 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Ok good folks, Nerø has opened a thread up about 'Reply + Quote'

Confirmation that singles and couples can go across there for some education. Monthly I believe.

With some dark skill, a few may try to turn that into a hate thread with homophobic/racist/bigoted/kink shaming undertones, as it seems innocent enough and started with good intent and dare I say it during these sombre times, light hearted.

With any luck, you won't need to 'reply + quote' this post. 😉

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