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A question for the lady's

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By *ust a nice genuine guy OP   Man
8 hours ago

Gloucester

This is not a whinging post about meets, replys or lack of as it may help others guys out.

Do you Lady's prefer to receive a nice polite message, with a little description of the person sending it or something a bit more naughty or even a lot more naughty and descriptive.

Just interested that's all.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
8 hours ago

North West

I mainly check out a profile before deciding whether to open the message. People won't know that I've done this as I use 'ninja' mode. If they don't seem compatible it's an instant delete. A 'naughty' message is also a instant delete.

Messages that catch my eye use my name and mention an important part of my profile.

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By *ust a nice genuine guy OP   Man
8 hours ago

Gloucester


"I mainly check out a profile before deciding whether to open the message. People won't know that I've done this as I use 'ninja' mode. If they don't seem compatible it's an instant delete. A 'naughty' message is also a instant delete.

Messages that catch my eye use my name and mention an important part of my profile. "

Thanks Ninja Julie. Didn't know there was such a mode.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
8 hours ago

North West

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
8 hours ago

North West

Account - Privacy Settings - Hide on looked at me

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By *bitofaslutWoman
5 hours ago

Cannock


"I mainly check out a profile before deciding whether to open the message. People won't know that I've done this as I use 'ninja' mode. If they don't seem compatible it's an instant delete. A 'naughty' message is also a instant delete.

Messages that catch my eye use my name and mention an important part of my profile. "

This.

Prove you've read my profile and you can be as naughty as you like.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
3 hours ago

.

Naughty messages from random fab strangers tend to turn me off

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By *viatrixWoman
3 hours ago

Redhill

Most “naughty” messages end in an instant block from me nowadays 😂😂😂

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By *avidldnMan
2 hours ago

Warwickshire

Makes sense why I get no replys

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
2 hours ago

IRVINE

I like a little more naughy message after all we are trying to escape the real world for a few hours.just my thoughts Mrs

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 hours ago

Bliss

I like both, with a clear recent face pic

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By *chumac89Man
2 hours ago

lurgan

Hardly matters imo women tend to go on verifications and as mine is a new account as deleted my old 1 its like talking to a wall tbh! Lol!

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By *ffortthatchickWoman
2 hours ago

HEATHFIELD

Personally I prefer a nice polite message, using my name. Going straight in with naughty leaves an element of drier than the Sahara. I always check out the person's profile in ninja and always reply. Even if it's to say no thanks

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By *anWoman555Couple
1 hour ago

birmingham


"I mainly check out a profile before deciding whether to open the message. People won't know that I've done this as I use 'ninja' mode. If they don't seem compatible it's an instant delete. A 'naughty' message is also a instant delete.

Messages that catch my eye use my name and mention an important part of my profile. "

Okay fair enough on the rest however if I may argue what exactly would eye catching be, surely eye catching is a subjective requirement. Isn’t just a polite hello how are you doing a nice way to start the conversation in a polite way?

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
1 hour ago

Edinburgh

Polite and funny are better the messages I get are pure filth which normally.put me off

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By *lasgowMinxWoman
1 hour ago

glasgow

Naughty messages from a random stranger puts me off, the message will be deleted and the sender usually blocked

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By *uacksplat.Woman
1 hour ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

generally, i like the funny, interesting, thoughtful messages.

one you can tell has taken more than 1 brain cell to put together.

they normally catch my eye more than the 'im going to put you in 837 positions and make you cum harder than you ever have' type of rubbish Px

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By *leasinglipznhipsWoman
1 hour ago

Polite message with a verified profile (by other humans)

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By *ust a nice genuine guy OP   Man
59 minutes ago

Gloucester

Thanks for all the comments so far.

Politeness with the odd compliment made costs nothing and can make another person feel good.

It won't always get you anywhere, but personally I wouldn't have it any other way.

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By *ellinever70Woman
58 minutes ago

Ayrshire

I can work with a hi, how are you if I'm on the prowl

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
48 minutes ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I mainly check out a profile before deciding whether to open the message. People won't know that I've done this as I use 'ninja' mode. If they don't seem compatible it's an instant delete. A 'naughty' message is also a instant delete.

Messages that catch my eye use my name and mention an important part of my profile. "

This ... I'm really not a fan of opening messages that include dick pics either lol

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
31 minutes ago

Bristol

It's on our profile (not that some take notice) but launching in with dick pics, dirty messages or just lazy ones generally gets a block from us

We like to build up a bit of a connection first.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
24 minutes ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

A message from someone that has read my profile and obliges my requests will always be opened/read. I tend to respond to those that have been verified, have sent a nice message, meet my own personal requirements from a look at their profile and have a face I would consider kissing. I don’t mind a cheeky message or a joke as long as they are not referring to themself as “Daddy” and haven’t thrown in a multitude of dick pics or videos of them balls deep in someone else.

Always exceptions to my own rules if the profile is exceptional/they are really hot. Then it’s down to whether they have a good personality/it matches mine to keep any conversation going.

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By *meliaeWoman
8 minutes ago

Chester

I’d rather something polite or funny as a first message. Naughty messages tend to just get deleted, they’re usually a turn off for me from a stranger. Explicitly detailed naughty messages get blocked instantly.

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