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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok been asked for a meet 1half hrs away from me .. two guys have a joint profile although one has been added to a single one .. only chatted with one of them and i said i would meet half way for a social he says will ask mate .. mate says NO come straight to his flat ... although guy who chats says he will meet me socially then if me and him click will take me to second guys flat for fun ... I've declined as I haven't spoken to the second guy he doesn't even chat on here ... sound suspicious ? my safety is paramount after a nasty run in a while back any one elses opinion is grateful

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Don't do it !

You need a social meet with both of them first.

If they want you - and you look gorgeous - they will do it.

If not - say BYE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you arr right to decline...your safety is paramount...and if they are both genuine then they will understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't give the question a moments thought!

I'd tell them to do one!!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Ok been asked for a meet 1half hrs away from me .. two guys have a joint profile although one has been added to a single one .. only chatted with one of them and i said i would meet half way for a social he says will ask mate .. mate says NO come straight to his flat ... although guy who chats says he will meet me socially then if me and him click will take me to second guys flat for fun ... I've declined as I haven't spoken to the second guy he doesn't even chat on here ... sound suspicious ? my safety is paramount after a nasty run in a while back any one elses opinion is grateful "

sounds far too dodgy tbh. no way is it worth your safety after all.

Swinging is fun but only if safe and all happy and upfront about it.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

You wanted a social meet half way - they (as a pair) wouldn't do it.... deal off.

Not sure what the rest has to do with the price of butter or why you want opinions on the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ide defiantly decline, even fir the social now as this guy obviously has little concerns over your feelings about the situation

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I agree even though I don't use the chat room I would make the effort to come and say hello have a drink and see how you all felt. Not only is it a common courtesy but I would look forward any time to a social to get to know everyone first. Is there even a second male and if so he doesn't sound to good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You wanted a social meet half way - they (as a pair) wouldn't do it.... deal off.

Not sure what the rest has to do with the price of butter or why you want opinions on the matter."

Just wondered if anyone else had the same thing thats all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks been told this is a sex site not pof lol ... they are blocked now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If both guys aren't prepared to respect your feelings and meet you socially then my advice would be to tell them to jog on. The first guy could be really charming but the other one could be a nutjob. Plenty of other respectful guys on here who'd be up for mmf so you can afford to stick to your rules. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks folks been told this is a sex site not pof lol ... they are blocked now "

Muppets! Proof you were right to trust your instincts.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

The fact two of them wanted you to travel alone for that distance should have put you off - it was a no brainer really, particularly if you have had bad experiences before.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Ok been asked for a meet 1half hrs away from me .. two guys have a joint profile although one has been added to a single one .. only chatted with one of them and i said i would meet half way for a social he says will ask mate .. mate says NO come straight to his flat ... although guy who chats says he will meet me socially then if me and him click will take me to second guys flat for fun ... I've declined as I haven't spoken to the second guy he doesn't even chat on here ... sound suspicious ? my safety is paramount after a nasty run in a while back any one elses opinion is grateful "

You were right to decline. As a single person you are vulnerable especially if you are outnumbered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks folks been told this is a sex site not pof lol ... they are blocked now

Muppets! Proof you were right to trust your instincts."

Nightmare. Alarm bells were ringing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree even though I don't use the chat room I would make the effort to come and say hello have a drink and see how you all felt. Not only is it a common courtesy but I would look forward any time to a social to get to know everyone first. Is there even a second male and if so he doesn't sound to good "

I don't use the chat rooms either

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't mind. It means I don't have to dress up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it Gordon Brown and David Blunkett ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Was it Gordon Brown and David Blunkett ? "

Only a blind person could love David Blunkett.

I'm prejudiced by sight.

Half and Half where Gordon's concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it Gordon Brown and David Blunkett ?

Only a blind person could love David Blunkett.

I'm prejudiced by sight.

Half and Half where Gordon's concerned.

"

Which half would you like?

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